Husband does not get it??
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It sounds like you are reading into it too much. I'm not sure why you would want to run in that kind of temperature. He sound concerned for you not trying to sabotage.
People who let things like extremely low temperatures stop them from running are quitters.
Exactly!
Don't be a quitter OP!0 -
Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
If you're running in Detroit you might want to carry a SIG Sauer P250 or something. Possibly an M-60.
I live in Detroit. True story! :laugh:
Go minigun or go home
Might need a running partner,, or three, to hump the ammo though 0 -
Did you not read? He told her to put on a coat! He doesn't want her to run in just a sports bra. This is only the beginning.
Should we encourage her to remain in such a terrible marriage? We CARE about her!I don't like how some people are being really rude or discouraging. Telling this woman to break up or being rude about her husband isn't gonna help her!! She's not saying it's the end of the world, she's just having a little conflict and she wants help.
But how did you decide her marriage was terrible? I mean yeah a guy shouldn't be stopping his wife from doing what she loves (especially exercising) but from what I understood (maybe I got it wrong) he doesn't do it every time, and this incident it was -40 outside when she wanted to go running. How does this make her marriage terrible?
Honestly, I think a guy who cares about his wife enough to tell her to put a coat or a shirt on before running out in -40 weather, be it because he's concerned or because he doesn't want guys seeing her is a lot better than a guy who doesn't care what his wife does. She said he doesn't do it every time, just when she's in a sport's bra. He doesn't want other guys looking at his wife -he cares about her-. I don't see what's so bad about that?? I know there's a thin line between being a control freak and being caring. But is he telling her not to run outside at all?0 -
thanks for some help and no thanks to the rude people on here attacking me!!
He doesn't do it every time, just when i go out running in a sports bra.. I think he doesn't want others to see me?? I only started running since new years.
If you're running in only a sports bra in -40F weather, you're a moron .
YOU"RE MEAN!0 -
If I'm running in -40 weather, it's definitely because I'm being chased by a serial killer. Otherwise...NFW0
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All I know is running in -40 is insane. I'd suggest a coat too.
running when its just 20 outside is crazy to me! WEAR A COAT!!!!0 -
I hear you, my gym opened late this morning so I said I guess I'll just go into work an hour late - and he says oh no don't do that! Men :P0
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If I'm running in -40 weather, it's definitely because I'm being chased by a serial killer. Otherwise...NFW
true story0 -
I am assuming this is one of those fake posts to get reactions. But just in case:
Really? The guy mentions putting on a coat or hat because of the low temps and you think he's not being supportive. Come on already! He didn't tell you not to run, he suggested you dress for the weather. Sounds like a caring, attentive husband to me. :huh:0 -
All I know is running in -40 is insane. I'd suggest a coat too.
running when its just 20 outside is crazy to me! WEAR A COAT!!!!
I ran a race on New Years in 20F.
I overheated and had to take a layer off.
Really considered running the last mile in just a tank top.
But then I had too much to carry...0 -
I see no problem in running in -40 weather. Just remember when you pass my house come inside and we'll cuddle naked to get you warm again before you go home to that abusive husband.0
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I cant tell if this a bad attempt at humor or what...0
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If I'm running in -40 weather, it's definitely because I'm being chased by a serial killer. Otherwise...NFW
QFT0 -
I really don't know why your all calling me a moron and idiot.. I was looking for help because I want to EXERSIZE.. Isn't that what this site is for?? How do I delete this??0
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thanks for some help and no thanks to the rude people on here attacking me!!
He doesn't do it every time, just when i go out running in a sports bra.. I think he doesn't want others to see me?? I only started running since new years.
If you're running in only a sports bra in -40F weather, you're a moron .
I bet penguins jog in -40 without tops. Are you saying penguins are morons?0 -
I hear you, my gym opened late this morning so I said I guess I'll just go into work an hour late - and he says oh no don't do that! Men :P
This guy is dead weight! Good lord, drop him before he turns you into one of those bedridden fat sacks you see on TLC.0 -
I don't understand running in a sports bra anyway....I like to have a shirt on hot or cold outside no matter the weatherthanks for some help and no thanks to the rude people on here attacking me!!
He doesn't do it every time, just when i go out running in a sports bra.. I think he doesn't want others to see me?? I only started running since new years.
Also not canadian lol! I live in michigan!
Good men are a prize. Sounds like he cares. Also, put a shirt on if he doesnt like you running in a sports bra. Small sacrifice if you ask me.
^^ this!!0 -
I really don't know why your all calling me a moron and idiot.. I was looking for help because I want to EXERSIZE.. Isn't that what this site is for?? How do I delete this??
I thought this was a suport cite. Smdh @ all the RUDE ppl.0 -
Apparently, not the only one lolI cant tell if this a bad attempt at humor or what...0 -
My husband said it was too cold and that he was worried!! Is he worried that I'm going to get too hot and leave him?? is this sabotage??He said honey you need to put on a coat and hat if your going to run in -40 windchill..
I'm really upset right now!! why doesn't my husband get my fitness journey?? any advice??
I think it's pretty obvious that he just wanted you to put a coat on
If your going to make an issue out of being told to put a coat on with a -40 windchill then you really need to evaluate what's going on inside your head, seriously.
Going out in -40 windchill without a coat is just bloody stupid.0 -
Wait... So .... a husband telling his wife to put on a coat before she goes out in -40 temperature because he either 1. Is really concerned or 2. Just doesnt want other guys seeing her means he's a control freak?
It's terrible because he's telling her what to do. He's trying to manipulate her by showing "concern". She needs to get out. NOW.
Should we encourage her to remain in such a terrible marriage? We CARE about her!I don't like how some people are being really rude or discouraging. Telling this woman to break up or being rude about her husband isn't gonna help her!! She's not saying it's the end of the world, she's just having a little conflict and she wants help.
But how did you decide her marriage was terrible? I mean yeah a guy shouldn't be stopping his wife from doing what she loves (especially exercising) but from what I understood (maybe I got it wrong) he doesn't do it every time, and this incident it was -40 outside when she wanted to go running. How does this make her marriage terrible?
I think you need to turn your sarcasm radar on.0 -
I did do a race once when it was raining and 30 in shorts and a tshirt I did get hot but I didn't shed anything lolAll I know is running in -40 is insane. I'd suggest a coat too.
running when its just 20 outside is crazy to me! WEAR A COAT!!!!
I ran a race on New Years in 20F.
I overheated and had to take a layer off.
Really considered running the last mile in just a tank top.
But then I had too much to carry...0 -
normally I would say sabotage, but -40 windchill does sound frikkin scary to run in, so he could have been genuinely worried for your well-being.
This... Now if he does it every day no matter what the temp is yeah then he needs to be beaten!0 -
I really don't know why your all calling me a moron and idiot.. I was looking for help because I want to EXERSIZE.. Isn't that what this site is for?? How do I delete this??
I can show you how to delete this, but it'll cost you...your dignity.0 -
I'm confused. He wants you to wear a coat in freezing temps and this means he is trying to stop you from unleashing your hotness?
Unless there is a whole other layer of context to this story, it sounds to me like he's damned if he does, damned if he doesn't. You should be grateful he cares about you and not be so critical reading into every little word he utters.0 -
I really don't know why your all calling me a moron and idiot.. I was looking for help because I want to EXERSIZE.. Isn't that what this site is for?? How do I delete this??
I thought this was a suport cite. Smdh @ all the RUDE ppl.
SO MANY BULLIES!
I'm on your side OP!
Good luck on your gurney!!0 -
I really don't know why your all calling me a moron and idiot.. I was looking for help because I want to EXERSIZE.. Isn't that what this site is for?? How do I delete this??
Are you trying to loose wait?0 -
I see no problem in running in -40 weather. Just remember when you pass my house come inside and we'll cuddle naked to get you warm again before you go home to that abusive husband.
HAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAHAH!!!!0 -
So your husband tells you to dress warmer before you go running in temperatures that can kill you within minutes and you respond with some half assed theory about sabatoge? It sounds like you have some serious issues.0
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Wait... So .... a husband telling his wife to put on a coat before she goes out in -40 temperature because he either 1. Is really concerned or 2. Just doesnt want other guys seeing her means he's a control freak?
It's terrible because he's telling her what to do. He's trying to manipulate her by showing "concern". She needs to get out. NOW.
Should we encourage her to remain in such a terrible marriage? We CARE about her!I don't like how some people are being really rude or discouraging. Telling this woman to break up or being rude about her husband isn't gonna help her!! She's not saying it's the end of the world, she's just having a little conflict and she wants help.
But how did you decide her marriage was terrible? I mean yeah a guy shouldn't be stopping his wife from doing what she loves (especially exercising) but from what I understood (maybe I got it wrong) he doesn't do it every time, and this incident it was -40 outside when she wanted to go running. How does this make her marriage terrible?
I think you need to turn your sarcasm radar on.
Maybe I do....0
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