Describe Your Ex

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  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    obsessive, jealous, abusive, stalked me, followed me, showed up at my parents house, my house (after i left) at random hours, contacted friends and family of mine that he had never even met to see where i was and what i was doing, physically threatened any guy who would try to talk to me before we were married ( i found out after the wedding of course... ).

    and yet my step mom and most of our old friends still took his side in the divorce... he's one hell of an actor.
  • binary_jester
    binary_jester Posts: 3,311 Member
    I get a whopping $24/week for 2 kids in child support. Basically I have enough for milk, eggs, yogurt and a 6 pack. LOL
    Hi! Umm can I get the number of his lawyer? Ok? Thanks.
  • KetoDebbie912
    KetoDebbie912 Posts: 105 Member
    Not my type.. LOL
  • xxMsComptonxx
    xxMsComptonxx Posts: 53
    Great Father to his kids.
    Awful boyfriend!- selfish, argumentative, inconsiderate, and a ((beep))
    Handsome, tall, muscles of a lean bodybuilder, and absolutely Wonderful at sex < Best I ever had!
  • rgfor40
    rgfor40 Posts: 79 Member
    ()&@$^*!^$^()&%_)#&_^!($^(_^&%_#&_(&_@(&(&%#_&%(^%*^@*^@*)^_%
    hey, you can b dropping #_&%(^%*^@*^@*)^_% bombs in here...
  • MrsKAddy
    MrsKAddy Posts: 52 Member
    A stepping stone! Because he moved out of the way I met my handsome hubby!! Thanks DB!!!!
  • KayleighDawn13
    KayleighDawn13 Posts: 79
    The love of my life but "I was not the one".

    Sad topic.

    I thought this too, well the love of my life thing. And he said the same thing basically. "I love you but I'm not in love with you and I met a girl a week ago I really like" WTF. We had been best friends/dating/FB on and off for 8 years.Then I looked back after everything and all I could think of was DOUCHE CANOE! (thanks for the perfect words mishel (: )
  • LizzieBee17
    LizzieBee17 Posts: 123 Member
    DELUSIONAL!! Loser! HE thinks that his pitiful childsupport and picking them up TWO days a MONTH makes him father of the year ...NOT :noway:
  • LizzieBee17
    LizzieBee17 Posts: 123 Member
    A stepping stone! Because he moved out of the way I met my handsome hubby!! Thanks DB!!!!

    AMEN!!
  • kimmerroze
    kimmerroze Posts: 1,330 Member
    Good guy, just wasn't motivated.
    At 23 he was a highschool drop out, had no plans for college or technical school or anything, Lived in his parents garage, and got fired because he showed up late to work... oooohhh ANDDDD after I broke up with him I found out that he got on food stamps.. WHILE LIVING WITH HIS PARENTS!

    My feminine instict kicked in and I realized that if I wanted to be a stay at home mommy some day, that he wasn't the man that was going to be able to provide that for me. No im not a gold digger, I just have my plans and by golly if my plans are going to change they are going to change for the better NOT the worse.
  • ttrotter1960
    ttrotter1960 Posts: 66
    OMG .. . I would have made sure the cops showed and dragged his *kitten* by the short hairs out the door!


    poor girl . . . . pick'em better next time.
  • Temporalia
    Temporalia Posts: 1,151 Member
    Manipulative, verbally abusive, image was way more important than substance and he should have got a couple beatings for all he did to some people, but got lucky and got that close of getting the beatings....
  • PlanetVelma
    PlanetVelma Posts: 1,223 Member
    I get a whopping $24/week for 2 kids in child support. Basically I have enough for milk, eggs, yogurt and a 6 pack. LOL
    Hi! Umm can I get the number of his lawyer? Ok? Thanks.

    LMAO!!! Nah, he owes soooo much child support and has no ambition that's the most they can take out of his paycheck. I do get his tax refund (usually about 80/year) but it's divided between my two kids and his other "baby mama's". (He got another chick preggo while we were married - found out about that last year. UGH).

    He's now married to his DAD'S former high school girlfriend.
  • inkoutxthestars
    inkoutxthestars Posts: 1 Member
    Father of the Year!!! JUST KIDDING...... he's a worthless piece of shizen. Ran off when he found out I was pregnant!!
  • LaPistolaSexola
    LaPistolaSexola Posts: 243 Member
    i'm afraid if i talk about him he will appear ala beetlejuice.
  • red01angel
    red01angel Posts: 806 Member
    I could go on and on, but my FAVORITE ex is still a really good friend. It didn't work out between us in the romance department, and we're both totally fine with it!
  • mtkautz
    mtkautz Posts: 218 Member
    We have to pick just one?? :laugh: They all were royal pieces of s*** :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: And I do mean all of them. I think I'm a magnet for jack a**es. And felons. lol.
    One likes living in jail more than sleeping in his own bed, and still tries to call for bail money at least every 6 months or so
    One cheated on me with my then best friend
    One is a dead beat dad, got arrested and locked up 2 weeks before I was prego, and has yet to see his kid in excess of 15 times in the 3 years of her life, no child support...nada, but he has another baby now so that one is more important than the first I suppose!
    The other relationship lasted 3 years, he proposed- and broke it off with no explanation- and vanished into thin air, come to find out (2 years later--onnn facebook) he cheated on me, knocked her up, and married her--with my ring!!! :grumble: Although, I am VERY happy this one did not work out, I would more than likely still be miserable.

    I guess we'll see where the current boyfriend ends up?? :laugh: :wink:
  • DerGraf
    DerGraf Posts: 40 Member
    Never had one. Too ooogly back then. LOL... too bad, so sad.
  • MiniMichelle
    MiniMichelle Posts: 801 Member
    A great guy, an amazing friend, we were just very toxic with each other. No sob story, no drama.. I do miss his parents though..

    Thats the thing i miss most about my ex too... his parents called me their daughter..
  • ilookthetype
    ilookthetype Posts: 3,021 Member

    He's now married to his DAD'S former high school girlfriend.


    EWWW!

    And now I feel bad because I've broken up with a lot of really decent guys. Although...my most recent wasn't really a boyfriend...I knew he he had children...later found out that he was still MARRIED. He just came back from visiting his parents out of country to file for divorce...We stopped talking in...Feb/March...WTH?! I guess that divorce he had *****ed about when I was seeing him was all made up.
  • reneepugh
    reneepugh Posts: 522 Member
    13 years of marriage, cheated, left me with a 1 and 2 year old when I was a full time student, tried to get everything we had including our mini van, left me very much in debt and no way to dig out of it in the forseeable future. Hasn't had a job in 2 1/2 years so he doesn't have to pay much in child support. Deadbeat dad. I could go on....
  • sunyg
    sunyg Posts: 229
    I was able to stay friends with my ex up until last year when he got remarried. We co parented like rock stars! He was an amazing Dad. Now he treats my girls like he treated me while married and treats his current wife and kids like he should have done while we were married. Don't care about the me part I'm better off not married to his cheap butt but it burns my butt that he went from an amazing Dad to a crappy Dad because of a woman and new baby.
  • KierstyPants
    KierstyPants Posts: 468 Member
    Emotionally screwed up. Always made me feel like shnitzel, but apologized and would tell me he loved me. Understands his feelings for me, but didn't understand life. Broke up with me to make us bother happier. which he was right to do, he did improve both of our lives with it) Really treated me right until his mind effed him up.Major issues.understood i did nothing wrong, blamed everything on himself, rightfully. well not everything, but he was On the road to failure. Addictive, but not addictive enough.Not worth my time.
  • rgfor40
    rgfor40 Posts: 79 Member
    beautiful, Smart, driven, pesimistic, untrusting, unloving, contradicting
  • lilac01
    lilac01 Posts: 180 Member
    He was really fun to be with and fool around with and that's all he cared about. Having fun and being stupid. He never was serious and that's why we decided to be good friends.
  • LaPistolaSexola
    LaPistolaSexola Posts: 243 Member
    He's now married to his DAD'S former high school girlfriend.
    i just barfed in my mouth
  • Jdismybug1
    Jdismybug1 Posts: 443 Member
    Can we say Jerk!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    At my smallest in adulthood I was 123lbs, and he would always tell me I had a huge *kitten*, or that one day when I wanted to put in the effort a flat stomach. Then on top of that he broke up with me after being with me 2 yrs saying that he wanted space, but really meeting a skinny *kitten* girl at a party. The funny thing is that he was brought to the party by my now fiance (who was my friend long before I met this ex), and my fiance asked if he did it bc he wanted to date the other girl, he admitted to it after lying to me about it.
    So then after all this bs I dated other people, and apparently she shot him down bc he came crawling back to me again.
    I said yes at first, and then dumped him a month later bc nothing had changed, he was still a jerk.
    Then when I later started dating my now fiance, I actually met this girl he dumped me for, number one she wasn't that pretty, and number two she told me how she was already pregnant with someone else's baby, and my ex pretty much followed her like a stalker, and how she never gave him any reason to think that she would date him, she was already involved with someone else.
    I laughed, pretty hard. Loser!
  • foxxybrown
    foxxybrown Posts: 838 Member
    We have to pick just one?? :laugh: They all were royal pieces of s*** :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: And I do mean all of them. I think I'm a magnet for jack a**es. And felons. lol.
    One likes living in jail more than sleeping in his own bed, and still tries to call for bail money at least every 6 months or so
    One cheated on me with my then best friend
    One is a dead beat dad, got arrested and locked up 2 weeks before I was prego, and has yet to see his kid in excess of 15 times in the 3 years of her life, no child support...nada, but he has another baby now so that one is more important than the first I suppose!
    The other relationship lasted 3 years, he proposed- and broke it off with no explanation- and vanished into thin air, come to find out (2 years later--onnn facebook) he cheated on me, knocked her up, and married her--with my ring!!! :grumble: Although, I am VERY happy this one did not work out, I would more than likely still be miserable.

    I guess we'll see where the current boyfriend ends up?? :laugh: :wink:

    Wow! You're only 20 and have been through all of that? I would have given up.
  • KierstyPants
    KierstyPants Posts: 468 Member
    i'm afraid if i talk about him he will appear ala beetlejuice.

    HAHAH.
    beetlejuice.
  • Charli666
    Charli666 Posts: 407
    History!!!
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