What are your "Turn-Offs"?

Mechel79

Certain male behaviors are capable of instantly turning a woman off to the possibility of a relationship or intimacy. No matter how good looking, charming, witty or sexy you are. My are- Not having enough confidence- being a liar and lacking spontaneity.
I'm interested to hear yours....

TheDoctor90

Smoking
Bad teeth
Bad fingernails

UponThisRock

Lack of nudity

sal22408

i am completely turned off when someone is arrogant and overly confident. Its a good quality to believe in yourself and have some confidence, but to be so arrogant that you come across better than everyone else is very unattractive to me. I dont need someone to tell me or prove to me that they are great........i want to learn it all on my own There is something to be said about being a lil humble

cmriverside

Spitting. Eww and eww.

3GKnight

Smoking.

Too bad every single attractive girl in this town smokes. No, I'm not exaggerating.

lorac321

B.O., being rude to people, not letting the "lady" order first, hair growing in places it shouldn't, still living with his mother, unemployed for no good reason, liars...

Captain_Mal

Compulsive dishonesty.
Obnoxious flirting.
No sense of humor.
No taste in music.
Excessive cologne.
Exposed @sscrack.

...just some of my list.

foodluver27

Horrible taste in movies and music
No sense of humor
Vanity
Smugness and arrogance
Too serious
Cheap-skates

jenbit

Rudeness
no sense of humor
oh and the biggest one for me Being shorter than me
Cant handle it sorry

runnerjenn0708

Not being able to take control of a situation .. lack of confidence... debbie-downers.... being lazy..... just to name a few

kenzietea

smoking
boring in the bedroom
close-minded/ignorant
insecure
boring in general
too shy

(I'm already shy...two shy people don't mix...no one says anything. lol)

megansoriano

haha!

GreenLifeGirl

a couple obvious turn offs for me...

smoking
coarse-slang language
lazy/apathetic

Mechel79

i am completely turned off when someone is arrogant and overly confident. Its a good quality to believe in yourself and have some confidence, but to be so arrogant that you come across better than everyone else is very unattractive to me. I dont need someone to tell me or prove to me that they are great........i want to learn it all on my own There is something to be said about being a lil humble

^^^^ totally agree! The confident man doesn't show it or boast about his accomplishments. He demonstrates it in a more subtle way.
it's also a turn off for me to have a weak character

Fit4Kateri

Profit men (buy them for what they are worth, sell them for what they think they are worth and make a profit)
Controlling
Laziness
Doesn't like to communicate when it comes to tough subjects
Liars

adrian_indy

I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.

sunkisses

- Rude to "help" or service personnel (maids, waiters, etc.)
- Not reciprocal in interest in me, my life, activities, etc.
- No job
- Rigid in beliefs (religious, political, etc.) Gonna need you to respect the other sides of your own argument otherwise I'll think you don't know WTF you're talking about.
- A lack of ambition
- Felonious criminal record or recent misdemeanor.
- Poor character
- Dishonesty
- Financially dirt-poor. (I've been struggling my whole life, and I've helped my partners up as far as I could along the way. I'm turned off by the idea of that financial burden.)

Justjoshin

Just here to take notes.

UponThisRock

I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.

I LOL'd

AudgePaudge

I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.

ShapeUpSidney

men who try to be sexy

Carl01

Smugly self righteous with a holier then thou attitude.
*****y or catty just for the sake of it.
Lack of a sense of humor.
"Me"ism...everything and anything has to be about them.
A picky eater,not meaning someone that watches what they eat but can only eat a certain type of steak or dislikes just about any food there is for some reason or another.
Someone that makes fun of or puts everyone down,don`t think for a moment you are the only one they don`t...when you are not around you are a target as well.
Rude,pushy or impolite to people just trying to do their jobs.

3GKnight

- Rigid in beliefs (religious, political, etc.) Gonna need you to respect the other sides of your own argument otherwise I'll think you don't know WTF you're talking about.

And here I thought it was ok to be rigid in my beliefs yet respectful and willing to listen to the other side of the argument. Doesn't it just look wishy-washy otherwise?

Mechel79

I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.

LOL- :laugh:

fteale

For me, possessiveness and jealousy are the real instant warning bells to me to run a mile.

2012Kristin

Men that don't have an opinion on anything.... Or just go along with whatever you say all the time.

ksmith2187

When they turn babyish or make baby sounds.. HATE IT.

ShapeUpSidney

men who text, email, or post on facebook using childish grammar, no punctuation, slang terms that make them sound like a 14 year old girl

"wut u up 2"

Ummm...excuse me?

taso42

Any evidence of stupidity or close-mindedness.

mznisaelaine

Smoking
Excessive foul language
Have no manners (ladies first kind of thing)
Narrow-minded
Rudely talks about people all the time (a big no-no)