What are your "Turn-Offs"?
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Men who drink diet soda (my age men, not older men)0
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A man that has a bunch of tools but can't use ONE of them!
A man that thinks his high school football days were his entire LIFE!
A man that can't stop talking to let others get a word in.
A man that brags about how so many woman want him, when you're trying to get rid of him!
And SIZE!! Yup it matters!0 -
I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.0
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Ignorance is a killer for me. I don't need a rocket scientist, but PLEASE know a little about something.. especially the world around you.
smoking
spitting
bad teeth/hygiene
lack of self confidence
excessive body hair. (some is ok)0 -
well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. )
That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.
Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol0 -
Bad teeth
too much facial hair (I like a beard and mustache but clean it up, can't stand it all over the place)
Liars
No sense of humor
Control freaks
Someone who thinks they have to be bad *kitten* to impress you.
Eyes on my boobs when they talk to me, um yeah those aren't my eyes, I know I am top heavy and all but they won't respond to you, if you wish to talk to me, talk to ME!
I'm sure there are more...0 -
I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.
I LOVE people on here with a sense of humor! Too funny!!0 -
Poor dental hygiene.
Habitual laziness.
Lack of depth.
Self sustainability issues.0 -
LIARS... OMG why do all guys lie? Even the "good" ones?
I also do not like when a guy does not take care of himself...and also when they either tell me how wonderful they think they are or beg me for compliments... Be secure. I have my own damn insecurities I'm not asking you to take care of!0 -
Smoking
Obnoxious behavior
Those guys who talk too loud on a cell phone in public, and know it all
Short men who stand really upright and emphasize their chest
Cops... the obnoxious, short (or tall for that matter) ego freak ones who are a**holes because it seems they have a chip on their shoulder
Religious fanatics
Good 'ole boys who've never left their hometown and don't plan to
Cheapskates... it's SO unattractive, frugality is smart... cheapskates don't deserve to go on dates. Stay at home.0 -
smoking! :smokin:0
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Smoking.0
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well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. )
That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.
Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol
ha ha no worries.. my husband shaves his head so no hair dresser needed, lol, but i worked in a barber shop for years and i meant more then just a 'bad' cut, like.. mullet, rat tails, side burns above the ears... that sorta deal0 -
oh boy....
being a young woman, it's a huge turn off when a man who is taken hits on me.. not cool. I work with you, I know that you are married. Oops.
Also, a big turn off, jealousy. If I'm with you I like you. I dont need to tell you how I know everry single person that I hang out with. All that should matter is that I'm sleeping in your bed that night.
I have enough going on in my life, if I'm with you it's because I like you. Appreciate that and be in it....0 -
well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. )
That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.
Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol
ha ha no worries.. my husband shaves his head so no hair dresser needed, lol, but i worked in a barber shop for years and i meant more then just a 'bad' cut, like.. mullet, rat tails, side burns above the ears... that sorta deal
OOOHHH lol I understand. I'm with you there. I'm not sure I could date a guy with a mullet or rat tail either. Those hair cuts usually say something about a guy ...and that something isn't usually good. lol0 -
I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.
ROFL damn i was gonna do that too! :devil:0 -
Yellow/ Bad Teeth
Bad Breath
Tongue Piercings
and Just bad hygiene in general0 -
insecurity
jealousy
unintelligence
hygiene issues
rude to waitstaff/hospitality
clingy
kids
crazy exes
the in between bald/full head of hair thing. not sexy.
low libido
i could go on. yeah, this is why i'm single.0 -
over confidence
lack of intelligence
smokers... ewwww lol0 -
Compulsive dishonesty.
Obnoxious flirting.
No sense of humor.
No taste in music.
Excessive cologne.
Exposed @sscrack.
...just some of my list.
How many pages in this list?
smoking
pretending to be something you arent0 -
Chewing with your mouth open.0
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- arrogance
- ...but also men that blush when you speak to them.
- lack of enthusiasm to do something different
- Being incapable of having an interesting conversation as they have such a lack of brain cells that they can barely string a sentence together
- being over-posessive
- BO
- bad breath
- bad manners
- showing off in front of their mates - obviously all men do a little bit, but my ex would speak normally in front of myself & his family, then he would see his friends & be like 'YEAH FAM, YOU DUN'KNO' etc. So annoying. He lives in Norwich, not London.
- long fingernails on men is ALWAYS a no-no
- dirty fingernails
- smelly willies. sorry to be vulgar but it's true.0 -
I am pretty easy going so really only have a couple of things I don't like - these are as follows (no particular order/preference)
- guys who have nothing interesting to say, or always agree with you on every subject (guys, if you're only doing that because you're nervous, please stop!)
- similarly, guys who "over" compliment ("you are so pretty" gets meaningless after the 50th time you hear it in an evening)
- racist/homohobe (this speaks for itself)
- misogynist etc. - I REALLY don't like guys who refer to women as hoes/sluts etc
- guys who make comments about past girlfriends particularly early in the relationship - calling her a ***** or complaining about her endlessly.. and if that happens on a first date it's basically a deal breaker
I think that sums it up0 -
well if its based on first impressions it would have to be if they have a bad haircut... forget it..... (what can i say.. i cut hair for a living.. )
That seems a bit shallow. Hair grows back. And sometimes it's not a guy or girls fault if their hair dresser screws up or gives them a bad hair cut.
Yeah, it sounds like I'm calling you shallow. I'm not. I understand that first impressions are important. I just hope you don't end up turning down mr right before even getting to know him because his hair dresser had a off day. lol
ha ha no worries.. my husband shaves his head so no hair dresser needed, lol, but i worked in a barber shop for years and i meant more then just a 'bad' cut, like.. mullet, rat tails, side burns above the ears... that sorta deal
OOOHHH lol I understand. I'm with you there. I'm not sure I could date a guy with a mullet or rat tail either. Those hair cuts usually say something about a guy ...and that something isn't usually good. lol
tis true!!!!0 -
People with an entitlement mentality who think the world owes them something. Usually such losers are always with their hands out, never ahead of life's 8-ball and just a drag to be around.0
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Wearing white socks with black shoes is a total no no, smoking, being drunk, I really hate that, unless I'm a bit tipsy of course, lack of cleanliness, and thinking they're on a promise!0
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Arrogance
Lack of sense of humour
Rudeness
Selfishness
Lack of personal hygiene0 -
People with an entitlement mentality who think the world owes them something. Usually such losers are always with their hands out, never ahead of life's 8-ball and just a drag to be around.Arrogance
Lack of sense of humour
Rudeness
Selfishness
Lack of personal hygiene0 -
Turn offs for me are arrogance, liars, cheaters, controlling, jealousy, insensitivity, insincerity, vulgarity, immaturity, no sense of humor, disrespectful, immoral, abusive, poor hygiene, bad breath, bad teeth, smokers, drunks and laziness.0
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Compulsive dishonesty.
Obnoxious flirting.
No sense of humor.
No taste in music.
Excessive cologne.
Exposed @sscrack.
...just some of my list.
How many pages in this list?
smoking
pretending to be something you arent
Less than one.0
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