What personality trait turns you off the most?

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  • OllyReeves
    OllyReeves Posts: 579 Member
    anti-social

    Being inherently anti-social is tough. It can be a constant battle to deal with. Introversion is a lonely road. Getting out and mixing with others is uncomfortable making going it alone a simple choice. I'm not whining, just sayingl

    Did anyone ask? It's just something that turns that person off....
  • QuincyChick
    QuincyChick Posts: 269 Member
    lack of independence. I can't deal with clingy.
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
    lack of independence. I can't deal with clingy.
    Oh god.. My ex. MY EX...
    Sometimes I felt like yelling I AM NOT YOUR MOTHER at him...
  • JeaninePaige
    JeaninePaige Posts: 464 Member
    When someone just sits around upset about the current state of their life but yet does nothing to change it. Drives me insane.
  • Excepticon
    Excepticon Posts: 83 Member
    The constant need to one-up anyone else... and OMG it's my husband's biggest flaw. :( But he knows it, and when I call him out on it, we all joke about it. It's a good thing that my favorite quality about him is that he's easy to forgive and doesn't take things personally.
  • Still1Workoutatatime
    Still1Workoutatatime Posts: 250 Member
    rudeness / self righteous
  • Sovictorrious
    Sovictorrious Posts: 770 Member
    People who brag about being mean.
  • Vivian06703188
    Vivian06703188 Posts: 310 Member
    Abusers women and men. I also don't like people who always take and never give back in any and every aspect of their life. Selfishness and rude people.
  • AliciaStinger
    AliciaStinger Posts: 402 Member
    Since you asked me what the biggest turn-off is to me...MY biggest turn-off is a tie between:
    -being racist/homophobig/prejudiced/anti-equality
    -accepting things that people say without doing your own research and finding out whether or not these things are true
    -thinking that letting people starve and be homeless is a better option than expecting good business ethics or our government to provide temporary unemployment to people who lose their jobs is tough economic times
    -calling children and the elderly (among others) "moochers" and "takers"
    -preventing people from exercising their right to vote by using misleading information or voter suppression tactics in the name of preventing "election fraut" or "voter fraud" (which make up - LITERALLY - a whopping .000003% and .000000001%, respectively, of all votes in the US)
    -Claiming that there's such a thing as "legitimate rape" which the female body can magically "shut down" - and that, if you do get pregnant, you secretly wanted it and it was an act of God
    -claiming to want small government and then trying to pass laws that impose one's religious beliefs on others
    -And similar things that involve hate, (often willful) ignorance of facts, bad logic/being a hypocrite, or inequality.
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
    Man, picking just one is HARD. I'm going to have to go with self righteousness and cockiness. Last time I checked none of us are perfect.
  • RUGGEDGerit
    RUGGEDGerit Posts: 17
    neediness
  • skinnybythanksgiving
    skinnybythanksgiving Posts: 159 Member
    Mean/hateful.
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    People who lack confidence/ very insecure people
  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member
    arrogance!

    there is a fine line between confidence and cocky.
  • FrauMama
    FrauMama Posts: 169 Member
    Racism (intolerance or close-mindedness in general), narcissism, holier-than-thou-ness, condescension, and lying.
  • BrainyBurro
    BrainyBurro Posts: 6,129 Member
    people who think the word "trait" is plural.

    :angry:
  • zipnguyen
    zipnguyen Posts: 990 Member
    Racism (intolerance or close-mindedness in general), narcissism, holier-than-thou-ness, condescension, and lying.
  • slw5X5
    slw5X5 Posts: 282 Member
    Helplessness. I can't, I don't know how, do it for me.....
  • RobP1192
    RobP1192 Posts: 310 Member
    Dishonesty
  • lauraspberry
    lauraspberry Posts: 655 Member
    Hypocrisy
  • zombilishious
    zombilishious Posts: 1,250 Member
    Lying...closely followed by arrogance...
  • lsorci919
    lsorci919 Posts: 772 Member
    Lying...closely followed by arrogance...

    These including selfishness and overly cocky.
  • YaninaLabia
    YaninaLabia Posts: 75
    Shallow and very judgemental derived from his/her own insecurities
  • hoppinglark
    hoppinglark Posts: 213 Member
    Being Irresponsible / breaking promises repeatedly
    Refusing to engage in conversation with reason (the "because-I-say-so-approach", is a sign of arrogance if you ask me )
    entitlement snob behavior/ demanding things you haven worked or earned
  • Mahihkan
    Mahihkan Posts: 162
    When you are unable to have a serious conversation, always joking around... I guess that would be a person that is not confident and low self esteem...
    I like to laugh and joke around, but there's limits... I have co-workers like that...
  • suziepoo1984
    suziepoo1984 Posts: 915 Member
    Dishonesty
  • CountryGirl8542
    CountryGirl8542 Posts: 449 Member
    cocky
  • sakuragreenlily
    sakuragreenlily Posts: 334 Member
    anti-social

    Being inherently anti-social is tough. It can be a constant battle to deal with. Introversion is a lonely road. Getting out and mixing with others is uncomfortable making going it alone a simple choice. I'm not whining, just sayingl

    I agree with you. And it's not like I can't be sympathetic to their struggles, but dealing with them can be a chore at times.

    I took the anti-social comment as being people who might actually suffer from anti-social personality disorder. As in, those who have a complete lack of disrespect for the rights of others and frequently engage in immoral (e.g., theft, rape, etc.) and anti-social behaviors... So not people who are shy, but rather people who are sociopaths. Maybe I'm the only one who read it that way :0/
  • trisH_7183
    trisH_7183 Posts: 1,486 Member
    A tie between braggarts & drunks.
  • She_Hulk
    She_Hulk Posts: 277
    Moodiness. Can't stand moody people. Also, complainers. The two seem to go hand-in-hand to me, though.

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