What are your "Turn-Offs"?

1457910

Replies

  • Men who drink diet soda (my age men, not older men)
  • khotch1
    khotch1 Posts: 99 Member
    A man that has a bunch of tools but can't use ONE of them!
    A man that thinks his high school football days were his entire LIFE!
    A man that can't stop talking to let others get a word in.
    A man that brags about how so many woman want him, when you're trying to get rid of him!
    And SIZE!! Yup it matters!
  • Rob_Sarge
    Rob_Sarge Posts: 70 Member
    I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.
    I laughed my *kitten* of on that one
  • mego07
    mego07 Posts: 234 Member
    Ignorance is a killer for me. I don't need a rocket scientist, but PLEASE know a little about something.. especially the world around you.

    smoking
    spitting
    bad teeth/hygiene
    lack of self confidence
    excessive body hair. (some is ok)
  • StacySkinny
    StacySkinny Posts: 984 Member
    well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. :) )

    That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.

    Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol
  • TheFitHooker
    TheFitHooker Posts: 3,357 Member
    Bad teeth
    too much facial hair (I like a beard and mustache but clean it up, can't stand it all over the place)
    Liars
    No sense of humor
    Control freaks
    Someone who thinks they have to be bad *kitten* to impress you.
    Eyes on my boobs when they talk to me, um yeah those aren't my eyes, I know I am top heavy and all but they won't respond to you, if you wish to talk to me, talk to ME!

    I'm sure there are more...
  • savlyon
    savlyon Posts: 474 Member
    I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.
    hahahahahhahahahahahhahahhahahhaha

    I LOVE people on here with a sense of humor! Too funny!!
  • Classalete
    Classalete Posts: 464 Member
    Poor dental hygiene.
    Habitual laziness.
    Lack of depth.
    Self sustainability issues.
  • savlyon
    savlyon Posts: 474 Member
    LIARS... OMG why do all guys lie? Even the "good" ones?
    I also do not like when a guy does not take care of himself...and also when they either tell me how wonderful they think they are or beg me for compliments... Be secure. I have my own damn insecurities I'm not asking you to take care of!
  • JennieAL
    JennieAL Posts: 1,726 Member
    Smoking
    Obnoxious behavior
    Those guys who talk too loud on a cell phone in public, and know it all
    Short men who stand really upright and emphasize their chest
    Cops... the obnoxious, short (or tall for that matter) ego freak ones who are a**holes because it seems they have a chip on their shoulder
    Religious fanatics
    Good 'ole boys who've never left their hometown and don't plan to
    Cheapskates... it's SO unattractive, frugality is smart... cheapskates don't deserve to go on dates. Stay at home.
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    smoking! :smokin:
  • Jain
    Jain Posts: 861 Member
    Smoking.
  • crochelle17
    crochelle17 Posts: 93 Member
    well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. :) )

    That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.

    Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol

    ha ha no worries.. my husband shaves his head so no hair dresser needed, lol, but i worked in a barber shop for years and i meant more then just a 'bad' cut, like.. mullet, rat tails, side burns above the ears... that sorta deal
  • oh boy....
    being a young woman, it's a huge turn off when a man who is taken hits on me.. not cool. I work with you, I know that you are married. Oops.
    Also, a big turn off, jealousy. If I'm with you I like you. I dont need to tell you how I know everry single person that I hang out with. All that should matter is that I'm sleeping in your bed that night.

    I have enough going on in my life, if I'm with you it's because I like you. Appreciate that and be in it....
  • StacySkinny
    StacySkinny Posts: 984 Member
    well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. :) )

    That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.

    Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol

    ha ha no worries.. my husband shaves his head so no hair dresser needed, lol, but i worked in a barber shop for years and i meant more then just a 'bad' cut, like.. mullet, rat tails, side burns above the ears... that sorta deal


    OOOHHH lol I understand. I'm with you there. I'm not sure I could date a guy with a mullet or rat tail either. Those hair cuts usually say something about a guy ...and that something isn't usually good. lol
  • trud72
    trud72 Posts: 1,912 Member
    I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.

    ROFL damn i was gonna do that too! :devil:
  • Yellow/ Bad Teeth
    Bad Breath
    Tongue Piercings
    and Just bad hygiene in general
  • chocolateandvodka
    chocolateandvodka Posts: 1,850 Member
    insecurity
    jealousy
    unintelligence
    hygiene issues
    rude to waitstaff/hospitality
    clingy
    kids
    crazy exes
    the in between bald/full head of hair thing. not sexy.
    low libido

    i could go on. yeah, this is why i'm single.
  • Thena81
    Thena81 Posts: 1,265 Member
    over confidence
    lack of intelligence
    smokers... ewwww lol
  • onefourone
    onefourone Posts: 212 Member
    Compulsive dishonesty.
    Obnoxious flirting.
    No sense of humor.
    No taste in music.
    Excessive cologne.
    Exposed @sscrack.

    ...just some of my list.

    How many pages in this list?

    smoking
    pretending to be something you arent
  • gentsevetzak
    gentsevetzak Posts: 147 Member
    Chewing with your mouth open.
  • - arrogance
    - ...but also men that blush when you speak to them.
    - lack of enthusiasm to do something different
    - Being incapable of having an interesting conversation as they have such a lack of brain cells that they can barely string a sentence together
    - being over-posessive
    - BO
    - bad breath
    - bad manners
    - showing off in front of their mates - obviously all men do a little bit, but my ex would speak normally in front of myself & his family, then he would see his friends & be like 'YEAH FAM, YOU DUN'KNO' etc. So annoying. He lives in Norwich, not London.
    - long fingernails on men is ALWAYS a no-no
    - dirty fingernails
    - smelly willies. sorry to be vulgar but it's true.
  • HonkyTonks
    HonkyTonks Posts: 1,193 Member
    I am pretty easy going so really only have a couple of things I don't like - these are as follows (no particular order/preference)

    - guys who have nothing interesting to say, or always agree with you on every subject (guys, if you're only doing that because you're nervous, please stop!)

    - similarly, guys who "over" compliment ("you are so pretty" gets meaningless after the 50th time you hear it in an evening)

    - racist/homohobe (this speaks for itself)

    - misogynist etc. - I REALLY don't like guys who refer to women as hoes/sluts etc

    - guys who make comments about past girlfriends particularly early in the relationship - calling her a ***** or complaining about her endlessly.. and if that happens on a first date it's basically a deal breaker

    I think that sums it up
  • crochelle17
    crochelle17 Posts: 93 Member
    well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. :) )

    That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.

    Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol

    ha ha no worries.. my husband shaves his head so no hair dresser needed, lol, but i worked in a barber shop for years and i meant more then just a 'bad' cut, like.. mullet, rat tails, side burns above the ears... that sorta deal


    OOOHHH lol I understand. I'm with you there. I'm not sure I could date a guy with a mullet or rat tail either. Those hair cuts usually say something about a guy ...and that something isn't usually good. lol

    tis true!!!!
  • BobbyClerici
    BobbyClerici Posts: 813 Member
    People with an entitlement mentality who think the world owes them something. Usually such losers are always with their hands out, never ahead of life's 8-ball and just a drag to be around.
  • Wearing white socks with black shoes is a total no no, smoking, being drunk, I really hate that, unless I'm a bit tipsy of course, lack of cleanliness, and thinking they're on a promise!
  • Veganniee
    Veganniee Posts: 460 Member
    Arrogance
    Lack of sense of humour
    Rudeness
    Selfishness
    Lack of personal hygiene
  • kyle4jem
    kyle4jem Posts: 1,400 Member
    People with an entitlement mentality who think the world owes them something. Usually such losers are always with their hands out, never ahead of life's 8-ball and just a drag to be around.
    &
    Arrogance
    Lack of sense of humour
    Rudeness
    Selfishness
    Lack of personal hygiene
    all of he above.
  • spitfire1962
    spitfire1962 Posts: 347 Member
    Turn offs for me are arrogance, liars, cheaters, controlling, jealousy, insensitivity, insincerity, vulgarity, immaturity, no sense of humor, disrespectful, immoral, abusive, poor hygiene, bad breath, bad teeth, smokers, drunks and laziness.
  • Captain_Mal
    Captain_Mal Posts: 945 Member
    Compulsive dishonesty.
    Obnoxious flirting.
    No sense of humor.
    No taste in music.
    Excessive cologne.
    Exposed @sscrack.

    ...just some of my list.

    How many pages in this list?

    smoking
    pretending to be something you arent

    Less than one.
This discussion has been closed.