What size is too big for a bikini?

sdwelk11

I sometimes wish people would consider what age they should stop wearing bikinis, rather what size.

I agree!! Got a friend that is in her mid forties and she is still trying to pull off this look. She isn't in shape anymore and still tries to wear the bikinis from when she was in shape... To each their own I say. If you are comfortable enough in your own skin then wear but don't get mad or insulted if someone makes fun of you because there are mean people out there that have no idea what you have been thru.

atsteele

I sometimes wish people would consider what age they should stop wearing bikinis, rather what size.

So what age do you think is the cutoff for wearing a bikini? Just curious. Because Im 44yo and wear a bikini.

Qarol

I think it's as big as you feel comfortable when wearing one yourself.
That being said, I don't much care to look at some people in bikinis. But that's my problem, not theirs.

zeeeb

Size 12 is about the limit in my opinion. i think a bikini is only for small people, young people, or very smooth, toned people if they are a bit bigger (like 14+).

i wouldn't ever wear a bikini again, not in this lifetime. Gravity, stretch marks, c-sections and pregnancy have all got the best of me, and even when i get to my goal weight, the boobs and the excess skin will be an issue.

to be honest, nothing looks worse than fat overhang, or even loose skin overhang, wobbly cellulite, old stretch marks etc... less is not always more. you look at some seriously hot chicks, they don't always have everything all out there and flaunted. You can see, even with clothes on, that they are hot. they don't need all their skin out.

I just hate all these new cut out bathers that are available at the moment, so many people shouldn't wear them and do.

Also, age is an issue, there is this chick at the gym why wears bra tops and short shorts to the gym and she is seriously old, she is sooooo fit, and sooooo thin, but the wrinkles, look terrible. she would wear a really nice fitted tank and look awesome for her age, instead she wears near nothing and shows her age.

Contrarian

People can wear whatever they want. I seriously don't care.

sdwelk11

I sometimes wish people would consider what age they should stop wearing bikinis, rather what size.

So what age do you think is the cutoff for wearing a bikini? Just curious. Because Im 44yo and wear a bikini.

gonna have to say that the 70+ year old woman at the local Walmart that was wearing a bikini top and daisy dukes really needs a reality check because there was nothing attractive about old saggy wrinkly skin in that outfit! in her defense I think she was a little mentally off.

Ocarina

I think personally that there is more of a proportion size issue then actual waist size. Size 12 is a good place to start for waist size but if you have huuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuge boobs or back fat or anything I wouldn't recommend it. I won't wear one personally because I think my chest is a bit large yet and I have fat under my arms and a bit of back fat I wouldn't want to show. But I'm not losing out on anything. I have a super cute sporty tankini to wear that covers stuff up, looks girly, and isn't a one piece.

infamousmk

A size 18 is too big for me right now, but that's the only one I have for the time being, I'd probably buy a size 16 so it fit, but it's already fall and all that....



Seriously??

As long as you have the confidence to walk out on to that beach in your bikini, I don't give a fvck what size you are. Wear it like you own that beach/pool/hot tub.

XFitMojoMom

I wear a bikini... and I'm maybe a 12-14, however built like an athlete... I don't think there is one size, but more how well it "flatters" your figure. The deal breaker for me is when I start seeing your stomach folds down by your nethers... it's time to cover up.

dckim

Too big if people around you start walking away. Similar to fat dudes wearing speedos. :noway:

sassylilmama

I think it depends on a lot. I am a 10 right now and tried a bikini on. I think it looked ok but not enough to go in public. Even when I get to goal I am not sure I would feel comfortable due to my stretch marks.

barbiex3

lol thats a very tough one. i have never wore one in my life... i have seen women wear bikinis and have a 40 inch waist or larger!!!.... wear a swimsuit let alone a bikini and have big thunder celluite thighs... i personally wouldnt wear one unless i had decent porportions whatever size that is....

I also think it has a lot to do with waist size. Currently mine is a 35.5 and I would never wear a bikini unless I got below a 30.

i feel like if your waist is under 35 inches, you are good to go!

koosdel

People can wear whatever they want. I seriously don't care.

I am changing my name to Koos the Impaler, then I will wear you. So shall it be.

yanicka

lol thats a very tough one. i have never wore one in my life... i have seen women wear bikinis and have a 40 inch waist or larger!!!.... wear a swimsuit let alone a bikini and have big thunder celluite thighs... i personally wouldnt wear one unless i had decent porportions whatever size that is....

I also think it has a lot to do with waist size. Currently mine is a 35.5 and I would never wear a bikini unless I got below a 30.

i feel like if your waist is under 35 inches, you are good to go!

I don't know, my waist is 27 and I still do not feel comfortable to wear a bikini

darrcn5

First off, there is no "age" that someone should stop wearing a bikini. That is one of the silliest notions I have read. Just because you get older does not mean you can't rock a bikini. I have seen 60 year olds wearing a bikini, and they looked awesome in it-toned, taunt, and the bikini was very flattering to the shape.

I don't think there is a set weight or size. If you have a bikini that leaves something to the imagination, I think you can pull it off and be bigger. For a string bikini or very skimpy bikini, I would say you need to be a normal weight for your height/frame. The biggest things I see is size 16 gals trying to squeeze into a skimpy string bikini that looks like it is 2 sizes too small. Bikinis should flatter and be the appropriate size.

Contrarian

People can wear whatever they want. I seriously don't care.

I am changing my name to Koos the Impaler, then I will wear you. So shall it be.

Thank you for finding an exception. That will teach me about making blanket statements.

Apryl546

I think if you can't tell the person is wearing a bottom or not.. is too big for a bikini.

Jade_Butterfly

Honestly I think it depends on ones fitness level and body composition as well as the cut of the suit. . . tankinis for example cover a lot more and you can get skirts and things as part of the suit or accessories. ..

redhead91

People can wear whatever they want. I seriously don't care.

I am changing my name to Koos the Impaler, then I will wear you. So shall it be.

You are officially my favorite commenter so far!

redhead91

lol thats a very tough one. i have never wore one in my life... i have seen women wear bikinis and have a 40 inch waist or larger!!!.... wear a swimsuit let alone a bikini and have big thunder celluite thighs... i personally wouldnt wear one unless i had decent porportions whatever size that is....

I also think it has a lot to do with waist size. Currently mine is a 35.5 and I would never wear a bikini unless I got below a 30.

i feel like if your waist is under 35 inches, you are good to go!

I have hips almost exactly like yours except I think my torso is a bit shorter! I hope I look as good as you some day!

MarisaJean82

I don't think that string bikini's look particularly flattering on anyone, some things should be left to the imagination. However, a cute sporty two piece, or tankini, or boyshorts looks good. I just hate going to the beach and seeing people wearing what looks like a skimpy bra and underwear! Just my personal opinion though!! :-)

Debi_Dreamer

It depends on tummy bulge. My mom was 200lbs when she was younger but has no belly at all...she was flat even though she was heavy. She has a picture in a bikini somewhere and she looked AMAZING!!!

Pebble321

No size or age limit in my opinion - Just make sure you find one that fits well and supports you up top if you have big boobs.
I've had size 16/18 bikinis (Aussie sizes, different to US) - they're just harder to find and not so many options.
I've decided that if I'm fat, I'm fat - a tankini isn't going to magically make me thin!
And I've been inspired by European women - I've met women from Europe of all sizes and ages who unselfconciously wear a bikini - hurrah!

Bluestar083

Australian size 14...which is US size 10, UK size 12.
not in all circumstances but as a general rule imo

bonjour24

i haven't read all of the replies, so forgive me if this is repeated.

watch Norbit. that (IMO) is too big for a bikini. when someone has to ask you if you're wearing bottoms because your back fat and *kitten* apron cover your pants, that is too large for a bikini.
anything smaller than that i reckon is a goer!

i'd wear a bikini or a tankini- but i wear shorts too because i'm more self conscious of my thighs. even when i was a UK 22, i'd wear that no worries. as long as you're comfy and not spending all of your time trying to breathe in, then you're good to rock it!

audram420

I sure am hoping I'll be wearing one next summer...it will be our first family vacation to the beach and I'd love to get some sun on my belly!

elfy66

For me? I packed a UK size 18 on holiday and was not going to wear it. However, on holiday in Corfu, I saw a lady strip off to bra and pants (not matching and very grey) she wasn't bothered so why should I??? I wore my bikini after that day and enjoyed myself. Have confidence and breathe in!

Hourglass25

I believe it totally depends on your body shape, and where you carry your weight. It also has to do with self confidence:)

catherine4211

See this person in my picture - she is WAY too fat to be wearing one but she took her kids to the beach and didn't have extra money for a one-piece so she wore what she had already..........those pictures were my motivation.

gisele246

When I had my baby, I was 195. I was in a 36J and XL bottom. My husband said I still looked better in the bikini than my one piece. I did too.