To all the ugly people!!
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I can say there are SO many times where at first glance I might think someone is attractive, and soon, as I hear them or get to know them a little they quickly become physically unattractive to me if their personality is... distasteful to me. And not unattractive because I don't like what's on the inside - I mean I totally lose the sense of physical attraction for that person.
Likewise there are those that maybe didn't strike me right off the bat with stunning good looks, but after seeing something cool and respectable about their personality I can become very physically attracted to them. I really think it's a maturity thing, IMO.
The older I get, the more and more I see people this way. At least I'm able to see it quicker than I did when I was younger. It also gets easier to distinguish true beauty in a person and the outward appearance of beauty.
Great post and well said! I'm not so sure I don't want to BE a zombie....just sayin.0 -
I do not think you are ugly at all! And I love the bit about charging double, I have a friend who is a cop, and when a girl tries to flirt her way out of a ticket he looks for ways to add to the ticket, like no seat belt on or whatever he can. People can be obnoxious it is sad. We all have a place on this earth and it should not ever be to make someone feel bad about themselves. Peace Joe!
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so ...since we all came into this thread...does that mean that we all think that we are ugly!!!??? To start off...EVERYONE is beautiful in their own way!!
I agree with the saying "you cannot judge a book by its cover":huh:
and i personally don't think people should get judged until they open their mouths!! LMAO!! :laugh:
Joe...I will be your Alice in the apocalypse!!!
I totally agree with everything above!
Joe, you could get quite a harem going with this thread for the Zombie Apocalypse...I'm in
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Why do zombies have to ruin everything!0
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You are not ugly0
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All jokes aside I keep sneakers with me at all times. Never know when you gotta run! LOL
I have had people call me ugly and I don't give two sh*ts. I was an ugly duckling and I know all those "pretty" people are getting heavier and aren't so pretty getting older. No matter who they are I stay nice regardless.0 -
I do not think you are ugly at all! And I love the bit about charging double, I have a friend who is a cop, and when a girl tries to flirt her way out of a ticket he looks for ways to add to the ticket, like no seat belt on or whatever he can. People can be obnoxious it is sad. We all have a place on this earth and it should not ever be to make someone feel bad about themselves. Peace Joe!
Ok so then what DO u do to get out of a ticket...LOL
I had a friend fake IBS/bathroom issues...i think i would rather just suck up the $$0 -
I am working the Zombieland survival guide. Working on number 1: Cardio. I think Double tap should be a fairly easy on. However I am stocking up on Twinkies.... just in case :laugh:
They may be thin and pretty but if they can't out run the zombie horde, then nothing else matter....lol
Our face is just window dressing, the real beauty comes from within and how you treat your fellow man/woman.
Those that assume they should get a free ride just for looking good have a LONG way to go.0 -
Hi, I'm Joe, and I am hideously ugly. I have endured the giggles, the rude comments they assume you can't hear, as well as the ones you actually were meant to hear, and the ever popular, "There's Yours" game for most of my life. Even to this day it still happens. We all know they like to say, "Oh we're just having fun and we don't mean anything by it," but then again, none of them are ever on the receiving end of those same attitudes.
I want you to know that I understand you, and I want to encourage you to fight back in any subtle way you can. For example, whenever some pretty girl comes into my shop thinking that by flirting with me she is going to get something free, I CHARGE HER DOUBLE!! In turn, when I someone comes in with their head down, obviously beaten down all their lives by the cruelty of the "pretty" people, I know, and I can feel, and I give out some awesome discounts.
You are not alone, I am with you, they may tell you that they are too, but we all know that in the end they will choose their own kind and throw you out the door to save their own a**es in the coming Zombie Apocalypse.
Little do they know that we are getting stronger every day, and what we lack in looks we will soon make up for in pure strength, meanwhile they will be too busy looking in the mirror when the Zombie Apocalypse finally comes, and THAT we will use to our advantage...
Thank You
i dont thin youree ugly. you are joe, he who is very attractive, has the sense of humor in which i adore and one who i want to buddy up with when the zombies do in fact come for us!0 -
I do not think you are ugly at all! And I love the bit about charging double, I have a friend who is a cop, and when a girl tries to flirt her way out of a ticket he looks for ways to add to the ticket, like no seat belt on or whatever he can. People can be obnoxious it is sad. We all have a place on this earth and it should not ever be to make someone feel bad about themselves. Peace Joe!
Ok so then what DO u do to get out of a ticket...LOL
I had a friend fake IBS/bathroom issues...i think i would rather just suck up the $$
Honestly I do not flirt...but I do crack smart a** comments and try to lighten the situation, last stop I had........ "but officer, it was Breaking Ben, have you ever listened to a great song and just went with it? Umm hmm no, I see, oh well it is a good thing I do not have an stick shift cause I probably would have been accelerating with the music and the speed would have been even worse".... Cop laughed and asked where I was going and did I want to arrive in one piece..... I said "Yes that is prefferable"....told me to slow down and enjoy the rest of my drive....at the posted limit........never got a ticket, and no eyelash batting, cutsie smile, or flattery used.0 -
I do not think you are ugly at all! And I love the bit about charging double, I have a friend who is a cop, and when a girl tries to flirt her way out of a ticket he looks for ways to add to the ticket, like no seat belt on or whatever he can. People can be obnoxious it is sad. We all have a place on this earth and it should not ever be to make someone feel bad about themselves. Peace Joe!
Ok so then what DO u do to get out of a ticket...LOL
I had a friend fake IBS/bathroom issues...i think i would rather just suck up the $$
Honestly I do not flirt...but I do crack smart a** comments and try to lighten the situation, last stop I had........ "but officer, it was Breaking Ben, have you ever listened to a great song and just went with it? Umm hmm no, I see, oh well it is a good thing I do not have an stick shift cause I probably would have been accelerating with the music and the speed would have been even worse".... Cop laughed and asked where I was going and did I want to arrive in one piece..... I said "Yes that is prefferable"....told me to slow down and enjoy the rest of my drive....at the posted limit........never got a ticket, and no eyelash batting, cutsie smile, or flattery used.
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I haven't gotten a ticket either *YET*...I always apologize profusely...don't argue...and try to be very polite (yes officer.....)
BUt I think having my 2 screaming kids in the back asking 5 zillion questions so the officer can;'t get a word in edge-wise actually works to my advantage for once...I think he feels sorry enough for me ..LOL0 -
Op I won't ego stroke you with a load of bs, you aren't the typical view of "goo d looking". Neither am I, buck toothed, big eared, bald and fat is what I always used to say. Good thing is I'm getting in shape to survive the zombie apocalypse too, my daughter (11 yo) and I made a video about it, btw she makes an awesome zombie.0
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Very cool dude, I know where you're coming from. I was VERY fat all my childhood and school can be hard. I was always by myself at dances and never went on a date until late high school. Gym was always a nightmare. I never understood why just because I was overweight I was picked on so bad.
I have worked very hard to get rid of the extra weight and although I get more compliments now than I did then, I will never forget where I came from and what it feels like to be not accepted. Everyone deserves love and friendship.0 -
i was bullied all through school for being ungly
but now i realise that they were jealous because I hve the one thing most of them wanted!
most people want to be taller, and slim
whilst most people can lose weight, and some will keep it off, its very hard to naturally get taller
i am 6ft 1 - which is quite tall for a girl
never wear heels (am a giant anyway) but ive realised that if i can lose the weight, ill be what most ppl want to be:
tall AND slim0 -
I am baffled by Julia Roberts/Lyle Lovett and Isla Fisher/that Borat guy relationships.
But it's not really that baffling is it? Lyle Lovett & Sacha Baren Cohen whilst not the usual ideal of good looking are both intelligent, creative, wealthy and successful. Who needs a six pack when you have a six figure salary?
I think humour as a trait is massively oversold when it comes to attraction. Yeah, I know, I know, Pretty much woman repeats the mantra "I just want a guy that makes me laugh." Yet, if you listen with your eyes and not your ears you see a very different story. People are defined by their actions, not what they say. Talk is cheap.
The sex symbols women drool over aren't usually comedians. Humour is like the cherry on top of the cake. A nice addition but no way as drool worthy as the actual cake itself (ummmmmm, cake...) If all you have is humour without any real confidence, intelligence or some kind of strength to back it up you best believe those panties will go back up quicker than Charlie Sheen can find a coke dealer on a Friday night...0 -
Maturity comes when you see people for who they are on the inside. My heart breaks for my fiance, EVERYONE calls him Shrek, and they think they're being so original. I didn't think this bothered him until one day he came home, and said "honey, do I really look like Shrek"...I said no of course, and that I thought he was beautiful, until he said that his friends don't understand why I'm with him (I'm not drop dead gorgeous, and I'm overweight but I have a lot of confidence). This almost made me cry. My fiance is an amazing man, he's loyal, honest, loves the *kitten* out of me. I'm a lucky woman. And if people sneer at me and ask how I can kiss a man with bad teeth, or that the love of my life is an ogre, than I'm Fiona because he is a reflection of my taste! I just figure that beautiful people get by on their looks , but after awhile that starts to cost money with botox and face lifts...smart people have their brain until alzheimer's kicks in, that's a lot more beautiful then puffy lips and fake boobs.0
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Hi, I'm Joe, and I am hideously ugly. I have endured the giggles, the rude comments they assume you can't hear, as well as the ones you actually were meant to hear, and the ever popular, "There's Yours" game for most of my life. Even to this day it still happens. We all know they like to say, "Oh we're just having fun and we don't mean anything by it," but then again, none of them are ever on the receiving end of those same attitudes.
I want you to know that I understand you, and I want to encourage you to fight back in any subtle way you can. For example, whenever some pretty girl comes into my shop thinking that by flirting with me she is going to get something free, I CHARGE HER DOUBLE!! In turn, when I someone comes in with their head down, obviously beaten down all their lives by the cruelty of the "pretty" people, I know, and I can feel, and I give out some awesome discounts.
You are not alone, I am with you, they may tell you that they are too, but we all know that in the end they will choose their own kind and throw you out the door to save their own a**es in the coming Zombie Apocalypse.
Little do they know that we are getting stronger every day, and what we lack in looks we will soon make up for in pure strength, meanwhile they will be too busy looking in the mirror when the Zombie Apocalypse finally comes, and THAT we will use to our advantage...
Thank You
Hi Joe. I'm Betty and I'm ugly. But that's ok, because God made me this way and He loves me. :happy: :happy: :happy: If someone else doesn't like my looks they don't have to look at me. Thanks for your post. You're a beautiful person. :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:0 -
I think humour as a trait is massively oversold when it comes to attraction. Yeah, I know, I know, Pretty much woman repeats the mantra "I just want a guy that makes me laugh." Yet, if you listen with your eyes and not your ears you see a very different story. People are defined by their actions, not what they say. Talk is cheap.
I see a lot of women on here who repeat the same lines, humor, it's what's on the inside, blah blah blah, but you see their status feed and they have friended nothing but guys with the ripped abs pictures. Then you see their convos and besides a few females in their same "league" they speak to almost nobody else.0 -
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Sorry to disagree but I think that is your bitterness speaking.
Instead of wallowing about the bad hand you think genetics has dealt you, smarten yourself up. Anyone can do that. If you are clean, well spoken, well dressed, stand straight and have a good hair cut you will be attractive. Those are the things women look for. Those things are completely under your control. I cannot emphasise enough how important those things are. If you radiate not giving a **** about yourself or your body, other people will feel the same.
That is really all there is to attractiveness, of either sex. Biology is a tiny tiny tiny aspect.0 -
Sorry to disagree but I think that is your bitterness speaking.
Instead of wallowing about the bad hand you think genetics has dealt you, smarten yourself up. Anyone can do that. If you are clean, well spoken, well dressed, stand straight and have a good hair cut you will be attractive. Those are the things women look for. Those things are completely under your control. I cannot emphasise enough how important those things are. If you radiate not giving a **** about yourself or your body, other people will feel the same.
That is really all there is to attractiveness, of either sex. Biology is a tiny tiny tiny aspect.
Hmmm, I remember someone saying something about putting lipstick on a pig a while back... What makes you believe that I've never had a haircut or worn a $2000 suit?
Besides, this thread isn't about that, though most people are making the same mistake you are. Some of them, a few.. do get it though, and this is for them, not you.0 -
Sorry to disagree but I think that is your bitterness speaking.
Instead of wallowing about the bad hand you think genetics has dealt you, smarten yourself up. Anyone can do that. If you are clean, well spoken, well dressed, stand straight and have a good hair cut you will be attractive. Those are the things women look for. Those things are completely under your control. I cannot emphasise enough how important those things are. If you radiate not giving a **** about yourself or your body, other people will feel the same.
That is really all there is to attractiveness, of either sex. Biology is a tiny tiny tiny aspect.
Hmmm, I remember someone saying something about putting lipstick on a pig a while back... What makes you believe that I've never had a haircut or worn a $2000 suit?
Besides, this thread isn't about that, though most people are making the same mistake you are. Some of them, a few.. do get it though, and this is for them, not you.
I am not assuming anything. I am just telling you what things make a guy attractive. If you want to be. Your posts, not just on this thread, but on all the others I have seen you post on come across as very bitter and self-deprecating about the hand you feel you've been dealt. I think it's a defence mechanism you put up in case people don't like you on the inside. I think that is extremely unlikely. The image you project to other people is entirely up to you.0 -
Sorry to disagree but I think that is your bitterness speaking.
Instead of wallowing about the bad hand you think genetics has dealt you, smarten yourself up. Anyone can do that. If you are clean, well spoken, well dressed, stand straight and have a good hair cut you will be attractive. Those are the things women look for. Those things are completely under your control. I cannot emphasise enough how important those things are. If you radiate not giving a **** about yourself or your body, other people will feel the same.
That is really all there is to attractiveness, of either sex. Biology is a tiny tiny tiny aspect.
Hmmm, I remember someone saying something about putting lipstick on a pig a while back... What makes you believe that I've never had a haircut or worn a $2000 suit?
Besides, this thread isn't about that, though most people are making the same mistake you are. Some of them, a few.. do get it though, and this is for them, not you.
I am not assuming anything. I am just telling you what things make a guy attractive. If you want to be. Your posts, not just on this thread, but on all the others I have seen you post on come across as very bitter and self-deprecating about the hand you feel you've been dealt. I think it's a defence mechanism you put up in case people don't like you on the inside. I think that is extremely unlikely. The image you project to other people is entirely up to you.
And I have seen a post where you say you cross the street when you see some types of people... Yet there are numerous guys who dress the same as I do, have the same hair, yet are seen in an entirely different light. What you post sounds more like your personal preferences and prejudices than any form of governing truth. I know exactly what my insecurities are, and I know what my defense mechanisms are very well, after all, I do live with them on a daily basis. Do you know what yours are? Does it make you feel more secure in yourself to point it out in others, does it feed your own sense of superiority? Just a general question, I know there have been times in my life where I have done exactly that.
Aside from that, this is still not what the thread is about.0 -
Well I think you are awesome,dont know if my opinion means anything......
I try to talk to everyone on my friends list,its hard to keep up sometimes.I do not think I am all that hot but I also dont think im ugly.My past relationships were based alot on personality,I was always told most of my boyfriends were not very attractive,but to me they were0 -
My first impression of OP was lead singer of Korn. Just saying.0
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i was bullied throughout school for being ugly. Everyone was in on it. I was the kid it was uncool to like. As a result i am completely insecure about my looks and am plagued with body image issues and battle with eating disorders as a result - even when after leaving school i actually got attention from guys, and sometimes people even say im pretty, which i find embarrassing and dont know what to say, but still what was constantly constantly pushed on me throughout school sticks with me. Its such a horrible thing to feel ugly0
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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. My ex-husband used to tell me I was a hidous cow because I didn't look like a super-model. My current husband tells me everyday that I am beautiful and he's scared that if I lose too much weight I will be too beautiful and want to run off. (LOL. He's a little paranoid; I'm not going anywhere).0
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Hi! I'm not saying just to be saying but I really don't think you're hideously ugly at all. I don't even think you're kind of ugly I even went to your profile page and enlarged the itty-bitty picture of you and nope...nothing hideous. You could show us a smile though:blushing: . 0
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i was bullied throughout school for being ugly. Everyone was in on it. I was the kid it was uncool to like. As a result i am completely insecure about my looks and am plagued with body image issues and battle with eating disorders as a result - even when after leaving school i actually got attention from guys, and sometimes people even say im pretty, which i find embarrassing and dont know what to say, but still what was constantly constantly pushed on me throughout school sticks with me. Its such a horrible thing to feel ugly
I was bullied up till Jr. High. Dispite my training from the age of 4, I was terrified of fighting back. Once I did, I saw what I thought was approval from my peers and I found myself craving that. As the years went by I became increasingly violent and more extreme, but nothing could quite feel that void within me. As I said, fear is the boundary of truth, I lived in fear (fear of being victimized again, and much more), and those around me were in fear of me, none of them liked me, they just didn't want to become the focus of my attention.0 -
Joe you are awesome! I hope you add me as a friend.0
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