Things that make a woman instantly hotter

Stephanie08

Idolize your man!
We have large egos that need to be constantly stroked - no pun intended.
Not kidding this in more important than sex or looks.

Studies have shown a man is most likely to cheat if he feels unappreciated at home, not because the other girl is more attractive or they want more sex. Men need to feel like they have power and status. If at work they don't get it and they don't get it at home either they will be miserable.

So tell your man he's the greatest daily and you will have a happy man and make you instantly hotter to him.

100% agree with this! My guy loves when I appreciate the things he does for me. He jokes and says "don't tell me, show me" but I know that by showing him it's really just a hug and and kiss and a THANK YOU for being there.

Stephanie08

The 3 b's. Brunette, Bi, and Busty . . . you will never go wrong!

LOL

<---- rolls eyes and sighs!

Stephanie08

A woman who can handle their PMS without snapping at anyone.

EFF OFF!

liftingbro

The 3 b's. Brunette, Bi, and Busty . . . you will never go wrong!

I apply the 3 b's to movies as well. Bombs, boobs, and blood. Any move with all three are bound to please most guys.

millerll

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

Sooooo...what do you think of the new rule to do with low blocking and how the penalty for it is enforced? Personally, I'm still undecided. Or how about the one about a penalty that causes the clock to stop with less than one minute remaining in the game will result in a 10-second runoff? Seems a bit extreme to me............

Love me yet?

PS - I can drive a stick shift and I own 3 guns. But I also have a really nice collection of beautiful stiletto shoes. Don't make assumptions............:smokin:

Edited to add: I realize the above rules are NCAA and not NFL. I am smarter than I look!

JNick77

Confidence, sass, witty.

liftingbro

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

Sooooo...what do you think of the new rule to do with low blocking and how the penalty for it is enforced? Personally, I'm still undecided. Or how about the one about a penalty that causes the clock to stop with less than one minute remaining in the game will result in a 10-second runoff? Seems a bit extreme to me............

Love me yet?

PS - I can drive a stick shift and I own 3 guns. But I also have a really nice collection of beautiful stiletto shoes. Don't make assumptions............:smokin:

Edited to add: I realize the above rules are NCAA and not NFL. I am smarter than I look!

Not bad, but I believe those are not recent rule changes. How about the new kick off rules or play booth review rules?

millerll

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

Sooooo...what do you think of the new rule to do with low blocking and how the penalty for it is enforced? Personally, I'm still undecided. Or how about the one about a penalty that causes the clock to stop with less than one minute remaining in the game will result in a 10-second runoff? Seems a bit extreme to me............

Love me yet?

PS - I can drive a stick shift and I own 3 guns. But I also have a really nice collection of beautiful stiletto shoes. Don't make assumptions............:smokin:

Edited to add: I realize the above rules are NCAA and not NFL. I am smarter than I look!

Not bad, but I believe those are not recent rule changes. How about the new kick off rules or play booth review rules?

I believe the above rules are new for the NCAA 2011 season, yes? As for the kick off rule, total wuss. It turns one of the most exciting plays of the game into a.....bathroom break. And the play booth review rule will just slow down the game. I vote to let the coaches continue to make the challenge call. But I prefer a fast-paced game. :drinker:

liftingbro

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

Sooooo...what do you think of the new rule to do with low blocking and how the penalty for it is enforced? Personally, I'm still undecided. Or how about the one about a penalty that causes the clock to stop with less than one minute remaining in the game will result in a 10-second runoff? Seems a bit extreme to me............

Love me yet?

PS - I can drive a stick shift and I own 3 guns. But I also have a really nice collection of beautiful stiletto shoes. Don't make assumptions............:smokin:

Edited to add: I realize the above rules are NCAA and not NFL. I am smarter than I look!

Not bad, but I believe those are not recent rule changes. How about the new kick off rules or play booth review rules?

I believe the above rules are new for the NCAA 2011 season, yes? As for the kick off rule, total wuss. It turns one of the most exciting plays of the game into a.....bathroom break. And the play booth review rule will just slow down the game. I vote to let the coaches continue to make the challenge call. But I prefer a fast-paced game. :drinker:

You pass:
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millerll

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

Sooooo...what do you think of the new rule to do with low blocking and how the penalty for it is enforced? Personally, I'm still undecided. Or how about the one about a penalty that causes the clock to stop with less than one minute remaining in the game will result in a 10-second runoff? Seems a bit extreme to me............

Not bad, but I believe those are not recent rule changes. How about the new kick off rules or play booth review rules?

I believe the above rules are new for the NCAA 2011 season, yes? As for the kick off rule, total wuss. It turns one of the most exciting plays of the game into a.....bathroom break. And the play booth review rule will just slow down the game. I vote to let the coaches continue to make the challenge call. But I prefer a fast-paced game. :drinker:

You pass:
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Cool! Spread the word...............:blushing:

brandiuntz

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

I'm your woman! But, I'm gay. btw, I'm not feeling the new kickoff rule.

crisanderson27

a girl thats not a slut...
a girl thats not a *****...
a girl that doesnt think shes the queen of the world...
a girl thats not huge fan of drama...
a girl that does treat other with respect and thinks of other.
a girl thats not high maintnace.
list goes on my fingers will hurt...

My list includes these as well...along with dozens if not hundreds of others.

All I'll say...is I'm an incredibly lucky guy.

inn0c3ntbbygrlx3

I am going to take notes! :bigsmile:

me too!!! lol

inn0c3ntbbygrlx3

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

I'm your woman! But, I'm gay. btw, I'm not feeling the new kickoff rule.

COLTS ALL THE WAY!!!!

Russellb97

I'm sorry, wtf? If a man can't be held up by his own healthy ego, he's a girl anyway. The relationship won't work. I cannot believe people are ascribing to this archaic BS.

Archaic??? LOL
It's the truth and it works, trust me ladies.
Like I said,

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Why-Men-Cheat_2/2

"What's the number one reason men cheat? Ninety-two percent of men said it wasn't primarily about the sex. "The majority said it was an emotional disconnection, specifically a sense of feeling underappreciated. A lack of thoughtful gestures," Gary says. "Men are very emotional beings. They just don't look like that. Or they don't seem like that. Or they don't tell you that."


Read more: http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Why-Men-Cheat_2/2#ixzz1VGeJKLhf

laureneva15

I love this thread.
Bumping so I can read at a later date.
Also makes me happy to see it isn't just about *kitten* and tits

Russellb97

I love this thread.
Bumping so I can read at a later date.
Also makes me happy to see it isn't just about *kitten* and tits

I love your sig,
"Zombie's hate fast food" I'm using that!

laureneva15

I love this thread.
Bumping so I can read at a later date.
Also makes me happy to see it isn't just about *kitten* and tits

I love your sig,
"Zombie's hate fast food" I'm using that!

feel free, i stole it from someone else on here

fteale

I'm sorry, wtf? If a man can't be held up by his own healthy ego, he's a girl anyway. The relationship won't work. I cannot believe people are ascribing to this archaic BS.

Archaic??? LOL
It's the truth and it works, trust me ladies.
Like I said,

http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Why-Men-Cheat_2/2

"What's the number one reason men cheat? Ninety-two percent of men said it wasn't primarily about the sex. "The majority said it was an emotional disconnection, specifically a sense of feeling underappreciated. A lack of thoughtful gestures," Gary says. "Men are very emotional beings. They just don't look like that. Or they don't seem like that. Or they don't tell you that."


Read more: http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Why-Men-Cheat_2/2#ixzz1VGeJKLhf

So what do you think the biggest reason women cheat is? Exactly the same. So why should the ego stroking be one way?

ItsCasey

It doesn't have to be one or the other. I just think most women don't understand that a man needs to hear that the woman in his life finds him strong and handsome and sexy .. that she thinks of him as a good provider, a good father, etc. A man who doesn't feel like he embodies those things doesn't really feel like a man. It's not "*kitten*-kissing" ... it's just being honest and forthcoming with your feelings. Just tell him how you feel about him as a man, as a husband, as a father. That's it. And I think most women would be surprised at the things their men would say and do for them if they could stop seeing the vocalizing of feelings as "*kitten*-kissing" or "ego-stroking."

After 34 years of marriage, my mom still randomly tells my dad what a great provider he is. And she does it in front of other people. My dad would walk through fire to make her happy.

crisanderson27

It doesn't have to be one or the other. I just think most women don't understand that a man needs to hear that the woman in his life finds him strong and handsome and sexy .. that she thinks of him as a good provider, a good father, etc. A man who doesn't feel like he embodies those things doesn't really feel like a man. It's not "*kitten*-kissing" ... it's just being honest and forthcoming with your feelings. Just tell him how you feel about him as a man, as a husband, as a father. That's it. And I think most women would be surprised at the things their men would say and do for them if they could stop seeing the vocalizing of feelings as "*kitten*-kissing" or "ego-stroking."

After 34 years of marriage, my mom still randomly tells my dad what a great provider he is. And she does it in front of other people. My dad would walk through fire to make her happy.

Walk through fire is an understatement.

When a real man's wife is mentally, emotionally, and physically appreciative...walking through fire wouldn't even give him pause.

Do me a favor, and send your Mother a thank you note along with a happy birthday from me today. She deserves the recognition for raising you right.

ESVABelle

Do me a favor, and send your Mother a thank you note along with a happy birthday from me today. She deserves the recognition for raising you right.

You a such a good man. Seriously.

ItsCasey

Do me a favor, and send your Mother a thank you note along with a happy birthday from me today. She deserves the recognition for raising you right.

Yeah, I lucked out. My parents are incredible.

crisanderson27

Do me a favor, and send your Mother a thank you note along with a happy birthday from me today. She deserves the recognition for raising you right.

You a such a good man. Seriously.

Thank you Belle...but in the end, it goes along with what I said...its not me that's particularly special. It's what's brought out by being recognized and appreciated by a good woman.

That's all it takes folks.

ItsCasey

Do me a favor, and send your Mother a thank you note along with a happy birthday from me today. She deserves the recognition for raising you right.

You a such a good man. Seriously.

I concur.

foodfight247

It doesn't have to be one or the other. I just think most women don't understand that a man needs to hear that the woman in his life finds him strong and handsome and sexy .. that she thinks of him as a good provider, a good father, etc. A man who doesn't feel like he embodies those things doesn't really feel like a man. It's not "*kitten*-kissing" ... it's just being honest and forthcoming with your feelings. Just tell him how you feel about him as a man, as a husband, as a father. That's it. And I think most women would be surprised at the things their men would say and do for them if they could stop seeing the vocalizing of feelings as "*kitten*-kissing" or "ego-stroking."

After 34 years of marriage, my mom still randomly tells my dad what a great provider he is. And she does it in front of other people. My dad would walk through fire to make her happy.

Sorry - was gonna stay off the threads but thought I'd have a browse before signing off.

I have to comment on this - I've been with my partner for 14/15 years with a couple of splits throughout that time. I constantly told him that he looked great how he was, that he was a good father and that worked hard and that I was proud of him - to no avail on some occasions. I personally think its more than that. In a relationship you have to be totally honest and have regular heart to hearts and declare how you're feeling otherwise the other person won't get why you're acting a certain way. My parnter is absolutely great - I'm the first to admit he's been downright horrible towards me during certain phases of our time together - and you know what - that was because we were not working as a team and spoke the truth.

We got back together recently after a month split whereby I went off and lived on my own, leaving my son with him (still saw him everyday and did the mum thing),. My partner asked to get back together and you know what - I actually told him the truth - I wasn't sure that I could do it after so many ups and down previously - that it wasn't fair on our son. He was completely shocked by this - but my feelings had diminished because whilst being on my own, I put more time into myself, my weight, my looks, my emotional wellbeing and found that I was actually happier on my own instead of putting up with negative comments such as, your pathetic, you're a failure, you can't do anything - YES I FLAMIN WELL CAN - I'm the opposite of all those negative comments you were putting on me EVERY DAY......this was because of our lifestyle, stress and NOT SPEAKING THE TRUTH to one another......That I finally realised recently. After my revelation to him, he was completely honest with me - in saying that he has never been against me, never hated me etc etc - and that was said totally without prompting out of the blue one night. This has to be the most honest thing he has ever said to me as already knew what he had said - he just hadn't listened and looked at what was going on at the time. I find honesty and admitting there's a problem to be attractive in a man - it shows he does actually care and that he's in tune with his emotions (most of the time).

The whole point being here is that since all the talking and honest communication - things have dramatically improved. We both smile everyday, compliment eachother everyday, talk to eachother if something is bothering us, however small such as the way something was said and how it was interpreted. It feels now, like it was way back when we first met which were the happier times.

Deep down my partner is an absolutely great person, caring, kind, generous, not selfish, very hard working, tolerant (more than I realised before), patient, a great dad and tries to please everyone - friends, family, associates - even if it makes his life harder in the long run. He hates letting people down. Unfortunately, the one person he shouldn't have let down was me during the hard times - but I should never have let him down either - it works both ways. As a result of our honesty and re-evaluation of EVERYTHING, we seem to be more attracted to one another now - I do love him - always will, just lost that for a while when he disrespected me - but then the same happened with him as far as I was concerned.

This is the very thing that I think makes a woman - or even a man - instantly hotter / more attractive......the fact that we can be honest and talk things through and most importantly ADMIT when we have been in the wrong and ACTUALLY make an effort - as a team - to work those problems through. Attraction can be based on looks but OVERALL its a persons character and the qualities that they hold that attract us. Forgiveness can be a wonderful thing sometimes.

Again, during that month break from my partner, I joined MFP and admit, was a little flirtacious - in part because of certain peoples looks - but ACTUALLY it was based on their personality / qualities and how supportive and patient they were towards me. and even then it was purely because I once had those in a partner but missed them, nevermind the fact that I was having a little fun after so much negativety. But again, whether you're in a relationship or single, can you not have a little flirtacious fun! - Certainly gained my self esteem and confidence back as a result of some very supportive friends who understood my situation and did not return the flirtaciousness either. Were just there to lend an ear when I needed them. Thank you to you ALL.

Finally - apologies if this post is too long.

ItsCasey

I was actually happier on my own instead of putting up with negative comments such as, your pathetic, you're a failure, you can't do anything

My opinion is that any man who tells you that doesn't respect you and maybe doesn't even really love you. It doesn't matter what you did or how upset he is; there is simply no excuse for that kind of emotional abuse. Praise and compliments and appreciative gestures are meaningless when given to people who are messed up enough in the head to talk to someone they allegedly love in that manner.

So of course there is more to a successful relationship (especially a marriage) than showing each other constant attention and appreciation. If none of it is genuine (i.e. backed up by mutual love and respect), then it's not going to do any good.

crisanderson27

I concur.

That is all!

brandiuntz

Full knowledge of NFL football and rules.

I'm your woman! But, I'm gay. btw, I'm not feeling the new kickoff rule.

COLTS ALL THE WAY!!!!

GAH! NO! :noway: Texans fan here. :bigsmile: (Plus Saints, Bears, Patriots, and Broncos)

DarthCeltic

ok... weighing in...

for me...

if you can recite dork things...

drink dark beer.

know how to fry oreos...

enjoy sex...

and have a pulse... i think that instantly makes you hotter...