What are your "Turn-Offs"?

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  • kacbldmm07
    kacbldmm07 Posts: 96
    I have to agree with the bad fingernails! Eww...
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    Vulgarity, materialism, and vanity.

    Add, no sense of humor to the mix.

    what about a vulgar sense of humor ?
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
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  • 3GKnight
    3GKnight Posts: 203
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    Awww.... My response of "Dammit!" would have been funny.
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
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    Awww.... My response of "Dammit!" would have been funny.

    I was worried the thread would get locked :(
  • ashnm88
    ashnm88 Posts: 748
    Laziness, bad eating habits, cocky, arrogant to name a few
  • hewwokitty
    hewwokitty Posts: 69 Member
    Arrogance.
    Someone who'd rather be inside than outside.
    Laziness.
    Not wanting to take the lead in anything.
  • Katielou112
    Katielou112 Posts: 55 Member
    Having limited aspirations, I always think you should aim the highest you can, that way you've got a good chance of getting half way there.
    Men who believe the woman's place is at home with the children, and who are insulted by the prospect of their partner earning more than them.
    Arrogance, disloyalty and a serious nature - can't have a day without a laugh in it :)
  • Valechka
    Valechka Posts: 192
    lack of humor,same goes for lame jokes. don't like animals, talk too much about himself.
  • jenn_is_trouble
    jenn_is_trouble Posts: 114
    This thread is a turn off.

    Bwhahahahahahahahaha! :laugh:
  • 3GKnight
    3GKnight Posts: 203
    Now, I'm not trying to stir up the crap...I promise.


    But a turn off for me is a woman who thinks she has to have a job and contribute just as much to the bank account as the man. Stay at home mom/home maker, is a honorable and tough profession. Doing something like that would kick my *kitten*.
  • sillygoose1977
    sillygoose1977 Posts: 2,151 Member
    Chronic negativity
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    Rancid breath and messed up teeth. I had a couple of FINE @ss guys I turned down... just because of that. I couldn't picture my mouth on theirs. I'm also not into METRO sexuals. You know, the guys that are more perfect than you? The ones with the perfect eyebrows... GAWD, if a guy is wearing contacts of some foofy color, that is so ***. Yes. It IS! And don't come at me like you're HOTT ****, when you know you NOT! Oh, and if I broke up with a guy and he CRIED, I never wanted to see him ever again! P*SS*!!! I can go on and on... Awwww... I kinda miss being single because turning down dudes was so much fun. Now I'm a boring wifey...

    ^^^ I love all of this.

    Umm, do you have highlights and purple contacts? Yea, ya do. Keep walkin' dude. You're suffering.
  • Jessica2Skinny
    Jessica2Skinny Posts: 118 Member
    OMG, i have a LIST: chewing with their mouth open, snot in their nose, not doing their hair, talking too much, too controlling, calls my phone more than once or twice a day, needs to know where i am at all times, wants to be in shape but then eats junk, snoring, laughing too loud, cleaning ears with objects, using towels as napkins, not flushing the toilet, not standing up to their mom, etc
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    Now, I'm not trying to stir up the crap...I promise.


    But a turn off for me is a woman who thinks she has to have a job and contribute just as much to the bank account as the man. Stay at home mom/home maker, is a honorable and tough profession. Doing something like that would kick my *kitten*.

    But I have no time to procreate OR clean my floors to my anal-retentive standards! No man will ever come between me and my maid.
  • SewerUrchin
    SewerUrchin Posts: 53
    People who take themselves too seriously.
    Boring people.
    People who obsess too much over their looks.
    Emotional wrecks (I seem to attract them for some reason).
    Pretentious types.
    Uber-conservative right-wing types.
    Anyone who's ever used the phrase "It's PC gone mad".
    Generally, people who can't just chill the hell out and have fun.
  • jadedm
    jadedm Posts: 31 Member
    No Support
    Bad Breath
    Flashing of Material Items / Money
    " HEY MISS LADY, LEMME GIT YO NUMBA" <-- That makes it(me) dry
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    Vulgarity, materialism, and vanity.

    Add, no sense of humor to the mix.

    what about a vulgar sense of humor ?

    Educationally gifted donkeys me want to punt cute cuddly babies....

    misc_granny_kicking_clapping_baby.gif
  • Iamfit4life
    Iamfit4life Posts: 3,095 Member
    - Rude to "help" or service personnel (maids, waiters, etc.)
    - Not reciprocal in interest in me, my life, activities, etc.
    - No job
    - Rigid in beliefs (religious, political, etc.) Gonna need you to respect the other sides of your own argument otherwise I'll think you don't know WTF you're talking about.
    - A lack of ambition
    - Felonious criminal record or recent misdemeanor.
    - Poor character
    - Dishonesty
    - Financially dirt-poor. (I've been struggling my whole life, and I've helped my partners up as far as I could along the way. I'm turned off by the idea of that financial burden.)
    This list is perfection.
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    Am I the only woman around here that likes "COCKy" guys?
  • 3GKnight
    3GKnight Posts: 203
    Now, I'm not trying to stir up the crap...I promise.


    But a turn off for me is a woman who thinks she has to have a job and contribute just as much to the bank account as the man. Stay at home mom/home maker, is a honorable and tough profession. Doing something like that would kick my *kitten*.

    But I have no time to procreate OR clean my floors to my anal-retentive standards! No man will ever come between me and my maid.

    :tongue:

    Not to say that I'm against women in the workplace. Far from that too. Heck, I'm looking for a sugar-momma. Just don't care for the "I feel inadequate if I don't make money" mindset.

    My geeky boss married a millionaire doctor/model. Millionaire doctor/model is not a turn-off.
  • essjay75
    essjay75 Posts: 77 Member
    Rancid breath and messed up teeth. I had a couple of FINE @ss guys I turned down... just because of that. I couldn't picture my mouth on theirs.

    ^^^ I love all of this.

    Umm, do you have highlights and purple contacts? Yea, ya do. Keep walkin' dude. You're suffering.

    Holy ditto. I call them 'important teeth'....and it applies to ALL of them. ;)
  • Katielou112
    Katielou112 Posts: 55 Member
    Now, I'm not trying to stir up the crap...I promise.


    But a turn off for me is a woman who thinks she has to have a job and contribute just as much to the bank account as the man. Stay at home mom/home maker, is a honorable and tough profession. Doing something like that would kick my *kitten*.

    Yeah that is a tough job, but I don't see why it's a turn off if a woman just wants to have a successful career. My motivation to earn a lot of money would be nothing to do with matching or 'beating' my partner's salary, it would have to do with my personal aspirations. Plus, imo, doing what my bf's mother did and be a 'stay at home mum' when both your children are at boarding schools at opposite ends of the country, is not a tough job, it's just doing sweet f.a lol.
  • UkaLailai
    UkaLailai Posts: 2
    Halitosis
    When he does not make a move
  • PaulaDDN
    PaulaDDN Posts: 162 Member
    i am completely turned off when someone is arrogant and overly confident. Its a good quality to believe in yourself and have some confidence, but to be so arrogant that you come across better than everyone else is very unattractive to me. I dont need someone to tell me or prove to me that they are great........i want to learn it all on my own :) There is something to be said about being a lil humble :)

    I totally agree, very well said!
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    Am I the only woman around here that likes "COCKy" guys?

    I like a confident, cocky @sshole type as long as he's a loveable @sshole, who truly is confident and not just compensating for insecurities
  • 3GKnight
    3GKnight Posts: 203
    Now, I'm not trying to stir up the crap...I promise.


    But a turn off for me is a woman who thinks she has to have a job and contribute just as much to the bank account as the man. Stay at home mom/home maker, is a honorable and tough profession. Doing something like that would kick my *kitten*.

    Yeah that is a tough job, but I don't see why it's a turn off if a woman just wants to have a successful career. My motivation to earn a lot of money would be nothing to do with matching or 'beating' my partner's salary, it would have to do with my personal aspirations. Plus, imo, doing what my bf's mother did and be a 'stay at home mum' when both your children are at boarding schools at opposite ends of the country, is not a tough job, it's just doing sweet f.a lol.

    Ha!

    I posted this later: "Not to say that I'm against women in the workplace. Far from that too. Heck, I'm looking for a sugar-momma. Just don't care for the "I feel inadequate if I don't make money" mindset."
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    - addicted to smoking. i don't mind it the person occasionally smokes cigarettes or cigars, but if they're addicted that's a total turn off.
    - this is weird, but I had a crush in high school who one day wore a shirt that said "Grab her booty and pinch." If you say that out loud, you'll realize it sounds like "Abercrombie and Fitch." That was a major turn off.
    - also, being a jerk to people who don't deserve it
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
    Now, I'm not trying to stir up the crap...I promise.


    But a turn off for me is a woman who thinks she has to have a job and contribute just as much to the bank account as the man. Stay at home mom/home maker, is a honorable and tough profession. Doing something like that would kick my *kitten*.
    what exactly do you mean by "thinks she has to have a job and contribute?" does that include someone who has a passion for their career and would not be satisfied staying at home? I'm honestly asking, because it's your opinion so you're entitled to it.
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member

    Narrow-minded

    Everyone is entitled to my opinion.
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