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How do you know if you're in the friend zone?

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edited February 28 in Chit-Chat
What are the signs? How can you tell? Is it possible to get out?

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  • Posts: 6,208 Member
    First!
  • Posts: 3,646 Member
    You'll know the signs when you see them. They're not always the same, but they're usually pretty clear. And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?
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    No sexual banter, nudes, or sexting.
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  • Posts: 4,537 Member
    No sex, no sex, and alcohol
  • Posts: 810 Member
    you don't have sex and you haven't seen her naked

    sorry brah

    eta: it might be possible to get out if she sees your junk and really likes it
  • Posts: 3,646 Member

    What if she's the one

    If she's FZed you, she's clearly not. Quit trolling.
  • Posts: 86 Member
    If you think you might be in the friend zone, you're in the friend zone. Sorry.

    Stories of guys getting out of the friend zone are few and far between. You're best off taking a step back from your friendship with this girl until you resolve your feelings. Otherwise you might need to stop being friends entirely.
  • Posts: 2,403 Member
    What are the signs? How can you tell? Is it possible to get out?

    Shouldn't you already know the signs?
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  • Posts: 16,913 Member
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  • Posts: 2,403 Member

    What if she's the one

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  • Posts: 268 Member
    I used to get friend zoned a lot. It was usually pretty easy to know- it went like this:

    Me: "I like you"

    Him: "Eeeehh..um... can we just be friends?"

    Me: "Ok sure"

    Done- I knew I was in the friend zone. Just talk to them.

    ps- two of these guys actually became my best friends in university- it doesn't have to be soul crushing, just don't take it too personally!
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    hC380740D

    QFT
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    If she's FZed you, she's clearly not. Quit trolling.

    This.

    Also, since when did befriending a woman become such a bad thing?
  • Posts: 1,456 Member
    If after brunch and the museum she won't watch a documentary with you, you've been F-zoned.
  • Posts: 206 Member
    There's a really simple way to find out. Tell her how you feel, then ask her how she feels.
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  • Posts: 422 Member
    When you befriend a person just to get sex, you're in the 'friend zone'. You are also an *kitten*.
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  • Posts: 567 Member

    What if she's the one

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  • Posts: 8,927 Member
    If after brunch and the museum she won't watch a documentary with you, you've been F-zoned.

    ^^This
  • Posts: 16,913 Member
    nyld2rj
  • Posts: 3,646 Member

    You obviously don't know anything about true love. I'm sure the more she gets to know me she'll feel the same.

    Really? 'Cause quite the opposite is happening for me...
  • Posts: 819 Member
    When you befriend a person just to get sex, you're in the 'friend zone'. You are also an *kitten*.


    Succinct.

    We can all leave, now.
  • Posts: 5,214 Member
    hC380740D

    But, but, I AM A NICE GUY
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  • Posts: 738 Member
    Just talk to her. Communication is the key.
  • Posts: 16,913 Member

    But, but, I AM A NICE GUY

    Hahaha.

    Except they're never nice guys. Nice guys don't become your friend for the purpose of getting to bang you. That's what manipulative creepy guys do.

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