bfs who hit on your younger sister

baba_helly
baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
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My bf recently turned 30 and I think it is getting to his head. I tease him for being old and he says that I should be careful because he will start looking to trade me in for a newer model. Well... sadly I don't think he's joking. My little sister just had her 18th birthday and he started joking about how she's legal now. I wrote that off but then things started getting even more suspicious. Now they text all the time and have even started talking to each other on snapchat. I am just a little worried about what they could possibly be talking about and sending to each other on snapchat. My sister is much cooler than I am and a lot funnier so I have reason to be concerned. :frown:

What should I do? Should I confront them about it?
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  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I think the proof is right there in front of you. It is obvious that he doesn't respect your feelings making crude jokes like that, and talking to your sister so much is crossing the line.

    I'd suggest confronting them and then just breaking up.
  • Crimson_Fire
    Crimson_Fire Posts: 2,504 Member
    Don't break up. Just get a new sister. :tongue:
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
    OP, my little sister is also so much cooler than me so I know EXACTLY what you are going through.

    I think the bald guy said it best... "just break up."
  • the_great_beyond_
    the_great_beyond_ Posts: 157 Member
    Apply to Jerry Springer. I want to see the ensuing cat fight.
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
    Apply to Jerry Springer. I want to see the ensuing cat fight.

    can jerry recover their snapchats?
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    I think it is worse when they hit on your mom though
  • Ilikelamps
    Ilikelamps Posts: 482 Member
    Pass the little sister to me and I'll keep her company..you and your bf can live happily ever after now.
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
    Pass the little sister to me and I'll keep her company..you and your bf can live happily ever after now.

    do you have snapchat?
  • Ilikelamps
    Ilikelamps Posts: 482 Member
    Pass the little sister to me and I'll keep her company..you and your bf can live happily ever after now.

    do you have snapchat?

    Ya
  • RaggedyPond
    RaggedyPond Posts: 1,487 Member
    I have cousins that both dated the same guy. And they are sisters. Both of them are pretty white trashy so I guess I shouldn't be surprised.


    Agreed that snapchatting and texting behind your back is inappropriate.
  • SaintGiff
    SaintGiff Posts: 3,679 Member
    Just curious... is threesome completely off the table?
  • drapisking
    drapisking Posts: 73 Member
    Don't break up. Just get a new sister. :tongue:

    I'm pretty sure no advice can possibly top this.
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:
  • RaggedyPond
    RaggedyPond Posts: 1,487 Member
    Don't be sad. That just means he is a crappy bf and you need a better one. It's better than finding out later when you are married that he likes to snapchat with 18 yr olds.
  • slimster1970
    slimster1970 Posts: 65 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    Shouldn't you have a more direct approach than discussing it on here?

    Unless they are both here too in which case lets hear their views and we can have a vote?
  • marvybells
    marvybells Posts: 1,984 Member
    OP, He's a creep. dump him. ASAP. Do it.
  • tiptoethruthetulips
    tiptoethruthetulips Posts: 3,371 Member
    OP, may I ask how old you are?
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    Don't be sad. That just means he is a crappy bf and you need a better one. It's better than finding out later when you are married that he likes to snapchat with 18 yr olds.

    Agreed completely.
  • baba_helly
    baba_helly Posts: 810 Member
    OP, may I ask how old you are?

    I am 22
  • segovm
    segovm Posts: 512 Member
    It's natural for a guy to want a girls sister... it's sort of a compliment... like "I don't just think you are pretty... I think your WHOLE family is pretty."

    I mean, the guy would be some sort of chump if he said that your sister was fugly right? This is just the opposite of that. The total opposite...
  • Oi_Sunshine
    Oi_Sunshine Posts: 819 Member
    You called him old and he reacted.

    And it sounds like you're both passive aggressive, arguing through "joking". Do both of you a favour and just leave.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
    I think it is worse when they hit on your mom though

    true, everyone thinks my mom is hot its weird
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Pass the little sister to me and I'll keep her company..you and your bf can live happily ever after now.

    Hi uncle Pervy! :drinker:
  • Escloflowne
    Escloflowne Posts: 2,038 Member
    You're 22 now, you're past your prime, I don't blame him for trading up to the newer model!!! I certainly would!!!!
  • GreenIceFloes
    GreenIceFloes Posts: 1,491 Member
    He wants to trade in a 22 year old for a newer model.
    Do I smell borderline pedo material?

    pedo_beard_by_southfede-d2znltg.jpg

    Seriously, though. Dump the guy, and tell your sister to stay away from him.
  • patrickblo13
    patrickblo13 Posts: 831 Member
    This is a weight loss/building forum. Not a dating, hooking up or sex related forum!

    You are clearly new to the forums....
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    The only crime here is your lack of self respect.

    Your sister isn't "stealing" your boyfriend. Your boyfriend is an utter knob by the sounds of it.
  • BigDougie1211
    BigDougie1211 Posts: 3,531 Member
    Or - and I'm just being controversial here - is there any chance he and your sister are gettting on like mates and having a laugh?
    I mean - it's your sister. Realistically he should be friendly with her.
  • kuderstadt
    kuderstadt Posts: 134 Member
    I'd talk to your sister and ask her what's up with it all, and then go from there… if he's hitting on her, and she's responding, wish them both the best and move on, he can cheat on her just like he cheated on you. Find someone who doesn't look at your sister because he only has eyes for you.
    If it's innocent and they're just planning your surprise birthday party next week, cool!!! Glad your BF and sister can get along… ;-)

    And just an aside, I don't see anything wrong with this thread…
  • Collier78
    Collier78 Posts: 811 Member
    This is a weight loss/building forum. Not a dating, hooking up or sex related forum!

    OH wow...look the fun police are here..

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