Ex boyfriend advice desperately needed

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  • SkateboardFi
    SkateboardFi Posts: 1,322 Member
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    ...he clearly isn't happy in his NOW relationship and knows he has painted himself into a corner.....


    yes. exactly this. i've been in a situation similar to this...and while my case is extremely rare on how it works out..i wouldn't recommend traveling down THAT road to my worst enemy. it will be nothing but heartache for you...
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
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    It sounds like they deserve each other. Ignore and block and be glad you didn't get serious with that nutjob.
  • k2quiere
    k2quiere Posts: 4,151 Member
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    They call them exes for a reason...you're better off. I would say be sure to lock your windows and your doors unless you want to wonder where your clothes have gone.
  • sloanie1
    sloanie1 Posts: 276 Member
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    Anyone consider maybe the GIRLFRIEND sent this????

    hahahaha no didn't think of that!!! and it's usually women with the suspicious minds LOL!!!
  • bks1
    bks1 Posts: 32 Member
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    You guys are the best, I absolutely love the support on this site!

    I most definitely wasn't even considering sending anything to him, the very idea of it creeps me out *shudder*

    I suppose the fact that he said that he wanted nothing to do with me- no friendship, etc- but then asked me for a very bizarre request- that seemed really incongruent. I mean, if you were going to ask someone for something, you wouldn't really say that.

    Anyway, I'm sticking to my plan- no more contact EVER- but I have the curiousity bug in my head that needs to be silenced- hence hashing this out with all you guys! :)
  • Gigi_licious
    Gigi_licious Posts: 1,185 Member
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    Forward to the girlfriend, then block him.

    ^^ This. But first I would respond with the 3 most beautiful words of all time: *kitten* Yourself *kitten*! :flowerforyou:
  • katemiddletonisawesome
    katemiddletonisawesome Posts: 152 Member
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    Forward to the girlfriend, then block him.

    I concur.
  • bks1
    bks1 Posts: 32 Member
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    Noooooo, I didn't consider that! But it wouldn't make much sense would it.....
  • bks1
    bks1 Posts: 32 Member
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    Anyone consider maybe the GIRLFRIEND sent this????

    Noooooo, I didn't consider that! But it wouldn't make much sense would it.....
  • EmpressOfJudgment
    EmpressOfJudgment Posts: 1,162 Member
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    I think you should ignore him completely. That way YOU are the one who has made the decision to have nothing to do with him. Don't let him decide what your "relationship" will be. *kitten* that asshat.
  • Jess90_
    Jess90_ Posts: 4
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    Dont even write back.He's not even worth your time...you need someone who truly appreciates you and wants your friendship :)
  • silver02bullet
    silver02bullet Posts: 261 Member
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    Ok. W have all been in similar situations....maybe not the smelly part. Lol

    I'd either not reply at all and give it no other thought. Or tell him you just took a bunch of items to goodwill and he can find one there.

    I do admit that's kind of creepy . Maybe he was messed up when he wrote it.

    Good luck. Exes who break ur heart suck. Im in that boat right now.
  • GreatSetOfBrains
    GreatSetOfBrains Posts: 675 Member
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    Since I've had a rough night I'd say print and sent it to his girlfriend with flowers . , . Sorry that was mean.
  • california_peach
    california_peach Posts: 1,858 Member
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    Step 1: find the smelliest bum you can

    Step 2: fill him full of liquor until he pukes on his SHIRT

    Step 3: buy shirt from bum

    Step 4: put shirt in gift bag

    Step 5: print out email, put in gift bag

    Step 6: deliver shirt to exec boyfriend's house

    Step 7: THEN block him
  • Drunkadelic
    Drunkadelic Posts: 948 Member
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    Step 1: find the smelliest bum you can

    Step 2: fill him full of liquor until he pukes on his SHIRT

    Step 3: buy shirt from bum

    Step 4: put shirt in gift bag

    Step 5: print out email, put in gift bag

    Step 6: deliver shirt to exec boyfriend's house

    Step 7: THEN block him

    There we go. Best answer yet
  • GreatSetOfBrains
    GreatSetOfBrains Posts: 675 Member
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    Step 1: find the smelliest bum you can

    Step 2: fill him full of liquor until he pukes on his SHIRT

    Step 3: buy shirt from bum

    Step 4: put shirt in gift bag

    Step 5: print out email, put in gift bag

    Step 6: deliver shirt to exec boyfriend's house

    Step 7: THEN block him

    Might not need to pay for shirt if supplying booze! LOl
  • bks1
    bks1 Posts: 32 Member
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    Step 1: find the smelliest bum you can

    Step 2: fill him full of liquor until he pukes on his SHIRT

    Step 3: buy shirt from bum

    Step 4: put shirt in gift bag

    Step 5: print out email, put in gift bag

    Step 6: deliver shirt to exec boyfriend's house

    Step 7: THEN block him

    LOL I love it!!!!
  • masonsmomma
    masonsmomma Posts: 184 Member
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    I agree with what advice others have posted to you. If I were in your shoes, I'd forward it to his girlfriend (i'd want to know if I was her), DO NOT reply to the email (I know it's hard) and block him/ ignore him from now on. That's such a weird and creepy request and he put you in a really awkward position. Try to be strong Hun! <3
  • StarGeezer
    StarGeezer Posts: 351
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    psycho.jpg

    Two words...restraining order. That is just all kinds of messed up right there! :noway:
  • manjingirl
    manjingirl Posts: 188 Member
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    You know when people find your facebook account open and put up crude status updates or post weird pictures "for fun"?

    Well I think someone has hacked his email, I seriously don't think it's him. Maybe the new girl is responsible, or maybe some "friend" thinks it's a funny thing to do.

    So just ignore it.

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