when is too big?

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  • Dad_of_3
    Dad_of_3 Posts: 517 Member
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    I like big, from kinda big to REALLY big. But I don't care for the "cloud" look. By the time a guy looks a cloud, that's a little too big.

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  • ponycyndi
    ponycyndi Posts: 858 Member
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    Personally, "big" isn't ever a problem, what's not attractive is veins and sinewy muscles that come with low body fat...I feel the same about low body fat without muscle. I prefer the linebacker look.

    No, 300lbs isn't "too big". Even if you're under 6 foot.
  • wheird
    wheird Posts: 7,963 Member
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    I'm fairly sure you don't have to worry about that at all, OP. In any way it can be taken.
  • jkwolly
    jkwolly Posts: 3,049 Member
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    Women prefer men who weigh between 187-214lbs. Anything under or over and those men die alone.


    If that sounds ridiculous to you, think about the question you're asking.

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  • MysteriousMerlin
    MysteriousMerlin Posts: 2,270 Member
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    I like big, from kinda big to REALLY big. But I don't care for the "cloud" look. By the time a guy looks a cloud, that's a little too big.

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    I laughed waaaaaaaay too long at this...
  • 365andstillalive
    365andstillalive Posts: 663 Member
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    So, here's what you do...
    You find a woman, you begin dating, she clearly thinks you're attractive, and then you ask her, and magically, she'll give you an answer that actually matters.

    But really, your body, your choice.
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
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    I like big, from kinda big to REALLY big. But I don't care for the "cloud" look. By the time a guy looks a cloud, that's a little too big.

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    Lol, I've seen this, and yes, this is exactly the "cloud" appearance that tips the scale into too big for me.
  • Chain_Ring
    Chain_Ring Posts: 753 Member
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    Can't believe this has never come up before now.
  • Tanie98
    Tanie98 Posts: 675 Member
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    prefer this

    https://www.flickr.com/photos/126842434@N02/14772143640/


    to this
    https://www.flickr.com/photos/126842434@N02/14955715841/
  • Jacwhite22
    Jacwhite22 Posts: 7,012 Member
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    I'm fairly sure you don't have to worry about that at all, OP. In any way it can be taken.

    QFT....
  • LotusAsh
    LotusAsh Posts: 294 Member
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    Women prefer men who weigh between 187-214lbs. Anything under or over and those men die alone.


    If that sounds ridiculous to you, think about the question you're asking.

    good thing that isn't true..my wife was with my fat *kitten* when I was 310
  • Spaced_out_lady
    Spaced_out_lady Posts: 111 Member
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    Are you seeking validation?

    Good question
  • _errata_
    _errata_ Posts: 1,653 Member
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  • msf74
    msf74 Posts: 3,498 Member
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    Well, if she looks at you and her eyes start watering then....

    you're probably about the right size.
  • bugaboo_sue
    bugaboo_sue Posts: 552 Member
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    When your shoulders are too wide to fit through any door?:huh:
  • Lilla35
    Lilla35 Posts: 99
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    Well, if she looks at you and her eyes start watering then....

    you're probably about the right size.

    Oh snap
  • sylviadeannek
    sylviadeannek Posts: 16
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    me and some friends have talked about this before actually. we knew a guy who was chunky in high school and then lost a bunch a weight and buffed up. At first it was like *SWOON*, but soon, his ego started to grow bigger then his muscles. Not hot.

    I honestly don't care how buff a guy is, I like a guy with a belly and some cushion for the pushing. But I have friends that love supper fit guys. And while they like them fit, they hate when all the guy talks about is his routine, his protein shakes and going to the gym.

    So in short........get as big and muscles as you want, just don't let it take control of you. You e so much more than your muscles.
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
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    his ego started to grow bigger than his muscles. Not hot.
    ... hate when all the guy talks about is his routine, his protein shakes and going to the gym.
    Truth.
    This is really what makes someone unattractive - his attitude.

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    That's nice. A bit young for me, but still cute.

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    This is nice.

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    That's nice too, but getting toward "he spends so much time on his appearance, will he have time to date?"

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    That's too much.

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    That's grotesque.
  • Lofteren
    Lofteren Posts: 960 Member
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    lol in a way i guess i am. thing is i have ahad a few people say youve gone too far or that being too big/muscular is intimidating or unattractive. the reason i ask the question is really to see what people think and why?

    Judging from your avatar, you definitely haven't gotten too big IMO. Of course, my ideal physique is the juggernaut so....

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