What personality trait turns you off the most?

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  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
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    The alpha male/female mentality and/or the megalomaniac. Ugh!
  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
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    racist $hitheads

    Yes! I completely agree 100%!
  • _SABOTEUR_
    _SABOTEUR_ Posts: 6,833 Member
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    Racism, homophobia and any prejudicial traits.
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,245 Member
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    porn stars
  • markiend
    markiend Posts: 461 Member
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    Narcisists
  • padams2359
    padams2359 Posts: 1,093 Member
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    Stupidity. Which usually causes any and all of the above. Stupidity does not equal a lack of intelligence in my book.
  • kelly_e_montana
    kelly_e_montana Posts: 1,999 Member
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    The alpha male/female mentality and/or the megalomaniac. Ugh!

    I love alphas. You always know what you are dealing with instead of having to wonder.
  • Gkfrkv
    Gkfrkv Posts: 120
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    People who apologize for everything, and need constant reinsurance that they are doing things right and praise for the most basic things they do.

    I work with two women, it tends to be clingy women who's like that, that are so insecure and I am tired of having to tell them that they are doing a good job for doing the minimum of what their job requires. Now I suspect that one of them is somewhat autistic, so I try not to be witchy about her, but it is hard when I work with her and she can't even answer the phone on her own because she's so worried that she's going to say something wrong.
  • Gkfrkv
    Gkfrkv Posts: 120
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    Overly dependent or lack of confidence. Its a tie for me.

    This. I can deal with the overly confident, mostly because they can function on their own. But having to hand hold adults through simple tasks is taxing.
  • arcana7609
    arcana7609 Posts: 212 Member
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    Cruelity I detest as well.
  • Gkfrkv
    Gkfrkv Posts: 120
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    anti-social

    Being inherently anti-social is tough. It can be a constant battle to deal with. Introversion is a lonely road. Getting out and mixing with others is uncomfortable making going it alone a simple choice. I'm not whining, just sayingl

    I agree with you. And it's not like I can't be sympathetic to their struggles, but dealing with them can be a chore at times.
  • islander_2013
    islander_2013 Posts: 13,378 Member
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    arogance
  • sjohnny
    sjohnny Posts: 56,142 Member
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    The need to ask strangers what turns them off.
  • HarleyFatboyFan
    HarleyFatboyFan Posts: 344 Member
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    The need to ask strangers what turns them off.

    What was the purpose of that comment? Is that the best answer you have?
  • Beastmaster50
    Beastmaster50 Posts: 505 Member
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    Control freaks. I know what a chair is. I dont need you to point one out and tell me to sit down.
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
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    Control freaks. I know what a chair is. I dont need you to point one out and tell me to sit down.
    LOL. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    Okay, that one made me giggle too much.
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
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    lying :angry:
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,065 Member
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    People that talk to you and lecture you like you are a child. I have a co-worker like that, just want to beat her.
  • arcana7609
    arcana7609 Posts: 212 Member
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    Control freaks. I know what a chair is. I dont need you to point one out and tell me to sit down.
    LOL. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    Okay, that one made me giggle too much.

    :laugh: this is me....
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
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    Someone who turns everything back on to themselves in a conversaion. Or someone who won't shut up!

    :grumble:

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