How would/do you handle this?

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smokeyg01
smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
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K serious question. How would or do you handle being in a marriage with someone you can't stand? especially knowing that there is someone out there that wants to love and care for you
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  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
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    Divorce.
  • _John_
    _John_ Posts: 8,641 Member
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    I handle this by doing every thing I can to get her out of her own way so she can give me what I need.
  • smokeyg01
    smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
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    What if that's not an option right now?
  • Sovictorrious
    Sovictorrious Posts: 770 Member
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    End it
  • Dunkirk
    Dunkirk Posts: 465 Member
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    Serious answer. Figure out when my attitude/life went wrong and fix it. And work on my character. That's how I'd handle it if I'd initially loved the person when I married.
  • AllonsYtotheTardis
    AllonsYtotheTardis Posts: 16,947 Member
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    I divorced the *&(&^&%&$#$#^$@^
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
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    K serious question. How would or do you handle being in a marriage with someone you can't stand? especially knowing that there is someone out there that wants to love and care for you

    That just sounds so unhealthy. You need to find a way to bail.
  • smokeyg01
    smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
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    I divorced the *&(&^&%&$#$#^$@^
    she wasn't a psycho that would try to kill you when you mentioned divorce
  • healthykae
    healthykae Posts: 190 Member
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    Serious answer. Figure out when my attitude/life went wrong and fix it. And work on my character. That's how I'd handle it if I'd initially loved the person when I married.

    This!
  • smokeyg01
    smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
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    I forgot to mention the kids. There are kids that are totally affected by this
  • ThePlight
    ThePlight Posts: 3,593 Member
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    I forgot to mention the kids. There are kids that ate totally affected by this
    That sounds like you might need to tough it out, depending on their age..
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,487 Member
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    I would run into the arms of my MFP boo :smooched:
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    Seriously, get counseling.
  • DeltaZero
    DeltaZero Posts: 1,197 Member
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    Ask the internet for advice, obviously.
  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
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    K serious question. How would or do you handle being in a marriage with someone you can't stand? especially knowing that there is someone out there that wants to love and care for you


    Goin through the same. We're taking "a break".
  • JenniTheVeggie
    JenniTheVeggie Posts: 2,474 Member
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    what's meant to be is meant to be.........
  • smokeyg01
    smokeyg01 Posts: 1,064
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    what's meant to be is meant to be.........
    i say that all the time. But is there a time limit?
  • Purpleluckycharms
    Purpleluckycharms Posts: 8
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    I would dance, smile, make the kids happy and life parallel in passing if divorce wasn't an option. Work on making you better, inside and out, be the better person and don't forget to dance and smile, might I suggest to some '80's Hair Nation music?
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,136 Member
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    You obviously could stand her for a while since you 1. married her and 2. have kids by her. Either work it out or leave. Why stay in hell?
  • HarleyFatboyFan
    HarleyFatboyFan Posts: 344 Member
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    what's meant to be is meant to be.........
    do you seriously subscribe to that philosophy?
  • JenniTheVeggie
    JenniTheVeggie Posts: 2,474 Member
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    what's meant to be is meant to be.........
    do you seriously subscribe to that philosophy?

    Yes I do. Everything happens for a reason.

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