Husband does not get it??

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  • PhearlessPhreaks
    PhearlessPhreaks Posts: 890 Member
    I really don't know why your all calling me a moron and idiot.. I was looking for help because I want to EXERSIZE.. Isn't that what this site is for?? How do I delete this??

    So- put on a hat, gloves, some proper gear for running in cold temps, and exercise! It seems your hubs wants you to be safe and not get frostbite... really unsure what the problem is. Perhaps it's in your head?
  • LishieFruit89
    LishieFruit89 Posts: 1,956 Member
    thanks for some help and no thanks to the rude people on here attacking me!!

    He doesn't do it every time, just when i go out running in a sports bra.. I think he doesn't want others to see me?? I only started running since new years.

    If you're running in only a sports bra in -40F weather, you're a moron .

    YOU"RE MEAN!

    Here's a thought, the two of you should go running together in negative temps without proper protection of your body - will weed out the gene pool that much faster.

    You clearly need to turn your sarcasm radar on.
    And if it is on, you're just a jerk.

    I'm from NH and she's from MI.
    I've gotten used to the cold and I overheat when I run.


    But my "you're mean" comment was actual truth.
    Go read the community guidelines.
  • GoreWhore72
    GoreWhore72 Posts: 190 Member
    I hear you, my gym opened late this morning so I said I guess I'll just go into work an hour late - and he says oh no don't do that! Men :P

    This guy is dead weight! Good lord, drop him before he turns you into one of those bedridden fat sacks you see on TLC.

    HAHAH!! Had a one of those, and it's taken five years to finally be me, but I'm not stopping!!!
  • LishieFruit89
    LishieFruit89 Posts: 1,956 Member
    All I know is running in -40 is insane. I'd suggest a coat too.

    running when its just 20 outside is crazy to me! WEAR A COAT!!!!

    I ran a race on New Years in 20F.
    I overheated and had to take a layer off.
    Really considered running the last mile in just a tank top.
    But then I had too much to carry...
    I did do a race once when it was raining and 30 in shorts and a tshirt I did get hot but I didn't shed anything lol

    I had to.
    It was messing with my pace and my glasses were fogging.
  • Commander_Keen
    Commander_Keen Posts: 1,179 Member
    Hi guys, I've seen you help others on here for martial problems before, and i finally need it..

    I was going to go running today.. My husband said it was too cold and that he was worried!! Is he worried that I'm going to get too hot and leave him?? is this sabotage?? I told him that I'm my own woman and I'm doing this for me!! He said honey you need to put on a coat and hat if your going to run in -40 windchill.. But I read that running increases your body temp anyway, so i told him to check the science. plus being cold burns more calories!!

    I'm really upset right now!! why doesn't my husband get my fitness journey?? any advice??
    Wait what?
    Is he worried that I'm going to get too hot and leave him?? is this sabotage?? -- Insecure with relationship
    -40 windchill That' DAMN Cold you should put something on..
    But I read that running increases your body temp anyway, so i told him to check the science. plus being cold burns more calories!! --- Is it really worth it if you only burn 50-100 extra calories?
  • Mr_Bad_Example
    Mr_Bad_Example Posts: 2,403 Member
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  • GoreWhore72
    GoreWhore72 Posts: 190 Member
    thanks for some help and no thanks to the rude people on here attacking me!!

    He doesn't do it every time, just when i go out running in a sports bra.. I think he doesn't want others to see me?? I only started running since new years.

    If you're running in only a sports bra in -40F weather, you're a moron .


    I bet penguins jog in -40 without tops. Are you saying penguins are morons?

    Hey!! Watch what you say about PINGU.
  • FrenchMob
    FrenchMob Posts: 1,167 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.
  • angdpowers
    angdpowers Posts: 311 Member
    I'm with others ... If it was that cold? Seriously, it's the weather honey. And most runners (I too run ... A LOT), but most are mouth breathers and that's really hard on the lungs because the air doesn't get warmed like it does when being sucked in through the nose.

    Unless u have a different example, I would not think its because "he's afraid you'll get to hot and leave." Are YOU thinking that though? I would hope from that one comment you wouldn't go off like that because damn hahaha that's just silly.
  • molonlabe762
    molonlabe762 Posts: 411 Member
    So your husband tells you to dress warmer before you go running in temperatures that can kill you within minutes and you respond with some half assed theory about sabatoge? It sounds like you have some serious issues.


    This
  • molonlabe762
    molonlabe762 Posts: 411 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    If you dont like it stay out.
  • asimmons221
    asimmons221 Posts: 294 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    If America uses Fahrenheit than it's obviously the best way to measure temperature... I mean come on now.
  • Janiemomof7
    Janiemomof7 Posts: 32 Member
    I think he's just worried about you. If he says something like my husband did "Honey, I'm worried that your not going to be soft anymore, and you know I like my women soft" Then you know he may be trying to sabotage you.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    40 below with windchill. I wouldn't let my wife out in that weather either.

    Keep on holding her back bro.
    You took that out of context. If you want to quote me, use the whole quote.
  • AllieBear88
    AllieBear88 Posts: 170 Member
    normally I would say sabotage, but -40 windchill does sound frikkin scary to run in, so he could have been genuinely worried for your well-being.

    Yeah. Pretty much this.
  • SunofaBeach14
    SunofaBeach14 Posts: 4,899 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    ^ obviously Kanadeean
  • asimmons221
    asimmons221 Posts: 294 Member
    40 below with windchill. I wouldn't let my wife out in that weather either.

    Keep on holding her back bro.
    You took that out of context. If you want to quote me, use the whole quote.

    It's alright bro, us abusers gotta stick together.

    ps- it's just a joke.
  • LishieFruit89
    LishieFruit89 Posts: 1,956 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    I was kidding.

    And I'm also half Canadian.
    Frankly, I believe the US should use the metric system.
    Would've made all of my engineering and science classes better.
    Less conversions.
  • QueenBishOTUniverse
    QueenBishOTUniverse Posts: 14,121 Member
    Punch him in the face, lets him know you're in charge and you won't tolerate that lip.


















    Testing, testing, this is a test of my personal sarcasm identification system. :tongue:
  • He CARES! Clearly he's trying to take care of you especially when it's that cold. Have you been previously upset about something else that caused you to think a certain way? Of course he might be afraid of you getting 'Hot.' He married you because he thinks you are beautiful and the one for him if you think you aren't, know that he's sees differently and your only going to get more attractive. He doesn't want to lose his wife.

    It took awhile for my husband to understand but have you tried incorporating him in your work outs or thought about doing like Insanity together. Or maybe even being more passionate with him in the bedroom if he sees that your getting more comfortable with yourself he might end up liking it. It takes time especially if from the beginning of the relationship you weren't one to work out. It'll be ok.
  • Either i had my sense of humor surgically removed at a young age, or this thread is just stupid!
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,148 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    Unless you're using Imperial weights, then you can count UK in there (unless you consider that a 3rd world country).

    OP should run with a Newfoundland or Labrador+*.
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    +Your choice of colors
    *Brought to you by the province of Newfoundland and Labrador.
  • Crateria_
    Crateria_ Posts: 253 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    Unless you're using Imperial weights, then you can count UK in there (unless you consider that a 3rd world country).

    OP should run with a Newfoundland or Labrador+*.
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    labrador-retrievers-2.jpg












    +Your choice of colors
    *Brought to you by the province of Newfoundland and Labrador.
    Or a Caucasian Bear Dog!
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  • GoreWhore72
    GoreWhore72 Posts: 190 Member
    I think he's just worried about you. If he says something like my husband did "Honey, I'm worried that your not going to be soft anymore, and you know I like my women soft" Then you know he may be trying to sabotage you.

    Exactly. I agree. Then you choke him out with a leg triangle, and it's game over.
  • FrenchMob
    FrenchMob Posts: 1,167 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    If you dont like it stay out.
    You need all the tourism you can considering your country is on the verge of bankruptcy.
  • Julettashane
    Julettashane Posts: 723 Member
    this thread is making me laugh......thank you for the laughs all....I love sarcasm it makes my day speed by at work!!
  • GoreWhore72
    GoreWhore72 Posts: 190 Member
    You are all fantastic.
    Even if you're American:laugh: .
  • RockWarrior84
    RockWarrior84 Posts: 840 Member
    I really don't know why your all calling me a moron and idiot.. I was looking for help because I want to EXERSIZE.. Isn't that what this site is for?? How do I delete this??

    because you are ranting and raving over your husband genuinely being concerned about you. Not to mention -40 degrees with windchill is not something to mess around with.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    40 below with windchill. I wouldn't let my wife out in that weather either.

    Keep on holding her back bro.
    You took that out of context. If you want to quote me, use the whole quote.

    It's alright bro, us abusers gotta stick together.

    ps- it's just a joke.

    Sorry.
  • asimmons221
    asimmons221 Posts: 294 Member
    whats -40c?

    Canadian

    Typical american answer - metric is not a "canadian" thing. There's only 3 countries in the world (US and 2 other 3rd world countries) that still use the backwards imperial system, maybe it's time for the US to step it up a notch.

    If you dont like it stay out.
    You need all the tourism you can considering your country is on the verge of bankruptcy.

    Woomp womp womp, I do agree the Metric system is better, but getting a little touchy aren't we.