Is Bigger REALLY Better??
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I didn't read any of the answers, but mine is simple, dump the guy and tell him if he loves her he wouldn't force a boob job. Or of course she could tell him - sure but you know what I like bigger ****s so can you get yours surgically enhanced, yours is too small.
She also might want to point out that if he gets her pregnant she will have bigger boobs and they may stay bigger.
He is saying "I love you,. now change" which doesn't work. What happens in 10 years if she gets old heavy or wrinkles is he so shallow he will look for another version? Personally I think if she does marry him he will ask for more surgery, other changes as she ages and make her feel bad about her body. She is setting herself up for a miserable life or inevitable divorces.
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Look, eveyone has certain tastes and preferences for the oppsite sex.
I do feel its wrong for him to DEMAND she get a boob job in order for him to stick around/marry. Its okay to have some personal standards/tastes! But, when you demand the other person to conform to your standards and they DONT want to do it; then the relationship is doomed.
If your friend wanted a boob job or thought about the idea of a boob job and he said he wanted her to get bigger boobs; then okay. Everyone is happy.
But if she's happy with herself now and doesnt want them and he still demands (even though he "loves" her) then she needs to run away. And fast.
I completely and absolutely agree0 -
1) Absolutely not, oh my god RUN.
Her body, her choice. She has no reason to believe this'll be the last thing he asks of her, especially if he gets it. This guy is doing her a favor by showing her what a scary, controlling jerk he is. She needs to do herself the favor of seriously re-evaluating, and hopefully hopping a plane to be far, far away from him.
2) Depends on preference, but for me, no.
I have a C cup bordering on D and I wish every day that I'd been given cute little b cups. They wouldn't bounce around and hurt when I teach Zumba or take boot camp, they wouldn't make it so my button-down shirts pull across the chest....smaller boobs would be heaven.0 -
What a Jerk! No one should have to change their physical appearance in order to keep the other person. He should love her for who she is as a person not for how big or small a certain part of her body is! What happens if she does change her boob size and then he meets someone that has bigger boobs than her? I guess since that is all he cares about he will leave her for the other. She needs to find someone that actually care about her likes, wants, needs, etc..0
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She needs to drop this guy like a bad habit... You don't make a marriage proposal with stipulations. What a bunch of crap!
What is she going to do when the first wrinkle appears on her face? The first grey hair? The first time she has an extra 5 pounds that she can't seem to lose?
She needs to dump this "Boy" and find some "Men" to date.
I am fortunate to be married to a Beautiful, Smart and Powerful Woman. I would love her and be there for her regardless... I would push her wheelchair and spoon feed her if needed. That is Love. Don't know what this crap is that the "Boy" is trying to pawn... :mad:0 -
Dump his *kitten*! Cosmetic surger is great , but only if it's something she wants, you should never do it to prevent someone from leaving you. A relationship based only on boobs is clearly not the right kind of relationship to have.0
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More than half the guys I know who's wives got boob jobs are divorced. Their wives felt sexier and liked the attention, and moved out onto the playing field again.
So go ahead and get the boob job, but only if it's what you want.0 -
I'd dump him on the spot.0
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I can't believe all the people in this thread saying she should dump him. What if he's her last chance? What if she dumps him and can't find a new man? What if she ends up an old maid?
She's got one. He's willing to MARRY her. She should do whatever he asks. WHATEVER HE ASKS!!!0 -
1). Men are a dime a dozen. NEXT!
2). Bigger is only better if we are talking about penis.
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I wonder how the nobhead would feel if she died during her operation...what a moron.0
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I can't believe all the people in this thread saying she should dump him. What if he's her last chance? What if she dumps him and can't find a new man? What if she ends up an old maid?
She's got one. He's willing to MARRY her. She should do whatever he asks. WHATEVER HE ASKS!!!
I think I love you.0 -
I can't believe all the people in this thread saying she should dump him. What if he's her last chance? What if she dumps him and can't find a new man? What if she ends up an old maid?
She's got one. He's willing to MARRY her. She should do whatever he asks. WHATEVER HE ASKS!!!
I think I love you.
How YOU doin'?
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I wonder how the nobhead would feel if she died during her operation...what a moron.
Well, that escalated quickly!0 -
1). Men are a dime a dozen. NEXT!
2). Bigger is only better if we are talking about penis.
this right here!!! 100%0 -
1) No
2) No0 -
I would get rid of him in a flash0
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Tell her to get really fat instead. Then she will have bigger boobs and get to eat lots of doughnuts.0
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I wonder how the nobhead would feel if she died during her operation...what a moron.
Well, that escalated quickly!
Not really...0 -
Nothing says love like a marriage proposal that comes with conditions.
I'm just mystified as to how you reach the point of nearly becoming engaged to someone who is such a *kitten* that he would require you to get fake body parts because the ones you were born with aren't good enough. There must have been signs way before this that he was a schmuck. People don't just develop that level of uselessness overnight.0 -
Get new friends0
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Tell her to get really fat instead. Then she will have bigger boobs and get to eat lots of doughnuts.
This is good. I like this.0 -
If you were blond I would love you more. If you weren't over weight I would marry you. If you were in better shape I would stay with you. If you had longer hair I wouldn't have cheated. If you wore more makeup I would look at other women. If you can't see what wrong with this pattern you will end up with the wrong guy! Your better off alone than with someone that needs you to change your looks to love you!0
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I can't believe all the people in this thread saying she should dump him. What if he's her last chance? What if she dumps him and can't find a new man? What if she ends up an old maid?
She's got one. He's willing to MARRY her. She should do whatever he asks. WHATEVER HE ASKS!!!
Not sure if this is serious or not, but I would rather be an old maid (at 47 and single, I kinda am) than be with an *kitten*. Just sayin'.0 -
*sigh*I can't believe all the people in this thread saying she should dump him. What if he's her last chance? What if she dumps him and can't find a new man? What if she ends up an old maid?
She's got one. He's willing to MARRY her. She should do whatever he asks. WHATEVER HE ASKS!!!
Not sure if this is serious or not, but I would rather be an old maid (at 47 and single, I kinda am) than be with an *kitten*. Just sayin'.
You are not complete without a man. How very sad. Can I maybe try to help you find one so you can have a full life? What do you do with your time if you're not taking care of a man? Cooking meals, washing clothes, warming his slippers ...0 -
Tell her to get really fat instead. Then she will have bigger boobs and get to eat lots of doughnuts.
That's how my boobs got so big. Mmm doughnuts, lol0 -
*sigh*I can't believe all the people in this thread saying she should dump him. What if he's her last chance? What if she dumps him and can't find a new man? What if she ends up an old maid?
She's got one. He's willing to MARRY her. She should do whatever he asks. WHATEVER HE ASKS!!!
Not sure if this is serious or not, but I would rather be an old maid (at 47 and single, I kinda am) than be with an *kitten*. Just sayin'.
You are not complete without a man. How very sad. Can I maybe try to help you find one so you can have a full life? What do you do with your time if you're not taking care of a man? Cooking meals, washing clothes, warming his slippers ...
Now I'm sure you're effin with me, because no woman that believes this crap would be allowed to use technology, cause she would be living on a compound with her other sister wives and 37 children.0 -
If you were blond I would love you more. If you weren't over weight I would marry you. If you were in better shape I would stay with you. If you had longer hair I wouldn't have cheated. If you wore more makeup I would look at other women. If you can't see what wrong with this pattern you will end up with the wrong guy! Your better off alone than with someone that needs you to change your looks to love you!
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The Prophet is trynig to be more modern these days.
*sigh*I can't believe all the people in this thread saying she should dump him. What if he's her last chance? What if she dumps him and can't find a new man? What if she ends up an old maid?
She's got one. He's willing to MARRY her. She should do whatever he asks. WHATEVER HE ASKS!!!
Not sure if this is serious or not, but I would rather be an old maid (at 47 and single, I kinda am) than be with an *kitten*. Just sayin'.
You are not complete without a man. How very sad. Can I maybe try to help you find one so you can have a full life? What do you do with your time if you're not taking care of a man? Cooking meals, washing clothes, warming his slippers ...
Now I'm sure you're effin with me, because no woman that believes this crap would be allowed to use technology, cause she would be living on a compound with her other sister wives and 37 children.0 -
rml gets the Interwebz award of the day :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :flowerforyou:0
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