Letting Friends Disagree

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  • PikaKnight
    PikaKnight Posts: 34,971 Member
    I feel strongly that men shouldn't be wrestling in the jello.

    I think they need a separate wrestling area filled with either whipped cream or pudding. Marshmallow optional.

    I agree that men should not wrestle in jello.

    I'm not sure about the whipped cream or pudding, though, so we may have to agree to disagree on this point.

    I'm with BP on the Marshmallow idea. Has anybody brought up cotton candy?

    I've got this weird apprehension at that idea...like maybe they'd not wrestle and just eat themselves.
  • SaintGiff
    SaintGiff Posts: 3,679 Member
    And, to avoid being accused of getting on my high horse, I'm not. I've certainly crossed the line and played the *kitten* on occasion. I deeply regret it. No good ever came of it. There are plenty of good people on here, and frankly, there isn't a single person on this site for whom I've developed any sort of deep personal dislike. It's the interwebs. Try to fight fair and treat it all with a grain of salt. Just my humble two cents. You're certainly entitled to yours.

    I really feel like you haven't taken the time to get to know me well enough.
  • riirii93_
    riirii93_ Posts: 475 Member
    is playful wrestling allowed?
  • ZoeLifts
    ZoeLifts Posts: 10,347 Member
    I feel strongly that men shouldn't be wrestling in the jello.

    I think they need a separate wrestling area filled with either whipped cream or pudding. Marshmallow optional.

    I agree that men should not wrestle in jello.

    I'm not sure about the whipped cream or pudding, though, so we may have to agree to disagree on this point.

    I'm with BP on the Marshmallow idea. Has anybody brought up cotton candy?

    I've got this weird apprehension at that idea...like maybe they'd not wrestle and just eat themselves.

    Hmm, but not so with the whipped cram or pudding?

    I'm down with the whipped cream, I think, the more I think on it. Not pudding for some reason.

    What about mashed potatoes?
  • SaintGiff
    SaintGiff Posts: 3,679 Member
    is playful wrestling allowed?

    You are someone else who needs to get to know me better.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I'm liking the whipped cream idea!!
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    I'm liking the whipped cream idea!!

    Lead by example
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I'm liking the whipped cream idea!!

    Lead by example

    I just might do that! :wink:
  • jayliospecky
    jayliospecky Posts: 25,022 Member
    I feel strongly that men shouldn't be wrestling in the jello.

    I think they need a separate wrestling area filled with either whipped cream or pudding. Marshmallow optional.

    I agree that men should not wrestle in jello.

    I'm not sure about the whipped cream or pudding, though, so we may have to agree to disagree on this point.

    I'm with BP on the Marshmallow idea. Has anybody brought up cotton candy?

    I've got this weird apprehension at that idea...like maybe they'd not wrestle and just eat themselves.

    Hmm, but not so with the whipped cram or pudding?

    I'm down with the whipped cream, I think, the more I think on it. Not pudding for some reason.

    What about mashed potatoes?

    Agreed.

    Whipped cream > pudding

    Mashed potatoes? Ew.
  • ZoeLifts
    ZoeLifts Posts: 10,347 Member
    I feel strongly that men shouldn't be wrestling in the jello.

    I think they need a separate wrestling area filled with either whipped cream or pudding. Marshmallow optional.

    I agree that men should not wrestle in jello.

    I'm not sure about the whipped cream or pudding, though, so we may have to agree to disagree on this point.

    I'm with BP on the Marshmallow idea. Has anybody brought up cotton candy?

    I've got this weird apprehension at that idea...like maybe they'd not wrestle and just eat themselves.

    Hmm, but not so with the whipped cram or pudding?

    I'm down with the whipped cream, I think, the more I think on it. Not pudding for some reason.

    What about mashed potatoes?

    Agreed.

    Whipped cream > pudding

    Mashed potatoes? Ew.

    I will compromise and propose butter.
  • DavPul
    DavPul Posts: 61,406 Member
    I'm liking the whipped cream idea!!

    Lead by example

    I just might do that! :wink:
    *gets popcorn*
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    I'm liking the whipped cream idea!!

    Lead by example

    I just might do that! :wink:
    *gets popcorn*

    <Would pay hard cash>
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    I'm liking the whipped cream idea!!

    Lead by example

    I just might do that! :wink:
    *gets popcorn*

    :smile:
  • LiftAllThePizzas
    LiftAllThePizzas Posts: 17,857 Member
    I have been there. Both putting myself between and being thrown between.

    It isn't very pleasant.

    It isn't fun.

    If I do it, it's on me. My choice to get in the fight. I don't do it often, but sometimes there's an important reason.

    When I find myself getting pulled into a disagreement, I ask myself who is pulling me into this situation, and exactly why are they doing it. Why do they feel a need to put me in this situation? What is their motivation for dragging me into this mess?
    I would also consider if what they're saying is actually true or if it was a lie or half-truth told in an attempt to use me as a pawn to hurt the other person. Because that's how some people roll.