HALP! Is this MFP Love or Infatuation?

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  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    I'm also just curious how this thread is going to turn out.

    Also, I'm shocked that JoyJoy was deceiving everyone by posting a photo of her cat from a younger age. :noway:

    GuiltyCat.jpg
    Same kitty? :P
  • ParamoreAddict
    ParamoreAddict Posts: 839 Member
    There's a poster in this thread right now that is attempting to pass off a photo of themselves that is not a remotely current accurate representation ( and I don't mean stock photos ) of themselves. It happens way more than people think.

    Yea...I really don't have rock hard muscles. :sad:
    ya when i blink...never trust a weeping angel! :smokin:
  • SuperWhoLock24601
    SuperWhoLock24601 Posts: 245 Member
    Why would I lie? I put it on the internet. It has to be true.
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I'm also just curious how this thread is going to turn out.

    Also, I'm shocked that JoyJoy was deceiving everyone by posting a photo of her cat from a younger age. :noway:

    GuiltyCat.jpg
    Same kitty? :P

    h08342574
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why would I lie? I put it on the internet. It has to be true.
    FINE!!! I'll give you all my trust and spill all my secrets in your inbox!
    You ready??
  • SuperWhoLock24601
    SuperWhoLock24601 Posts: 245 Member
    Why would I lie? I put it on the internet. It has to be true.
    FINE!!! I'll give you all my trust and spill all my secrets in your inbox!
    You ready??

    You might want to tell a Silence. Then you will forget everything you told them. :wink:
  • Otterluv
    Otterluv Posts: 9,083 Member
    I'm also just curious how this thread is going to turn out.

    Also, I'm shocked that JoyJoy was deceiving everyone by posting a photo of her cat from a younger age. :noway:

    In her defense, they do grow up REALLY quickly. It's the kitty way, I'm afraid.

    And, it was cuter as a kitten.




    Yes, I went there.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    Why would I lie? I put it on the internet. It has to be true.
    FINE!!! I'll give you all my trust and spill all my secrets in your inbox!
    You ready??

    You might want to tell a Silence. Then you will forget everything you told them. :wink:
    Nah, I'll just totally tell you. I obviously trust you so much right now. <3.
  • SuperWhoLock24601
    SuperWhoLock24601 Posts: 245 Member
    Just don't look away.
  • ParamoreAddict
    ParamoreAddict Posts: 839 Member
    Why would I lie? I put it on the internet. It has to be true.
    FINE!!! I'll give you all my trust and spill all my secrets in your inbox!
    You ready??

    You might want to tell a Silence. Then you will forget everything you told them. :wink:
    tumblr_mh5wx773mp1qirhslo1_500.jpg
  • SuperWhoLock24601
    SuperWhoLock24601 Posts: 245 Member
    Why would I lie? I put it on the internet. It has to be true.
    FINE!!! I'll give you all my trust and spill all my secrets in your inbox!
    You ready??

    You might want to tell a Silence. Then you will forget everything you told them. :wink:
    tumblr_mh5wx773mp1qirhslo1_500.jpg
    :heart: :heart: :heart:
  • amosmoses88
    amosmoses88 Posts: 163 Member
    No way to know if it is true love until you both have farted in bed. at least once.


    CRAZY....but so true!
  • delicious_cocktail
    delicious_cocktail Posts: 5,797 Member
    Infatuation.
  • amosmoses88
    amosmoses88 Posts: 163 Member
    I think you have to meet someone at least a few times to know whether its real or not. Ever heard of phishing? It's also an MTV show lol. But really, it's these people who go on the internet to build up relationships and make the other person feel like it's real, only to get them to give them SOME kind of money or something. So you really gotta be careful. Little flirts and all are okay, but taking it to the "I Love You" stage....NOPE....BIG NOPE. Been there once. We both made plans to go see each other time after time after time. We started talking, we stopped, we started, we stopped. So I came to the conclusion we both used each other for when we were lonely. We both knew we'd never actually meet in person. But, some people really do believe this whole internet relationship deal can work. I DO NOT.
  • Sreneesa
    Sreneesa Posts: 1,170 Member
    also keep in mind some on here do not post their own pics, so you may be crushing on someone who is not who they say they are.

    If they do, that's moronic. Is that why so many people don't show their faces? lol

    No. Many people don't want their pictures on the Internet for a wide variety of reasons. Once your picture is on the Internet, it can be used in any way someone feels like using it. Not really anything you can do about it.

    Exactly!

    I have my own personal reason why I do not show my face. Has nothing to do with faking or insecurities.

    And, the few people who have been trying to come at me like this is a dating site and be perverted make me glad I do not show my face!
  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I'm also just curious how this thread is going to turn out.

    Also, I'm shocked that JoyJoy was deceiving everyone by posting a photo of her cat from a younger age. :noway:

    In her defense, they do grow up REALLY quickly. It's the kitty way, I'm afraid.

    And, it was cuter as a kitten.




    Yes, I went there.

    :laugh: :tongue:
  • jasonr1009
    jasonr1009 Posts: 342 Member
    I'm not a player I just crush a lot lol
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    I think you have to meet someone at least a few times to know whether its real or not. Ever heard of phishing? It's also an MTV show lol. But really, it's these people who go on the internet to build up relationships and make the other person feel like it's real, only to get them to give them SOME kind of money or something. So you really gotta be careful. Little flirts and all are okay, but taking it to the "I Love You" stage....NOPE....BIG NOPE. Been there once. We both made plans to go see each other time after time after time. We started talking, we stopped, we started, we stopped. So I came to the conclusion we both used each other for when we were lonely. We both knew we'd never actually meet in person. But, some people really do believe this whole internet relationship deal can work. I DO NOT.

    Of course it can work out. There are many instances of this (one in this very thread). But certainly, safe guards must be put in place, and it's best to meet in person as soon as possible before too many expectations get built up.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    I think you have to meet someone at least a few times to know whether its real or not. Ever heard of phishing? It's also an MTV show lol. But really, it's these people who go on the internet to build up relationships and make the other person feel like it's real, only to get them to give them SOME kind of money or something. So you really gotta be careful. Little flirts and all are okay, but taking it to the "I Love You" stage....NOPE....BIG NOPE. Been there once. We both made plans to go see each other time after time after time. We started talking, we stopped, we started, we stopped. So I came to the conclusion we both used each other for when we were lonely. We both knew we'd never actually meet in person. But, some people really do believe this whole internet relationship deal can work. I DO NOT.

    Of course it can work out. There are many instances of this (one in this very thread). But certainly, safe guards must be put in place, and it's best to meet in person as soon as possible before too many expectations get built up.
    If stuff moves too soon, sometimes it's best to take a step back, though..
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    I think you have to meet someone at least a few times to know whether its real or not. Ever heard of phishing? It's also an MTV show lol. But really, it's these people who go on the internet to build up relationships and make the other person feel like it's real, only to get them to give them SOME kind of money or something. So you really gotta be careful. Little flirts and all are okay, but taking it to the "I Love You" stage....NOPE....BIG NOPE. Been there once. We both made plans to go see each other time after time after time. We started talking, we stopped, we started, we stopped. So I came to the conclusion we both used each other for when we were lonely. We both knew we'd never actually meet in person. But, some people really do believe this whole internet relationship deal can work. I DO NOT.

    Of course it can work out. There are many instances of this (one in this very thread). But certainly, safe guards must be put in place, and it's best to meet in person as soon as possible before too many expectations get built up.
    If stuff moves too soon, sometimes it's best to take a step back, though..

    When I said meet, I meant just that. I guess even a video chat is better than just going by a photo and building up too many false expectations.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    I think you have to meet someone at least a few times to know whether its real or not. Ever heard of phishing? It's also an MTV show lol. But really, it's these people who go on the internet to build up relationships and make the other person feel like it's real, only to get them to give them SOME kind of money or something. So you really gotta be careful. Little flirts and all are okay, but taking it to the "I Love You" stage....NOPE....BIG NOPE. Been there once. We both made plans to go see each other time after time after time. We started talking, we stopped, we started, we stopped. So I came to the conclusion we both used each other for when we were lonely. We both knew we'd never actually meet in person. But, some people really do believe this whole internet relationship deal can work. I DO NOT.

    Of course it can work out. There are many instances of this (one in this very thread). But certainly, safe guards must be put in place, and it's best to meet in person as soon as possible before too many expectations get built up.
    If stuff moves too soon, sometimes it's best to take a step back, though..

    When I said meet, I meant just that. I guess even a video chat is better than just going by a photo and building up too many false expectations.
    True point. Only problems would be when there are too many things already in the way.
    Sigh.
  • QuietBloom
    QuietBloom Posts: 5,413 Member
    I think you have to meet someone at least a few times to know whether its real or not. Ever heard of phishing? It's also an MTV show lol. But really, it's these people who go on the internet to build up relationships and make the other person feel like it's real, only to get them to give them SOME kind of money or something. So you really gotta be careful. Little flirts and all are okay, but taking it to the "I Love You" stage....NOPE....BIG NOPE. Been there once. We both made plans to go see each other time after time after time. We started talking, we stopped, we started, we stopped. So I came to the conclusion we both used each other for when we were lonely. We both knew we'd never actually meet in person. But, some people really do believe this whole internet relationship deal can work. I DO NOT.

    Of course it can work out. There are many instances of this (one in this very thread). But certainly, safe guards must be put in place, and it's best to meet in person as soon as possible before too many expectations get built up.
    If stuff moves too soon, sometimes it's best to take a step back, though..

    When I said meet, I meant just that. I guess even a video chat is better than just going by a photo and building up too many false expectations.
    True point. Only problems would be when there are too many things already in the way.
    Sigh.

    You mean like husbands or wives?
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I'm also just curious how this thread is going to turn out.

    Also, I'm shocked that JoyJoy was deceiving everyone by posting a photo of her cat from a younger age. :noway:

    In her defense, they do grow up REALLY quickly. It's the kitty way, I'm afraid.

    And, it was cuter as a kitten.




    Yes, I went there.

    :laugh: :tongue:

    :wink: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
    It can become something, or it can become nothing. There was one woman on here that I talked to all the time and we both started to develop feelings. But we lived 12 hours apart. One day, we just had a frank discussion about the fact that it wasn't possible for there to be anything between us, and that was that. She has a boyfriend now, and we are still friends.

    What happens with you depends entirely on your unique situation and set of circumstances. But right now, it's just infatuation. Nothing more.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    I think you have to meet someone at least a few times to know whether its real or not. Ever heard of phishing? It's also an MTV show lol. But really, it's these people who go on the internet to build up relationships and make the other person feel like it's real, only to get them to give them SOME kind of money or something. So you really gotta be careful. Little flirts and all are okay, but taking it to the "I Love You" stage....NOPE....BIG NOPE. Been there once. We both made plans to go see each other time after time after time. We started talking, we stopped, we started, we stopped. So I came to the conclusion we both used each other for when we were lonely. We both knew we'd never actually meet in person. But, some people really do believe this whole internet relationship deal can work. I DO NOT.

    Of course it can work out. There are many instances of this (one in this very thread). But certainly, safe guards must be put in place, and it's best to meet in person as soon as possible before too many expectations get built up.
    If stuff moves too soon, sometimes it's best to take a step back, though..

    When I said meet, I meant just that. I guess even a video chat is better than just going by a photo and building up too many false expectations.
    True point. Only problems would be when there are too many things already in the way.
    Sigh.

    You mean like husbands or wives?
    Like family that is un-accepting and that needs to be visited before they mess their lives up even further + family in other countries to see before they die.
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    Why would I lie? I put it on the internet. It has to be true.
    FINE!!! I'll give you all my trust and spill all my secrets in your inbox!
    You ready??

    You might want to tell a Silence. Then you will forget everything you told them. :wink:
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    eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!
    Awesome valentines are awesome. Saving image! :love:
  • whitebalance
    whitebalance Posts: 1,654 Member
    No way to know if it is true love until you both have farted in bed during oral. at least once.
    FIFY.
  • Sinisterly
    Sinisterly Posts: 10,913 Member
    No way to know if it is true love until you both have farted in bed during oral. at least once.
    FIFY.
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
    Thwarted funny perspectives!
  • ShorelyReady
    ShorelyReady Posts: 10 Member
    No way to know if it is true love until you both have farted in bed during oral. at least once.
    FIFY.

    HAHAHAHA! :laugh:
  • Edwin_S
    Edwin_S Posts: 440 Member
    Just like a job interview...everybody looks good on paper. It's best to meet in person before you start building up expectations. Even just talking on the phone will help to give you insight into if this this person is a knight or a not. You could easily have chemistry through social media, but then in person come to find the spark just isn't there. Don't be afraid to admit whatever you feel. I hope all works out for you OP.

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