how do you deal with a broken heart?

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  • kzivic
    kzivic Posts: 326 Member
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    Time.
    Meaningless sex to remind yourself that you still got it and can attract a man.
    Revenge: use his email address to sign up for bizarre fetish porn and radical political websites/newsletters.
  • Slacker16
    Slacker16 Posts: 1,184 Member
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    weed and hard liquor
    For me, that mix always resulted in an involuntary calorie deficit (if you know what I mean).
    I say pick one or the other.

    Also, annoying your friends.
  • fitmomhappymom
    fitmomhappymom Posts: 171 Member
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    nothing mends a broken heart. when your heart gets broken, whoever/whatever broke it takes a piece with them, so that no matter how many times you puzzle it back together, it'll never be completely whole again. such a cruel game.

    Yeah, idk if i agree. I've had my heart broken a few times, and got over it and feel nothing towards those people anymore. One of whom I have a child with. When you're over it, you're over it. It doesnt always "haunt you" or anything like that. If it still bothers you once you think you're over it, you probably aren't and maybe have deeper issues...
    The opposite of love is indifference.
  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
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    Bacon....

    I see this bacon obsession frequently on here. I loathe bacon though, and pork too. Filthy swine is no meal of mine.
  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
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    weed and hard liquor
    For me, that mix always resulted in an involuntary calorie deficit (if you know what I mean).
    I say pick one or the other.

    Also, annoying your friends.
    yup, know what you mean.
  • LFDBabs
    LFDBabs Posts: 297 Member
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    "" A Successful woman is one who can build a firm foundation with the Bricks others have Thrown at her"!"

    I'm not sure who gets the credit for this quote, but my sister sent it to me. Keep busy, be with friends....try not to dwell on the situation (easier said than done). Time heals.
  • steelmaggie228
    steelmaggie228 Posts: 75 Member
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    Lots of epic answers. Thanks everyone :-)
    Cheers.
  • SonicDeathMonkey80
    SonicDeathMonkey80 Posts: 4,489 Member
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    Cheez-Its make everything better
  • kiwigal41
    kiwigal41 Posts: 1,059
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    I don't know.....when you find out, let me know.....cause the wine isn't working
  • heylookitsval
    heylookitsval Posts: 1,141 Member
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    Peace Tea Pink Lemonade + Tea mixed with Vodka...delicious.

    Wait, what?
  • AJinBirmingham
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    I was at the gym Monday with a woman who had buried her husband last week. I think she's handling it well.

    Or if you like biblical advice: "Give strong drink to the one who is perishing, and wine to those in bitter distress; let them drink and forget their poverty and remember their misery no more." Proverbs 30:6-7
  • ekz13
    ekz13 Posts: 725 Member
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    Get Chocolate wasted!! :drinker:
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
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    time.

    id quote that a million times
  • hannahpistolas
    hannahpistolas Posts: 290 Member
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    Just broke up with my ex of 3 years/father of my child in October.

    I am:
    1. Fixating on my child. If you do not have children, this does not apply, although I definitely recommend spending time with a kid. Seriously. Their laughter is the most beautiful sound, even to the saddest ears.
    2. Flirting with anything and everything (trust me, the self-esteem boost helps).
    3. Going to start P90X3 and get super sexypants.
    4. Focusing on my career.
    5. Doing what I want to do. You don't realize how much you sacrifice to be with someone else until you have all that time on your hands to sit and think. And, let me tell you, getting to a point where your happy with yourself when you're alone is the best place to be.
  • hannahpistolas
    hannahpistolas Posts: 290 Member
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    You'd have to fall in love to get a broken heart, and I don't fall in love.

    SASSY.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
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    Get Chocolate wasted!! :drinker:

    I WANNNNNNNAAA GET CHOCOLATE WASTED!!!!!
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
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    Best way to get over someone is to get under someone else.

    this only works if it is good...bad sex makes you wish for the ex
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    You just move on.

    Find new hobbies, meet new people. Go back to school, work over time.
  • SamanthaD1218
    SamanthaD1218 Posts: 304 Member
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    But seriously, watching Bridget Jones' Diary will help heal your heart. I PROMISE!

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