Is it norm to watch porn?

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chani8
chani8 Posts: 946 Member
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I'm having a discussion with some girl friends, one who recently found out her DH watched porn when she was out of town.

First of all, do you think it's normal, healthy s-xual behavior to watch porn?

What about for a married person (without the spouse's presence)?

If you found out your spouse was watching porn without you, what would you do?
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  • mockchoc
    mockchoc Posts: 6,573 Member
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    It is fine, You aren't touching another, Just a bit of fantasy.
  • shmerek
    shmerek Posts: 963 Member
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    Nothing wrong with pron
  • dinadeee
    dinadeee Posts: 217 Member
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    100%
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
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    I saw an article about a study.... the study never actually happened. The scientists were looking to compare men who watched porn with men who didn't watch porn. They set out to get volunteers for the study. They hit a problem. That problem was that they couldn't find any male volunteers for the "men who don't watch porn" group - because they couldn't find any men who didn't watch porn. So the study never happened and they had to conclude that all men watch porn.

    Is that proof that men who don't watch porn don't exist? No. But it does show that they are hard to find.

    From a marriage point of view, probably best for you to enjoy it together. But if he's watching it alone I don't see it as that big a deal to be honest. If a husband was unwilling to share it at all then that might be something to be concerned about.
  • lemonsnlove
    lemonsnlove Posts: 200
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    Yup, sure is.
  • cakebatter07
    cakebatter07 Posts: 814 Member
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    Yeah it's definitely normal to watch porn. I'm single, but I watch porn. Not too frequently, but I do.

    If I was married, as long as my spouse is honest and open about it, then it would be okay.
  • chloeealicee
    chloeealicee Posts: 204 Member
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    100% normal, in my opinion if you don't allow your partner to watch it you are an incredibly unreasonable person. It's perfectly normal for people of both sexes to watch it.
  • Loraluvs
    Loraluvs Posts: 50 Member
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    Watching some right now
  • shmerek
    shmerek Posts: 963 Member
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    If a dude/chick wants to whack off by him/herself to porn I don't think he/she needs to tell his/her partner. You don't need to share absolutely everything.
  • RhineDHP
    RhineDHP Posts: 1,025 Member
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    As long as it's not getting in the way of your normal intimate life, I'd say,


    WATCH ALL TEH PR0NS!


    haha.
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
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    If a dude/chick wants to whack off by him/herself to porn I don't think he/she needs to tell his/her partner. You don't need to share absolutely everything.

    yeah but if your partner wants to join in, they don't necessarily need to join in every time, but why would someone not want them to join in sometimes?
  • Eastern_Echo23
    Eastern_Echo23 Posts: 198 Member
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    how do these types of messages get on the forum? I would say that it isn't... but then again i don't watch it so i couldn't tell you very much about it
  • BootCampC
    BootCampC Posts: 689 Member
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    WHAT! someone doesn't watch porn you say?
  • lewoldt
    lewoldt Posts: 630 Member
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    If a dude/chick wants to whack off by him/herself to porn I don't think he/she needs to tell his/her partner. You don't need to share absolutely everything.

    yeah but if your partner wants to join in, they don't necessarily need to join in every time, but why would someone not want them to join in sometimes?

    truth
  • workout_ninja
    workout_ninja Posts: 524 Member
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    i know my hubby watches porn, he knows I watch porn. Its always when the other one is out of the house. I really dont see anything wrong with it tbh. Never understood the women who have major problems with it. Its harmless
  • kwb87
    kwb87 Posts: 70 Member
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    I don't think being married/in a relationship/single makes any difference. Watching porn/*kitten* is very healthy and helps people to understand what stimulates them. This in turn can help relationships.

    I don't see anything wrong in watching porn without your partner. I would be surprised and perhaps even confused if I found out my partner had not watched any porn alone since we had been together.

    Some couples might want to watch porn together or tell each other about what they've been watching, others might prefer to keep this to themselves, either way I think this is normally very healthy.
  • mruntidy
    mruntidy Posts: 1,015 Member
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    It's absolutely fine

    My HR department didn't seem to agree though
  • poedunk65
    poedunk65 Posts: 1,336 Member
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    Everythin in moderation. As long as it doesn't take the place of dealing in a relationship it is ok. Besides where do you thin us guys learn all of our moves, LMAO
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
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    Normal is subjective.
  • glenmchale
    glenmchale Posts: 1,307 Member
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    healthy is the word i'd use, also better not to hide it just be open and share it
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