Am I Wrong? Should I not put myself and my weight loss first

sherrydawnlittle

By putting out healthy foods on the table you are leading by example. Perhaps some of these ladies will be motivated by you to start eating healthier etc.

vytamindi

Let them bring their own crap. Since you probably put a lot of effort into counting cals/fat/carbs/protein on anything you eat, make your own yummy stuff and eat away!