Ladies...help us out here....
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That a man who holds hands with a lady, opens doors for her. . pulls out her chair. . .. SO SEXY!
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One more thing....and this is a biggie....
When we've had a bad day...when we're pms'n..when we're sad.....90% of the time...all it takes to make it all better....is your smile. When you smile at us,we melt!!! Even if you've had a rotten day yourself...cheer us up...you'll be very glad you did...trust me!!!0 -
oh yes, and flowers. They aren't just for Birthdays and Mothers Day anymore.0
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That a man who holds hands with a lady, opens doors for her. . pulls out her chair. . .. SO SEXY!
Yes!!! Men dont do this nearly enough. I appreciate the heck out of it.0 -
That while you may not understand us, we probably don't understand ourselves, either. And we can more easily tell you what we don't want while having no clue what we really want.0
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hmm... do the dishes once in a while without me asking, and I will love you forever.0
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We know when you're lying
We DON'T think it's cute when you fart
We Do NOT wanna screw you when you're stinky
Asking us for sex is a turn off..Initiating it is a turn on!!!
If you want head...SHAVE!!!
We don't like most of your buddies
When we don't wanna have sex....don't ***** about it..ask if everything is ok!!!
We appreciate compliments...from YOU
We like loving hugs...without the groping
Your **** stinks...close the friggin bathroom door!!!
When you pee...don't sling it all around..we hate wet toilet seats!!!
Say I love you.....OFTEN!!!
We think you are beautiful..tell us we are too...OFTEN...even if we look hideous!!
Send us romantic texts...during the day
We love you......appreciate it!!!!
Took the words right out of my mouth!
I love this lol. This is soo true!
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I would like to believe all the stuff I just read but most of my female friends seem to be attracted to guys who treat them like ****, the worse they get treated the more they like the guy.0
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We know when you're lying
We DON'T think it's cute when you fart
We Do NOT wanna screw you when you're stinky
Asking us for sex is a turn off..Initiating it is a turn on!!!
If you want head...SHAVE!!!
We don't like most of your buddies
When we don't wanna have sex....don't ***** about it..ask if everything is ok!!!
We appreciate compliments...from YOU
We like loving hugs...without the groping
Your **** stinks...close the friggin bathroom door!!!
When you pee...don't sling it all around..we hate wet toilet seats!!!
Say I love you.....OFTEN!!!
We think you are beautiful..tell us we are too...OFTEN...even if we look hideous!!
Send us romantic texts...during the day
We love you......appreciate it!!!!
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We do notice you suckin your gut in when a cute chic walks by
When your phone rings..you'd better answer it..if you hit ignore, we'll wonder why!!
Offer to help us cook..or wash dishes
If we're moody...don't do anything that may get you whacked upside the head (trust me, you don't wanna go there)
Surprise us
Be thoughtful
Be the first one to say "I'm sorry"
Tell us how much we mean to you
Understand that our feelings get hurt easily....be careful what you say
Don't be flirtatious..unless it's with us
Be honest with us
Be a good boyfriend/husband.
If you have sneaky friends who mess around on their gf's..it will make us suspicious of u
We always want to know that you care...show us!!
Notice how we take care of ourselves for you
We do things just to please you and make you comfortable.....know this!!!
We think about you ALOT...APPRECIATE IT!!!!
Make us happy!!
I agree with this.0 -
hmm... do the dishes once in a while without me asking, and I will love you forever.
Yes! And dont act like we owe you a medal after you do it. Totally ruins it.0 -
Well, I'm not a woman but in my various dealings with them I have discovered this:
Women aren't meant to be understood. The right ones are meant to be loved, respected, listened to and supported. The wrong ones? Who cares...
I have no clue how women work. Absolutely none. I do know how to make a certain one very happy though. It works.0 -
Thinking more about this. Once a man really does love a woman he knows exactly how to make her happy.
Now whether he choses to do that or not....0 -
Pretty much agree with SOME of what's been said already....some things depends on the situation and no you don't have to feel like you have to say sorry first....we know you are...surprise us with flowers or do a special meal, be thoughtful and respect our feelings - we will respect you a whole lot more when you are honest.
We know all those looks/ expressions you give us.
Just remember guys....even when you mess up or argue with us - we still love you, give us a little space before giving us that sexy look or a simple hug and we're fine again.
One more thing... If we go away for just 24 hrs - try and do the dishes! Especially if there's a dishwasher!
Personally I like the simple things - smile, a hug, a little cheeky coyness when your in the mood....but sometimes I like to be just grabbed and told I'm loved and appreciated every so often.0 -
1. tell me you love me everyday
2. let me know you think i'm attractive
3. we want tons of affection, whether it's handholding or cuddling on the couch
4. personally i don't care if my man farts, it's human nature, and because i live with him, i hate feeling like i have to hold mine in lol
5. playful groping/harassment is okay in my book, you're my boyfriend for a reason, me personally, i love harassing him, if anything he probably gets more offended than me lol
6. if we're having a bad day, just let us lay on you, talk gently and let us cry our eyes out
7. we do remember everything. so if you were friends with us first and we were your confidant on your trysts in your past relationship/singledom, it DEFINITELY does not go out the window just because you're with us now. we guard our hearts like chihuahuas guard raw hide bones.
8. PLEASE WASH DISHES!
9. unfortunately, half of the stuff we say, we don't mean. for example
-'it's fine' usually means you need to be on your toes because it's NOT fine
-'nothing's wrong' means that something is seriously bugging us and we want you to pry and if you don't, it's because you don't care. i know this makes no sense. but we're women.
10. other than that, we just like to be romanced. and that doesn't mean dropping loads of cash, it means sweet love notes, texts, or random kisses for no particular reason. personally i don't like flowers, but if you're going to get her flowers, make sure it's our favorite kind. *for example. i don't especially like roses, i like lillies* and if you don't bother to find that out, we WILL notice.0 -
We are all different.0
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We are all different.
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We are all different.
with that said... some of us like to hold hands
oh, and quit farting around (some of)) us all the time!0 -
There is almost nothing that irritates me more than sentences which start "All girls like .............." or "all women ............."
BTW I hate shoes, I hate handbags, I hate underwear shopping, I have no interest in facials or manicures or hair straighteners or make up. I don't like gossiping, or gossip magazines or reality tv. In fact tv in general bores me.
We are all different, and have different interests and different reactions and different feelings. About everything. There is no one size fits all.0 -
For ME and possibly me alone its if I tell you I am feeling grumpy and no it's not about you I'm just in that place do NOT for the rest of the day everytime I grump assume it's about you....It isn't about you it's just that you are there and love me so I know you will forgive me for being a grump occasionally...I'll tell you if it's you 0
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1. tell me you love me everyday
2. let me know you think i'm attractive
3. we want tons of affection, whether it's handholding or cuddling on the couch
4. personally i don't care if my man farts, it's human nature, and because i live with him, i hate feeling like i have to hold mine in lol
5. playful groping/harassment is okay in my book, you're my boyfriend for a reason, me personally, i love harassing him, if anything he probably gets more offended than me lol
6. if we're having a bad day, just let us lay on you, talk gently and let us cry our eyes out
7. we do remember everything. so if you were friends with us first and we were your confidant on your trysts in your past relationship/singledom, it DEFINITELY does not go out the window just because you're with us now. we guard our hearts like chihuahuas guard raw hide bones.
8. PLEASE WASH DISHES!
9. unfortunately, half of the stuff we say, we don't mean. for example
-'it's fine' usually means you need to be on your toes because it's NOT fine
-'nothing's wrong' means that something is seriously bugging us and we want you to pry and if you don't, it's because you don't care. i know this makes no sense. but we're women.
10. other than that, we just like to be romanced. and that doesn't mean dropping loads of cash, it means sweet love notes, texts, or random kisses for no particular reason. personally i don't like flowers, but if you're going to get her flowers, make sure it's our favorite kind. *for example. i don't especially like roses, i like lillies* and if you don't bother to find that out, we WILL notice.
THIS! And ALL the stuff that smallerthighs said! And if your like my man and act like there is no way you are gonna put up with your woman acting like that then you will NOT BE HAPPY! You WILL NOT get head when you want, or any other kinda sexual act. And its NOT manipulation or controll....we just don't want to do something that special with some one who does not make us feel special! It is to PROTECT OUT OWN EMOTIONS not to manipulate and control you.....You make us feel like just a tool when we do those things with you and then you treat us like ****!
OH and ALL of us feel the same way ultimately so don't think you will find it better with someone else! If one woman won't put up with your **** odds are neither will another one.0 -
Most, if not all, women are a little bit crazy.... don't hold it against us.
Every once in a while, drop us a text just so we know you're thinking of us. (But DON'T blow up our phone with constant msgs)
Make us laugh and laugh with us. After a serious laugh session, we feel instantly closer to you.0 -
Most, if not all, women are a little bit crazy.... don't hold it against us.
Every once in a while, drop us a text just so we know you're thinking of us. (But DON'T blow up our phone with constant msgs)
Make us laugh and laugh with us. After a serious laugh session, we feel instantly closer to you.
yes! Yes we are! Crazy that is...It does seem completely crazy all the things that have been said...but it is the way it is...always has been and always will be. Instead of constantly trying to change it , accept it and we will make you happier than you could ever have known or expected!0 -
Just to shake a stick in the lions cage a question.
What do all you ladies do for your guy every day or through the week?0 -
Just to shake a stick in the lions cage a question.
What do all you ladies do for your guy every day or through the week?
LOL @ shake a stick in the lions cage hahaha that's great
anyway, i tell my man i love him everyday, i tell him he's sexy, i cook for him, i kiss him, rub his back (even pop the bumps LOL), give him massages when he needs them, pluck out his ingrown hairs from when he shaves, whenever money permits, i take him on a date AND i don't complain when he plays video games0 -
**********************************Just to shake a stick in the lions cage a question.
What do all you ladies do for your guy every day or through the week?
EVERY DAMN THING!!!!!!!"0 -
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**********************************Just to shake a stick in the lions cage a question.
What do all you ladies do for your guy every day or through the week?
EVERY DAMN THING!!!!!!!"
Problem is.....most men get a little too comfortable...they start "expecting" these things from us.....and forget that it takes TWO. Respect , and effort goes a very long way......we do these things because we love you and want you to be happy.......it's time you start realizing we need these things too. And puhleeeeze don't expect to be rewsrded for doing something every now and then..that we do everyday.0 -
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**********************************Just to shake a stick in the lions cage a question.
What do all you ladies do for your guy every day or through the week?
EVERY DAMN THING!!!!!!!"
Problem is.....most men get a little too comfortable...they start "expecting" these things from us.....and forget that it takes TWO. Respect , and effort goes a very long way......we do these things because we love you and want you to be happy.......it's time you start realizing we need these things too. And puhleeeeze don't expect to be rewsrded for doing something every now and then..that we do everyday.
I am sorry if things are not what you like but have to say you seem very bitter and/or angry.
Just an observation from your posts and if true hope you can find a guy that doesn`t leave you feeling that way.:flowerforyou:0 -
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**********************************Just to shake a stick in the lions cage a question.
What do all you ladies do for your guy every day or through the week?
EVERY DAMN THING!!!!!!!"
Problem is.....most men get a little too comfortable...they start "expecting" these things from us.....and forget that it takes TWO. Respect , and effort goes a very long way......we do these things because we love you and want you to be happy.......it's time you start realizing we need these things too. And puhleeeeze don't expect to be rewsrded for doing something every now and then..that we do everyday.
I am sorry if things are not what you like but have to say you seem very bitter and/or angry.
Just an observation from your posts and if true hope you can find a guy that doesn`t leave you feeling that way.:flowerforyou:
Now see, see what we go through?
A man asks a general question for the ladies......what can we do to be better?
The woman answers this question....
The man calls the woman "bitter"....
Guys..grow up...we can't be sweet and charming all the time....you certainly aren't. We put up with the most unbelievable crap from you....and the moment we say "uhh, excuse me, honey!!"......we're suddenly "bitter"....... Really!!!! Are you kiddin me???0 -
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**********************************Just to shake a stick in the lions cage a question.
What do all you ladies do for your guy every day or through the week?
EVERY DAMN THING!!!!!!!"
Problem is.....most men get a little too comfortable...they start "expecting" these things from us.....and forget that it takes TWO. Respect , and effort goes a very long way......we do these things because we love you and want you to be happy.......it's time you start realizing we need these things too. And puhleeeeze don't expect to be rewsrded for doing something every now and then..that we do everyday.
I am sorry if things are not what you like but have to say you seem very bitter and/or angry.
Just an observation from your posts and if true hope you can find a guy that doesn`t leave you feeling that way.:flowerforyou:
Now see, see what we go through?
A man asks a general question for the ladies......what can we do to be better?
The woman answers this question....
The man calls the woman "bitter"....
Guys..grow up...we can't be sweet and charming all the time....you certainly aren't. We put up with the most unbelievable crap from you....and the moment we say "uhh, excuse me, honey!!"......we're suddenly "bitter"....... Really!!!! Are you kiddin me???
Well...not to continue baiting the lion...but 'EVERY DAMN THING!!!!!!!' does lend itself to the impression of bitterness.
Thing is, not all women are like you're describing yourself, and not all men are as unappreciative as your posts indicate. But...to be honest...I'd likely go out on a limb and say most women aren't, and most men are (meaning most woment AREN'T like you describe, and most men ARE unappreciative).
I can see why that would promote a bit of bitterness.
Now, in Carl's defense...he was saying much the same thing...that he's sorry you had to deal with whatever guy made you feel the way you do. He even offered flowers! Your response...might be PART of why men aren't reacting to all of what you're offering...the way you would like.
Good thing I have a leftover shark suit from that time I tried baiting sharks. I think this might get bloody lol.0
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