Kicking *kitten* In Our Twenties - June Challenge!!

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  • hanna1210
    hanna1210 Posts: 286 Member
    Goodness! I am going to need an extra hour in my day to stick with this group :wink: It's wonderful how active you all are!

    cmg - I am starting week 3 tonight. I'm not looking forward to it, but it'll be nice to see just how far I can push myself. I'm an ex-athlete (as in high school, way the hell back there) so it's actually nice to have that great worn-out muscles kind of feeling back. I'm also in a challenge group on here that's really helping me stick with it - well, I guess two now. How's your week coming along?

    shannon - How did you do on C25K? Did you repeat any weeks? And did you do treadmill or outside? Just curious.

    Great job everyone and everything you all are doing!! :bigsmile:
  • GuamGrly
    GuamGrly Posts: 600 Member
    Good Morning all!!

    Megan – Yes, I am finally a graduate!! Although I am now kicking around the idea of just sticking with it and getting my masters. I am also continuing to avoid the scale like the plague. I was tempted to step on there this morning, even though it isn’t even my normal WI day, but for some reason wanted to see my progress but I thought about it again and realized that I needed to focus on other things right now. Hope you are able to get a work out in either way today!!

    Anita – how do you like your trainer?? I have thought about getting one just to get the ball rolling and get doing what I need to do rather than what I want to do.

    Aly – you always have sooo much going on in your life!! I hope that you are able to find a good balance of everything so that you are able to enjoy your time with your fiancé, rather than take out your bad feelings on him. It will happen over time!!

    Tara – can’t say that things are starting to “thin” out just yet but I will be moving this weekend and I think it won’t be long before the kids and I settle into a new sense of normalcy. I am soooo looking forward to it!! Meal planning, a consistent workout schedule, and a routine…woohoo!!

    Shannon – I think I kinda have the same mentality as you do. My boyfriend is going to be opening his own brewery soon cause he loves beer and brewing his own beer. So we usually go out to the bar once a week to taste new beers. I wouldn’t give up that time with him for anything. As long as I can keep the rest of my food in check, then I will give up that night of bad choices to spend good, quality time with him.

    Kandace – thanks girly!! Missed you too!! I am actually constantly thinking about you too!! I just haven’t had the chance to post in the forum like I want to. But I try and keep up with everyone even if I’m not posting. And thank you for the congrats!! I think once the move is over then things will slowly calm down and I can get back to working on me!! I am very much looking forward to it!! And great job planning ahead when you knew you were going to be stuck in the house all day!! And don’t forget to be nice to yourself as well cause you more than deserve it with everything that you have been accomplishing lately!!

    AFM…small NSV last night…I wanted something sweet so very badly after dinner. I didn’t care if it was ice cream or chocolate that my mom has lying around the house and I was gonna validate eating it because I was working so hard on packing but I decided that the extra calories weren’t worth it to me and just kept packing.

    Hope you lovelies have a wonderful day!!
  • lostalykat
    lostalykat Posts: 683 Member
    First I want to say thank you to everyone for supporting me and understanding my weird emotions lately. I know this is all a process, and when I would have before just ate or drank my feelings away I am learning how to deal with them, which is hard! I have been struggling with my job lately which reflects on everything I do. I am looking for another one but as for now I just have to pull through.

    Thank you as well to everyone who complimented me on my dress. It feels good to hear nice things when I am not too nice to myself sometimes.

    AFM- I actually feel great today! It seemed like it took a little bit to shake the bad feelings I had in my head but today I am back and ready for action; I came home and made my fiance dinner before we went to a movie. A really nice change of pace. Then when I got home I started an overnight chili so I would be ready for lunch. I woke up early this morning and made a delish egg/egg white with spinach feta and cherry tomato scramble. I even had time to do my hair and put makeup on which I have been lagging on. I packed my bag so I can go straight to the gym right after work. The sun is finally shining (thank you Calfornia for keeping your word) and I am ready to take on everything. I am even having a “skinny day” hehe. I will be back to comment on posts when I get a lull at work. Have a great day everyone!
  • Leela30
    Leela30 Posts: 177 Member
    Maria: As long as you are healthy and still have muscles, just ignore them. They aren’t used to people actually looking under the obesity rate. As long as your doctor says you’re healthy, and you know that you are healthy, eating enough, and working out.. just ignore them

    Meghan: Welcome!!

    Cait: I’ve heard wedding planning is a huge headache. I’m no where near ready for that myself. Goodluck with it all, and great job with still staying healthy and active.

    Allie: I love tai food, and find is super super hard to still measure/calculate when the place I’m eating at isn’t a chain and doesn’t have nutrition posted. I usually use PF Changs, even though I’ve never eaten at one.. I figure how different can it be? Also, try and always choose the steamed option, and healthier looking noodles (as in not fried) though I know that’s all the yummy food lol. And BTW.. I GET THAT TAN LINE TOO!

    Aly: you can always vent here. :hugs: I hope you are doing better.

    Tara: that’s the perks of spending a lot of time with significant others before any questions are popped.. can we really work and live together? That’s great that he is supportive of you. I guess 4x a week is like practically living together anyway… Now if only you can get him to workout with you…. Lol

    Shannon: we all go on little hiatuses when life gets really busy. But we all love each other all the same lol. And your Saturday night free-night is perfectly fine and that’s fantastic that you accept that life is about balance.. and enjoying life means splurging and as long as you don’t beat yourself up about it, or not losing weight really fast, that it sounds like you have made a really great deal with yourself.

    Meag: GOODLUCK ON YOUR RACE!!

    CMG: one step at a time. Great control not stopping off at mcdonalds. It will only get easier the more you get used to not going.

    Tara: Wow! Fantastic job not eating any of that.. IDK if I could have done that. But I love the rule of using a small plate and don’t go back for more lol.

    Kandace: I just did a project of the DOD lol. I know they have an HRM position open. Thanks for the suggestion!
  • mkingraham
    mkingraham Posts: 445 Member
    Hey Ladies-

    Just dropping in to say hello to all the newbies and to vent a little.

    As those of you who were around in May know I have been SOOo busy at work. And was really looking forward to some slower pace days. Well now that I am in training all week not only am I having to basically do all of my regular work, but I am in training attempting to learn new software. Then my sister- whom I love dearly- decides last minute that her, her husband and my 4yr old niece are going to come and visit next week. This would be amazing except I am so busy at work that I can't really afford to take time off, and its not like I can get extra done this week because I am in training. I'm barely hanging on by a thread over here when it comes to just not throwing in the towel with respect to my diet, and I just need a second for myself. I thought I was going to get that this weekend as the hubby is heading out of town to visit some high school buddies, but since my sister is coming I will instead be spending my weekend cleaning my house from top to bottom. All I wanted to do was go for some runs and lay out on my deck with the pup. I am feeling really stressed out and while I'm not diving head first into food I'm kind of sucking at resisting stuff too. To top it all off I am having muscle tightness in between my shoulder blades, but I can't go see the chiropractor because i'm in training. Its a vicous cycle and I feel like I need to spend 50hrs at the gym to relieve all this stress! UGH!

    Thanks for listening and I will attempt to reply to everyone's posts when I get the chance!

    Megan
  • tjradd73
    tjradd73 Posts: 3,495 Member
    Thought I'd share my fave saying, "What's done is done, there is no point in lingering in the past. The present is here, and the future is yours to changed!":flowerforyou:



    Anita-you are gonna love this group!! we have been going strong since (at least) October...maybe a lil longer (before I joined it)! And if you can control yourself with the brownies (which I could not) then have one and move on...if you can't then don't touch em!! :tongue:

    Bethany- *cheers*:drinker: to routine, and to not eating the chocolate!!

    Aly-glad to hear that you are having a great day....now go rock the gym!:heart:

    Leela-4 days/week is def a lil challenging!! He is really good about doing his own thing while I am working out, but he has also come hiking with me, and will totally go running with me (when I am ready to start that!), and I also offered him my elliptical, on the days that I am doin my DVDs....we shall see how it goes!! And yes the food sitting right in front of my face for 12 hours sucked!! :laugh: I only had the 2 cheese and crackers that I mentioned last night and then I had 1 salt water taffy....overall, I'm happy with it!

    Megan-I'm sorry to hear that things aren't "tops" over there!! Just remember to take 1 hour each day to do the things that you enjoy!! Your house cleaning can wait for a minute! Wake up....workout for 30min....clean for an hour....sit on porch with pup....clean some more, the breaks will be well deserved and the cleaning will get done! Not to mention the fact that cleaning can be a great workout! :smile:

    AFM-2nd rest day of the week, last work day of the week!! I (as always) am not feeling that great about the scale this week...I have done EVERYTHING that I should have this week and will be very disappointed if I do not have a loss!!! I'm thinkin I may be hitting a plateau...which sucks since I am so close to finishing now!! Grrrrrrrrrrrr! :grumble:
  • cmg2008
    cmg2008 Posts: 139
    shannon: i just started W5D1 of C25K and it was kinda easy! week 4 bout killed me and i was reluctent to start week 5 but i'm glad i did =) walking up the stairs used to get me winded now i can run for 5 minutes

    hanna1210: as you can prob see above i started week 5 tonight and i've never felt more refreshed after a run before! I love to c25k its making me feel wonderful bout myself =)

    megan: i know things seem frustrating for you right now but things will get better =) Also think of it this way, cleaning the house for top to bottom is also exercise it might not be that type that you want, but at least your still burning those calories! i hope your week gets better!

    AFM: I bought myself wii fit plus today as a little treat =) I spent bout an hour playing the random games with my little cousin while getting exercise and having fun at the same time, plus some of those games are actally kinda hard, i feel the burn when i do them! Afterwards started W5D1 of C25K and let me tell you I've never felt so good after a run before! Then i jumped into the pool for some relaxation =) Today has been one of the better days that ive had in a long time! Plus i'm still on track with my goals for this month! Now to write my 10pg rough draft for my summer class =(
    EDIT: I forgot to meantion that i bought almond milk today to try && i absoutely love it! thats all lol =)
  • bootssowhite
    bootssowhite Posts: 93 Member
    Hi! I'm 26 and since I started this diet on Sunday, I think my June goal might just be to still be dieting at the end of the month. I have a long history of giving up on a diet around day four. Also, I'm tentatively planning on running my first 5K on July 4th, so I'd like to start running at least three times a week.
  • meagalayne
    meagalayne Posts: 3,382 Member
    This week has been bananas!

    Update from me - The bff is coming for a visit Thurs night, so along with all my other life craziness I am trying to prepare for that. I know I've been absentee but it looks like that won't be letting up until at least Sunday night. I am expecting lots of craziness at work and loads of over-time conflating my timing issues as well. Fun!

    Race today went ALRIGHT :indifferent: I ran it in just under 64mins (waiting on official chip time results), which is about 3 mins short of my PR and so a bit of a disappointment. I can justify it by the following:

    1) I'm totally under-trained. I ran my PR at peak physical/training condition in February and my 2 month running hiatus has really set me back
    2) It was hotter than a Thai bath house today... 36C with the humidex, which is almost 100F for my imperial friends. Damn hot. And so humid/muggy. My HR was in the 170s and I was still able to chat with other runners. Don't know what that's about but I was sweating like a *kitten* in church...
    3) Ok so that's about it. But still!

    I'm not overly pleased but I am happy I ran it and it was a great race in general. I know I'll get faster again, eventually. It's just frustrating. C'est la vie! I also definitely need to get back into strength training and cross training regularly because I am feeling very unbalanced lately and like I'm losing my fitness. Definitely a personal goal for the month!

    Food? Bah! No time to comment on that. It's so-so. I still have my battles but I'm doing ok. Check my diary.

    Boots - HI! My first suggestion is to consider "diet" a 4-letter word. Think about this journey as a way of teaching yourself to make healthy choices in the first instance. Start slow, with one or two easy changes, and work towards more challenging goals. It's not about giving up or sticking with it 100% - we all have struggles! Just take it one day at a time and count your victories when they happen. It's the only way to get anywhere on this journey. Good luck and welcome! :drinker:

    Shan - OK you're fabulous, darling! And thank you so much for kind words - although you deserve to take ALL the credit! This thread is such a love-fest and that's what I adore so much about it. Women supporting other women in their goals -- It's such a refreshing change from the catty reality we are faced with so often.

    cmg - Not sure I properly welcomed you - So welcome! And great to hear you treated yourself to something so positive - I love motivating myself like that! Enjoy it!

    Megan - BREATHE! Sounds like life is getting the best of you, dear. Keep things in perspective. I know I sound like a mega hypocrite here but I constantly have to ask myself "What's the worst that will happen if X doesn't get done?" -- You can only do so much. If the house isn't looking brand-new, so what! Most people don't notice. If you need to relieve stress and your shoulders are at their breaking point, have a bath and a glass of wine and just CHILL OUT. Don't even count it if you don't want to. It's all up to you. You have to be your own best coach and motivator but you also have to be your own best friend on this journey. Be good to YOU, because the honest truth is that no one else is responsible for your happiness. Take time every day to make today great :heart:

    Meagan and Hanna - WELCOME! :flowerforyou: you'll love it here and great to have you. Don't worry if you feel overwhelmed with all the posts. You aren't obliged to keep up with everyone. I know how it goes - Way too much to keep up with some days.

    Speaking of which...

    Alright folks. Bed time. Having some yummy food tomorrow (which I hope I'll be able to log) and then hitting a concert at night that Tyler really wants to go to. Hope we can get SOME sleep, but who knows. Have a great Wednesday ladies! :heart:
  • tjradd73
    tjradd73 Posts: 3,495 Member
    Adding boots- WELCOME to the group! :bigsmile:


    Angela4Health -run 60 miles in June and eat clean for 29 of the next 30 days
    CCSunlight- Drink at least 8c of water a day, lose 8 pounds, and make sure to stay on track as I move and settle in
    Ashleypeterson37:: Finish the last 10 days of 30DS, finally hit ONEDERLAND (8lbs away), run at least 50 miles and start Ripped in 30!
    ashleyk_xox- Lose 10 pounds to make it to my 100 pounds total lost, bring ALL my meals to work, complete entire 30 DS video, NO sweat tea, go to the gym at least 4 times every week, and tone my legs enough to wear shorts!
    Anitanz - loose 2kg to get down to 63kg / 139lb. Drink less alcohol and look and feel great at my 30th!
    ~KanCrav~..... Reach 135. ~ Drink at least 80oz of water a day. ~ Work out 6 days a week, even if its just Shred. ~ Finish Shred! ~Run at least 4 miles a week.
    milieitner-Get into the 8-stone-something category, Finish shred and start NMTZ, and Eat 100% clean 5 days a week
    emmaldownie (Emma)- cycle 100k, drink at least 8 glasses of water a day
    mkingraham (Megan)- Strength train at least 2 times a week, DON'T Weigh-in until July 1, run at least 2 miles 3 times a week, believe in myself, lose 8 lbs (ambitious I know)
    erinnmcpherson- Goals: Drink 6-8 cups of water a day, lose at least three pounds, run/walk a 5k scheduled for June 18, run 3x a week, cook/eat more fruits and veggies again (and less processed foods) and start 30DS again.
    Crystalfaith: workout at least 4x a week, solidify my spot in the 140s (shooting for 145), containing my eating on the weekends, drink lots of water!
    Finncmh (Cait)- Continue with crossfit schedule of 3 days a week (MWF) get back in to a better running schedule (TR, Sat or Sun), compete in Father's Day 5k (hoping for a solid PR!) work on letting myself just get outside and relax a little bit on my day off, complete my Whole 30 challenge (check out my blog to see what it is), continue to blog everyday about my experience with the Whole30 challenge.
    shannonaufman: hit 168 pounds. Drink 32oz of H2O before any other beverage. Stick with 30DS and OHR. One cheat meal a week, log everything else.
    jyopchick: stay on Turbo Fire schedule as much as possible (even through a 10-day beach vacation), make FUN not FOOD the FOCUS of the summer!! :)
    smapl001-work out 3x a week and lose 8lbs :)
    lostalykat- No weighing in until a month from my last WI day, June 26th. Focus on fueling for my workouts and staying in a good calorie range. Relax and stretch more, worry less. Check in on how I am feeling emotionally and mentally once a week.
    Allie7383- stay in the 140's.. WI once a week.. continue with the 30 Day Shred, focus on changing my eating, continue feeling better about myself, no matter the number on the scale!!
    Mariababe81 (Mariam): I want to keep up with c25k and get to week 8 by the end of june, to continue zumba once a week and shred on days i cant run, get back to my clean eating!!! I am going to try to not weigh in every day and stick to once a month or fortnightly as i dont want the scale to rule my life! get the hang of maintainance!
    kafoteh (Kristin): *Lose 2-5 lbs *Workout at least 4x a week and at least 45 mins each session *Go to the golf driving range at least 3 times this month
    guamgrly (Bethany) - no scale!! Focus on the lifestyle, the routine, and meal planning. Work out 3x per week. Drink 8 glasses of water per day. Eat more fruits and veggies
    shelsab (alexis)- lose 5 lbs. Strength 3 x week. More veggies. Read more. Find some new healthy meals to make.
    tjradd73(Tara)- lose -6.0llbs, follow my new workout plan every day, try 2 new recipes, <1400 cal avg/week, and <4 days over cals total.
    meagalayne- get settled into a fitness schedule that works with my new job and stay accountable, continue logging only 5 days/week, make 2 spin classes, make fitness social at least once a week (cycling, running, walking, something - not including baseball games on Wed night), drink more water (!!!) and aim to get at least 6 hours of sleep at least 5 nights a week.
    imarunner8908- hit 155 by July 1st, start running again , drink at least 80 ounces of water a day, and give up eating fast food more than once a week, no TV
    Leela30: I'd love to lose at least 2-3 real pounds, but realistically my goal and what will happen is more maintenance.
    cmg2008: I would love to get down into the mid 140s, continue trekking on with C25K and I want to not eat any fast foods for the month of june =)
    Eleanoreb- Continue with maintenance and focus on eating healthier. I've been more caught up in maintaining, than in eating healthy. I need to cut back on all the treats ive been allowing myself lately
    Ley2ndtry: Complete weeks 1-4 on C25K
    Complete the 30 day shred and continue with Zumba - Fit into a size 14 finally and keep up healthy eating!!
    hanna1210 (Meghan)- Consistently work out with C25K, get in the 210s, work out at least 5 days a week.
    MeaggyTheGreaty-To drink at least 8 glasses water/day (FOR REAL!) and to not quit P90X!
    bootssowhite-to still be dieting at the end of the month, and to start running at least three times a week

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  • tjradd73
    tjradd73 Posts: 3,495 Member
    cmg-i like my wii fit...I recommend getting the extra raises for the board though...it really makes it more challenging while doing the steps!


    Meag-I think that was a great time for your race (all considering!) you should be proud that you could hold a conversation while running in 100 degree heat PERIOD!!

    AFM-kinda in a "pity party" mood tonight...so I will leave with-I hope everyone else is having a great night :)
  • KanCrav
    KanCrav Posts: 439 Member
    Just a quick post.......

    Its Wed. That should almost say it all!~! I am feeling much "less depressed' than I was last week. Things are looking up, but now I have to realize that fact that If I start to dwell on the sad stuff in my life again I am going to slip right back into bed. My older brothers Bday is soon which is awesome. Yet the thought of being away from him on his birthday really makes me sad. I have my little brother and my parents are gone, its not fair that he has to be without us on his bday. My birthday is also coming up, and lucky me, it lands on fathers day. This used to excite me beyond imagination when I was little and the days would coincide. Now I just dont know how to deal with it. I want to be able to be happy and celebrate.... its just going to be so hard. Why cant I think about my parents without being so sad?? I know it hasnt been very long, but I dont want my heart to hurt anymore.
  • MandaLee8908
    MandaLee8908 Posts: 1,353 Member
    Ugh.

    That's about all I can say right now. I'm a little perturbed at myself. Normally, I don't have much of an appetite in the summer...too hot to eat...but this year seems to be an exception much to my dismay. Yesterday, I ate an oatmeal creme pie for no other reason than it was there. Really?! I have all this fruit and such and yet no desire to eat it. Ack.

    And exercise has been less than a priority. So not happy with myself.

    My water goal has been easy to attain...I can't get enough lately!

    Any encouragement would be fabulous...I need to lose some serious pounds this month.
  • littlemili
    littlemili Posts: 625 Member
    Hey Ladies-

    Just dropping in to say hello to all the newbies and to vent a little.

    As those of you who were around in May know I have been SOOo busy at work. And was really looking forward to some slower pace days. Well now that I am in training all week not only am I having to basically do all of my regular work, but I am in training attempting to learn new software. Then my sister- whom I love dearly- decides last minute that her, her husband and my 4yr old niece are going to come and visit next week. This would be amazing except I am so busy at work that I can't really afford to take time off, and its not like I can get extra done this week because I am in training. I'm barely hanging on by a thread over here when it comes to just not throwing in the towel with respect to my diet, and I just need a second for myself. I thought I was going to get that this weekend as the hubby is heading out of town to visit some high school buddies, but since my sister is coming I will instead be spending my weekend cleaning my house from top to bottom. All I wanted to do was go for some runs and lay out on my deck with the pup. I am feeling really stressed out and while I'm not diving head first into food I'm kind of sucking at resisting stuff too. To top it all off I am having muscle tightness in between my shoulder blades, but I can't go see the chiropractor because i'm in training. Its a vicous cycle and I feel like I need to spend 50hrs at the gym to relieve all this stress! UGH!

    Thanks for listening and I will attempt to reply to everyone's posts when I get the chance!

    Megan

    :(
    You've got to demand some you time from whoever isn't giving it to you. Hubby needs to do is part of cleaning. Just because he wont be there when the family come to stay, it's still his responsibility to show off a house that he lives in. He will be judged for it just as much as you so he needs to put some work in. And when the family are there, make sure you push them off to visit a local attraction or something for a few hours. If you can, I also can't recommend enough that you take maybe 1 hour, no more, and cook a couple of super-easy big meals that can be frozen (soup, stew, tomato pasta sauce, curry etc work great). Then you can freeze them in individual portions for the next week and when you haven't got time to cook you can just bang one in the microwave and eat it without any effort. Plus you will already know the calorie content. It makes junk easy to avoid because you have fast-food right there already. I do this during busy concert seasons or exam weeks, it saves soooo much time over a week if you cook enough for say 10 portions. You can add different stuff each time as well, especially if you just make a bulk tomato sauce, so it's not too boring.

    I have had really busy mornings this week with violin lessons (I'm a violin performance student in music college) and exams so my exercise hasn't been great. Plus I am getting more travel jabs tomorrow afternoon. I'm really happy I finally hit 9 stone (126 for non-UK people) which I always said would be a kind of "new maximum" for me. I also am pleased to say I bought a size UK6/US2 top which fits nicely. 15lb done now :)
  • GuamGrly
    GuamGrly Posts: 600 Member
    Happy hump day lovelies!!

    Megan – sorry that you won’t be able to take a breather in between your still-crazy work schedule and your sister’s last minute visit. I give you props for not jumping head first into all the comfort food that you can think of though. Just take it one day at a time and don’t stress about things out of your control. Will your sister really be worried if your house isn’t spotless from top to bottom? The reason for her visit isn’t to check on the cleanliness of your house but to spend some good quality time with her sis. Do what you can but don’t overdo it either!! I wish you the best!!

    Cmg – sounds like you had a fabulous day!! My daughter has been asking for a Wii for a few years now and I’m thinking that once we get settled into our new place, it would be a good treat for all of us. I also wish I was still doing the C25K program. I never in my life thought I would enjoy and even miss running but I do so hopefully once the dust settles, I will be able to pick that back up again.

    Meag – all things considered, I think the 3 minutes under your PR was definitely a win!! You haven’t been able to run like you were previously so 3 minutes is nothing!! And I hope you have a great visit with the BFF!!

    Tara – sorry to hear about your pity party. I hope the party ended early!! I know that a plateau is the last thing that you want right now but you have been doing an amazing job so far. I have no doubt that you will reach your goal within the 10 weeks. Hold that head up girly!!

    Kandace – sorry to hear about your woes!! I was actually just having a conversation similar to that with a friend of mine yesterday. My dad has been gone for 15 years now and I still cried 4 or 5 times this Saturday on my way to graduation because I wanted him to be there and I wanted him to be proud. The pain will ease but will never go away. Cherish the good times that you had with him and the good times that will come with your husband, brothers, family, and friends. Take Father’s Day to celebrate his life and your birth…make it an amazing day!!

    Iamarunner – don’t beat yourself up about the past! It’s the past and it is what it is! Take time to find the drive and motivation you once had to make the right decisions. Sometimes we become weak and lose that drive and motivation but you will find it again and you will do amazing things!!

    AFM…have been busy this week packing and getting ready for moving day. Food hasn’t been extremely horrible and I think I am slowly getting back to where I need to be. I think slow and steady is better for me…especially with everything going on in my life.

    Lovelies…lets make it a great day!! Sounds like a lot of you are down so lets keep our heads held high and make the most of our day!!
  • M_lifts
    M_lifts Posts: 2,218 Member
    Meag: that was excellent time for your race! I would love to be able to run for 60 mins flat! maybe some day! so well done you.

    Megan: hope you can find some time to get much needed chill time. Like mili suggested, some local attraction might be the best way to distract them and get them out of your hair for a bit!

    Tara: Hope u are feel better soon, and dont sweat the scales so much. You have done amazingly well so far and you will get to that 100 soon! you are a true inspiration girly and you will rock it :)

    KanCrave: I would say you need to celebrate your birthday and fathers day and remember all the good times you had with your parents rather than focusing on the fact they are gone. easier said than done i know. big hugs to you

    Iamarunner: we all have these rubbish days, so pick yourself up and start afresh! the amount of times ive eaten something just because it was there is ridiculous! but dont let it sabotage your plans. you can start again! which is why i love mfp as months ago if i were on weight watchers id have long given up!

    Guamgirl: good luck with your move! hope u get settled in soon.

    Mili: well dont on hitting your 9stone! that was my goal initially! as i weighed 9stone on my wedding day, however once i got there i decided i wanted to go a bit lower! Im 8st 9lbs now and still toying with whether i want to make is 8.5stone but im happy being an 8/10! so i think i will stick to 8st 9lb!


    AFM: have had a busy few days due to moving offices- big hassle and loads of egos to please, wont go into it as far too complicated. but im a bit sore from all the lifting etc. Liking exercise atm as such a fab way to release stress! lol. Doing ok food wise this week, am doing a bit of calorie cycling to curb some bad habits so staying between 1430-1700. liking my polar monitor for the accurate burn!

    did level 3 of the shred yesterday and tbh i felt like level 2 works you harder! dont know if its just me though. Has anyone tried any other Jillian dvds? im thinking of getting burn fat boost metabolism or no more trouble zones? anyone used these?

    going to do week 5 today of c25k and i feel like im ready for the 20min run! so im going to give it a go (once my little one is down, she is being a pickle lol) ! wish me luck!
  • anitanz
    anitanz Posts: 72
    Hi Ladies,

    Meag- I think your running time was awesome. Good on you for getting out and doing a mid-week race too, because that can be hard. Your heart rate may have been so high because of the nerves and stress, that’s why you could still chat. Just a theory, but I have heard of runners going home before they even started to run because their HR was so high that they thought they must be sick. Also, how did the official results come in?

    KanCrave- Can you take some time out on your Birthday/ Fathers Day to remember good times that you shared with your Dad? Maybe go somewhere that he would like or eat his favorite meal, that is what Indian families do and I think it’s quite a nice tradition. Xx

    Megan- I hope it all goes well with your sis there. At least the cleaning will be good exercise!

    Someone asked a couple of pages back (can’t remember who and can’t find the post- sorry) if I recommend a personal trainer, honestly, I think if you can find a good trainer who really pushes you then they are great. My BF and I go to our trainer together, and although it is a lot of money (like as much as going out for a nice meal), it is worth it for our health and as long as we can still afford it I think we will keep going. Gym night is the new date night!

    AFM- Last night I had my hair cut, and while I was at the hairdresser I indulged in a glass of wine and some olives. I wasn’t going to but after the terrible traffic getting there I just thought ‘what the hell’. Anyway, it took all of my willpower not to open a bottle when I got home and polish off another couple of glasses, some more olives and maybe some cheese. I just had to get a glass of water and my dinner down really quickly so that I could forget about it. So I am quite pleased because it is one of my goals this month to not drink so much, but man it is just so hard once I have a glass and get the taste!

    Take care lovelies xxx
  • lostalykat
    lostalykat Posts: 683 Member
    Anita- I totally feel you on the drinking front. I struggle with this a lot but it has gotten better. Great job at the hairdresser! I wish my hairdresser did wine and snacks that sounds so nice! I love that your bf and you go to a trainer together. I would love to get my fiance into it, maybe one day.

    Guam- You know what you have to do and you are ready to conquer. Just keep going and don't give up!

    AFM- I have still been feeling lonely lately. I am hoping it will fade after this weekend when I see some friends to train with. I only have about 7 weeks of training until the race. I am not sure what I am going to do after that, I have built a lot of my life and happiness around training with friends since that is where my healthy social life is. I am hoping that I will not lose that. I might go seek out more healthy friends on group meetup sites since they seem hard to come by. I am going to try to plan a little hiking or walking with my fiance this weekend since it will be so nice. I have a double brick workout scheduled on Saturday (1.5 hour bike, 15 minute run and repeat) so I am hoping I am not too tired from that and I feel up for more activity. Eating lots of salads lately because I have been craving fresh veggies. Still struggling with meal planning and I feel like at one point in the week I always need to go to the store to get a few things. I need to work on that. So far so good, hopefully acupuncture tonight will make me feel better and give me a clear head. I guess I just have to learn how to be ok with being alone.
  • tjradd73
    tjradd73 Posts: 3,495 Member
    Kan-stay strong girl!! Take a look at the quote that I posted a few back...and always remember it! Be happy for your bro...I am sure he will have a great b-day, and sometime in the near future maybe you can spend it with him! And you should ALWAYS celebrate and enjoy your b-day NO MATTER WHAT!! Look at it as a way to not only celebrate your life and changes but to also celebrate your dad :happy: You will do great!

    imarunner(sorry I don't remember your name)-take a deep breath! we ALL fall off track on occassion...the most important thing is to take it one step at a time! Get the lil debbies outta the house....and get in a fab workout!! Just remember how good it feels after you have done a great workout, and remember how great it feels to get on the scale and see a loss!! NEVER forget that and you will push past this "down time" soon!! I wish you great success girl! :drinker:

    milileitner-CONGRATS on hitting 126lbs!! that is one of my huge goals for myself (1lb away) as it will be 100lbs lost from my heaviest! Also congrats on the size 2...that is great! :happy:

    Bethany-thanks girlie!! you are right...a plateau (which it seems I MAY have hit) isn't what I want right now...but hopefully that means when I break through it, the rest of my weight will drop off quickly and maybe I will even hit my goal weight early!! who knows?! :bigsmile: Good luck with the moving...i can't wait to see you back in action full force again soon!

    Mariam-thanks to you too!! You are doing AWESOME on your workouts!!! The only other Jillian DVD that I have tried (which is actually a BL DVD) is cardio max...and I think it is a pretty good one!! I don't think it is quite as hard as the shred but I do think that it is better cardio and has a better burn! :smile:

    Anita-nice work on resisting the yumminess of the adult beverage!!that can be a true challenge at times for me too!! WTG! :laugh:

    Aly-keep pushing through girl! Seems like you are totally on track with your workouts now, and getting there with your eating (yah on the veggies!) take that alone time as a blessing...trust me... once you are married and have kids, you will wish you had more of it! :wink:

    AFM-well...I was right about the scale today...I have officially still NOT hit my 100lb mark!! I think I am in my first plateau of starting this journey (in October)...which sucks because of timing! I think that the couple of changes I have made this month, will benefit me by the end of it...but are hurting me right now!:noway: I had upped my cal intake by like 100/day and have added in more stregth training to my routine, so we shall see I guess!
  • drjennelle
    drjennelle Posts: 138 Member
    ahhhh i haven't been here in WAYYYY too long :embarassed: i am just dropping a quick update and then hope to catch up with everyone ASAP!!

    life has been crazy, but i know that's no excuse! :ohwell: i have really been refocusing the last two weeks, and it has done a WORLD of good. i started talking to more people about what they do for workouts (people who i respect and are in the exact kind of shape i want to be in!) :smile: while i LOVE LOVE LOVE all my Turbo workouts, i know that i can't just live as a cardio junkie forever! :cry: hehe jk jk - it's a good thing to realize! plus when it's 90 degrees outside and you work out in your non-air conditioned apartment, doing Turbo Fire might actually kill you :laugh: so i recently got into yoga (of all varieties) mostly because i felt it would be a great "mobile" workout to take with me on vacation (a week from today ill be on my way to the sunny sands of FLORIDA! woot woot!) - you don't need any equipment for yoga and you can still get a KILLER workout (jillian michaels just kicked my butt with her yoga meltdown - LOVED it!). i think yoga (or some variation of) will TOTALLY be my summer workout :bigsmile:

    additionally, i've made some big life decisions this week. i have roughly a year and a half of graduate school left, and ive been working on what is supposed to be my dissertation for a while now (i am in an experimental psychology doctoral program and my thesis currently is about understanding children's odd behaviors and deciding whether or not they are "psychologically healthy"). i realized this week that health and wellness are no longer just an "interest" for me, but it's a passion and one i want to pursue as a career. that being said, im attempting to completely change my dissertation to instead look at the mutual causal link between psychological and physical health - as in mental states can affect health habits just as much as health habits can affect mental states (which we here at MFP all recognize, but the public at large does NOT seem to get this, or to care, or to follow it... and of course we've all struggled with this connection ourselves i imagine). ultimately i want to work on finding a better way to "market"/ promote "health" in regards to diet and exercise. so many of us grow up in this country and have NO idea what it means to be healthy as children and young adults. we have to COMPLETELY re-learn everything once we become adults and decide to commit to a change in lifestyle. doesn't this seem so backwards? shouldn't we be training our children to BE healthy, active, people? while i have been studying and always been interested in mental health, i have always focused on mental illness and treatment for illness... now i know that being healthy does not necessary remove mental illness, but it is such an amazing first step to improve mood and overall function. i want to start here, because it's so much less depressing and there is just so much hope :love:

    so.... this is going to be a big day. i outlined the new thesis idea and ill be emailing my advisor about it today... i just hope this doesn't give her a heart attack, she has two small children to take care of at home :tongue: wish me luck, i might finally be being bold enough to step up and take charge of the future i want to have, but more importantly, the future i want everyone to have... happy, healthy, & hopeful :heart:
  • meagalayne
    meagalayne Posts: 3,382 Member
    Morning folks! Quick post before work. Bff arrives tonight so I may be on a short hiatus from the thread, but I'll be with you guys in spirit and still logging 5 days a week. I'm not going anywhere! :bigsmile: Can't get rid of me that easily!

    Tara - I know how frustrating it can be to be sooo close to your goal, after coming so far and really thriving every step of the way. It's like making it to the finish line but never getting a chance to break the tape. Especially when you know its possible and you know how to get it done and your body just isn't responding. I get impatient too! I feel that way about my composition and my shape instead of my weight, but it's a very similar sense of frustration I'm sure. What I can say is that you need to re-orient your focus and really celebrate in the 99lbs you HAVE lost. I know it's hard but you deserve to feel good about everything you've done and one measly pound is so arbitrary and insignificant in the grand scheme that it shouldn't dictate how successful you feel. 100lbs lost is a fabulous goal to strive for, but the number is just as arbitrary as 99lbs lost -- either way you've kick some major *kitten* on this thing and you deserve to feel good about it. That's just my $0.02, of course :blushing:

    Aly - Good luck on the social front. I have a lot of the same issues - Spend all my time with Tyler and really don't see anyone else, to be honest. I hope things get better for you and you stop feeling this lonely. It can definitely be tough!

    Anita - It's very possible that my HR was affected by my nerves, but I'm not so sure. Far from my first 10K and definitely not new to the racing scene. Could just be the stress of the new job and all the changes in my life. Who knows :ohwell: Great job on the vino too - Moderation is the key to success here!

    Bethany - So happy to have you back here commenting regularly! Seems like your life is even crazier than mine with moving, graduation, kids and everything else, but you are attacking life's challenges with the same awesome perseverance that you've always had. I'm so impressed with your continued commitment and your amazing attitude toward this journey :bigsmile: Great job keeping your food in order with all the stress and hectic-ness. You are a fabulous role model and an inspiration for anyone on here who thinks they don't have the time or energy to dedicate to themselves!

    Imarunner - Learn to forgive yourself, forget about your bad days, and move on! We all deserve a fresh start now and again - That's why we're doing this in the first place :flowerforyou:

    Eeek Late for work again. Have a fabulous day everyone! :heart:
  • mkingraham
    mkingraham Posts: 445 Member
    Tara- You will hit the 100lbs lost mark in no time! I know how frustrating it can be when you are hovering right around that goal that you have been working so hard to attain. I’m sure your changes are going to end up being for the better in the end so just hang in there girl and you’ll get it!

    CMG- how are you liking your wii fit so far? I have been thinking about getting a Kinect, but to spend that money and be unsure of how I’ll like it makes me nervous. I hope your paper is going well!

    Meag- Thanks for the reminder to breathe. I feel like we are always telling each other to calm down and relax but we can’t seem to take our own advice- hehe. It sounds like your life has been just as busy and crazy, but I hope your new job is going great. And it will be nice that your bff will be in town even though it makes your schedule even crazier!

    Kandace- My very best friend got married two years ago this August and her dad unexpectedly passed away exactly one month after her wedding day. She has been really struggling trying to figure out how to be happy and excited about her life. She was so happy to be celebrating her first Christmas with her hubby but at the same time it was the first Christmas with her dad gone. One thing that seems to be helping her a lot is remembering that her dad wanted nothing more than for her to be happy in her life. Hopefully this thought can help you too. <<HUGS>>

    Milileitner- thanks for the encouragement! Luckily my hubby understands my stress and has been doing what he can around the house before he leaves for the weekend which has been making things much better.

    Bethany- your positive attitude is definitely infectious and helping me to realize how much pressure I am putting on myself that just doesn’t need to be there.

    Maria- I am so glad you are liking your HRM! I LOVE mine and definitely get frustrated if I forget to start it or something during my workout. I agree that WOs are a wonderful way of relieving the stress in my life right now!

    Anita (Name?)- great victory of resisting more wine. Sometimes that’s the hardest part! My hubby was eating some crackers and cheese last night- which I love, and it took just about everything I needed to not eat a bunch myself so I feel your pain :)

    Aly- I think the hardest thing in life is being comfortable with your own company because we are so use to being hard on ourselves. I think you’ll figure everything out and get to where you want to be in no time at all. In the meantime we are totally here for you!

    AFM- Well I am feeling a little less stressed, but I think during my run last night I tweaked my right knee because when I woke up this morning it has been absolutely killing me! Walking up and downstairs is the worse. Hopefully with the ibuprofen I took this morning it will help with any swelling, and I think I will just be taking myself and my dog for a walk today instead of a run since I don’t want to make things worse. If it is still feeling really bad when I get home I might just ice it and take today off even though I have only worked out yesterday so far this week. ARGH! I’m not going to let it get me down! On another note- still going strong with the no scale challenge. In fact, the thought of getting on the scale has escaped from my mind for the most part. Tomorrow will be 7 days no scale and 3 more weeks to go!

    Have a great day!!

    Megan
  • tjradd73
    tjradd73 Posts: 3,495 Member
    Jennelle-I know exactly what you mean on the cardio!! I had to force myself to get in some great strength routines this month...so I added yoga once/wk, BL bootcamp, and the shred...we shall see how that works out for me!! Don't kill yourself in the heat! :wink: Also...awesome job on changing the course of your career!! I agree 100% that today's youth are in a bunch of trouble when it comes to health and taking care of themselves! My ex and I are both very into fitness and eating healthy right now, and we are instilling that into our 12yr old son, BEFORE it's too late! Good luck to you on that, and great decision IMO!:drinker:

    Meag-thanks girl!! I AM totally proud of what I have accomplished up to this point! and I do know that I shouldn't always focus on the number...but reaching my weight milestones is the only major reward that gives me satisfaction during this...of course dropping sizes and inches is great too, but I have always been a number person!! LOL:laugh: I don't give myself the normal mani/pedi, spa day, shopping day, eating out day like most people do for every milestone reached...this stuff means nothing to me! Instead I look towards the big picture and my grand finale...and the numbers are my true reward!! When I get to my total loss, I of course have a major reward for myself...but until then I will keep on doing "my thing" I guess!! :blushing:

    Megan-thanks to you too!! I am totally not giving up and I know that I will hit ALL of my weight goals...it's just a matter of time! I am continuing on with my normal planned monthly routine...and hopefully my body starts to love it! CONGRATS on the no scale...1 week down! And I hope your knee feels better soon! :flowerforyou:

    AFM-got my 2nd cheat day outta the way yesterday...and started today off with some BL bootcamp, and a great breakfast!! My goals for the week: to lose 3lbs, not miss any workouts, and to keep my avg cals below 1300...MUST break this barrier ladies!!:bigsmile:
  • GuamGrly
    GuamGrly Posts: 600 Member
    Good Morning Lovelies!! I hope that everyone’s week is turning out to be a great one!!

    Mariababe – thank you!! Since there is a lack of males in my family at the moment there are 2 guys from work that are coming to help me move. I don’t have too much furniture so its mostly boxes and mattresses that have to be moved. I will be so glad to have this done and over with. And good luck with w5 of C25K…I miss running!!

    Aly – thanks! Its just a matter of staying focused and remembering why I am doing what I am doing. I get thrown off so easily and it makes it extra tough when I really don’t have much of a support system. I hope you were able to clear your head after your acupuncture!! And I don’t think that stopping to pick up a few things throughout the week is too bad. I think its worse when you are stopping every night on the way home to buy all the ingredients for one meal that gets to be ridiculous. Which is why I am also trying to get the meal planning down. Once I get moved and settled then the kids and I can plan meals together and do the shopping together on the weekend. I am kinda looking forward to it actually…haha

    Tara – I really hope that you don’t let this plateau get you down!! Going this long without a plateau or even going backwards is amazing!! Keep up that great work and it will all catch up with you in the end!!

    Jennelle – definitely some huge things going on in your life lately!! Hope that you are able to re-focus and get where you need to be. Although it seems like you are already starting to get your head cleared with the change of your thesis. Hope all goes well girly!!

    Meag – thank you for those amazing words of reassurance and encouragement!! That may have been just what I needed. I have always had a lot on my plate so I guess its just a matter of rolling with the punches. I hope that you are finding some balance in your life. I know it will happen but it definitely takes time to settle into all of the things that you have on your life. Once I can get settled then I think I may start looking for a new job. Always something…haha!!

    Megan – life can be hectic and sometimes there just isn’t anything we can do about it. But the best thing to do in those situations is just to realize what you can control and what is out of your control. If you start stressing about things that are out of your control then you are wasting time and energy on something that you really can’t do anything about. It sounds like you have more than enough on your plate just with your job alone but you also have your sister coming in, your dog, and your normal day-to-day responsibilities. Things will slowly start to work themselves out. Just take it one day at a time. You are doing awesome girly!! And sorry to hear about the knee!! I am still on that no-scale challenge with you also!!

    AFM…food still hasn’t been too bad except for the peanut butter cup last night. Was going to indulge in some ice cream since I am still trying to validate it because I am moving and packing so diligently but I decided not to have any since I will be going out with the bf tonight which will mean beer and probably some sort of bar appetizer. I am actually very very excited to be moving and get started on writing the next chapter in my life. I am hoping I am almost packed cause the official move day is Saturday and I have a few guys from work coming to help me since the number of males in my family is lacking or they are just unwilling to help. And I am impatiently awaiting the arrival of my Turbo Jam. I had it shipped to work since I am kinda between houses right now and then I will get it right away…woohoo!!

    Hope you lovelies have a great Thursday!! The weekend is within sight!!
  • lostalykat
    lostalykat Posts: 683 Member
    ***Selfish Post Alert

    Morning Peeps! Well I was feeling really good all week and I even felt that my pants were fitting better, I stepped on the scale to see no change at all. I then proceeded to move the scale to various places in my bathroom and kitchen and it went up .7 then down to where it was, then for a brief moment it went .3 down. I am not going to log anything just yet and see what is says tomorrow. I am torn between weighing every day or every 2 weeks until my race is over. This is truly challenging. Bla! But I am going to focus on the positive, which is that I feel like my pants are fitting better. I am taking measurements on the 17th so we shall see what it says. I am excited and nervous to be away from training and focusing on weight loss and being happy. I think I turned to training to help me deal with all my other stuff where in actuality it just postponed the inevitable. O well. It is a nice day and I have a bike ride/run tonight for training.

    Acupuncture was great last night! I felt so good I totally jumped my fiance when I got home haha! So I am ready to conquer yet another week and try to not get discouraged. even if I don't lose at least I am being consistently healthy. I will be back to comment on peeps later.
  • M_lifts
    M_lifts Posts: 2,218 Member
    hi all
    only have enough time for a quick update! did week 5 day yesterday and i ran the whole 20mins! woohoo! im getting bored of all the walking! so will have to keep going as i think i can handle it! rest day today to spend with the hubby!!! catch up soon
  • cmg2008
    cmg2008 Posts: 139
    Guamgrly: the wii is a great gift for the entire family! and thier cheaper now and come with more than when i first bought mine =( lol

    maria: i just finished w5d2 today and i'm nervous to start the dreaded 20 min! So if you don't mind me asking, how was the 20min run?? did you find it hard at all?

    anitanz: great job on resisting on the wine! I know how hard it is to resist, its just so yummy!

    lostalykat: I'm glad to hear that you doing better! Also i've never talked to anybody that has had acupuncture done before! Do you like it? does it feel funny? sorry i'm a really curious person so i tend to ask alot of questions!

    tjradd: I have complete faith in you that you will finally break the plateau that you have been stuck on! but also remember to look at how far you have come! and what all you have accomplished!

    jyopchick: You have to let me know what your prof says about the change in your dissertation decision! In the fall I will be graduating with my BA in psychology so its nice to meet another person that went/going to school for the same thing! Also i agree whole heartly with you that parents, as well as other influetial adults need to take part in teaching younger kids to be active and eat healthier because in my opinion some parents are just lazy anymore, it is the parents that end up instilling bad habits in thier kids.I know that not all parents are like that, but i'm seeing it more and more these days. For instantace, all my little cousin eats is chicken and fries and that is all he ever wants! plus he drinks a ton of pop during the day and guess what his mom lets him. And if you try to get him to eat something healthy or drink something besides pop he throws a fit.

    meag: have fun with yoru bff! you deserve it!

    mkingraham: I love the wii fit! When i still lived with my parents i use to do the yoga poses every morning! but ever since I moved out i've been meaning to buy it for myself and I finally broke down and did! I can understand why your hestisant to spend all that money on the kinect and not know if you'll like it or not! but also keep in mind a lot of places have 30-90 day return policies so if it isn't what you like, keep the receipt and return it! I have friends that bought the kinect and they absoutely love it! esp. those dance games! Also I hope your knee feels better!

    I know that this is quite long already, sorry guys! ASM I completed W5D2 today and it felt great! Now on to the dreaded 20 min run on Saturday, but I know that I can do it. I also treated myself to some sushi today, ohh how i have been craving it! Other than that i got my rough draft for my summer class turned in, now how to creating a presentation and writing out the rest of my paper =( so not fun. The weekend is finally here! and I hope you'll plan to enjoy it!
  • KanCrav
    KanCrav Posts: 439 Member
    Hey guys. Happy Friday!~!

    I am heading over to my friends how so we can "officially" WI for our competition. I lost 2 pounds. I really really worked my butt off this week so I am glad that it showed. I really messed up yesterday with all the sugar I ate, but on a brighter note, i did have lots of calories left over from other days to cover yesterdays mishap!~!

    I will be back later to show my love to you all... thanks for helping me out when I get sad!~!~! You guys all rock!~!
  • drjennelle
    drjennelle Posts: 138 Member
    good morning my darling MFPers! :flowerforyou:

    yesterday was a BIG day! but first, let me stop being so selfish for a moment! :tongue:

    tara - your determination is ruthless and i ADORE it :smooched: i love everything your write because it keeps me focused on the days i feel like poo :laugh: you have BIG goals and i love that you are never afraid to DREAM BIG!! you are killin it girl, and you will get where you want to be, i have NO doubt, and i can't wait to be here when you do! :bigsmile:

    meag - im so sorry to hear about your injury! i hope it's improved and that you're able to enjoy time with the bbf :smile: i also hope this weekend overall brings your stress level down and you get a chance to stop and remember that YOU ROCK and even on your off days, you're KICKING BUTT (and taking names) - mostly your own butt, but also the butt of the unhealthy gods :laugh: don't forget that, you really are remarkable!

    guamgrly (what's your name again?? sorry!) - i am SO excited for you to get turbo jam!!! you have NO idea! i LOVE it when people order turbo jam or turbo fire because i know they are starting a new AMAZING chapter in their lives! i am SO addicted to turbo, i just can't get enough (hence needing to do more yoga because im too obsessed haha) - you will absolutely LOVE it! and when you get SO excited and want to talk about it constantly and you feel like no one wants to hear you blab on and on about how much FUN your workout is... im your gal :bigsmile:

    AFM - i want to thank everyone for their kind thoughts towards my mid-to-late grad school life crisis :embarassed: i knew that i had to tell my advisor the direction i wanted to go, but i also knew that there was a very real possibility that she couldn't "advise" me with my new thesis idea because it's quite far removed from her field of expertise. we talked yesterday, and it was a VERY productive and great talk all around! while i thought i had until the end of august 2012, my advisor is up for tenure and won't find out until may 2012 if she recieved it, at which point, if she doesn't (which she will), she would basically be "fired" :huh: while everyone knows she's a rockstar and there's SUCH a small chance she would be fired, she told me that we have to plan on her NOT being here, just to be safe. as in... i have to be DONE with my dissertation (written and defended) by june 30th, 2012, when her contract ends... aka ONE YEAR!! ahhhhhhh :noway: so that was a scary thing to realize, however we made a great plan and are ready to tackle it all! while i am not changing my main thesis project (not enough time or advisor expertise) we are scaling back the current project so that it will definitely be done by june 30th, and i am also going to be be doing a meta-analysis (a compilation of tons of research on one topic - like a lit review but statistically speaking) on "rationalizing unhealthy behaviors"! this is PERFECT because it applies to my actual dissertation (children's odd/ troublesome behaviors and how parents sometimes rationalize them under a given context) AND it will allow me to look at how people rationalize OTHER unhealthy behaviors (like eating and exercise habits!)! so in reality, it's not PERFECT, but i am REALLY happy with this new plan and i think it will get me a doctorate in a year (yay :happy: ) but will also get me closer to a career that interests me, helping others understand more about overall health!

    so thank you ALL for your continued support! much love, and WORK IT OUT on this glorious friday!! :heart:
  • lostalykat
    lostalykat Posts: 683 Member
    Jenelle- That is so great to hear! I am happy you were able to find a happy medium with your grad program.

    cmg2008- I love it! Honestly it has helped me so much with my headaches it is amazing! It hurts some days more than others but it is just a light prick and then it mellows out. It is a strange sensation while you are lying there with relaxation music on with needles in yourself but it really works. I would suggest anyone try it if they have any issues.

    AFM- I am feeling a lot better this week, Even if the scale doesn't show it I know that I am making progress towards being healthier. I have a swim date with a gf tonight and we are going to swim then go grab a drink and maybe so food at my country club, it should be fun. I am so glad to have someone do the workout with me. It was looming over my head since swimming can be so boring to me. Tomorrow I have a double brick workout (bike, run, bike, run) and I am looking forward to seeing my friends for that. So happy to have my social circle back for training. Have a great Friday everyone!
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