I love him/her but....

RensR
RensR Posts: 23
edited October 5 in Chit-Chat
he keeps flicking his snot everywhere! He thinks i don't notice, but it's hard to ignore the bogie on the telly screen, if you catch my drift..?

So what does your other half do that drives you nuts..?
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  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    Lives 800 miles away.
  • Lives 800 miles away.

    Yus :(

    Tickles me until i scream. It is cute for a while, but when i can't breathe you gotta stop! lol
  • Sh1tsRainbows
    Sh1tsRainbows Posts: 1,227 Member
    eats junk
  • jmelyan23
    jmelyan23 Posts: 1,648 Member
    He cannot for the life of him pick up after his messes.
  • PBJunky
    PBJunky Posts: 737 Member
    Bump....need to take notes so I can avoid these things in the future
  • I_give_it_2_u_str8
    I_give_it_2_u_str8 Posts: 680 Member
    she's time challanged - chronically late for everything
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,162 Member
    Bump....need to take notes so I can avoid these things in the future
    lol yes
  • her mom drives me crazy! lol
  • arrrgggghhhh, where do I start!?!
  • arrrgggghhhh, where do I start!?!

    Exactly! Ahahahahahahahaa!
  • bbbgamer
    bbbgamer Posts: 582 Member
    are you guys talking about me while i am not here??????
  • jmelyan23
    jmelyan23 Posts: 1,648 Member
    Bump....need to take notes so I can avoid these things in the future

    :laugh:
  • Bump....need to take notes so I can avoid these things in the future
    lol yes

    Good point.

    So far i learned don't pick my nose and eat junk xD
  • Most recently... decided that I am not the right person for her after I gave up my entire life a year ago and moved 700 miles away from home to be with her.

    But one of the things that drove me crazy was when she would fan her ears with her hands and tell me to "refuel" if I asked her to clarify something.

    And when she would whine that she does "EVERYTHING" if she sees we're almost out of milk, when I keep the house nearly spotless all the time.

    And when I am told that even though I'm not showing my stress, she can sense it and it's adding to her stress.

    Sorry, on a roll right now... maybe I need to realize SHE wasn't the right person for ME because I don't deserve to walk on eggshells all the time :-)
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    Most recently... decided that I am not the right person for her after I gave up my entire life a year ago and moved 700 miles away from home to be with her.

    But one of the things that drove me crazy was when she would fan her ears with her hands and tell me to "refuel" if I asked her to clarify something.

    And when she would whine that she does "EVERYTHING" if she sees we're almost out of milk, when I keep the house nearly spotless all the time.

    And when I am told that even though I'm not showing my stress, she can sense it and it's adding to her stress.

    Sorry, on a roll right now... maybe I need to realize SHE wasn't the right person for ME because I don't deserve to walk on eggshells all the time :-)
    I thought I won this thread, but I think you do. :( I'm sorry.
  • Lives in another country.....for now! :wink:
  • RensR
    RensR Posts: 23
    Most recently... decided that I am not the right person for her after I gave up my entire life a year ago and moved 700 miles away from home to be with her.

    But one of the things that drove me crazy was when she would fan her ears with her hands and tell me to "refuel" if I asked her to clarify something.

    And when she would whine that she does "EVERYTHING" if she sees we're almost out of milk, when I keep the house nearly spotless all the time.

    And when I am told that even though I'm not showing my stress, she can sense it and it's adding to her stress.

    Sorry, on a roll right now... maybe I need to realize SHE wasn't the right person for ME because I don't deserve to walk on eggshells all the time :-)


    You GO mate! Life's too short honestly!
  • Nah... I don't win anything except a one way ticket back home. I have to look at it as an opportunity and not a burdon. It will feel better with time and come out stronger than ever. :-)
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    My husband is a big time gamer, I love him so much and just want to spend time with him sometimes, I'm a stay at home mom who doesn't get much face to face talk with adults, so I just want to talk sometimes, and he doesn't which drives me mad.

    But the number 1 things I think is his parents lol. He agrees though. It's more his mom then anything, she drives me crazy! I love her but even right now we aren't even talking. She likes to tell me how to raise the kids, they are mind to raise and I won't let her in on that part and she gets mad and we but heads. I'm trying to cook healthy and my son refuses to try anything and she thinks I should feed him whatever he wants, when I know if he is hungry he is going to try what I cook. I'm not going to make him go to bed hungry if he really does not like something but come on? Gagging before he's even tried it, sorry that's not even right. She likes to manipulate everyone around her, she never does any wrong. So we haven't talked because for the first time I refuse to call her and just act like all is ok. If I do that, in her eyes I'm saying I'm wrong. I know how she works. Anyways... That's my main issue with my husband and it isn't about him lol.
  • ShannanLaNae
    ShannanLaNae Posts: 434 Member
    I dont have a mate right now, but my ex he would spend so frivoulsly and wonder wht he never had money. That was so frustrating to me because I am a penny pincker and i do believe in saying for a rainy day because u never knwo. Anywho I pray that GOd sends me someone with more common sense:happy:
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
    he used to leave his socks stuffed in between the cushions of the couch, but then we got a new couch, and I think out of respect for the new couch, he just leaves them on the floor.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    Bump....need to take notes so I can avoid these things in the future

    Dammit! She is so lucky!!
  • MrsCon40
    MrsCon40 Posts: 2,351 Member
    He started smoking again. :brokenheart:
  • Phoenix24601
    Phoenix24601 Posts: 620 Member
    I only get to see him every three weeks. But hey its better than the 3 times a year we were at for a while.
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    he has no job
    when he has a job, he does something stupid to lose it
    it is my fault he has no job
    he doesn't like to clean the house
    he doesn't like to do laundry
    he is bored staying home with the kids

    Hey - anyone want a wife that can pay all the bills and support the family if you are willing to work on some of the above issues?
  • CakeFit21
    CakeFit21 Posts: 2,521 Member
    His studio is freaking disaster. (it's his space...whatever....)
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    he has no job
    when he has a job, he does something stupid to lose it
    it is my fault he has no job
    he doesn't like to clean the house
    he doesn't like to do laundry
    he is bored staying home with the kids

    Hey - anyone want a wife that can pay all the bills and support the family if you are willing to work on some of the above issues?

    My EX-husband was like this.
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    Asks me to be nice to his parents. *sigh*
  • SinIsIn
    SinIsIn Posts: 1,865 Member
    - He gets out of the shower and does not dry himself.. then goes to sit on MY side of the bed!

    - When shaving.. he leaves his hair on the sink or in the shower and doesn't wash it off.

    - grabs a glass of juice, goes to the room drinks it, goes to the kitchen, grabs another glass of juice.. goes to the room. Before long our room looks like a scene out of the movie "Signs".

    - eats in the room on my side of the bed and leaves crumbs.

    I think that's all I have.
  • Maryfullofgrace
    Maryfullofgrace Posts: 342 Member
    When he comes home he has to turn all the lights in the house on. All of them.
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