What is the one thing you can not over look when dating?

ILiftHeavyAcrylics

When I was younger I always said I could never be with someone in the military/police/fire department, etc.

That went well. :indifferent:



Now if I were going to list absolute deal breakers it'd be things like no sense of humor or no compassion.

wheird

And I hear my origami skills are a panty dropper. Now to master close up magic...

suziepoo1984

Bad attitude
Bad breath
bad teeth
Bad hygiene
No sense of humor

PikaKnight

Someone who isn't honest or is abusive.

As for the teeth thing, not everyone can afford dental. Sometimes genetics comes into play which sucks even more. But if they are taking care of themselves and just have that sort of bad luck, I wouldn't say that's deal breaker.

mudknuckles

The other dude?

ashleyblossom1

bad teeth. I mean, come on.

Yeah same here, I couldn't date someone who's parents couldn't afford braces as a child, I mean they are obviously out of my social class!

I cannot look over idiotic rude people. They aren't out of your social class you just don't have class at all. There is nothing wrong with having a preference but you don't have treat people like their beneath you. You're beneath them even with their bad teeth.

wheird

Someone who isn't honest or is abusive.

As for the teeth thing, not everyone can afford dental. Sometimes genetics comes into play which sucks even more. But if they are taking care of themselves and just have that sort of bad luck, I wouldn't say that's deal breaker.

Buying a whole new smile is really expensive.

PikaKnight

Someone who isn't honest or is abusive.

As for the teeth thing, not everyone can afford dental. Sometimes genetics comes into play which sucks even more. But if they are taking care of themselves and just have that sort of bad luck, I wouldn't say that's deal breaker.

Buying a whole new smile is really expensive.

It really is

Keliandra

Verbally or physically abusive - No
Smokes pot or takes other illegal drugs - No
Chronic alcoholic - No
Narcissist - No
Poor hygiene - No
If they don't work, they need to contribute in some way - housework, pension, retirement, etc.
Cheats - No
Vegan - No
Ultra conservative of any religion - Hell no!
Bigoted - No

[edited] No self esteem, no self respect - No

I'm kinda picky.

wheird

Someone who isn't honest or is abusive.

As for the teeth thing, not everyone can afford dental. Sometimes genetics comes into play which sucks even more. But if they are taking care of themselves and just have that sort of bad luck, I wouldn't say that's deal breaker.

Buying a whole new smile is really expensive.

It really is

Braces arent too bad, but I say go big or go home. Go for dental implants. That is my GW reward.

Broderick50

Works in any type of service industry. I don't want a mean person but if's part of your job to flirt I can't deal with it. Sorry I'm jealous.

hikezilla

Women that don't buy me presents are certainly a turn off. I prefer a lady that is fully and gainfully employed so I don't have to be. If she's afraid of adding some cheese to the frozen pizzas before cooking them for me, well that's a deal breaker right there. She has to be comfortable in my moms basement because that is where I prefer to hang out.

I would rather hang out with a farter than a smoker...any day.

Mia_RagazzaTosta

Works in any type of service industry. I don't want a mean person but if's part of your job to flirt I can't deal with it. Sorry I'm jealous.

COngrats on being single for the rest of your life.

The_Enginerd

Must be post op.

LishieFruit89

If he hits me, I'm done.
Cheats on me, I'm done.
Drinks excessively, good bye
Cheats on someone else with me, I'm done.
Lies, done.
Drugs, done.
Judges me when I use 2.5# plates on the oly bar, done.
Doesn't have similar life goals, done.
overly handsy, I'm done.


Yup, all real life examples here.

The_Enginerd

Works in any type of service industry. I don't want a mean person but if's part of your job to flirt I can't deal with it. Sorry I'm jealous.

LOL, what?!

LishieFruit89

bad teeth. I mean, come on.

Yeah same here, I couldn't date someone who's parents couldn't afford braces as a child, I mean they are obviously out of my social class!

I cannot look over idiotic rude people. They aren't out of your social class you just don't have class at all. There is nothing wrong with having a preference but you don't have treat people like their beneath you. You're beneath them even with their bad teeth.

it was a joke

OliveRiver

- No job
- Lower than average intelligence.
- Compulsive liar.
- Lives with parents or a roommate.
- Doesn't own a vehicle.
- Doesn't know how to maintain his vehicle.
- Dislikes animals.
- Refuses to work with his hands or outdoors (blue collar).
- Against drinking/smoking and feels the need to remind me.
- Is a die hard progressive/democrat.

Yeah, I'm picky when it comes to a life partner.

seltzermint555

Cannot handle money.
Calls me someone else's name on a date.
Kids that show me no respect as an adult.
Says they cannot work, but spends all day on the internet.
Drinks and mixes prescription meds with the booze.

You've had some awesome experiences, it seems...

Totally agree. Although minus #2 on that list he just described most of the women over 50 I know irl.

PikaKnight

bad teeth. I mean, come on.

Yeah same here, I couldn't date someone who's parents couldn't afford braces as a child, I mean they are obviously out of my social class!

I cannot look over idiotic rude people. They aren't out of your social class you just don't have class at all. There is nothing wrong with having a preference but you don't have treat people like their beneath you. You're beneath them even with their bad teeth.

it was a joke

Yeah. He was being sarcastic in regards to the "Come on" part.