What the Hell?
iMikky
Posts: 30
So I've been on here for like 2 years and I notice that people ignore me. Why? I don't know. If I'm correct They're here to lose weight and better their health, just like I was. So can anybody tell me how looking away or skipping someone in need will have any kind of benefits?
Wait...
Disclaimer: This is a rant.
Now where was I..it doesn't. When I post to a topic where you have to say something about the person above, I am skipped. When I ask a question, I'm ignored. When I did get some friends, they didn't care for what I had to say, which was I'm so happy I have you guys as support. Yeah, some support huh. I disabled friends because I don't need to be reminded that others are more important than me. What, am I too fat to be on this website? Do I not weigh enough? Am I too young? I didn't need the added stress so now I do it without the help of others who remind me that I'm just a stranger. A strange stranger. Oh well. That's the end of my rant.
And people wonder why the world rejects them. They reject others in their own community. Out.
Wait...
Disclaimer: This is a rant.
Now where was I..it doesn't. When I post to a topic where you have to say something about the person above, I am skipped. When I ask a question, I'm ignored. When I did get some friends, they didn't care for what I had to say, which was I'm so happy I have you guys as support. Yeah, some support huh. I disabled friends because I don't need to be reminded that others are more important than me. What, am I too fat to be on this website? Do I not weigh enough? Am I too young? I didn't need the added stress so now I do it without the help of others who remind me that I'm just a stranger. A strange stranger. Oh well. That's the end of my rant.
And people wonder why the world rejects them. They reject others in their own community. Out.
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I don't utilize the social aspect of this site typically.
Sorry you felt over-looked.
Good luck with your weight loss.0 -
What's up, Mikki?0
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In honor of iMikky:
Hey Mikky!
Chorus:
Oh Mikky, you're so fine
You're so fine, you blow my mind, hey Mikky, hey Mikky
Oh Mikky, you're so fine
You're so fine, you blow my mind, hey Mikky, hey Mikky
Oh Mikky, you're so fine
You're so fine, you blow my mind, hey Mikky...
Hey Mikky
You've been around all night and that's a little long
You think you've got the right but I think you've got it wrong
Why can't we say goodnight? So you can take me home, Mikky
Cause when you say you will, it always means you won't
You're givin' me the chills, baby, please baby don't
Every night you still leave me all alone, Mikky
Oh Mikky, what a pity, you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Mikky, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you, Mikky
Ooh what you do Mikky, do Mikky
Don't break my heart, Mikky
Hey Mikky
Now when you take me by the... who's... ever gonna know
Every time you move I let a little more show
There's something you can use, so don't say no, Mikky
So come on and give it to me anyway you can
Anyway you want to do it, I'll take it like a man
Oh please baby, please don't leave me in this jam Mikky
Refrain1:
Oh Mikky, what a pity, you don't understand
You take me by the heart when you take me by the hand
Oh Mikky, you're so pretty, can't you understand
It's guys like you, Mikky
Ooh what you do Mikky, do Mikky
Don't break my heart, Mikky0 -
Actually I know what you mean, whenever I respond to one of those, say something about the person above you threads, I get skipped.
Someone told me a while ago when you turn 50 you turn beige and get ignored. ( I know you certainly arnt that age) but I feel as if it is true.
When I ask questions on my timeline, no one answers.
Shame to be among so many people and feel so lonely.
I thought it was just me.
just keep rocking on, you are awesome.0 -
It happens. If one is older, or not particularly outrageous, or nothing special to look out it just...happens. It's the nature of the beast. Don't over think it. Some of us are wallflowers here. :glasses:0
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So I've been on here for like 2 years and I notice that people ignore me. Why? I don't know. If I'm correct They're here to lose weight and better their health, just like I was. So can anybody tell me how looking away or skipping someone in need will have any kind of benefits?
Wait...
Disclaimer: This is a rant.
Now where was I..it doesn't. When I post to a topic where you have to say something about the person above, I am skipped. When I ask a question, I'm ignored. When I did get some friends, they didn't care for what I had to say, which was I'm so happy I have you guys as support. Yeah, some support huh. I disabled friends because I don't need to be reminded that others are more important than me. What, am I too fat to be on this website? Do I not weigh enough? Am I too young? I didn't need the added stress so now I do it without the help of others who remind me that I'm just a stranger. A strange stranger. Oh well. That's the end of my rant.
And people wonder why the world rejects them. They reject others in their own community. Out.
Why are you in such need of other people to validate you? That's the thing to think about here. Other than that, do this for yourself and *kitten* everyone else.0 -
Hi mikky. Try spending time in other parts of the site and then comment on statements you like. Eventually you'll figure out people you click with and those added to your friends list are likely to be more supportive/interested in what you have to say.:flowerforyou:0
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you....might want to talk to a therapist about your feelings of persecution and isolation0
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You're not looking hard enough. If I had a sweater, and people were tiny, both arms would be filled with the amount of fantastic people I have found here.0
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you....might want to talk to a therapist about your feelings of persecution and isolation
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20 posts in almost two years?
Yeah. It's definitely the MFP community, not you.0 -
We're all here for the same thing
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Weird. I click on this thread and it's blank....
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You aren't too fat...although judging by the photo you may be too young!
Never take any thing personally. Some people can be mean.
If you want more interaction you may want to make your profile public so people don't think you are a troll.0 -
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We're all here for the same thing
IDIOTS!!! I can't believe that! The top of the ladder is pressing against a freshly painted part of the wall! They're going to have to paint that section all over again.0 -
Damn your eyes! Gonna have Johnny Bravo in my head all night now. :laugh:0 -
I don't utilize the social aspect of this site typically.
Sorry you felt over-looked.
Good luck with your weight loss.
Thanks, good luck with your journey as well!!0 -
Thanks, I honestly don't know if this is a part of a real song or not but who cares? It made me laugh!0
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20 posts in almost two years?
Yeah. It's definitely the MFP community, not you.
This. Just like you don't like talking and being ignored, other people don't like interacting with someone for whom it's always about them and what they need. Try responding to some of the hundreds of posts here looking for support and advice, and you'll soon find more friends and people will start to recognize you on the boards.0 -
Lol I'll take that *kitten* a compliment!0 -
Hi sweetheart, I hope things improve for you from now on as there are some lovely people on this forum who I am sure will take you under their wings now that you have voiced your concerns. I think part of the problem is that the posts move so fast and there are so many of them that often people's comments are overlooked. However, I am not surprised at how you are feeling as Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Myyyyyyyyyyyyyyy GOD!!
Some of the people on this forum are as mean as cat's p@$$.
But hey, there are also a lot of really nice (and funny) people out there.
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Your education has been neglected! The song in question:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3E-Zrg9CB_Q
The link likely won't be clickable, so copy, paste and enjoy. :flowerforyou:0 -
now yer onto something ...*kitten* compliments will get u far on this site
Lol I'll take that *kitten* a compliment!0 -
You aren't too fat...although judging by the photo you may be too young!
Never take any thing personally. Some people can be mean.
If you want more interaction you may want to make your profile public so people don't think you are a troll.
I'm 21. My profile used to be public and I changed it a while ago.0 -
20 posts in almost two years?
Yeah. It's definitely the MFP community, not you.
Or maybe it's getting snarky replies like this (and others in this thread) that turned her off to posting? Which comes first, the chicken or the egg?
I have also found that not everyone on here is super warm and fuzzy. I agree with the posters who said you have to just find the good ones and ignore people who are rude or ignore you. There's a lot of people on here, you'll find supportive ones that don't ignore you! ...and do post more!0 -
Reading this just made me very sad.0
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Welcome to the internet. Oh .. and be thankful this is not FB.0
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