She's fine, but seriously what do you think scale says?

1235

Replies

  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    Also, not to disparage any of the guys here who might prefer a thigh gap, that's totally cool. My point is that this comes down to individual preference, it's not a universal concern.

    I just hate the thought of a woman concerning herself with something like this... thighs, an inherently female characteristic. Some have bigger thighs than others. Provided they still look good, who cares? The looking good part is what matters!
  • Byrdsong1920
    Byrdsong1920 Posts: 336 Member
    Lol, true! Simple creatures!
  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
    What I was trying to say is that I honestly don't think that's a term that men came up with. If a man prefers a skinny woman, that's fine! But I don't think most men concerns themselves with saying "WHERE IS HER THIGH GAP". lol.
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    What I was trying to say is that I honestly don't think that's a term that men came up with. If a man prefers a skinny woman, that's fine! But I don't think most men concerns themselves with saying "WHERE IS HER THIGH GAP". lol.

    Exactly
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    What I was trying to say is that I honestly don't think that's a term that men came up with. If a man prefers a skinny woman, that's fine! But I don't think most men concerns themselves with saying "WHERE IS HER THIGH GAP". lol.
    If I don't find one, I can always use my head.
  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
    What I was trying to say is that I honestly don't think that's a term that men came up with. If a man prefers a skinny woman, that's fine! But I don't think most men concerns themselves with saying "WHERE IS HER THIGH GAP". lol.
    If I don't find one, I can always use my head.

    haha!!

    It's just another term that was created to make women feel even more insecure, as if there isn't enough insecurities already. Sheesh.
  • MissSarahAllison315
    MissSarahAllison315 Posts: 263 Member
    What I was trying to say is that I honestly don't think that's a term that men came up with. If a man prefers a skinny woman, that's fine! But I don't think most men concerns themselves with saying "WHERE IS HER THIGH GAP". lol.
    If I don't find one, I can always use my head.

    BAHAHAHA.
  • CM9178
    CM9178 Posts: 1,251 Member
    It is hilarious when my husband tries to guess a woman's weight (or even my own) he has absolutely no clue. My one friend is pretty heavy - I'd guess she is about 230 or so (based on her height, and how much I weighed at my heaviest compared to her).. he thinks she is 350 lbs.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    What I was trying to say is that I honestly don't think that's a term that men came up with. If a man prefers a skinny woman, that's fine! But I don't think most men concerns themselves with saying "WHERE IS HER THIGH GAP". lol.
    If I don't find one, I can always use my head.

    haha!!

    It's just another term that was created to make women feel even more insecure, as if there isn't enough insecurities already. Sheesh.

    Well, thigh gap is real just like big boobs. But there are men who like small boobs and men who like ALL boobs.

    Thigh gap on a woman of a healthy weight who happens to have that bone structure is quite attractive in a while package kind of way. No thihgh gap on a healthy weight woman who happens to not have the bone structure for it is also quite attractive.

    I think in general men notice the whole package on not individual parts.
  • sdbeachbum
    sdbeachbum Posts: 664 Member
    We lift, so you can eat :wink:


    Love it!
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    Well, thigh gap is real just like big boobs. But there are men who like small boobs and men who like ALL boobs.

    Thigh gap on a woman of a healthy weight who happens to have that bone structure is quite attractive in a while package kind of way. No thihgh gap on a healthy weight woman who happens to not have the bone structure for it is also quite attractive.

    I think in general men notice the whole package on not individual parts.

    Well, you're mostly right on, but thigh gap is not even a "thing"... it's nothing like boobs or butts, or anything else.

    Even amongst the guys I know who like skinnier girls, and I mean skinny in the literal way, I have never heard a man use the term "thigh gap" or refer to the trait in any way.

    This is totally not even in the same playing field as just about every other feature of a woman's body.
  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
    Well, thigh gap is real just like big boobs. But there are men who like small boobs and men who like ALL boobs.

    Thigh gap on a woman of a healthy weight who happens to have that bone structure is quite attractive in a while package kind of way. No thihgh gap on a healthy weight woman who happens to not have the bone structure for it is also quite attractive.

    I think in general men notice the whole package on not individual parts.

    Sort of but not really... I think thigh gap is more a preference for skinnier women in general. Just having a thigh gap while not having other "skinny" features would probably do NOTHING for that guy.

    Also, even amongst the guys I know who like skinnier girls (not fit girls, I mean skinnier, like, "slight"), I have never heard a man use the term "thigh gap" or refer to the trait in any way.

    This is totally not even in the same playing field as just about every other feature of a woman's body.

    Agreed :)
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Well, thigh gap is real just like big boobs. But there are men who like small boobs and men who like ALL boobs.

    Thigh gap on a woman of a healthy weight who happens to have that bone structure is quite attractive in a while package kind of way. No thihgh gap on a healthy weight woman who happens to not have the bone structure for it is also quite attractive.

    I think in general men notice the whole package on not individual parts.

    Sort of but not really... I think thigh gap is more a preference for skinnier women in general. Just having a thigh gap while not having other "skinny" features would probably do NOTHING for that guy.

    Also, even amongst the guys I know who like skinnier girls (not fit girls, I mean skinnier, like, "slight"), I have never heard a man use the term "thigh gap" or refer to the trait in any way.

    This is totally not even in the same playing field as just about every other feature of a woman's body.
    A woman can be as thin as possible (without being skeletal) and still not have a thigh gap if she doesn't have the bone structure for it.
  • FrnkLft
    FrnkLft Posts: 1,821 Member
    Yeah I just edited the post. I meant it's nothing like boobs or butt or anything else really. **** I learned all about this from women.
  • blukttn66
    blukttn66 Posts: 54 Member
    It means absolutely nothing since the same size can range up to 3" depending on the brand and cut of the clothing.

    My husband STILL doesn't understand that this is how we ladies live! He gets so frustrated when the size BLAH BLAH isn't actually this same size BLAH BLAH at the other store too.. lol.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Yeah I just edited the post. I meant it's nothing like boobs or butt or anything else really. **** I learned all about this from women.
    Ha ha.

    I agree to a point. But I've known enough guys who do have a preferance when it comes to some specific body parts, yet are still attracted to women who don't fit that preference because of the whole package.

    But you're right that thigh gap/no thigh gap is not on a lot of men's lists. Heck, I didn't even know it was on any women's list until I started being more active on this site. I don't care whether I end up with one. If I do, great! If I don't, great! I just want them to not rub together in the summer when it's humid and I'm in a dress. :-) Comfort and functionality, not vanity in that case.
  • Sovictorrious
    Sovictorrious Posts: 770 Member
    My scale is a bish
  • tammys_changing
    tammys_changing Posts: 657
    If a girl is HOT she is HOT! I don't CARE what the scale says. I have seen girls that look GOOD and weigh MORE than I thought.

    And there's been some that look BAD and weigh LESS than I thought..lol.

    If they have the extra weight in their boobs or butt that AWESOME!

    Well said! Love this, thanks for your very appropriate insight!
  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
    Yeah I just edited the post. I meant it's nothing like boobs or butt or anything else really. **** I learned all about this from women.
    Ha ha.

    I agree to a point. But I've known enough guys who do have a preferance when it comes to some specific body parts, yet are still attracted to women who don't fit that preference because of the whole package.

    But you're right that thigh gap/no thigh gap is not on a lot of men's lists. Heck, I didn't even know it was on any women's list until I started being more active on this site. I don't care whether I end up with one. If I do, great! If I don't, great! I just want them to not rub together in the summer when it's humid and I'm in a dress. :-) Comfort and functionality, not vanity in that case.

    lol that's not fun in the summer time. esp in an Oklahoma summer. UGH!!

    I think I started getting irritated with the thigh gap thing when I seen girls with eating disorders striving to get them. UGH!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    Yeah I just edited the post. I meant it's nothing like boobs or butt or anything else really. **** I learned all about this from women.
    Ha ha.

    I agree to a point. But I've known enough guys who do have a preferance when it comes to some specific body parts, yet are still attracted to women who don't fit that preference because of the whole package.

    But you're right that thigh gap/no thigh gap is not on a lot of men's lists. Heck, I didn't even know it was on any women's list until I started being more active on this site. I don't care whether I end up with one. If I do, great! If I don't, great! I just want them to not rub together in the summer when it's humid and I'm in a dress. :-) Comfort and functionality, not vanity in that case.

    lol that's not fun in the summer time. esp in an Oklahoma summer. UGH!!

    I think I started getting irritated with the thigh gap thing when I seen girls with eating disorders striving to get them. UGH!
    Yes, that is awful. And if you have to be a skeleton to get it, it doesn't look good at all. It only looks good on women who have it naturally.

    When I first started hearing about it, I thought it was incredibly silly and I still do.

    But Florida summers make it a somewhat desirable thing. :-) I don't need a full gap, though. When I get down to about 140-145 pounds, they don't rub anymore.
  • sassyjae21
    sassyjae21 Posts: 1,217 Member
    Yeah I just edited the post. I meant it's nothing like boobs or butt or anything else really. **** I learned all about this from women.
    Ha ha.

    I agree to a point. But I've known enough guys who do have a preferance when it comes to some specific body parts, yet are still attracted to women who don't fit that preference because of the whole package.

    But you're right that thigh gap/no thigh gap is not on a lot of men's lists. Heck, I didn't even know it was on any women's list until I started being more active on this site. I don't care whether I end up with one. If I do, great! If I don't, great! I just want them to not rub together in the summer when it's humid and I'm in a dress. :-) Comfort and functionality, not vanity in that case.

    lol that's not fun in the summer time. esp in an Oklahoma summer. UGH!!

    I think I started getting irritated with the thigh gap thing when I seen girls with eating disorders striving to get them. UGH!
    Yes, that is awful. And if you have to be a skeleton to get it, it doesn't look good at all. It only looks good on women who have it naturally.

    When I first started hearing about it, I thought it was incredibly silly and I still do.

    But Florida summers make it a somewhat desirable thing. :-) I don't need a full gap, though. When I get down to about 140-145 pounds, they don't rub anymore.

    I'm 133 and mine still rub lol. I'll just stick one of those dryer sheet things in between them and call it a day LMFAO
  • ythannah
    ythannah Posts: 4,371 Member
    I have heard men talk about boobs and butts aplenty. I have never heard a man comment one way or the other about a thigh gap.

    I've heard one: my SO. He claims to think mine is super sexy. Of course, he doesn't call it a "thigh gap", he calls it "that space between your legs".

    Good thing for me he's into thigh gaps and not boobs, as I don't have much to offer in that dept. Lol.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I'm 133 and mine still rub lol. I'll just stick one of those dryer sheet things in between them and call it a day LMFAO

    I may have to try that when it warms up again if I'm still struggling weight-wise. Hopefully, my hormones or whatever will have settled down by then!

    I'm lucky that I gain and lose pretty evenly, though. That helps a lot with the thigh rub.
  • Confuzzled4ever
    Confuzzled4ever Posts: 2,860 Member
    We lift, so you can eat :wink:


    Well hello there... :love: :wink: :flowerforyou: :heart: :blushing:
  • jwdieter
    jwdieter Posts: 2,582 Member
    Yeah I just edited the post. I meant it's nothing like boobs or butt or anything else really. **** I learned all about this from women.

    In 30+ years of team sports, thousands of guys talking about women, I've never heard a guy mention thigh gap. Not a positive, not a negative. Does not register as a differentiating or notable feature.

    But, given its heavy internet focus, it probably will or already has made its way into common use for young men.
  • hernamewasdana
    hernamewasdana Posts: 54
    I'm 133 and mine still rub lol. I'll just stick one of those dryer sheet things in between them and call it a day LMFAO

    I may have to try that when it warms up again if I'm still struggling weight-wise. Hopefully, my hormones or whatever will have settled down by then!

    I'm lucky that I gain and lose pretty evenly, though. That helps a lot with the thigh rub.

    LADIES! SUFFER NO MORE! I'M HERE WITH THE SOLUTION! :smokin:

    Body Glide!!!!

    You can buy it on Amazon or find it in a lot of fitness stores. Runners use it so their legs (or nipples or wherever) don't chafe. I use it on a regular basis in the North Carolina summers because otherwise I get really painful heat rash from chub-rub. It holds up pretty well to sweat, goes on like deodorant, has zero smell, and works wonders. I've had a stick for about two years with lots left and I think it was $6.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    What I was trying to say is that I honestly don't think that's a term that men came up with. If a man prefers a skinny woman, that's fine! But I don't think most men concerns themselves with saying "WHERE IS HER THIGH GAP". lol.

    I didn't even know that was a thing until I think either bodyrock posted it on their blog or I saw it here.

    Regardless I would have never known about it if had not been on fitness oriented sites that are mentioning it- not sure why we are giving it the time of day.
  • MissSarahAllison315
    MissSarahAllison315 Posts: 263 Member
    Yeah I just edited the post. I meant it's nothing like boobs or butt or anything else really. **** I learned all about this from women.
    Ha ha.

    I agree to a point. But I've known enough guys who do have a preferance when it comes to some specific body parts, yet are still attracted to women who don't fit that preference because of the whole package.

    But you're right that thigh gap/no thigh gap is not on a lot of men's lists. Heck, I didn't even know it was on any women's list until I started being more active on this site. I don't care whether I end up with one. If I do, great! If I don't, great! I just want them to not rub together in the summer when it's humid and I'm in a dress. :-) Comfort and functionality, not vanity in that case.

    lol that's not fun in the summer time. esp in an Oklahoma summer. UGH!!

    I think I started getting irritated with the thigh gap thing when I seen girls with eating disorders striving to get them. UGH!
    Yes, that is awful. And if you have to be a skeleton to get it, it doesn't look good at all. It only looks good on women who have it naturally.

    When I first started hearing about it, I thought it was incredibly silly and I still do.

    But Florida summers make it a somewhat desirable thing. :-) I don't need a full gap, though. When I get down to about 140-145 pounds, they don't rub anymore.

    I'm 133 and mine still rub lol. I'll just stick one of those dryer sheet things in between them and call it a day LMFAO

    ^^^^YES. LOL.
  • mizzie1980
    mizzie1980 Posts: 379 Member
    It means absolutely nothing since the same size can range up to 3" depending on the brand and cut of the clothing.

    Ha! More than that! At my heaviest, I wore a size 22 or 24 jeans in most brands. But in the Lane Bryant brand I wore a size 4. A size 4! Seriously, I liked shopping there because the clothes actually fit and were cute, but who did they think they were fooling? I knew, for a fact, that I was no size 4.
  • Unknown
    Unknown
    This content has been removed.

Categories