Have you ever been celibate?

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  • sanzza
    sanzza Posts: 60
    I can go 3 or 4 days at a time but it takes focus

    wow! that long? :tongue:


    no i have never been single never mind celibate.. i would die :blushing:
  • mjbowman821
    mjbowman821 Posts: 66 Member
    Yes, my wife was too sick to have sex for the last 2 years of her life. I do miss it but I am waiting to find someone that I want to marry first. That being said I am not in a place (mentally) where dating is a option right now.
  • secreteyes
    secreteyes Posts: 2
    I went 5 years once. I had been recently divorced, not by my choice. I was dating a lot of women but it wasn't working out with any of them. A friend pointed out to me that I kept having the same relationship over and over with different women. I realized I wasn't ready to date so I decided to take a break. Originally I was just going to take a break for a year but then I just got busy with work and life and that turned into 5 years.
  • _NAUTILUS_
    _NAUTILUS_ Posts: 239 Member
    I stayed celibate until I realized auto correct messed up the word celebrate.
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    Never! I have to go at it at least 3 times a day.

    I feel sorry for your tube socks.

    You know that poster is female, right? I need to get that visual out of my head. *heads back to Derp's page*

    Yep, I clicked on the username after I wrote the comment and I decided that I'm too lazy to change it. I'll just let you guys enjoy your mental images! :bigsmile:

    So mean! :angry:














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  • KCoolBeanz
    KCoolBeanz Posts: 813 Member
    About a year with my ex, but not deliberate.
  • TylerNorris57
    TylerNorris57 Posts: 54 Member
    I stayed celibate until I realized auto correct messed up the word celebrate.

    That is awesome!
  • Libertysfate
    Libertysfate Posts: 452 Member
    Going on 5 years.
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    The last 7 years,I am married but my husband is ill.Not a choice by any means. :(

    I'm sorry to hear about your husband :frown:
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    Never! I have to go at it at least 3 times a day.

    I feel sorry for your tube socks.

    You know that poster is female, right? I need to get that visual out of my head. *heads back to Derp's page*

    Yep, I clicked on the username after I wrote the comment and I decided that I'm too lazy to change it. I'll just let you guys enjoy your mental images! :bigsmile:

    So mean! :angry:














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  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    Yes, my wife was too sick to have sex for the last 2 years of her life. I do miss it but I am waiting to find someone that I want to marry first. That being said I am not in a place (mentally) where dating is a option right now.

    Very sorry about your wife. As someone who has suffered the loss of a spouse and is now remarried I want to encourage you to be kind to yourself and wait. You will heal, I promise.
  • coconuttjd
    coconuttjd Posts: 37
    Yes. By choice.

    Longest time, by choice, was about 7 years.

    Current streak - 4 months or 14 months, depending on what you decide to count. *shrug*

    I know who I want to be with, so I see no point in messing around with other women. And casual is just empty calorie burns. ;-)
  • burning2much
    burning2much Posts: 4,846 Member
    The longest was for 8 months....
  • 19TaraLynn84
    19TaraLynn84 Posts: 739 Member
    Yep. For the first 19 years of my life. Then while my hubby was deployed, longest we went without seeing each other was 8 months. So 8 months.
  • california_haley
    california_haley Posts: 220 Member
    Hm about 20 hours? Not by choice...my husband went to bed early and got up for work early, and isnt home yet...
  • 19TaraLynn84
    19TaraLynn84 Posts: 739 Member
    Isn't that what marriage is?

    That seems to be the running joke. But I don't get it. 4 kids and almost 10 years with my husband and we still can't keep our hands off of each other,
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I need to end my celibacy.
  • smc864
    smc864 Posts: 570 Member
    Yes, since November 2011. By choice... I'm focusing on myself and haven't met someone that am interested in enough to sleep with. Before that the longest I ever went was probably 3 months and not by choice.
  • Booksandbeaches
    Booksandbeaches Posts: 1,791 Member
    This thread and the "would bang" thread need to be merged.
  • Fiery_Vixen
    Fiery_Vixen Posts: 795 Member
    About 6 months...and not by choice. Dr's orders during my last pregnancy :frown:
  • BillyJan1992
    BillyJan1992 Posts: 171 Member
    I HATE not having sex PERIOD. wish I could when I need it
  • Deipneus
    Deipneus Posts: 1,854 Member
    Cynthia Tudeski: Promise me something.
    Nicholas 'Oz' Oseransky: Anything.
    Cynthia Tudeski: You'll go slow. I haven't made love in five years. (She was in prison).
    Nicholas 'Oz' Oseransky: Neither have I.
    Cynthia Tudeski: (Looks at him quizzically).
    Nicholas 'Oz' Oseransky: I've been married.
    Source movie: The Whole Nine Yards
  • Forty6and2
    Forty6and2 Posts: 2,492 Member
    I HATE not having sex PERIOD. wish I could when I need it

    You've made that quite obvious on the message boards already.
  • martinytime
    martinytime Posts: 41 Member
    Yes...after my divorce, raising my girls...felt I needed to be there for them and not be selfish...went many times a year plus....been almost 2 years now. Am almost ready to meet someone, want to be comfortable in my skin first.
  • srr728
    srr728 Posts: 549 Member
    longest weekend EVER
  • U_R_my_Sunshine
    U_R_my_Sunshine Posts: 83 Member
    Heck NO
  • scuttlez
    scuttlez Posts: 51
    ....april fools?
  • Ely82010
    Ely82010 Posts: 1,998 Member
    Yes, my wife was too sick to have sex for the last 2 years of her life. I do miss it but I am waiting to find someone that I want to marry first. That being said I am not in a place (mentally) where dating is a option right now.


    I am very sorry for your loss.
  • primal_cupcakes
    primal_cupcakes Posts: 280 Member
    I honestly haven't gone more than a couple weeks without sex since I became sexually active some 18 years ago. I likes what a I likes.Cheers to everyone!
  • MrsPaulSmith
    MrsPaulSmith Posts: 401 Member
    For the first 18 years of my life. :'( It was tragic.

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