How do you guys flirt?

ket_the_jet

This is fairly good advice.

1. half-smile to show you're interested and give them a full smile when you talk to them

Smiling is the easiest way to flirt. But it isn't number one on my list. Number one would be:

2. eye contact, but not like creepy/staring contest. Look away/down after you've maintained like 3-4 seconds of eye contact.

Eye contact reflects confidence. Nothing is more telling than making eye contact with someone and they immediately look away.

3. I've heard subtley touching your mouth (biting your lip, covering it to laugh) is somehow subconciously sexual... and thus maybe flirty (but maybe practice in a mirror so it doesn't look like you're making an effort).

You've heard correctly.

4. Be interested in what he says. Ask a follow up question. Also relate it to yourself if you have something in common, if not, ask him more about it,

Be interesting and interested. Unless you are just looking to get laid in which case be interested.
[/quote]5. Don't creepy giggle at everything he says, but if he makes a funny go ahead and laugh.[/quote]
Yeah, I guess that's true. No one likes a suck-up.

6. Be confident.

I changed my mind. This is number one.

7. Be nice.

This one is a little less important than the other. Personally, I just like the game. If someone is feigning disinterest, I want to break through the ruse. I like the back-and-forth of getting to know someone and have definitely dated girls who were absolute *****es even though they had the other qualities on this list.

I don't remember who it was on these boards who said, "You shouldn't go out looking to impress people. They should already be impressed." Fantastic advice.
-wtk

_beachgirl_

7. Be nice.

This one is a little less important than the other. Personally, I just like the game. If someone is feigning disinterest, I want to break through the ruse. I like the back-and-forth of getting to know someone and have definitely dated girls who were absolute *****es even though they had the other qualities on this list.

I don't remember who it was on these boards who said, "You shouldn't go out looking to impress people. They should already be impressed." Fantastic advice.
-wtk
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it was msf....that stuck with me also.

Tiggerrick

I have no idea how to flirt. I just show up to places and let other people do the work.

I didn't realize I was doing all the work.

sunkisses

I have no idea how to flirt. I just show up to places and let other people do the work.

I didn't realize I was doing all the work.

Yeah, I make it seem easy.

Tiggerrick

I have no idea how to flirt. I just show up to places and let other people do the work.

I didn't realize I was doing all the work.

Yeah, I make it seem easy.

No, you make it hard, remember?

boomboom011

its kind of an art form.

Honestly, i dont even know when Im doing it unless my husband tells me. lol jk but not

anthony438

How do I flirt?

According to my wife, poorly :bigsmile:

thegymbunny

I've always been a natural flirt, very good at it.

trying to break myself of that.

I do it when I don't even know I am.

Mkleder

Thank you Apple, thank you Sony! With everyone plugged in to players and phones these days, flirting has become EASY. All you have to do is catch someone's eye and smile. Works like a charm....no hassle, no cheesy lines.