What are your "Turn-Offs"?

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  • timmymon
    timmymon Posts: 304 Member
    Addictions to reality television shows
  • jenn_is_trouble
    jenn_is_trouble Posts: 114
    Chewing tabacco
    Guys that are better dressed than me/spend more time getting ready than me
    Being uptight/prude-ish and can't take jokes very well
  • pmich08
    pmich08 Posts: 193
    Lack of nudity

    I'm gonna have to go with this one too.
  • wendyannie1976
    wendyannie1976 Posts: 205 Member
    oh this is fun, now let me see turn offs would be:

    smoking
    cocky (loves themselves and think the world must too)
    lack of confidence
    lazy
    lack of hygiene
    party animal
    insincere

    ok I'll stop there lol
  • jenn_is_trouble
    jenn_is_trouble Posts: 114
    men who text, email, or post on facebook using childish grammar, no punctuation, slang terms that make them sound like a 14 year old girl

    "wut u up 2"

    Ummm...excuse me?

    :heart: This! DITTO!
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    Rancid breath and messed up teeth. I had a couple of FINE @ss guys I turned down... just because of that. I couldn't picture my mouth on theirs. I'm also not into METRO sexuals. You know, the guys that are more perfect than you? The ones with the perfect eyebrows... GAWD, if a guy is wearing contacts of some foofy color, that is so ***. Yes. It IS! And don't come at me like you're HOTT ****, when you know you NOT! Oh, and if I broke up with a guy and he CRIED, I never wanted to see him ever again! P*SS*!!! I can go on and on... Awwww... I kinda miss being single because turning down dudes was so much fun. Now I'm a boring wifey...
  • Football_N_Guns
    Football_N_Guns Posts: 297 Member
    People who aren't as good as I am.
  • cdngirl71
    cdngirl71 Posts: 2,641 Member
    Lives with his parents, no job, rude, smoker, dresses bad and smells bad are my turn offs.
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
    i am completely turned off when someone is arrogant and overly confident. Its a good quality to believe in yourself and have some confidence, but to be so arrogant that you come across better than everyone else is very unattractive to me. I dont need someone to tell me or prove to me that they are great........i want to learn it all on my own :) There is something to be said about being a lil humble :)
    I agree. Also, it sounds petty, but I couldn't be with someone who didn't share the same taste in music. :ohwell:
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
    Also, not having ambition/drive, being perfectly okay with living off of parents/friends/getting a free ride. Being overly flirty, to the point where it's obviously insincere.
  • Laura_Ivy
    Laura_Ivy Posts: 555 Member
    i am completely turned off when someone is arrogant and overly confident. Its a good quality to believe in yourself and have some confidence, but to be so arrogant that you come across better than everyone else is very unattractive to me. I dont need someone to tell me or prove to me that they are great........i want to learn it all on my own :) There is something to be said about being a lil humble :)

    ^^^ This and being a drunkard. :o/
  • Elisirmon
    Elisirmon Posts: 273 Member
    Most things can be worked with or overlooked except;
    unresponsible
    unkind
    disrespectful
    dishonest/disloyal
    selfish
    Most bad habits fall under any of those traits selfishness is the key to all of them because when your thinking of others you won't be lazy, rude, self absorbed, or vain, or be addicted to anything.
  • yoshi91610
    yoshi91610 Posts: 177 Member
    Physically- Being shorter than me or blonde, I love tall dark and handsome =)
    girly hands

    I don't like guys who are unnecessarily rude, who chew (ew!) disrespect me, and most importantly liars.
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    Smoking
    Insecurity
    ... yeah. ... that's about it. I'll basically give anyone a couple chances to show my how beautiful they are inside.
  • Effief21
    Effief21 Posts: 36 Member
    In men - Toilet humour, bad with money, over-sensitivity

    In women - Toilet humour, swearing, slags
  • honeysprinkles
    honeysprinkles Posts: 1,757 Member
    Also, not having ambition/drive, being perfectly okay with living off of parents/friends/getting a free ride. Being overly flirty, to the point where it's obviously insincere.
    Last one, I also couldn't be with someone who was very religious. Not meant to offend anyone, but that just wouldn't work out for me.

    Lucky for me, I have someone who has every quality in another person that I could ever want! :blushing:
  • CannibalisticVegetarian
    CannibalisticVegetarian Posts: 1,255 Member
    Close-minded
    No sense of humor
    Clingy men
    Bad breath
    Poor hygiene
  • PepeGreggerton
    PepeGreggerton Posts: 986 Member
    Bad grammar! I am by no means perfect, or really even that great at spelling. I depend on spell check and predictive text... But I make the effort to construct complete sentences when speaking with a woman to show sincerity and it irritates me when people use the wrong their, they're, there and or your, you're etc...
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    Guys who flirt with everyone. I'm not interested in being part of your harem, thank you.
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    ...or blonde, I love tall dark and handsome =)

    Ha! I thought it was just me! I've never been attracted to blondes either
  • CandeesLand
    CandeesLand Posts: 200
    -"Yes" men
    -Smokers/chew
    -Girly hands (let me see that you know how to do some manual labor)
    -Guys who don't know how to change their own oil or change a flat (If I can, you should be able to also)
    -Liars
    -Clingy or too emotionally needy (be your own man!)
  • bigdawg025
    bigdawg025 Posts: 774 Member
    Girls who flirt with everyone. I'm not interested in being part of your harem, thank you.

    This ^^^^ only I changed "guys" to "girls"
  • Mechel79
    Mechel79 Posts: 99 Member
    -"Yes" men
    -Smokers/chew
    -Girly hands (let me see that you know how to do some manual labor)
    -Guys who don't know how to change their own oil or change a flat (If I can, you should be able to also)
    -Liars
    -Clingy or too emotionally needy (be your own man!)

    Ok now I may seem a little slow here- but I have seen "girly hands" I think twice now- can you please define this for me- I keep thinking of the Burger King commercial that has the guy with the real tiny hands- I love a man that has clean hands and fingernails :wink:
  • ShapeUpSidney
    ShapeUpSidney Posts: 1,092 Member
    I love a man that has clean hands and fingernails :wink:

    I don't think it's a hygiene thing, but maybe smaller hands that are effeminate in shape
  • dropofhope
    dropofhope Posts: 89
    bad grammar
    dishonesty
    bad hygiene
    rude to service people
    sexism & racism
    pessimism
    lack of ambition
    close-minded
  • mmuzzatti
    mmuzzatti Posts: 704 Member
    I hate it when good looking girl later tuns out to be a guy!
  • _beachgirl_
    _beachgirl_ Posts: 3,865 Member
    Girls who flirt with everyone. I'm not interested in being part of your harem, thank you.

    This ^^^^ only I changed "guys" to "girls"

    And "harem" to "stable":wink:
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    Vulgarity, materialism, and vanity.

    Add, no sense of humor to the mix.
  • daves160
    daves160 Posts: 600
    Most things can be worked with or overlooked except;
    unresponsible
    unkind
    disrespectful
    dishonest/disloyal
    selfish
    Most bad habits fall under any of those traits selfishness is the key to all of them because when your thinking of others you won't be lazy, rude, self absorbed, or vain, or be addicted to anything.
    Nicely put. I agree whole heartedly.

    Another one is when you are called close minded if you respectfully disagree with their opinion. Why can they disagree with me and that's OK? We don't all have to see things the same way.
  • King_Bee
    King_Bee Posts: 275 Member
    This thread is a turn off.
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