How do you know if you're in the friend zone?

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  • cakebatter07
    cakebatter07 Posts: 814 Member
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    When she talks about her boy troubles/guys she likes/dates she's gone on in front of you.
  • traceyandelliemay
    traceyandelliemay Posts: 88 Member
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    NAAAAAWWWWW!!!!! What a sweety!!!!! I wish I had guys asking this kinda stuff about me! Shes lucky to have you in her life Im interested to know how you get on with this one! Maybe send a txt and kinda spill it like that and if she slams it well you can just be like oh gosh did I send that to you ... sorry....
    keep us updated and go for it!!! You are soooooooo sweet <3
  • k1ttyk1tty
    k1ttyk1tty Posts: 86 Member
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    You'll know the signs when you see them. They're not always the same, but they're usually pretty clear. And even if it were possible to get out of the FZ, (it usually isn't) why would you want to? Why would you want to fight to be in a relationship that the other person just isn't feeling?

    I friend zoned my currant boyfriend. He was around to help me out with a ****ty break up and dealing with the ex. I didn't think at first that I was interested in him at all but, he really came around for me and I decided I was done being treated like crap.
  • TX_Thundercat
    TX_Thundercat Posts: 2,437 Member
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    "You like me? Oh... Can we just be friends? That don't speak to each other? Ever."


    Bwahaha!


    Nah but for serious, if you have to ask if you are in the friendzone, you are gone. :pours drink on sidewalk for lost homie:

    Make it a coke zero.

    Cherry Vanilla or regular?
  • fatcity66
    fatcity66 Posts: 1,544 Member
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    when a girl tells you everything - even stories about other guys she's met during her day lol :)
    idk haha

    This thread....LOL
    But I tell my FWB about other dudes I meet all the time.
    Then we bang out like bunny rabbits.
  • Oi_Sunshine
    Oi_Sunshine Posts: 819 Member
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    You guys depress me.

    Welcome to the teen years. It'll pass.
  • cakebatter07
    cakebatter07 Posts: 814 Member
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    when a girl tells you everything - even stories about other guys she's met during her day lol :)
    idk haha

    This thread....LOL
    But I tell my FWB about other dudes I meet all the time.
    Then we bang out like bunny rabbits.

    Well that's kind of different though. You guys aren't actually dating and you have been FWB.
  • Rochelle951
    Rochelle951 Posts: 1,389 Member
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    If you have to ask, then you are.
  • RECowgill
    RECowgill Posts: 881 Member
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    Oh to be 18 again...
  • Megan101792
    Megan101792 Posts: 3,194 Member
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    you can undress and they don't look at your boobs
  • V0lver
    V0lver Posts: 915 Member
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    you can undress and they don't look at your boobs

    he must be squint-eyed
  • RECowgill
    RECowgill Posts: 881 Member
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    How to tell if you're in the friend zone:

    1. She doesn't laugh at your stupid jokes. She barely laughs at your good ones.
    2. She alternates between being hot and cold.
    3. She's married (don't go there, no matter how tempting it looks).
    4. You say something like "I trust you" and she says "I don't think you should trust me".
    5. You go on a date and she starts talking in friend-hypotheticals "well if we were just friends that would be ok".
    6. You want her more than she wants you.
    7. You post on MFP asking if you are in the friend zone.
    8. You believe that there is a friend zone, that she put you there and that you are just a nice guy.

    How do you get out of the friend zone?

    1. Find another woman.
  • EdTheGinge
    EdTheGinge Posts: 1,616 Member
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    'You're a good friend'
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,793 Member
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    What are the signs? How can you tell? Is it possible to get out?

    If you're not sure, you're in the Friend Zone.
  • msbunnie68
    msbunnie68 Posts: 1,894 Member
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    If you have to ask you are already there.

    Does this girl know that the two of you have been on actual dates? IF it hasn't been mutual from the start then FRIENDZONE.


    anyway...as for turning it around...if you do then she wears the pants FOREVER as you were always the one who was in too deep first. FOREVER. Enjoy having your balls made into pretty earrings for her to wear if she decides she wants to go there.