My Life Is Full Of Drama

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  • MissResa
    MissResa Posts: 1,147 Member
    I give him a hard time, because his training is in Guam, and we live in Alaska. I joke that he volunteered to go just so he could be on the beach and around a bunch of women in bikinis... You definitely don't have much of that in AK during the wintertime. He's been really great, though. There are only 2 phones for 150 people, so he waited in line for hours just to say hi to the kids and me almost every day. I'm definitely ready to have him back, though.:happy:
  • MissGorgeous
    MissGorgeous Posts: 394 Member
    I give him a hard time, because his training is in Guam, and we live in Alaska. I joke that he volunteered to go just so he could be on the beach and around a bunch of women in bikinis... You definitely don't have much of that in AK during the wintertime. He's been really great, though. There are only 2 phones for 150 people, so he waited in line for hours just to say hi to the kids and me almost every day. I'm definitely ready to have him back, though.:happy:

    awe how sweet!!!!
  • KatieEppers
    KatieEppers Posts: 301 Member
    aww sweetie, I am so glad you guys got a chance to talk last night. He should DEF be making more time for you and it is good that you let him know how you feel. I hope you are enjoying your day together.
  • ccano
    ccano Posts: 149 Member
    oh and my husband bartends at his own bar because he likes too
    and had been bartending since he turned 21 (now 32)
    and flirting is apart of bartending...being friendly making good tips....BUT there is a line
    im not a jealous wife i could care less if these girls want hugs and pictures with him because every night it happens...but exchanging numbers and hanging out is def a No No!

    girls seem to LOVE my husband and have to give hugs and take fun pictures OF him and WITH him and i used to get jealous
    but i was 17 and realized ummm thats his job
    and he comes home to me and the kids at night
    with the money thoes girls give him hahaha
    i just see flirting as harmless fun to begin with
    but to each his own

    If you're okay with it, then good on you. IMHO, a 32 year old man with three kids should probably have considered leaving the bartending in his 20s. Especially with it taking up so many nights. When the kids get to be school aged, they're literally never going ot see him if he works nights and they're in school during the day.

    Good luck.
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