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fitfurlife2012
fitfurlife2012 Posts: 26
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Hi, I wanted others opinions...So my boyfriend of almost 4 years only showers once a week, and doesn't even wear deodorant. I've even had family mention his bad odor. It's so embarrassing! I tried telling him in a light hearted way, that didn't work. So I told him in a blunt way, and he agreed to shower more, but he still hasn't. I've lost track of how many days it's been. I think his last shower was last Wednesday, but can't be certain. It's making me not want to be intimate with him either, we probably are intimate the amount of times he showers during the week. The whole take a shower with him to get him clean idea, I hate taking showers with him because he always wants to be intimate and I just can't do it, and I feel as if I am rewarding him every time he takes a shower - and he should just take one any way! Not asking for him to shower every day, but at least every other day! Opinions?
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  • kbeautyy
    kbeautyy Posts: 9
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    That's gross & very unsanitary. Imagine he gives you a urinary tract infection. Oh no! Always use protection is my advice & also give him the ultimatum, no shower no us ????
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
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    I think I smell a troll...
    See what I did there?
  • FoxBean
    FoxBean Posts: 910 Member
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    Tackle him in a pool with soap?
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
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    I think I smell a troll...
    See what I did there?

    *snort*

    ^and there?
  • cjones6107
    cjones6107 Posts: 17
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    OMG REALLY! :frown:
  • gmoneycole
    gmoneycole Posts: 813 Member
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    I think I smell a troll...
    See what I did there?

    Uh huh.
  • julie3227
    julie3227 Posts: 162
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    -Throw mud on him
    -Put grass in his shirts and pants to make him itch.
    You get the idea
  • SugarBaby71
    SugarBaby71 Posts: 3,630 Member
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    Just break up -half joking... half not. :noway:
  • ksuh999
    ksuh999 Posts: 543 Member
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    Go out with me. I sometimes shower twice a day.
  • SofaKingRad_II
    SofaKingRad_II Posts: 591
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    Nice! How often do you shower?
  • sentaruu
    sentaruu Posts: 2,206 Member
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    stop showering completely. it's the only way.
  • Blacklance36
    Blacklance36 Posts: 755 Member
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    April Fools??

    Once a week shower and he is smelly as heck yet she stayed with him for 4 years?

    Gag me.
  • verhunzt
    verhunzt Posts: 154 Member
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    Go out with me. I sometimes shower twice a day.

    Well hello there lovely. :blushing:
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
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    stop showering completely. it's the only way.
    you're weird and gross.:noway:
  • sentaruu
    sentaruu Posts: 2,206 Member
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    stop showering completely. it's the only way.
    you're weird and gross.:noway:

    :wink:
  • cakebatter07
    cakebatter07 Posts: 814 Member
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    April Fools??

    Once a week shower and he is smelly as heck yet she stayed with him for 4 years?

    Gag me.

    I hope so. :sick:
  • monstergirl14
    monstergirl14 Posts: 345 Member
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    I hope this is a joke lol I wouldn't be able to handle it! I had a boyfriend that wouldn't brush his teeth. His teeth were stained with yellow, he would use his sweater sleeves to wipe it off. I told him it was disgusting and he didn't care. I shudder thinking about it.
  • fitfurlife2012
    fitfurlife2012 Posts: 26
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    April Fools??

    Once a week shower and he is smelly as heck yet she stayed with him for 4 years?

    Gag me.

    I hope so. :sick:

    Well, I didn't catch on until we moved in together, and I started to notice after we had our daughter. I had a job before hand and wasn't around to watch every move. So it's not all black and white.
  • ichigomaybridge
    ichigomaybridge Posts: 22 Member
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    If this is serious... Buy him some deodorant. Give it to him and tell him you'd like him to use it. That should be sufficiently unsubtle and should solve some of the problem. As for showering, I don't have any ideas.

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