Tall women??

fabulousthirty
fabulousthirty Posts: 5
edited October 7 in Health and Weight Loss
Hi,

I'm 5ft 11 with quite a narrow frame. When I was 22 (2004) I weighed 140lbs which was too thin for me. I was a size 8/10 (uk) and had fit into one size 6 dress. Everyone around me told me I was too thin, but of course I thought I looked great. ANYWAY, fast forward after my daughter I had significant weight gain - 210 lbs is what I weighed and was a uk 16.

From June 7th - September 3rd I lost 32lbs. I'm now inbetween a 12-14. I put on half a stone over Christmas and have joined here and am committed to losing another stone at least. I now weigh 184lbs.

My question: How low weight would you consider ok for your height???? Of course to many stopping at 160lbs still sounds big, but when you're tall it isn't. I struggle with that sometimes though :)

Thanks,

Frankie
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  • kingkimi1213
    kingkimi1213 Posts: 132 Member
    Heyy =D Great job on your progress so far!

    HAHA Im 5'10 so I know how you feel!!! To me, 160 would be just about perfect on myself. I remembered being 5'7 and weighing 116 and looked starved!

    Good luck!
  • Stacyanne324
    Stacyanne324 Posts: 780 Member
    Hi there! I'm also a tall girl...just over 5'11" with a narrow frame. I struggle with the same things. Hearing other girls talk about their weight and mine sounds so high but it's really not because I'm so tall. When I was in High School and my early college years I was 125-130 ...definitely too skinny but not because of anything I was trying to do just because I had a high metabolism. Then over the years and now three kids later it's slowed and I can't eat like I used to without gaining. The heaviest I was (not counting while pregnant) was 186 before I had my first daughter 5 years ago. I lost weight with each of the three pregnancies because I adopted better eating habits and gave up beer/wine so by the time I had my third child in January 2010 I was down to the low 150's. I quickly went back to my old habits and found myself climbing the scale again. When I hit 160 I told myself enough, then 165, then 170, and finally at 176 I joined MFP and got serious. I'd like to get down to 155 again. That is definitely thin on my height and frame but it gives me some wiggle room. Once I get there I'll evaluate maybe going to 150 but that is the lowest I'll go. Sometimes when I see girls complaining they are 150 I feel bad but I have to remind myself that at my height I carry more weight.

    Good luck to you! If you are looking for any friends for support feel free to add me!
  • Stacyanne324
    Stacyanne324 Posts: 780 Member
    I am not sure the difference between UK and US sizes. At my heaviest I was getting into a size 14 US. When I started MFP I was comfortably in a size 12. Now I bounce between 10 and 12. I'm looking to get back to a size 8.
  • marindak
    marindak Posts: 168
    i'm 5'9 and would be comfortable at 150 or 160. i'm pretty curvy so any smaller than that would look weird.
    congrats on your progress!
  • I know what you mean! Weight is a whole different thing when you are tall. I'm 5'10" and was very thin (but very healthy) at 145. Now I'm at 160, size 8, and look okay but would love to get back to 145. I don't have a narrow frame, though.
  • Yay other tall women :) !!! Congrats on all your weight loss!! I think between 150 and 160 will be small enough for me too.....I just struggle when people (like me lovely sis-in-law) go on about their weight and she weighs 98lbs !!! Or when I tell people I've lost 32lbs and they look at me strange when I tell them I'm still 184 - that sounds SO huge to all my shorter friends! :)
  • I am 5'11.5
    I would kill to be about 180-200 range. I don't look good super skinny. it makes me look sick. I look better "curvy".

    I would say do whatever you feel good in! Its your body after all...you're the one walking around in it. Get to where YOU are comfortable. :)
  • odusgolp
    odusgolp Posts: 10,477 Member
    It's very hard to say... I'm 5'9" and would prefer to be 130 - 135, where I was in my profile pic last year. I'm currently pushing 165. That being said, It's amazing I can stand I have such horrific muscle mass. If I improved upon that, I'd be happy at a higher weight.
  • Hi Frankie,

    I'm tall too. I'm only now recommencing my weight loss journey. Being a tall, big framed lady- my numbers always sound staggering! Rather than comparing numbers with your petite framed friends or just looking at the number on the scale, try calculating your BMI (body mass index) Divide weight in kg by height in m squared. The ideal BMI is 20-25 and is most healthy. Above that you go into the realm of overweight and then obesity.

    That is a much better way of assessing a healthy weight for you.
  • dad106
    dad106 Posts: 4,868 Member
    I'm 5'9 and currently sitting around 150.. I want to get down to 140.

    I personally feel I look better thinner then I do heavier... but anything below that 140 and I think it would be too thin.
  • 5'11" here. I have a large and very muscular frame. I look my best at 175-180. I have quite a ways to go to get back there.
  • I'm 5'11" and currently at 189.2. Everybody tells me I shouldn't lose anymore weight, but my goal is 165. I certainly could lose at least another 20 lbs. Being tall, 20 lbs on me is like 10 lbs on an average height person. I think you should play it by ear and see how you look and feel. Everybody's body is different. Once you get closer to what you think your goal weight is, you might feel differently. Good luck!
  • jodieunited
    jodieunited Posts: 112 Member
    im 5ft 11" and weigh 159lbs so size 12-14 (uk) , to me i know i look much better around the 140lb mark.
  • kazzamcamille
    kazzamcamille Posts: 117 Member
    Im about 5'9 .. I want a goal weight of 145-150 lbs :) feel free to add me!!! So we can all help support each other through our journeys :)
  • kazzamcamille
    kazzamcamille Posts: 117 Member
    Also.. I have been doing this for about 2 months. I am on a 1200 calorie diet... set my goal to lose 2lbs per week but I have only lost 6.. I just upped my calories to 1350 yesterday and was wondering if any of you have had this problem? Im hoping I lose more now! Thanks everyone!!:D
  • Flixie00
    Flixie00 Posts: 1,195 Member
    I am 5ft 10in and aiming for 161. Happy with that as I am quite large in the chest region. Ideally I want to fit into a UK 14.

    There is a very good tall ladies group on MFP (Totally Tall Women of MFP) which I recommend you all join :smile:
  • annie7hudds
    annie7hudds Posts: 199 Member
    Hi

    It is hard to say how much your ideal weight is - as we are all so diffierent. Body frame, muscle mass etc - all different.

    I am 5'9" - and currently weigh in at 165lbs - ( UK 11st 11lbs?) - To me that is still too heavy - but I have been doing a LOT of running and 30 day shred etc - and can tell that I have so much more muscle mass. I wear UK size 14 on the bottom and a 12 on top ( US 10 and 8?? not sure). I actually look a better shape in person than that sounds ..

    My lowest ever adult weight was 130lbs. I looked terrible - and felt pretty bad. I achieved that by starvation - coffee and cigarettes! So, I won't be doing that again. I would prefer to be somewhere in the 140lb region -but until I stop all the running it ain't gonna happen. :)

    I also get a bit fed up when all the petite girls say ooh - 7stone this 8stone that. Pshaw.....

    At least being tall we can hide a few lbs here and there.
  • Nektariosmom
    Nektariosmom Posts: 69 Member
    How do you join Totally Tall Women of MFP?? Besides just replying... Thanks
  • Flixie00
    Flixie00 Posts: 1,195 Member
    Select Community at the top of the page, then select groups from the sub heading below, search for your group, select the correct group and it will give you the option to join.
  • katysmelly
    katysmelly Posts: 380 Member
    Hi,

    I'm 5ft 11 with quite a narrow frame. When I was 22 (2004) I weighed 140lbs which was too thin for me. I was a size 8/10 (uk) and had fit into one size 6 dress. Everyone around me told me I was too thin, but of course I thought I looked great. ANYWAY, fast forward after my daughter I had significant weight gain - 210 lbs is what I weighed and was a uk 16.

    From June 7th - September 3rd I lost 32lbs. I'm now inbetween a 12-14. I put on half a stone over Christmas and have joined here and am committed to losing another stone at least. I now weigh 184lbs.

    My question: How low weight would you consider ok for your height???? Of course to many stopping at 160lbs still sounds big, but when you're tall it isn't. I struggle with that sometimes though :)

    Thanks,

    Frankie

    Hiya! I relate to your post because I'm 5'10" and always used to be really skinny, then gained weight with having kids.

    I think there are several ways to determine an ideally healthy weight.

    One is BMI - which is basically a ratio or height to weight. It doesn't take muscle-to-fat ratio into account, or skeletal frame. It's a very rough guide, at best.

    Another ratio that may be much more useful is the waist-to-hip ratio. This focuses more on how much fat you may be carrying around the abdomen, which correlates fairly closely to health issues. When I'm thin, I'm a stick... and when I gain, I gain in my belly. I'm an "apple." So, this ratio is useful to me. Here's a link about it: http://www.bbc.co.uk/health/tools/hip_to_waist/hip_to_waist.shtml

    Then, there's aesthetic appeal. Do you like the look of sculpted muscles and six-pack abs, or do you think looking like a catwalk model is the ideal? Then just go with what you see in the mirror or photos of yourself. There's no telling what you'll weigh when you look any given way until you achieve it.

    Finally, you might go for general fitness: strength, endurance, and health: if you are running 10k's regularly and climbing mountains easily, you may be content with whatever your strong, healthy body looks like.

    I aim for a sort of combination of waist-to-hip ratio and the general fitness. I'm never going to wear a bikini, again. I just want to be healthy. I was 130 or so in my 20's. I don't expect to be that way, again. But, I like to be able to wear size 12 and I want to run 5k's and climb munros with relative ease.

    I'm not even really sure why I've got a weight loss ticker. I've set the goal to 135 lbs just to see if I can do it? I probably won't. If I do, I can't imagine I'll stay there. I think my weight naturally settles in around 145-150.
  • idziak04
    idziak04 Posts: 69
    Hey there ladies! I am 5'10 and when I began this journey I was 174 pounds. I am currently 168. My goal weight is going to be between 150-155. The lowest I have weighed in my adult life was 145 about 12 years ago. I was miserable and didn't really understand how nutrition worked so I pretty much starved myself all the time. I will never do that again. I have been doing Jillian Michaels DVD'S and I will say that my stomach has not been this flat since before I had my kids. (I had 4 c-sections in under 7 years.) Good luck to everyone here!

    Amy
  • fabafter5
    fabafter5 Posts: 200 Member
    I'm 5'8 and my goal is 160. At 158 people were calling me skinny. I would never go below 150.
  • wwww1199
    wwww1199 Posts: 228 Member
    I'm 5'9 and when I was in my 40's I weight 150 and felt great. Not too thin. Still have 30 lbs to go.
  • alexiaans
    alexiaans Posts: 113 Member
    I'm 5'9, and my goal weight is 170. I would go for 160, but I think that would affect my curves too much. I'm 20 lbs away, woo-hoo!
  • KikiD22
    KikiD22 Posts: 114 Member
    I'm 5'10" and currently at 155 pounds (I was about 160 in my profile picture). I am trying to get to 140, but I'm also training for a figure competition. So, that 140 for me will be more muscular than average and low bodyfat (15% is what I'm shooting for). I know it's not everyone's cup of tea, but that's my goal. At my current 155 and about 20% BF, I'm comfortably in a size 6.
  • Tashry
    Tashry Posts: 151 Member
    I'm 5'11" and aiming for 160. When I was 5'10" I was 130 pounds and now all I can think of is ew. I can't even imagine taking another 45 pounds off and not looking like death. But everyone is different, you can take 2 people of the same height and weight and they can carry it differently. So for me, 160 and then reasses, but I think 160 is my magic number.
  • IndyInk
    IndyInk Posts: 212
    I'm 5'9 and I'm planning to stop losing weight at 140. According to the calculators, 127 would be the underweight mark for me.
  • debstanley4
    debstanley4 Posts: 208 Member
    I am 5'11.5
    I would kill to be about 180-200 range. I don't look good super skinny. it makes me look sick. I look better "curvy".

    I would say do whatever you feel good in! Its your body after all...you're the one walking around in it. Get to where YOU are comfortable. :)


    I am 5 10 and I agree with her I want to be betwwen 180-200 range.
  • Miss_dannii
    Miss_dannii Posts: 1,351 Member
    I'm a broad 5'9 and am going to hopefully get down to 170 and will probably maintain then. I've never been smaller than a 14, maybe a 12 on top but I am curvy in my frame so I know I will never be able to go smaller than that
  • Im_NotPerfect
    Im_NotPerfect Posts: 2,181 Member
    I'm 5'9" and my goal is 175. I tend to be somewhat muscular, so for me 175 is healthy and easily maintainable with minimal work. I was 159 when I got married and MANY People told me I looked too skinny. It was also tough for me to maintain.
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