Have you ever been celibate?

Chieflrg
Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
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How long and why?
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  • thankyou4thevenom
    thankyou4thevenom Posts: 1,581 Member
    Most of my life because I'm asexual.
  • Alehmer
    Alehmer Posts: 433 Member
    I'm assuming you mean by choice, otherwise I can't say much positive about it up until that changed at 21.
  • tlcarolinagirl
    tlcarolinagirl Posts: 1,700 Member
    Yes...a few months....not by choice.
  • Lilly_the_Hillbilly
    Lilly_the_Hillbilly Posts: 914 Member
    8 years - just did.
  • Modern_Warrior
    Modern_Warrior Posts: 163
    A few months here, but not by choice. I hate not having sex with a woman.
  • tchell99
    tchell99 Posts: 434 Member
    For years at a time, but not by choice. That said, I could probably hit up a rando and break the spell at any point. Just not my style [anymore]. :laugh:
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    not by choice.. I did have a 6 month drought ugh
  • mmm_drop
    mmm_drop Posts: 1,126 Member
    Yup, for just over a year and a half because I felt like I was confusing sex with love.
  • RllyGudTweetr
    RllyGudTweetr Posts: 2,019 Member
    There's another option? :tongue:
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,029 Member
    Lol, after having my kid, it was about a year till sex was on again. But at least there was Pornhub.

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  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    I can go 3 or 4 days at a time but it takes focus
  • DainaLC
    DainaLC Posts: 18,937 Member
    It takes a very special person to be celibate on purpose. I'm not one of those people, mine is not by choice!
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    Yup, til I was 15
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    Grumble.
  • Ilikelamps
    Ilikelamps Posts: 482 Member
    Yup, til I was 15

    I was 9
  • seltzermint555
    seltzermint555 Posts: 10,740 Member
    eh sorta. I did not get busy during 2000. I did in '99 and '01 and all of the other times since turning 18. But not that year. I was finishing college, working a lot, etc. It wasn't an intentional choice "I shall be celibate" but more of a "I have a long distance quasi boyfriend who is 1,500 miles away and it's not that serious" kind of thing.
  • lionrodriguesg
    lionrodriguesg Posts: 2
    yes i currently am now
  • _lyndseybrooke_
    _lyndseybrooke_ Posts: 2,561 Member
    Yep, the first 17 years of my life. Since then, 3-4 months is the longest I've gone. I could go much longer. I don't have a very high libido at all. My husband sure does, though. :)
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Yup, til I was 15

    Till I was 16/
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    Yup, til I was 15

    I was 9

    Wow mia.... what a puma
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    Yup, til I was 15

    Till I was 16/

    I was 17!!!
  • lionrodriguesg
    lionrodriguesg Posts: 2
    5 years come May 15 reason is because i dont feel like i should be wasting my time having sex with pointless people
  • DainaLC
    DainaLC Posts: 18,937 Member
    5 years come May 15 reason is because i dont feel like i should be wasting my time having sex with pointless people
    Here we go....
  • rich347
    rich347 Posts: 508 Member
    I've been since Aug 2012, I've gotten so much done in my life since then. Plus the gym is a good subsitiute for sex. The reason Trauma
  • TattooedNici
    TattooedNici Posts: 2,141 Member
    19 months. Out of a two year relationship and not ready to meet someone else.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    Yup, til I was 15

    I was 9

    Wow mia.... what a puma

    Rawr!
  • michellemybelll
    michellemybelll Posts: 2,228 Member
    close to 2 years i think. right after my undergrad years. i was really unsure of myself and life and where to go next. i was kind of lost and unhappy.

    it's awesome how life does a 180 sometimes :happy:
  • QueenBishOTUniverse
    QueenBishOTUniverse Posts: 14,121 Member
    Yup, til I was 15

    Till I was 16/

    I was 17!!!

    WTH 18
  • die2fat4love
    die2fat4love Posts: 149 Member
    18 months...partly by choice, partly not...
  • Candi_land
    Candi_land Posts: 1,311 Member
    Yes, for almost two years after my ex fiance and I broke up. I was very heartbroken and lost my sex drive completely. The thought of another man touching me was repulsive at the time. Eventually the anger set in, and I couldn't stand the thought that he was the last person I slept with so I took care of that asap.

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