What is the one thing you can not over look when dating?

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cursiny
cursiny Posts: 907 Member
I heard on the radio this morning that 75% of women will not date a man who is unemployed. What is something that you can not over look when you are dating?

Someone who....

Doesn't own a home?
Doesn't have a job?
Doesn't own a car?
Has Kids or has no kids?
Is Divorced?
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  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,841 Member
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    She has a bigger package than me. I mean, same or smaller means no competition, but bigger...I just couldn't stand the shame.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,951 Member
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    I was going to make a joke about 3rd input, but I totally won't now.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
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    bad teeth. I mean, come on.
  • gmoneycole
    gmoneycole Posts: 813 Member
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    nose picking - can't over look it.
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
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    They have to have a good job and no kids under 10. Those are both deal breakers for me.
  • RockWarrior84
    RockWarrior84 Posts: 839 Member
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    bad teeth. I mean, come on.

    this or smells bad
  • Chilepepper34
    Chilepepper34 Posts: 53 Member
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    bad teeth. I mean, come on.

    this or smells bad

    Yes! I definitely can't overlook BO or bad hygiene.
  • Haltermania
    Haltermania Posts: 288 Member
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    smoking and bad teeth
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
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    No job.

    I support myself and I expect a man to be able to support himself too.
  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
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    A penis. Sorry but if she's got one, that's a deal breaker.
  • _MG_
    _MG_ Posts: 453 Member
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    Whether or not my wife will find out.


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    Just kidding. I've been married 23 years and have absolutely no clue about dating. I always feel left out on the dating posts.


    edited for lack of typing skills.
  • EternalDecadence
    EternalDecadence Posts: 445 Member
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    Enlarged ego
  • jlshea
    jlshea Posts: 494 Member
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    smoking
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
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    Doesn't own a home? Lots of people live in cities, where rent is the norm
    Doesn't have a job? Dealbreaker, unless it was a recent layoff
    Doesn't own a car? Again, city
    Has Kids or has no kids? Would prefer my date has kids, so he understand the pressures
    Is Divorced? Well he can't be married.

    I can't overlook dating a gay man. That question was posed to me. He's seeing someone on the side, and was I ok with it. BIG FAT NO.

    I have a whole lot of wants when dating. I'm sure my pickiness is in good part why I'm single. I can't date a skinny guy either.
  • PatheticNoetic
    PatheticNoetic Posts: 905 Member
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    a tall man
  • obrientp
    obrientp Posts: 546 Member
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    Bad Hygiene
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
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    Bigotry.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    Stupidity. Just cant deal with it.
    *****iness. Sorry, it is ok as a friend (within reason), but I dont need/want a toxic relationship.
    Excessive conflict. Again, dont need/want that toxicity.
    Wont do BD
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
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    Stage 5 clinger...beat it.
  • EddieHaskell97
    EddieHaskell97 Posts: 2,227 Member
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    Someone who looks me in the eye and lies.