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    Biggest things not to do on a first date

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    • Posts: 1,759 Member
      Uncontrollable sobbing because I can't make up my mind what appetizer to order.
    • Posts: 884 Member
      I have only been on one first date, it was alright.
    • Posts: 8,138 Member
      Don't vomit at the table. This never happened. I just think it is good advice.
    • Posts: 3,369 Member
      Save the prison time stories until the 2nd date
    • Posts: 291 Member
      Save the prison time stories until the 2nd date

      Haha I love this..such a turn off..

      or I thought of one that I shouldve been smart enough to stay away but telling me how he "borrowed a car and was accused of stealing it" but he came to town with no car! Few monthes later the verbal abuse starts, cops are called and he is arrested...ugh!
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      LOL - i dont know since i had sex the first night we went out - and here we are, married six years later :)

      awesome story!
    • Posts: 560 Member
      Don't vomit at the table. This never happened. I just think it is good advice.

      True story. Good advice for things other than just a first date.
    • Posts: 665 Member
      Tell them you love them! I didn't even actully DATE this guy yet. We were IM'ing & a couple phone calles, trying to plan a date (which he kept wanting me to make the 90 minute drive to HIM) He blurted that out & I said, "dude, you don't even know me!" LOL What an idiot. Needless to say, it didn't last long. I had to decline a concert & then he stopped talking to me! Then several months later he IM'ed me giving me this big spiel about all the drama he's had. My response, "Wow. That's crazy." 'Nuff said.
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      True story. Good advice for things other than just a first date.

      Yes. It's how I try to live my life.
    • Posts: 5,310 Member
      Eat tacos.


      Seriously, you cannot eat tacos in a ladylike way.
    • Posts: 3,369 Member
      Eat tacos.


      Seriously, you cannot eat tacos in a ladylike way.

      Hahahaha. Where to go with this, where to go..................:blushing:
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      shoot down all your dates ideas on what to do and when asked what do you wanna do, the only thing you can come up with is "check into a hotel"... seriously!!!
    • Posts: 933 Member
      Eat tacos.


      Seriously, you cannot eat tacos in a ladylike way.

      Sometimes eating the taco lands you a second date with her!
    • Posts: 2,395 Member
      Don't spend more time looking at your dates tits than her face.

      But when you're sitting down, you cant see her *kitten*. LOL
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      Do NOT, and I repeat Do NOT poop your pants. There will be no 2nd date. Guaranteed.
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      LOL - i dont know since i had sex the first night we went out - and here we are, married six years later :)

      me too and it has been 21 years for me
    • Posts: 587 Member
      Compare your date to you mother / father
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      Yeah I don't get how thats a turn off.

      Say "I love you" (thinking how i met your mother here...)


      this paramedic/firefighter's wife would have thought of that as turn on!
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      I went out on a "first" with a woman I really liked. Never told her I am a paramedic. Ended up doing cpr on a man in line at a well known restaurant. The ambulance arrived and we soon discovered that I was the only paramedic on the scene. So, I am starting iv's, getting an ekg, and pushing meds without thinking. I looked back at my date and she was mortified. I ended up going in the ambulance with the patient to the hospital. My date eventually told me that my life is way too "exciting" for her tastes. Now I show up wearing an EMS jacket and I tell the person my occupation first
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      I think that's hot - what's wrong with her??
    • Posts: 2,317 Member
      Talk about her sister because you "know" her sister
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      I think that's hot - what's wrong with her??

      Me too. I would've been turned on.
    • Posts: 3,369 Member
      The stories about your former years as a woman might not be too great.
    • Posts: 483 Member
      Talk about bug infestations while we are eating... or at all for that matter!! Of all the things we could talk about I had to listen about how he was infested with bed bugs!

      I could feel myself getting itchy listening to him!
    • Posts: 11,788 Member
      Don't spend more time looking at your dates tits than her face.

      Advice I could have used 20 first dates ago. I get it now.
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      Don't vomit at the table. This never happened. I just think it is good advice.

      This actually happened to my friend. She was hammered and threw up on the table at this sports bar. Her and her date left cash on the table and ran out of the restaurant before the waiter came back. They are now engaged.
    • Posts: 2,018 Member
      I once met a guy online whom I thought was "ok". I wasn't initially romantically attracted to him but he was nice, so I thought "well, let's give this a little time just to see what happens".

      It wasn't the first date, but the first time I went to his house. He proceeded to give me the 'tour'. It was a smallish house, only 2 bedrooms. When he opened the door to show me the second bedroom I couldn't believe what I saw. It was decked out ceiling to floor with Indiana Jones paraphernalia. I mean EVERYTHING. Bed sheets. Posters. Movies on a shelf, etc. And if memory serves me correct, there was a life-sized cardboard cutout of Indiana Jones in there too.

      At first I thought he had a kid that he hadn't told me about yet -- but nope -- he just really liked Indiana Jones.

      Needless to say, that romantic attachment NEVER happened!!!
    • Posts: 804 Member
      About the whole sex on the first date thing being so taboo, I think it really depends on the couple. No matter if they have sex on the first date, it really only makes a difference if that's all maybe one of them wanted. It usually doesn't work out if one person just wants booty but the other wants a serious relationship. If both of them want booty, then it's a win win. If they both want a relationship and still have sex on the first date, the relationship can still work. I speak from experience, ladies and gents :)

      A major no-no on a first date with me would certainly be talking about your EX. If you're not over them and you feel the need to talk about them constantly, you're not ready for a new relationship. Period. Don't waste my time.

      Secondly, avoid talking about "the future" and "making plans". That crap is SCARY!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm not even sure I want to hold your HAND yet, let alone make babies and grow old with you. Geez. I've seen guys (and girls) do that a LOT when they're first starting to date someone and it disturbs me. Get to know the person, first! Are you that desperate that you're ready to settle for the first person you were successful in taking out on a date? I don't know. Just my two cents.
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      I went out on a "first" with a woman I really liked. Never told her I am a paramedic. Ended up doing cpr on a man in line at a well known restaurant. The ambulance arrived and we soon discovered that I was the only paramedic on the scene. So, I am starting iv's, getting an ekg, and pushing meds without thinking. I looked back at my date and she was mortified. I ended up going in the ambulance with the patient to the hospital. My date eventually told me that my life is way too "exciting" for her tastes. Now I show up wearing an EMS jacket and I tell the person my occupation first
      '"
      HERO=HOT
    • Posts: 3,369 Member
      I once met a guy online whom I thought was "ok". I wasn't initially romantically attracted to him but he was nice, so I thought "well, let's give this a little time just to see what happens".

      It wasn't the first date, but the first time I went to his house. He proceeded to give me the 'tour'. It was a smallish house, only 2 bedrooms. When he opened the door to show me the second bedroom I couldn't believe what I saw. It was decked out ceiling to floor with Indiana Jones paraphernalia. I mean EVERYTHING. Bed sheets. Posters. Movies on a shelf, etc. And if memory serves me correct, there was a life-sized cardboard cutout of Indiana Jones in there too.

      At first I thought he had a kid that he hadn't told me about yet -- but nope -- he just really liked Indiana Jones.

      Needless to say, that romantic attachment NEVER happened!!!


      Could have been worse. Star Wars for example. hahaha. Some people are odd!
    • Posts: 804 Member
      I went out on a "first" with a woman I really liked. Never told her I am a paramedic. Ended up doing cpr on a man in line at a well known restaurant. The ambulance arrived and we soon discovered that I was the only paramedic on the scene. So, I am starting iv's, getting an ekg, and pushing meds without thinking. I looked back at my date and she was mortified. I ended up going in the ambulance with the patient to the hospital. My date eventually told me that my life is way too "exciting" for her tastes. Now I show up wearing an EMS jacket and I tell the person my occupation first
      '"

      "Too exciting" for her? Geez! Talk about rock star! You saved someone's life without thinking about how it might affect your social life and that was a turn off? Good thing she told you up front.
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