bfs who hit on your younger sister

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  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    My hubby and i are both 22 y/o. And we joke all the time about how we're getting old. Apparently we're not. But those jokes kinda do bother! Still doesn't give him the right to talk to your younger sister.

    I agree. I always look down respectfully when at a girlfriend's family functions amd try not to be seen lest I accidentally talk to someone!

    TRUTH!
    He does look down when talking to me....go figure.
  • QueenBishOTUniverse
    QueenBishOTUniverse Posts: 14,121 Member
    Just curious... is threesome completely off the table?

    FTW

    And if you're the one to suggest it, you'll definitely beat your sister for coolest sibling status. :glasses:

    But....it would be a threesome involving her and her own sister!

    I'm pretty sure that's illegal. Maybe not in Utah but being British I clearly know nothing of such things...

    Psh British! I've seen game of thrones! :tongue:

    And it being illegal is even better, because breaking the law always makes you cool, and the important thing is that OP has to beat her sister.
  • laynerich15
    laynerich15 Posts: 1,918 Member
    30 is a super tough age.. maybe try being supportive, instead for looking for a cheap laugh at your BF's expense
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    Ew. period.

    Some dudes are into that.
  • tomomatic
    tomomatic Posts: 1,794 Member
    At 30, he may be older but he's not wise enough to know when he's being a tool.
    Dump him and find someone who respects you. And while you're at it, stop thinking that your little sister is cooler or prettier than you. She's your sister and it shouldn't be a contest. She's only cool because she had the guidance of a cool big sister.
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    Just curious... is threesome completely off the table?

    FTW

    And if you're the one to suggest it, you'll definitely beat your sister for coolest sibling status. :glasses:

    But....it would be a threesome involving her and her own sister!

    I'm pretty sure that's illegal. Maybe not in Utah but being British I clearly know nothing of such things...

    Psh British! I've seen game of thrones! :tongue:

    And it being illegal is even better, because breaking the law always makes you cool, and the important thing is that OP has to beat her sister.

    Lulz

    Well, I've heard of fun for all the family but this is just taking it too far! And I think beating her sister is a bit of a strange and unusual punishment for snapchatting...
  • capnrus789
    capnrus789 Posts: 2,736 Member
    OP, your bf is obviously trying to setup a threesome, how can you not see it?! He'll probably take crappy cell phone video of the act, too, send it to all his buddies to show off.

    I like your bf, he's sounds awesome. I'd like to buy him a beer.
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    My bf recently turned 30 and I think it is getting to his head. I tease him for being old and he says that I should be careful because he will start looking to trade me in for a newer model. Well... sadly I don't think he's joking. My little sister just had her 18th birthday and he started joking about how she's legal now. I wrote that off but then things started getting even more suspicious. Now they text all the time and have even started talking to each other on snapchat. I am just a little worried about what they could possibly be talking about and sending to each other on snapchat. My sister is much cooler than I am and a lot funnier so I have reason to be concerned. :frown:

    What should I do? Should I confront them about it?

    umm...? I personally love a lady that confronts me when she things something is amiss. - it keeps things always good between us and we can attack the problems not eachother.

    if he is actually chasing an 18 year old though at age 30...

    da faq? I'm 24 and think 18yr olds are way too young lolz?!
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    well, when she's 30, she'll trade him in for an 18 year old, too. So, chin up.

    lmao +1
  • MrTolerable
    MrTolerable Posts: 1,593 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    better now then when you have a kid shared together.

    ..sounds like a looser of a dude anyway.... age 30 and has a snapchat?

    DA FAQ?
  • I'd do you AND your younger sister.
  • CookNLift
    CookNLift Posts: 3,660 Member
    Being honest: You sound pretty insecure, you'd have to really have a lot of distrust to think your sister will be flirting with your boyfriend, and if it was justified, making this post is the least of your fixes. You need to talk with your boyfriend and sister and tell them it makes you feel uncomfortable.

    He could have just been joking when he said it, but you could be making falsified assumptions led by insecurity without actually knowing if anything is going on. Perhaps they could just be friendly? I love my girlfriend with all I have and I still snapchat with her sister because I feel like a part of the family and feel like she's my sister as well. Just food for thought.

    TL;DR: Talk to your boyfriend or sister if it's really bothering you and voice your opinion.
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
    My bf recently turned 30 and I think it is getting to his head. I tease him for being old and he says that I should be careful because he will start looking to trade me in for a newer model. Well... sadly I don't think he's joking. My little sister just had her 18th birthday and he started joking about how she's legal now. I wrote that off but then things started getting even more suspicious. Now they text all the time and have even started talking to each other on snapchat. I am just a little worried about what they could possibly be talking about and sending to each other on snapchat. My sister is much cooler than I am and a lot funnier so I have reason to be concerned. :frown:

    What should I do? Should I confront them about it?

    Can I smack your booty??

    Ok, serious note.....yeah perhaps it might be time to move on...
    Or I don't know, have you talked to your sister yet???
    In a non-defensive way?

    MINE!
  • MeganAnne89
    MeganAnne89 Posts: 271 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    ...and that your boyfriend appears to be unfaithful.
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member

    Can I smack your booty??

    Ok, serious note.....yeah perhaps it might be time to move on...
    Or I don't know, have you talked to your sister yet???
    In a non-defensive way?

    MINE!

    Ok....come over here and bend over. :love: :love:
  • laynerich15
    laynerich15 Posts: 1,918 Member
    I like that everyone is jumping in the "he is a scumbag bandwagon". after she admits that she has been mean to him with a issues that is obviously getting to him. oh surprise surprise he is looking for someone to make him feel young and wanted.
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,010 Member
    I think you should bring up the idea of a threesome. With you and your sister. Then you can see what his true feelings are. Is your sister hotter than you because that could definitely affect his decision making process.
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    OP, your bf is obviously trying to setup a threesome, how can you not see it?! He'll probably take crappy cell phone video of the act, too, send it to all his buddies to show off.

    I like your bf, he's sounds awesome. I'd like to buy him a beer.

    I will treat him to an open bar.

    Because yah for incest!

    Seriously, am I the only one who finds the idea of having a threesome involving two sisters at the same time just plain wrong?

    Seriously?
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    ...and that your boyfriend appears to be unfaithful.

    How is that?
  • Derpes
    Derpes Posts: 2,033 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    ...and that your boyfriend appears to be unfaithful.

    Reality is harsh!
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    OP, your bf is obviously trying to setup a threesome, how can you not see it?! He'll probably take crappy cell phone video of the act, too, send it to all his buddies to show off.

    I like your bf, he's sounds awesome. I'd like to buy him a beer.

    I will treat him to an open bar.

    Because yah for incest!

    Seriously, am I the only one who finds the idea of having a threesome involving two sisters at the same time just plain wrong?

    Seriously?

    Maybe they are step sisters, by marriage only, no common bloodline. Yeah, that's it. They're stepsisters. Now i can get behind this...
  • George_Baileys_Ghost
    George_Baileys_Ghost Posts: 1,524 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    ...and that your boyfriend appears to be unfaithful.

    Reality is harsh!

    FTW
  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
    OP, your bf is obviously trying to setup a threesome, how can you not see it?! He'll probably take crappy cell phone video of the act, too, send it to all his buddies to show off.

    I like your bf, he's sounds awesome. I'd like to buy him a beer.

    I will treat him to an open bar.

    Because yah for incest!

    Seriously, am I the only one who finds the idea of having a threesome involving two sisters at the same time just plain wrong?

    Seriously?

    Maybe they are step sisters, by marriage only, no common bloodline. Yeah, that's it. They're stepsisters. Now i can get behind this...

    You can get behind whoever you like mate but if a child gets born with webbed feet as a result of this unholy union don't say I didn't warn everyone!

    Repent.

    The end of the world is nigh.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
    the only crime here is that my sister is going to steal my bf. :cry:

    ...and that your boyfriend appears to be unfaithful.

    Reality is harsh!

    :laugh:
  • Will_Thrust_For_Candy
    Will_Thrust_For_Candy Posts: 6,109 Member
    I bet if you let him use the backdoor instead of the front door it would change things.
  • mblair1968
    mblair1968 Posts: 323 Member
    I don't think he is your boyfriend anymore.
  • BigDougie1211
    BigDougie1211 Posts: 3,531 Member
    F**k sake.
    The guy's being friendly with another girl.
    His GF's sister - they should be friendly
    There is absolutley no evidence that he's doing anything other than this - or possibly flirting at most.
    Christ, half the time flirting is what got me into the good books when I had to meet girlfirend's familes.
    And why is the thread called
    BF's who hit on your younger sister?
    Why isn't it called
    GF's who don't trust their family or partner?
  • Jennrich0725
    Jennrich0725 Posts: 17 Member
    The fact that he is 30 and is chatting and snap chatting an 18 year old is a bit wrong in my eyes. I would confront both of them. You deserve to have someone that will chat and snap chat with you instead of finding it somewhere else. I would have left the *kitten* already. Just saying.
  • Mischievous_Rascal
    Mischievous_Rascal Posts: 1,791 Member
    Just curious... is threesome completely off the table?

    Hahaha... You seriously made me laugh out loud, SG!
  • fooninie
    fooninie Posts: 291 Member
    Unless they are conspiring to throw you an amazing party what they are doing is wrong and disrespectful. Ditch the dude and smack your little sis. Seriously...people annoy me...:sad: