how do you deal with a broken heart?

steelmaggie228

Seriously, what do you do?

asimmons221

time.

FitWarrior7

Time/Become an alcoholic/Get yourself into the best shape of your life and focus on your life/career?

WeepingAngel81

That is a tough question to answer. When my ex and I split, it just felt so surreal. I set goals for myself and gave a time frame, starting with finding a job (I was a stay at home mom), starting a savings, pay off my car, joining a gym, running a 5K. I needed normal life things to keep me from noticing how bad things were at that time. As I started to work towards those goals, I notcied that even through bad days I was starting to find silver lining in everything. There are still moments when I am down and angry and question how my life is the way it is. I have my moment, becuase we all need a moment, but i force myself to find postivie things around me.

Mia_RagazzaTosta

Get with a couple Mr. Wrongs

ElliottTN

Realize its just really a temp. chemical imbalance in your brain and treat it as such.

I'm only an insensitive *kitten* with feelings when I don't like them.

arghbowl

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

AZ_Gato

Bubbles. Blowing soap bubbles always cheer me up.

charliex2202

Bubbles. Blowing soap bubbles always cheer me up.

popping soap bubbles is fun too......splat that cat lol

Matt24442

hey baby you can come over tonight if you want

spicy618

Don't think about the Good times... Only the BAD times.

Escloflowne

Key his car?

Soccermavrick

Time, you time, more you time AND Friends!!!!

emartin17

Focused on myself for quite some time. Used time, used boys, used alcohol, worked out, new hair, new clothes, new places to visit.

blably

Time/Become an alcoholic/Get yourself into the best shape of your life and focus on your life/career?

i am kinda mixing all of this together and it seems to be workin

TheSlorax

weed and hard liquor

miss_jessiejane

I think it depends on why your heart is broken. Did a boy do it? Or is it because your favorite tv show got cancelled? 'Cause one is way more serious than the other.

And yes, I'm still upset they cancelled Firefly. :brokenheart:

fitmomhappymom

Get up, go to the gym, keep busy and KICK A**.
The more you sit around being sad, the more sad you are going to feel. Just keep it moving, keep your mind busy and of course don't ever act like you have a broken heart. Looking good and feeling happy is the best revenge.

catneon

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

errr damn right...and time and possibly liquor....just pace yourself.

srsly have the bad days and cry but don't let it consume you..... rise from it.

TerryRobWasm

My heart is now permanently broken. I will NOT allow myself to be vulnerable again. Love hurts, sometimes too much. I've had enough hurt.

Time heals all wounds, but the scars remain as a reminder. My scars run very deep.

How do you deal with it??? One day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time, sometimes, one minute at a time. Sometimes crying helps.

Never again!!

Escloflowne

Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

errr damn right...and time and possibly liquor....just pace yourself.

srsly have the bad days and cry but don't let it consume you..... rise from it.

I don't know about her!

THECaptainObvious

Think of it as you just lost that many pounds of stress and dead weight instantly... Think of it as a lesson learned.. If you find yourself obsessing about "I miss him, I love him" force your mind to focus on WHY you broke up not the good times. And keep telling yourself it didn't work because YOU DESERVE BETTER!

Myhaloslipped

Girl Code: In order to get over one guy, get under another one.

erickirb

Time (though if the person is still somewhat in your life, makes this part even more difficult), replace them (even just for a night here and there;-) ), hit the gym, stay busy, focus on you.

Escloflowne

Seriously, what do you do?

Also I've always wanted to go to Portland!

Capt_Apollo

the best way to get over someone is to get under someone else

Myhaloslipped

weed and hard liquor

^Also this!

MissDeeDee78

Time heals. Surround yourself with friends and family and set mini goals, things that you've always wanted to do within a certain time frame ei: Trip to Paris, hot air balloon ride, ride a motorcycle, portaging, drastic hair cut etc...And just remember that life is way too short - get out there and enjoy it

AZ_Gato

Bubbles. Blowing soap bubbles always cheer me up.

Seriously, I'm serious. Go blow "bubbles". Do something that makes you happy. Bubbles and boobs make me happy. Both at same time is ecstasy.

JoRocka

My heart is now permanently broken. I will NOT allow myself to be vulnerable again. Love hurts, sometimes too much. I've had enough hurt.

Time heals all wounds, but the scars remain as a reminder. My scars run very deep.

How do you deal with it??? One day at a time, sometimes one hour at a time, sometimes, one minute at a time. Sometimes crying helps.

Never again!!

we are people- we heal.

We are scarred and we live and learn from our experiences- but we are rarely broken for good.

Time heals almost all things. Time and forgiving yourself and him/her for mistakes- it takes a long time to come to that and the road is bumpy and full of ice cream and then very guilty feeling fat work outs LOL... but it takes times- just make a routine- stick to it and press forward.

MissDeeDee78

Well said!