Do you get mistaken for looking older or younger than you re

ninerbuff
ninerbuff Posts: 49,040 Member
edited October 2024 in Chit-Chat
After instructing, someone asked me how long I've been into fitness and when I told them 28 years, they said that I must have been doing this since I was 10! At 47, I always my age guessed at mid 30's to early 40's.

My cousin, who is 6 years younger than me and in horrible shape, always gets the "you look older" remark when we hang out together.

Another reason that being fit and in shape is a great goal to strive for.

How about you?
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  • darlilama
    darlilama Posts: 794 Member
    Good for you!! I was carded when I ordered alcoholic drinks until I was 29-30. Then, I don't know wth happened! Anyway, I don't get carded anymore. :-) I do occasionally get the "I thought you were younger" comment… but they're only guessing a few years younger than I actually am. We'll see what happens after I lose the "insulation" currently protecting my "muscles". :bigsmile:
  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
    With the amount of gray hair I have...I'm not foolin' anyone really lol :indifferent:
  • taso42_DELETED
    taso42_DELETED Posts: 3,394 Member
    i got carded the other day. but it was dark, and the bartender was a ****
  • darlilama
    darlilama Posts: 794 Member
    With the amount of gray hair I have...I'm not foolin' anyone really lol :indifferent:

    there are products for that. :happy:
  • Dylanzmom
    Dylanzmom Posts: 120
    All the time especially at my job. I have clients ask me all the time if I'm even old enough to be working there.
  • skinnylove00
    skinnylove00 Posts: 662 Member
    i am a college student and i still get carded to see rated R movies!!
  • maryd523
    maryd523 Posts: 661 Member
    People are never shocked when I tell them my age, but I'm 33 and still get carded about half the time, so that's nice.
  • Diary_Queen
    Diary_Queen Posts: 1,314 Member
    I get mistaken for a college student all the time since my office building is right across from a local junior college. When I'm walkin from my admin office to our performing arts theater (one of the venues we represent), people always ask me about profs or classes or parking LOL. I tell them I'm not a student and they look at me like I'm some skank out man hunting on campus... then I tell them I'm 32, work for the office across the street & have 2 kids!
  • killagb
    killagb Posts: 3,280 Member
    With the amount of gray hair I have...I'm not foolin' anyone really lol :indifferent:

    there are products for that. :happy:

    Yeah but it's all good...most women say it looks good so I can live with it. lol...here I'll flip my profile pic so you can see...
  • SiltyPigeon
    SiltyPigeon Posts: 920 Member
    I'm told that I look like I'm 16 A LOT. Seriously, like twice a week. Ever since I dropped the first 40 lbs. People get really weirded about seeing me with my 2 kids. "Those aren't your's are they?" "Are you babysitting?" Etc. Trying to buy alcohol: SUCKS.

    Oh... BTW... I'm 25.
  • sarah44254
    sarah44254 Posts: 3,078 Member
    Half of the people who meet me wonder if I should be 'skipping school' (high school)

    and the other half decide that I look 'over 40' so they don't card me for alcohol

    I really don't know what to think. I'll be 26 soon. I am just baffled.
  • When my hair is cut short and sits atop of my head like a curly bush, I am told that I look like much younger than what I am. However, when my hair is long, I am told that I look my age. When I am with my sister, who dresses much younger than I, they think she is my daughter. Maybe I should cut my hair and get some younger looking clothes :)
  • bry_all01
    bry_all01 Posts: 3,100 Member
    My "kid" sister who is 6 years younger always gets told she looks older than me. I also get asked if I had my kids really young. Um, no.
  • hanaibo
    hanaibo Posts: 42
    For me, it seems to depend on the person. When I was twenty pounds overweight, I was mistaken for being my younger sister's (4 years younger, mind you) mother. Some guy asked my age a few weeks back at the laundromat, and didn't believe I was 21 (thought I was much younger...16, 17 or so). Weird...
  • 1_up
    1_up Posts: 1,414 Member
    I get told I look like I'm in my mid 20s when I'm clean shaven and mid 30s when I grow out my gotee. I'm 31 :P
  • sleepytexan
    sleepytexan Posts: 3,138 Member
    Most people seem to be surprised that I am as old as I am. They are either very polite or they haven't renewed their prescription lenses lately.

    Also, the darker it is, the younger I look.:laugh:
  • unsuspectingfish
    unsuspectingfish Posts: 1,176 Member
    People always mistake me for a high school student, at least until I talk. Then they mistake me for a college student. Funnily enough, I still rarely get carded, anymore.

    That won't last for long, though, I'm sure, as I've already started getting grey hairs at 26.
  • L2M1D52
    L2M1D52 Posts: 616 Member
    At every age, I've always been told I looked younger. I'm 25 now and people finally think I'm 18 but still sometimes younger.
  • WattsJA
    WattsJA Posts: 160 Member
    clean shaven .. people guess I am younger

    scruffy .. people guess I am younger, but not by as much.
  • kunibob
    kunibob Posts: 608 Member
    Legal age is 19 here, and I still get carded occasionally (I'm 30). Not happening as often anymore, though!

    When I was in my early 20s, people often asked what highschool I went to. :\
  • LivLovLrn
    LivLovLrn Posts: 580 Member
    I am 45 years old, I got carded last year!! Made my day/week/year :D My husband is 2 years younger than me, he NEVER gets carded, hasn't for 20 years. People don't believe him when he tells them I am older than him...good ego booster for me anyway ;)
  • darlilama
    darlilama Posts: 794 Member
    With the amount of gray hair I have...I'm not foolin' anyone really lol :indifferent:

    there are products for that. :happy:

    Yeah but it's all good...most women say it looks good so I can live with it. lol...here I'll flip my profile pic so you can see...

    Yeah, why is it that men always look "distinguished" and women just look old? Not fair! :ohwell:
  • aippolito1
    aippolito1 Posts: 4,894 Member
    I used to get told I looked older - when I was about 13-16. Now I always get told I look 17 and I'm 22.
  • darlilama
    darlilama Posts: 794 Member
    clean shaven .. people guess I am younger

    scruffy .. people guess I am younger, but not by as much.

    So, I'm guessing you're the one on the right. :happy:
  • whispiri
    whispiri Posts: 43 Member
    I offered a few weeks ago to walk the local parade for our place of work. I offered to bring my daughter and husband. The volunteer coordinator asked how old my daughter was and when I replied that she was 15 she couldn't believe it. She said she thought I would be pushing a baby stroller. Then I told her I had a twenty year old.......she could not believe that.

    It's been like that for years. When I was twenty-two with a sick baby in the hospital years ago, I was mistaken for a sixteen year old mom by the pediatrician until his co-worker gave him a rude awakening (the co-worker knew my parents, lol). I guess it is just genetic in my family.

    But I cannot say I have ever been carded.....disappointing! I spent many a night in the bar at age 17 (not drinking) just for the thrill of trying to get away with getting into the bar. And when I turned 19 (drinking age in Saskatchewan, Canada), I still never ever was carded......maybe it was because my hubby is quite a bit older than me and I was usually with him, LOL!
  • LisaKyle11
    LisaKyle11 Posts: 662 Member
    younger... get carded periodically too! :-)
  • unsuspectingfish
    unsuspectingfish Posts: 1,176 Member
    Half of the people who meet me wonder if I should be 'skipping school' (high school)

    and the other half decide that I look 'over 40' so they don't card me for alcohol

    I really don't know what to think. I'll be 26 soon. I am just baffled.

    As a clerk in a store that sells alcohol, sometimes we just get lazy and don't card you as long as you look old enough, whether or not you look 'over 40'. Especially if we know you, and especially if there's no one else paying attention. I've even seen liquor stores do that.
  • fitplease
    fitplease Posts: 647 Member
    These stories remind me of a time I came home from doing Bike NY in my late 20's. I was on the subway with my bike, in my T-shirt and shorts (nothing fancy). An older (elderly?) lady thought I was in Jr. High School and no matter how hard I tried, I could not convince her otherwise!!

    Now, most people guess my age, which is only about 10 years older. I'm starting to miss the compliments of being confused for a much younger person. LOL.
  • MelC2564
    MelC2564 Posts: 182 Member
    I'm 22 and still get asked for ID to see 15+ movies at the cinema :p
  • KLRed04
    KLRed04 Posts: 5
    some of these made me LOL :)

    I'm 33 almost 34 and I often get a shocked reaction from people and mainly really young people which is such a nice feeling cant say that about the shape my body is in though, that would get mistaken for a 60 year old..........but I'm working on that ;)
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