Single ladies and fellas...

mandeiko
mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
edited October 3 in Chit-Chat
Single guys and gals... While out, do you approach the opposite sex if you find them attractive? Be honest.

I'm just curious, because I NEVER do. Don't have the guts.
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  • albinogorilla
    albinogorilla Posts: 1,056 Member
    not single.....but in the past, i never approached someone if i thought they were attractive, too shy for that
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
    Absolutely. I met my ex-husband by walking up and introducing myself. (My being forward has nothing to do with our divorce.) I was in Vegas with my friend and she saw a hot guy but was too shy to strike up a conversation so I did. And between the two of us she is way hotter. Hell.....maybe I'm not hot at all but who cares!!! It worked for the both of us - he had a great friend! I don't like rejection but you never know what will happen.....and it could be a positive thing! It's worth a try to me.
  • Kekibird
    Kekibird Posts: 1,122 Member
    Nope
  • Kristina0202
    Kristina0202 Posts: 188 Member
    Never. I don't have the confidence to approach a cute boy.

    Maybe someday I will, though. :)
  • SarahMarie1983
    SarahMarie1983 Posts: 17
    I am way to shy to go up to a hot guy. That's probably one of the reasons I am single now. I wish I had the balls.
  • pph79
    pph79 Posts: 78
    Haha, no never. Too shy. :blushing:
  • JennLifts
    JennLifts Posts: 1,913 Member
    No haha. Well I do, if I have something to say, but I don't do it because I want to date them or something.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    hell no!! i am such a chicken. i might stare a lot and tell my friends, but I would NEVER walk up to guy I didn't know and just start talking to him.
  • mistyb47711
    mistyb47711 Posts: 861 Member
    Well depends on where......In a bar setting to shy until I have 2 drinks then I would......anywhere else....nope
  • kkauz42
    kkauz42 Posts: 537 Member
    Never have! WAY to nervous!
  • KatieJane83
    KatieJane83 Posts: 2,002 Member
    In the past, absolutely not! Way to shy and no self confidence. Now, I'm very recently single after quite a long time, and when I do get myself back out there my goal is to be more outgoing. I'm certainly feeling the best about myself that I ever have, so I hope I can pull it off! :blushing:
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    <- extra super shy. I even say that in my profile on here :laugh:
  • WordToYourMamma
    WordToYourMamma Posts: 31
    I have many times. I have been very aggressive many times too. It has led to good times and bad. All in all, I have always had better luck when I approached men as opposed to them approaching me. Always seems like only *kitten* hit on girls anymore. What's wrong with the hot guys these days? They probably know they are hot and know some girl will come up to them eventually so they don't even bother.
  • masterfitness4u
    masterfitness4u Posts: 107
    Nope, too shy unless I am at the gym, but never asked them on a date only to give them some advice.
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    I have, I would again.
  • kleavitt1992
    kleavitt1992 Posts: 592 Member
    maybe when i reach my goal weight lol or more will just flock to me
  • dragonflybird
    dragonflybird Posts: 232
    No, but I approach the same sex if I know they are batting for my team :P
  • Kaimana94
    Kaimana94 Posts: 165 Member
    just got put back in the signal life. Wife is divorcing me, but no I'm shy.
  • zoe4friends
    zoe4friends Posts: 727 Member
    I am usually pretty outgoing and not shy. But I found out that I am shy when it comes to approaching someone I like.
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    No women go out in packs. If one dont like ya youre screwed. You dont have to win the girl over just win her friends over and youre in.......... too much work i rather watch the game/fight whatever is on.
  • allmanro
    allmanro Posts: 22 Member
    hell yea!! if anything just say hello, let them know your interested, don't go bananas that's just tacky, but strike up a nice convo. Nothing wrong there. :)
  • knoid
    knoid Posts: 2 Member
    WAY too shy.
  • Brooke1542
    Brooke1542 Posts: 115 Member
    Way too shy, and way to afraid to be laughed at for trying. Maybe one day I'll have some better confidence.
  • AnAntInSpace
    AnAntInSpace Posts: 28
    When I'm on a night out I normally just give them a certain look, and if they're interested they take it as a hint to come over.
  • emd0019
    emd0019 Posts: 179 Member
    I won't approach them but if they approach me I have the confidence in myself to flirt back and not make it awkward. If you think you are hot most of the time other people will too. Confidence is way hotter than just looks alone! :happy:
  • Shausil82
    Shausil82 Posts: 218 Member
    I'm single, and sometimes I approach guys. Most of the time it doesn't work out well though, LOL.
  • ForverYoung81
    ForverYoung81 Posts: 3 Member
    No I'm way to shy but I felt like I've passed up alot of oppurtunites by not approaching people....Maybe I should start!!...
  • Miss_Chievous_wechange
    Miss_Chievous_wechange Posts: 1,230 Member
    Depends on how much I have to drink. lol
  • Dolphingirlie81
    Dolphingirlie81 Posts: 322
    I'm always nervous to approach a hot guy. Unless I have a few drinks in me I can do anything.
  • sunkisses
    sunkisses Posts: 2,365 Member
    There's no one I've ever wanted to meet that badly.
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