Valentine's day coming...

Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?
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  • fitfan11
    fitfan11 Posts: 544 Member
    I just want the day to pass without me having to fight the crowds at the restaurants. Can we just stay home and watch my Wolverines play?? Please!
  • wilsoje74
    wilsoje74 Posts: 1,720 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    Can't change anyone!!! After 15 yrs of marriage just a bit of advice for you!
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    He is so lucky to have you!
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I just want the day to pass without me having to fight the crowds at the restaurants. Can we just stay home and watch my Wolverines play?? Please!

    NO
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  • 1PatientBear
    1PatientBear Posts: 2,089 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    Wow. Happy Valentine's Day to him.

    "Dear boyfriend, here are all the things you suck at. Please change. Love, your girlfriend"

    "P.S. No sex for you tonight either"
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I hope so.....If I don't on Valentines day I will be very disappointed.
  • fitfan11
    fitfan11 Posts: 544 Member
    I just want the day to pass without me having to fight the crowds at the restaurants. Can we just stay home and watch my Wolverines play?? Please!

    NO
    25tjpd1.gif

    But we are undefeated in the conference......doesn't that count for something?
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    Wow. Happy Valentine's Day to him.

    "Dear boyfriend, here are all the things you suck at. Please change. Love, your girlfriend"

    "P.S. No sex for you tonight either"

    Haha!! Poor boyfriend. :laugh:
  • BamaBreezeNSaltAire
    BamaBreezeNSaltAire Posts: 966 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    Wow. Happy Valentine's Day to him.

    "Dear boyfriend, here are all the things you suck at. Please change. Love, your girlfriend"

    "P.S. No sex for you tonight either"

    Haha!! Poor boyfriend. :laugh:

    No kidding!
  • drangonfly2323
    drangonfly2323 Posts: 197 Member
    Well it is my daughter's birthday so me and my little girl will be going to dinner and then the ballet. I never really celebrated the day before and now I do but not because its Valentines day but my daughter's birthday.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    Dear Boyfriend:

    On this day when we are supposed to be grateful for each other and show our appreciation and love for each other, here is a list of things I don't like about you and think that you should change just for me. This means that I don't love you just as you are, but as I want you to be. I expect you probably love me just I perfectly am, so I probaly won't change for you.

    Love,
    Soon to be single
  • DeltaZero
    DeltaZero Posts: 1,197 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    If that's true love. I don't know what is.


    I hope he remembers to buy you flowers. :flowerforyou:

    Aren't you so sweet?!
  • Iron_Lotus
    Iron_Lotus Posts: 2,295 Member
    Face in lady garden

    /Thread
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    Well it is my daughter's birthday so me and my little girl will be going to dinner and then the ballet. I never really celebrated the day before and now I do but not because its Valentines day but my daughter's birthday.

    It's my baby's bday too :heart:
  • BonecrusherBrews
    BonecrusherBrews Posts: 131 Member
    This is funny
  • drangonfly2323
    drangonfly2323 Posts: 197 Member
    Well it is my daughter's birthday so me and my little girl will be going to dinner and then the ballet. I never really celebrated the day before and now I do but not because its Valentines day but my daughter's birthday.

    It's my baby's bday too :heart:

    Your going to love this, my daughter's name is Mia.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    Well it is my daughter's birthday so me and my little girl will be going to dinner and then the ballet. I never really celebrated the day before and now I do but not because its Valentines day but my daughter's birthday.

    It's my baby's bday too :heart:

    Your going to love this, my daughter's name is Mia.

    Awwwww!!!
  • fitfan11
    fitfan11 Posts: 544 Member
    Hello Dear All, for some people, valentine day is important but others it is not. I will just want from my boyfriend to do the list I will give him on Feb 14th. In this list, just there are some behaviors of him to change. what are your expectations from that day?

    Dear Boyfriend:

    On this day when we are supposed to be grateful for each other and show our appreciation and love for each other, here is a list of things I don't like about you and think that you should change just for me. This means that I don't love you just as you are, but as I want you to be. I expect you probably love me just I perfectly am, so I probaly won't change for you.

    Love,
    Soon to be single

    Mean.....but very accurate
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
    I expect sex. All kinds and lots of it.

    My BF took the day off work and we're going to spend it in bed. Yup. We actually planned a day in bed together.

    Oh, and dinner. We're going to dinner but then it'll be back home and to bed again.

    He wants to see if we can make it fall off :laugh:
  • I am german and maybe I am not good to tell what I think. I didnt mean expecting him change completely because I love him. I am sure there is something you do not like on your gf or bf so talking always can solve some problems
  • _Pseudonymous_
    _Pseudonymous_ Posts: 1,671 Member
    I don't celebrate Valentine's day because I find nothing romantic about my SO having to be or do something romantic because it is mandated by a holiday and greeting card companies...


    That's what I like to say anyway, The real reason is because my birthday is two days later so I would rather focus on that. I'm narcissistic that way.

    Alos, dislike chocolate and always get left over gross valentine's day chocolate for my birthday. :grumble:
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    I am german and maybe I am not good to tell what I think. I didnt mean expecting him change completely because I love him. I am sure there is something you do not like on your gf or bf so talking always can solve some problems

    Not on Valentine's Day. :laugh:
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    I expect sex. All kinds and lots of it.

    My BF took the day off work and we're going to spend it in bed. Yup. We actually planned a day in bed together.

    Oh, and dinner. We're going to dinner but then it'll be back home and to bed again.

    He wants to see if we can make it fall off :laugh:

    FYI... Dinner can mean a man delivering pizza to you... in bed. Trust me on this.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    I expect sex. All kinds and lots of it.

    My BF took the day off work and we're going to spend it in bed. Yup. We actually planned a day in bed together.

    Oh, and dinner. We're going to dinner but then it'll be back home and to bed again.

    He wants to see if we can make it fall off :laugh:

    I can't even tell you how jelly I am
  • Escloflowne
    Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
    I've never had a girlfriend / date on Valentines day so I've gotten pretty lucky not putting up with all this crap so far!
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I expect sex. All kinds and lots of it.

    My BF took the day off work and we're going to spend it in bed. Yup. We actually planned a day in bed together.

    Oh, and dinner. We're going to dinner but then it'll be back home and to bed again.

    He wants to see if we can make it fall off :laugh:

    FYI... Dinner can mean a man delivering pizza to you... in bed. Trust me on this.

    Donuts.....I usually serve a dozen. While carrying juice in each hand.....
  • jlshea
    jlshea Posts: 494 Member
    I would wait for another day to spring that on him or just talk to him about it now but tell him the things you love about him too. Relationships require give and take. Pretty sure no guy wants to be punched in the junk of Valentine's Day.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    I am german and maybe I am not good to tell what I think. I didnt mean expecting him change completely because I love him. I am sure there is something you do not like on your gf or bf so talking always can solve some problems

    Then don't give him a list. And don't wait until valentine's day to do it. Talk about your relationship every day. It's a work in progress, not a static thing. Any couple with longevity will tell you, it's more about the little things you learn to accept about each other than the things you think are awesome about each other. I love my husband with all my heart and have for 26 years, but there are things he does that drive me crazy. I don't ask him to change them; they are a part of who he is. I'd rather have him around, doing those things and driving me crazy, than doing them somewhere else with someone else.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    It is EXTREMELY important to me. I don't require expensive gifts or anything like that, but I do expect to be acknowledged and made to feel special in some shape, form or fashion.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    I am german and maybe I am not good to tell what I think. I didnt mean expecting him change completely because I love him. I am sure there is something you do not like on your gf or bf so talking always can solve some problems

    Talking about problems and issues in your relationship is a good idea.


    Giving him a list of HIS problems on a day where you are supposed to celebrate love, is NOT a good idea.