Is it norm to watch porn?

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  • bunnypanther
    bunnypanther Posts: 110
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    Its fine!

    I know my OH watches porn. He knows I do. Sometimes we watch it together.

    He lives 50 miles away so only see each other at weekends so I'd be kinda shocked if he didn't "scratch the itch" by himself sometimes. I do.
  • AglaeaC
    AglaeaC Posts: 1,974 Member
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    Of course it's normal. I wouldn't want him to fantasize about the woman in the movie when he's having sex with me, but other than that whatever. I think it's normal not to suppress urges, so why shouldn't he or she think the same?

    In general when talking about personal preferences, I'd be very careful how I put my words. I would talk about me, myself, and I, rather than go in general terms as well as chuck a "normal" in there. If you've never watched porn, maybe see for yourself without arriving in the moment riding on a high horse. And maybe read a bit (there's looots of stuff on the internet) about various ways people find sexual harmony. Finally, if it's not for you, keep it at "Yeah, I get that others find something arousing, but that particular thing isn't my cup of tea; I have other cups of tea" and you'll offend nobody. If you didn't get it yet, I was referring to kink and other stuff that is perfectly normal for some people; expand your horizons, it's healthy.
  • BlueAngelChar
    BlueAngelChar Posts: 1,364 Member
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    I must be a perv cause I watch it regularly and enjoy it! :love: :laugh: :wink:
  • tennisdude2004
    tennisdude2004 Posts: 5,609 Member
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    I watch it, but normally only for the award winning acting and amazing plot lines.
  • neandermagnon
    neandermagnon Posts: 7,436 Member
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  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 17,959 Member
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    I watch it, hub watches it, sometimes we watch together, but rarely (not because we don't want to, just don't need it IYKWIM :wink: )

    I've never ever got relationships where one gets upset that the other watches porn...
  • ProfessorOwl
    ProfessorOwl Posts: 312 Member
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    As long as it's not getting in the way of your normal intimate life, I'd say,


    WATCH ALL TEH PR0NS!


    haha.

    I agree. As long as watching it doesn't interfere or take the place of sex with your SO, not a darn thing wrong with it.

    I hope it's nothing too terrible. It's the closest thing to sex I've had in years!
  • RllyGudTweetr
    RllyGudTweetr Posts: 2,019 Member
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    It seems to me that being concerned that your SO is watching porn is basically 'being concerned that your SO self-serves.' Given the oft-repeated line that 95% of people do that, with 5% of people being liars, this concern seems silly to me.
  • blueboxgeek
    blueboxgeek Posts: 574 Member
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    I have absolutely no problem with porn and know my hubby doesn't either. I know he watches it on occassions and so do I, we will sometimes watch together.

    I think the issue comes when one person keeps it a secret. It's not like you have to 'fess up every time you watch it, but talking about it and both agreeing that it is ok is something that should be done.

    I have also known people become addicted to it, actually watching that much of it that it had a negative impact on their relationship. But that is way above just watching it some while wife is out of town.
  • blueboxgeek
    blueboxgeek Posts: 574 Member
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    I watch it, but normally only for the award winning acting and amazing plot lines.

    There is some very high class acting skills :)
  • msbunnie68
    msbunnie68 Posts: 1,894 Member
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    Pffft no problem with watching porn.

    As long as it is enhancing your sex life not replacing it then it is all good.
  • Me2FitMe
    Me2FitMe Posts: 1,284 Member
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    Wait... only men are supposed to watch porn?!?!




    Ooooops....
  • OhhNiff
    OhhNiff Posts: 1,397 Member
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    No, it's totally abnormal. And it's wrong. And whoever watches it is going to Hell.

    :bigsmile:
  • tennisdude2004
    tennisdude2004 Posts: 5,609 Member
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    No, it's totally abnormal. And it's wrong. And whoever watches it is going to Hell.

    :bigsmile:

    Do they have porn in Hell?
  • OhhNiff
    OhhNiff Posts: 1,397 Member
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    No, it's totally abnormal. And it's wrong. And whoever watches it is going to Hell.

    :bigsmile:

    Do they have porn in Hell?

    Yeah, of the homosexual variety.
  • msbunnie68
    msbunnie68 Posts: 1,894 Member
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    No, it's totally abnormal. And it's wrong. And whoever watches it is going to Hell.

    :bigsmile:

    Do they have porn in Hell?

    Yeah, of the homosexual variety.

    I'm screwed then
  • OhhNiff
    OhhNiff Posts: 1,397 Member
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    I prefer lesbian porn.
  • tennisdude2004
    tennisdude2004 Posts: 5,609 Member
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    I prefer lesbian porn.

    Don't we all. lol
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
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    I prefer lesbian porn.

    Same here. However, I prefer to date men. I am a complicated girl. :smile:
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
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    No porn in this thread. :grumble:
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