Ladies...At what height is a guy creepy short to you?

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  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
    If any of the ladies here are curious what percentage of their dating pool they're eliminating right off the bat, here are statistics by age and height. They're for the US, but probably representative for most of the first world.

    http://www.census.gov/compendia/statab/2012/tables/12s0209.pdf

    Edited to add:
    Anything under 6'0 and we're in manlet territory
    We 80% now?
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I'm with the people who've said that there's no correlation between height and being creepy. That being said, I don't give a hoot about how tall a man is, nor would I even if I wasn't short. I've dated men as tall as 6'4 and some as short as me.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Short guys are creepy now. Wonderful. I have noticed in my dating life that girls care about height, but women don't.

    Were you rejected by a tall woman? Because tall women care about height.
  • If you replaced this topic with "breast size" everyone would be up in arms.
    Its ok to shame men we are secure enough to handle it.

    Lol we gotta be. Besides, I am 5'11 so I am not sweating it.
  • Cali_Chica
    Cali_Chica Posts: 895 Member
    If you replaced this topic with "breast size" everyone would be up in arms.


    ^ This

    I think this topic (male height and associating with creepiness) is completely insensitive and hurtful.
  • sloth3toes
    sloth3toes Posts: 2,212 Member
    My father always said to me when I brought a short guy home (I am quite tall) - 'they are all the same height lying down' and you know what, he was right lol

    You might have missed the 'Weakest Link' episode with Ron Jeremy, then?
  • FatHuMan1
    FatHuMan1 Posts: 1,028 Member
    If you replaced this topic with "breast size" everyone would be up in arms.

    Everyone is entitled to their preferences.

    Agreed, but preference wasn't the question. Labeling someone as creepy because of a genetic trait is stupid, whether it be height or breast size, or anything else for that matter.
  • I'm 5'9 and I definitely prefer a guy to be the same or taller but if I really liked him I doubt it would matter if he a was a little bit shorter. My flatmate is seeing a guy at the moment that is a bit shorter than her and I know she was on the fence about it when they first met. It was definitely noted on the cons list, that's for sure. She's a tiny bit taller than I am.
  • eric_sg61
    eric_sg61 Posts: 2,925 Member
    Short guys are creepy now. Wonderful. I have noticed in my dating life that girls care about height, but women don't.

    Were you rejected by a tall woman? Because tall women care about height.

    Never rejected by anyone:blushing:
  • mayaocean
    mayaocean Posts: 355 Member
    If any of the ladies here are curious what percentage of their dating pool they're eliminating right off the bat, here are statistics by age and height. They're for the US, but probably representative for most of the first world.

    http://www.census.gov/compendia/statab/2012/tables/12s0209.pdf

    Edited to add:
    Anything under 6'0 and we're in manlet territory
    We 80% now?

    Uggs and ipad makes up for height, or lack thereof

    Also,
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  • tmm_0127
    tmm_0127 Posts: 545 Member
    I'm already really short, 5'3" ... so if a guy is shorter than me, I'm not totally into it. I dated a guy who was the same height as me though, just can't be shorter.
  • _Calypso_
    _Calypso_ Posts: 1,074 Member
    I'm 5'9" and I prefer at least 6', but nothing shorter than 5'9".

    I wear heels too which can make it more awkward. I work with a lot of short guys and I often feel like amazon woman walking around the office. But...I love my heels. :)
  • Mitzki5
    Mitzki5 Posts: 482 Member
    My wife is 6'3" and I am 5'10". No problems in our 22 year relationship with height.
  • metaphoria
    metaphoria Posts: 1,432 Member
    I'm 5'3" so i would have been hard pressed to find a shorter guy to date. A couple of them came close, one was maybe 5'5", but that wasn't a factor in the break-up. Now I'm married to a guy who's 6'2". Our wedding pictures are a bit ridiculous. :laugh:
  • lauren3101
    lauren3101 Posts: 1,853 Member
    Off topic but I never understood why tall women, 5' 11"+, wear high heels.

    Do you have an issue with tall women? Are you... you know... short?

    I used to have a friend that was 6"2 and she used to wear huge heels when she went out, and men used to trip over themselves to talk to her. She carried it well and had confidence.

    In answer to the question, I don't find short men 'creepy' at any height. I prefer tall, but I wouldn't write off a potential partner just because of his height.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Short guys are creepy now. Wonderful. I have noticed in my dating life that girls care about height, but women don't.

    Were you rejected by a tall woman? Because tall women care about height.

    Never rejected by anyone:blushing:

    I imagine. :wink:
  • Being short is never "creepy".
    I am 5'2 and my hubby is 5'6, we fit perfect together.
  • I'm 5'2... so you'd have to be a dwarf to be creepy to me.
  • in_the_stars
    in_the_stars Posts: 1,395 Member
    Oh for Pete's sake. Wondering who Pete is. Everyone has their own preference, I prefer men taller than me, some women like them shorter. Who cares?

    I like this - 8681803189_433c9000d7_m.jpg


    You like that - pg-6-short-men-getty.jpg

    I doesn't make any of us wrong. Just preference.
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    Height isn't a dealbreaker for me. There are enough things to worry about in terms of compatability, I'd rather not judge a man for a physical characteristic that he has no control over.

    i like you for this.

    i'm below average height - 5'6" - it's one thing to not be attracted to someone who is shorter due to preference, it's another to to judge someone as being less of a man because they are shorter.

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  • anro86
    anro86 Posts: 790 Member
    I have a thing for shorter guys. I am only 5 foot 1, of course, so that has something to do with it. :smile:

    Shortest guy I have dated is 5 foot 2, tallest was probably 5 foot 6.
  • princessofredrock
    princessofredrock Posts: 382 Member
    Agree about the "creepy" label!

    Before I was married I dated men of different heights. Don't we all look for other things in a mate besides that? Yes I even dated a guy that was shorter than me! I don't believe that how tall someone is really factors into the equation.

    We all have our preferences but to say someone is too short, and that makes them creepy, well it's ridiculous!

    I am 5' 2" my hubby of 24 yrs is 5' 11" We love each other for many other reasons besides that he's tall, and I'm short! ; )
  • ElliottTN
    ElliottTN Posts: 1,614 Member
    I'm 5'11 and I always go for the girls taller than me. Guess I'm a height creeper or just like bigger vaginas, dunno.
  • in_the_stars
    in_the_stars Posts: 1,395 Member
    Anything under 6'0 and we're in manlet territory

    Manlet ? What a nasty label. :(
  • highervibes
    highervibes Posts: 2,219 Member
    I once didn't date someone who I was totally in love with intellectually because he was shorter than me. Biggest. Mistake. Ever,
  • BlueBombers
    BlueBombers Posts: 4,064 Member
    It doesn't bother me
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    "Creepy short" is something that I would never think.

    But I am 5'8" and probably wouldn't have dated a guy under 5'5" unless there was a huge mutual attraction, plenty of things in common, etc. I dated guys 5'6"-5'8" no problem though. My ex was around 5'9" or a little over.

    I admit that I DO love my husband being over six feet tall, but height wasn't my top priority when seeking a mate. Not even Top Ten.



    Wouldn't that just be a normal reason to date someone, though?
  • SpeSHul_SnoflEHk
    SpeSHul_SnoflEHk Posts: 6,256 Member
    This is why women aren't satisfied. There is an inverse correlation between niceness and height. So, they go looking for taller men, and only find jerks and d-bags. They decline the short guys, and miss all the nice guys.
  • in4nomz
    in4nomz Posts: 230
    If you replaced this topic with "breast size" everyone would be up in arms.
    Its ok to shame men we are secure enough to handle it.

    I must admit this is very true.
  • in_the_stars
    in_the_stars Posts: 1,395 Member
    This is why women aren't satisfied. There is an inverse correlation between niceness and height. So, they go looking for taller men, and only find jerks and d-bags. They decline the short guys, and miss all the nice guys.

    Soooooo... Tall guys aren't nice? :(
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