Ladies who love the big men?

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  • bbygrl5
    bbygrl5 Posts: 964 Member
    ...and I'm going to respond just how men respond about "curvy" women, lol. I don't have a type when it comes to men. There are all types of men that are attractive, it's the combination of many different factors that make a man attractive. Big men are appealing because it's biological for women to be attracted to broad shoulders and big arms. ...add a deep voice to that and yowza... ...but a small, tight, toned package is definitely going to get a second look from me too.

    So for this chick, sure, I appreciate big men, but I appreciate men in general.
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    Oh noes. I am currently 228 but shooting for going under 200. I am only 5'8". I am resisting post all my 1-rep maxes to prove I am a big guy. I can have my GF attest I will never be considered svelte.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    I have never dated a guy under 6'4 but some of them have been pretty skinny. (BTW I am 5'5)
  • redefiningmyself
    redefiningmyself Posts: 476 Member
    Skinny men who can be snapped in half aren't for me. I LOVE LOVE LOVE big hunka hunka burnin' men!

    (And I know lots of women who think like I do)
  • I agree 100% with the whole lumberjack thing. I love my men tall, strong (if you can't lift me, you aren't strong enough), and big. Bonus if he has a beard. Extra bonus if he's a day laborer. I like a guy who knows how to put in a hard days work.

    I just realized I described my boyfriend. :heart: Well, at least I know what I like. :wink:


    I also have a thing for nerds/geeks. Huh. Talk about a 180.
  • ashleynicoleb
    ashleynicoleb Posts: 376 Member
    I LOVE guys who are built and have some substance! Not really attracted to smaller, skinnier guys.
  • Seth Rogen actually just lost a LOT of weight for his role in the Green Hornet. He's tiny now...
    if they aren't twice my size, they aren't big enough! i like to feel safe and secure. :happy:

    i'm only 4'11", and the last couple people i dated were between 5'11" and 6'6". and if i can wrap my short little arms all the way around their mid-section, they are too tiny for me!

    perfect size? think seth rogen in knocked up. :love: :blushing:
    Just looked up Seth...whoa, he's a big boy! Just watched the movie trailer but haven't seen the movie.
  • apeman
    apeman Posts: 82
    And I REFUSE to date anyone that wears skinny jeans but I think that's because I'm getting old and don't understand teenagers' sense of style.

    Hilarious! I love it!
  • RedneckWmn
    RedneckWmn Posts: 3,202 Member
    We need a who likes short smaller guys thread lol

    I like "bigger" guys usually but I'm dating a short smaller guy. haha..But he's great!
  • RedneckWmn
    RedneckWmn Posts: 3,202 Member
    And I REFUSE to date anyone that wears skinny jeans but I think that's because I'm getting old and don't understand teenagers' sense of style.

    Hilarious! I love it!

    I agree!! Why do men wear skinny jeans!?
  • reesepieces
    reesepieces Posts: 253 Member
    I typically went for tall skinny guys, but they have failed to prove to me that they are worth it.
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member
    I love solid men. Too skinny and I feel like I might break them :embarassed:

    Same here! I like 'em big and solid. Makes me feel protected. :love:
  • I got love for the big men!! I have always been attracted to bigger guys. James Gandolfini? Yes please!! Oliver Platt? Break me off a piece of that! John Goodman back in the Roseanne days? HUGE crush. Fat, Glittery Elvis in the jumpsuits??? I DIE!!!!!! I actually have a portrait of fat, glittery Elvis on my arm.

    I have dated really big guys and really skinny guys. Everything about big guys is better I think. Broad shoulders, big hands and way more fun to cuddle with.

    The one super in shape guy that I dated only wanted to hang out at the gym. No cuddling on the couch was allowed. Why cuddle when we could be lifting weights. What's the fun in that?? And I REFUSE to date anyone that wears skinny jeans but I think that's because I'm getting old and don't understand teenagers' sense of style.


    ROTFLMAO Big glittery jumpsuit Elvis!! :- D But I DID have a crush on Brian Dennehy, the big, barrel chested teddy bear actor. Just HATE the big, overlapping beer guts, though. Not attractive.
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    :bigsmile: my best friend is a larger woman, and she loves her small men...she said they "fit" better...so to all the smaller men out there, we aren't being sexist! you like your women skinny, we like our man huge but there's a lid to every pot...
  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    bump
  • kjensen15
    kjensen15 Posts: 398 Member
    I love bigger guys too! There is just something about being in their arms that makes you feel safe and protected! My husband is 6'3" 220 lbs. He's really been lifting lately and has a put on a ton of muscle through his chest and back! I LOVE IT! He'll see pictures of himself from high school/early college and say he wishes he could be that size again. I politely tell him that I don't find him nearly as attractive back then as I do now!
  • kjensen15
    kjensen15 Posts: 398 Member
    I got love for the big men!! I have always been attracted to bigger guys. James Gandolfini? Yes please!! Oliver Platt? Break me off a piece of that! John Goodman back in the Roseanne days? HUGE crush. Fat, Glittery Elvis in the jumpsuits??? I DIE!!!!!! I actually have a portrait of fat, glittery Elvis on my arm.

    I have dated really big guys and really skinny guys. Everything about big guys is better I think. Broad shoulders, big hands and way more fun to cuddle with.

    The one super in shape guy that I dated only wanted to hang out at the gym. No cuddling on the couch was allowed. Why cuddle when we could be lifting weights. What's the fun in that?? And I REFUSE to date anyone that wears skinny jeans but I think that's because I'm getting old and don't understand teenagers' sense of style.


    ROTFLMAO Big glittery jumpsuit Elvis!! :- D But I DID have a crush on Brian Dennehy, the big, barrel chested teddy bear actor. Just HATE the big, overlapping beer guts, though. Not attractive.

    I agree on the skinny jeans, but that may be because I like guys with a little junk in their trunk and that just doesn't look right in skinny jeans!!
  • RoadDog
    RoadDog Posts: 2,946 Member
    We need a who likes short smaller guys thread lol

    No, no, no, no!!! I like the direction this one is headed.
  • toots99
    toots99 Posts: 3,794 Member
    Oliver Platt? Break me off a piece of that!

    I thought I was the onl one who ever had the hots for Oliver Platt! :blushing:
  • brittlynne3579
    brittlynne3579 Posts: 217 Member
    Seth Rogan...mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm...love him!!!!!!! :love:
  • Fesse
    Fesse Posts: 611
    I all know is I don't want to weigh more than the guy I'm with. That was the case at one point.
  • doublexhelix
    doublexhelix Posts: 199 Member
    i like bigger guys... but i also like smaller guys too! i have dated a guy that was 6'2" and 320 lbs and a guy that was 5'7" and around 140lbs... they were both fantastic! maybe because they were both mathy-brained fellas and i loooove smart guys!
  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,444 Member
    no love for the big guys lol

    Dang, I coulda sworn I heard the crickets chirping... LOL. At 6'-3" and around 290lbs, I'm kinda interested too.

    Gotta tell you, while out Christmas shopping recently, I've seen some super tall women that I thought were just that much more drop dead gorgeous cuz they were tall. I've attracted a bunch of reaaaally short women in my time...one of them told me it made them feel safer cuz they were so tiny .. like 5-1 in heels...heh.
  • My fiancee is like a big, tall football player. I love how safe I feel in his arms! Big men are GREAT, but I especially like tall guys! My fiancee is 6'3". I'm 5'6.5", so I like the height difference!
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    no love for the big guys lol

    Dang, I coulda sworn I heard the crickets chirping... LOL. At 6'-3" and around 290lbs, I'm kinda interested too.

    Gotta tell you, while out Christmas shopping recently, I've seen some super tall women that I thought were just that much more drop dead gorgeous cuz they were tall. I've attracted a bunch of reaaaally short women in my time...one of them told me it made them feel safer cuz they were so tiny .. like 5-1 in heels...heh.


    haha my fiance always says the "fluffly" ladies love him...the bigger they are, the more they hit on him...i told him it's a security thing, he's so big, that he makes them feel little...i know he makes me feel tiny :bigsmile:
  • darkrider42
    darkrider42 Posts: 5,444 Member
    My bad...I jumped the gun and didn't get far enough before I posted. I'm using my phone and couldn't see all the :heart: love :heart: yet.

    Much, much better. :flowerforyou: :happy:
  • ♥jewelchristian♥
    ♥jewelchristian♥ Posts: 3,666 Member
    Sorry, double post - I must have gotten distracted :bigsmile:
  • nejohn
    nejohn Posts: 62
    I like Big guys!
  • ♥jewelchristian♥
    ♥jewelchristian♥ Posts: 3,666 Member
    Sorry bynsky - I should be amening to you!! :laugh:
  • Mike
    Mike Posts: 823 Member
    Folks - please remember that the forums are PG-13. There have been a few posts in here that have crossed the line, so let's make sure to keep it PG-13 or I'll have to delete this topic. Thanks for your cooperation.
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