If someone was to go onto your profile....

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  • cmriverside
    cmriverside Posts: 34,409 Member
    Dangit, why does it always go to the next page when I refer to the previous post without "quoting".

    Loopytoucan, nice birdy!!
  • Heather75
    Heather75 Posts: 3,386 Member
    It would never happen. People have to meet me in person to see my sexiness.
  • abyt42
    abyt42 Posts: 1,358 Member
    Creepy.... this isn't match.com

    I agree...but I'm also a little flipped out if people are kind in person. I've never been pretty, and usually assume someone who complements my appearance wants something (a favor, a letter of recommendation written for them, something.) I'm used to assuming flattery is just that, not sincere, and a means to an end.
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    Now, no one but my friends can see pics of me which is a personal choice I've made, so anyone sending me a "you're hot" message would really make me wonder as to what they are into....:noway:


    :laugh: :love:

    hey there Kityngirl, i'm REALLY into kittens, cameras and Ogdred Weary! :smooched:
    *purrs a little* Kity likes birds too. :wink: :love:
  • NobodyKnows
    NobodyKnows Posts: 764 Member
    Now, no one but my friends can see pics of me which is a personal choice I've made, so anyone sending me a "you're hot" message would really make me wonder as to what they are into....:noway:

    What, doesn't everyone pose naked for kitty cat photographers?? :embarassed:
  • Gemini80
    Gemini80 Posts: 15 Member
    I don't really get flattered by it anymore, but it always puts a smile on my face. Im never offended.
  • NobodyKnows
    NobodyKnows Posts: 764 Member
    I don't really get flattered by it anymore, but it always puts a smile on my face. Im never offended.

    You are quite beautiful.
  • bmontgomery87
    bmontgomery87 Posts: 1,260 Member
    I always appreciate the compliment. Definately makes me happy to see hard work paying off.

    Never gonna be offended by it.
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    Now, no one but my friends can see pics of me which is a personal choice I've made, so anyone sending me a "you're hot" message would really make me wonder as to what they are into....:noway:

    What, doesn't everyone pose naked for kitty cat photographers?? :embarassed:
    You'd be surprised at how many people are put off by the whole "kitty cat" thing. Seriously, it's so hard to be taken seriously in this business. :ohwell:
  • NobodyKnows
    NobodyKnows Posts: 764 Member
    Now, no one but my friends can see pics of me which is a personal choice I've made, so anyone sending me a "you're hot" message would really make me wonder as to what they are into....:noway:

    What, doesn't everyone pose naked for kitty cat photographers?? :embarassed:
    You'd be surprised at how many people are put off by the whole "kitty cat" thing. Seriously, it's so hard to be taken seriously in this business. :ohwell:

    Honestly, I think it is your claws that put people off. Perhaps a mani/pedi would do the trick.
  • Kityngirl
    Kityngirl Posts: 14,304 Member
    You'd be surprised at how many people are put off by the whole "kitty cat" thing. Seriously, it's so hard to be taken seriously in this business. :ohwell:

    Honestly, I think it is your claws that put people off. Perhaps a mani/pedi would do the trick.
    There have only been a few "incidents".....and honestly, I'm not a pet so really it was their own fault....:embarassed:
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
    Having read all this thread (now there's 10 minutes of my life I will never get back...) I have come to one very clear conclusion: I will most definitely, without a shadow of a doubt, stay out of the inboxes of the MFP ladies. It seems they are very sensitive about their inboxes. Maybe they want to keep them neat and tidy or sumfink...

    Annnnnnyway, in my time here I think I have complimented three, maybe four, women and they all took it in the way it was intended. It wasn't because I found them beautiful to look at like a Rodin sculpture or as graceful as Darcey Bussell. It's because I found them hot. As in smokin'. As is sexy.

    I guess as someone else said context is king. However, I will be damned if I feel ashamed for letting a lady know she is sexually attractive. Doesn't mean I am gonna chase them round the boards like a love sick puppy or shower them with attention (in fact I would need to be paid as serious amount of cash for providing them with that luxury ;)
  • mrb_9110
    mrb_9110 Posts: 189 Member
    I would be flattered...the first time. If some guy constantly messages me or comments on my statuses that I'm "hot" or "smoking" or make inappropriate comments (this has happened), it makes me uncomfortable and I block them.

    That said, guys, if a girl mfp friend posts a new picture or reaches a goal, I don't see anything wrong with telling them that their hard work is showing. After all, most people's goals on here are to look and be healthy.
  • JohnnyNull
    JohnnyNull Posts: 294 Member
    I'd say they're INSANE! It's a DRAWING!
  • NobodyKnows
    NobodyKnows Posts: 764 Member
    I would be flattered...the first time.

    HOT BODY!!!! :tongue: :bigsmile:
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