What are your "Turn-Offs"?

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  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
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    1. Bad breath
    2. Cracked heels
    3. High pitch voice
    4. Exposing g-string with low cut jeans (Nice to look at but I would mind sharing my gf's *kitten* with the public)
    5. Playing hard to get
    6. Manipulating people
    7. Jealousy

    I though guys LOVE the g-string peeking out?!?!?!?!?

    Everyone I have spoken to about it hates it. It looks completely ridiculous.
  • fteale
    fteale Posts: 5,310 Member
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    Am I the only woman around here that likes "COCKy" guys?

    I think there is a distinct line between cocky and confidence-
    Cocky seems to mask insecurity a lot. Think about it, why project cocky unless you are worried about how people perceive you. Confident people have nothing to prove in life, hence the need not to act out, and self promote the way cocky people do. Behind EVERY cocky person, is an insecure poseur who acts out in defense, in fear of being exposed. Confidence is about being true to whom you are, not being afraid of putting yourself out there. Now that is SEXY!
    Confidence is attractive. Arrogance (cockiness) is obnoxious.

    Absolutely. I am attracted to people who are quietly secure with who they are, not the ones who feel they have to bray about who they are to anyone who will listen.
  • MaryAnn678
    MaryAnn678 Posts: 182 Member
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    Smoking.

    Too bad every single attractive girl in this town smokes. No, I'm not exaggerating.
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    Live in Kentucky? Tobacco country. When we moved here I was surprised that sooo many people smoked. The parents even bought them for their kids! Unbelievable!
  • jaimechiioldi
    jaimechiioldi Posts: 13 Member
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    Guys who are overly cocky and full of themselves - definite difference between confidence and cockiness.
    Guys who are rude to the waitress - you can tell a lot about a person based on how they treat waitstaff.
    Lastly no sense of humor. LOVE someone who can be silly and make me laugh
  • gardengal01
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    Spitting
    Whining
    Entitlement
    Conceitedness
    Smoking
    Acting foolish
    Rudeness
  • Booboo78
    Booboo78 Posts: 169
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    What women want in a man at age 25:
    1. Handsome
    2. Charming
    3. Financially successful
    4. A caring listener
    5. Witty
    6. In good shape
    7. Dresses with style
    8. Appreciates finer things
    9. Full of thoughtful surprises
    10. An imaginative, romantic lover

    What women want in a man at age 35:
    1. Nice looking (preferably with hair)
    2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
    3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
    4. Listens more than talks
    5. Laughs at my jokes
    6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
    7. Owns at least one tie
    8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
    9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
    10. Seeks romance at least once a week

    What women want in a man at age 45:
    1. Not too ugly (bald head is fine)
    2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
    3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
    4. Nods head when I'm talking
    5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
    6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
    7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
    8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
    9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
    10. Shaves most weekends

    What women want in a man at age 55:
    1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
    2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
    3. Doesn't borrow money too often
    4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
    5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
    6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
    7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
    8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
    9. Remembers your name on occasion
    10. Shaves some weekends

    What women want in a man at age 65:
    1. Doesn't scare small children
    2. Remembers where bathroom is
    3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
    4. Only snores lightly when asleep
    5. Remembers why he's laughing
    6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
    7. Usually wears some clothes
    8. Likes soft foods
    9. Remembers where he left his teeth
    10. Remembers that it's the weekend

    What women want in a man at age 75:
    1. Breathing
    2. Doesn't miss the toilet
  • 1WorkoutAtATime
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    To name a few…..arrogence, no goals, lacking spontaneity, smoking, fowl mouth, unreliable, bad teeth
  • 1WorkoutAtATime
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    Not having a sense of humor = huge turn off.
    And lacking a sense of adventure = boring!
    And people who take themselves too seriously = blech!
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
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    Include all of the previously mentioned points and add MATERIALISM. I cannot deal with someone who has to buy 'name brand' everything, and talk about it, brag about it, flaunt it. Literally turns my stomach. You can look good without spending the yearly income of a poor family on a pair of shoes. Just sayin' :D

    ^ AGREED!!
  • Mechel79
    Mechel79 Posts: 99 Member
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    What women want in a man at age 25:
    1. Handsome
    2. Charming
    3. Financially successful
    4. A caring listener
    5. Witty
    6. In good shape
    7. Dresses with style
    8. Appreciates finer things
    9. Full of thoughtful surprises
    10. An imaginative, romantic lover

    What women want in a man at age 35:
    1. Nice looking (preferably with hair)
    2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
    3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
    4. Listens more than talks
    5. Laughs at my jokes
    6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
    7. Owns at least one tie
    8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
    9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
    10. Seeks romance at least once a week

    What women want in a man at age 45:
    1. Not too ugly (bald head is fine)
    2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
    3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
    4. Nods head when I'm talking
    5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
    6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
    7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
    8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
    9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
    10. Shaves most weekends

    What women want in a man at age 55:
    1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
    2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
    3. Doesn't borrow money too often
    4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
    5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
    6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
    7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
    8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
    9. Remembers your name on occasion
    10. Shaves some weekends

    What women want in a man at age 65:
    1. Doesn't scare small children
    2. Remembers where bathroom is
    3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
    4. Only snores lightly when asleep
    5. Remembers why he's laughing
    6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
    7. Usually wears some clothes
    8. Likes soft foods
    9. Remembers where he left his teeth
    10. Remembers that it's the weekend

    What women want in a man at age 75:
    1. Breathing
    2. Doesn't miss the toilet

    LOL LOVE this and it's so true! What I looked for in someone at 23 certainly isn't what I am looking for now
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
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    BAD HYGEINE. Closed minded. Lack of adventure. Lack of humor.
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
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    What women want in a man at age 25:
    1. Handsome
    2. Charming
    3. Financially successful
    4. A caring listener
    5. Witty
    6. In good shape
    7. Dresses with style
    8. Appreciates finer things
    9. Full of thoughtful surprises
    10. An imaginative, romantic lover

    What women want in a man at age 35:
    1. Nice looking (preferably with hair)
    2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
    3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
    4. Listens more than talks
    5. Laughs at my jokes
    6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
    7. Owns at least one tie
    8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
    9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
    10. Seeks romance at least once a week

    What women want in a man at age 45:
    1. Not too ugly (bald head is fine)
    2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
    3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
    4. Nods head when I'm talking
    5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
    6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
    7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
    8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
    9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
    10. Shaves most weekends

    What women want in a man at age 55:
    1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
    2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
    3. Doesn't borrow money too often
    4. Doesn't nod off to sleep when I'm venting
    5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
    6. Is in good enough shape to get off couch on weekends
    7. Usually wears matching socks and fresh underwear
    8. Appreciates a good TV dinner
    9. Remembers your name on occasion
    10. Shaves some weekends

    What women want in a man at age 65:
    1. Doesn't scare small children
    2. Remembers where bathroom is
    3. Doesn't require much money for upkeep
    4. Only snores lightly when asleep
    5. Remembers why he's laughing
    6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
    7. Usually wears some clothes
    8. Likes soft foods
    9. Remembers where he left his teeth
    10. Remembers that it's the weekend

    What women want in a man at age 75:
    1. Breathing
    2. Doesn't miss the toilet

    LOL LOVE this and it's so true! What I looked for in someone at 23 certainly isn't what I am looking for now

    OMG SO FUNNY!!!!
  • Mallory0418
    Mallory0418 Posts: 723 Member
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    Disrespectfulness
    Lack of motivation
    No sense of humor
    TOO sensitive
    Being totally unobservant (Ladies, you know what I'm talking about)
    Bad Breath
  • StacySkinny
    StacySkinny Posts: 984 Member
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    Lack of nudity

    Your body is a turn ON!

    Not mine! lol I do my partner a favor by NOT getting fully nude, thank you very much. lol :P
  • luvmydog2
    luvmydog2 Posts: 243 Member
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    Control freaks ..
    And i love me types ..
    Thongs ..on feet ..
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
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    ...won't let you touch her jujubees
  • toabetterlifestyle
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    Bad breath, bad teeth, too cocky, flirtatious (other people than you), way too many sexual partners, lacking passion, lacking commitment, cursing is okay, but not 5x a sentence..
  • CommandaPanda
    CommandaPanda Posts: 451 Member
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    Military women.

    At ease, there killer

    Well, 1 in 30 are pretty wonderful. I'll assume you're a part of the minority then =]
  • becky2967
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    rudeness, ignorance, selfish. bad breath, unloyal, liers, people that drink loads, know it alls, mardyness, messy.. quite a list actually!
  • amfaery
    amfaery Posts: 267 Member
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    putting up shirtless pictures, being boring, tuning women out, no sense of humor, playing video games, I agree with spitting that is just gross, I could keep going but I wont :)