at what weight/size is it acceptable to wear a bikini?

NU2U

I was not at goal, but I bought one anyways and I wore it proudly to the pool multiple times! Lucky for me, my boyfriend loves all my curves. He's happy I want to get healthy, but never because of the "lovely lady lumps". My booty is what hooked him in the first place.

I was also a 16/18 while wearing this two piece. Now, I have this awesome monokini with pieces cut out. It's super sexy! Power to the girls with the confidence!!!!

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I love this!!! :-))

silvergurl518

CONFIDENCE. any body can be beautiful if the "wearer" of the body thinks so. i could wear a bikini today and if i had the rockstar confidence i'm talking about, i'd have guys (and gals!) fawning over me. problem is, i'm not mentally ready to show off what my mama (and papa!) and the sweet lordy above gave me. plus, i can't help but be swayed a bit by what society's notions of beauty are (at least in the U.S.) and those fitness models look sexy! i wanna look like them. i don't want to be a runway model. those *****es are stick thin.

Amy271189

I suppose I'm just with MaximaLife, I don't understand how they can walk around like that and then wonder why people laugh & make fun of them.

Only disrespectful people such as your self will laugh and make fun of them!!!! I understand that will all have different opinions of what "we should or shouldn't wear" but that person isn't dressing to IMPRESS YOU!!!!! If they are confident in their own body than why not dress the way they want, not the way You or others think is appropriate. Nobody knows wheteher or not they have a medical condtion which makes them larger then whats considered to be normal.. Don't judge people. If you dont like JOG ON!!..

I don't mean to be nasty, it just really annoys me how some people judge people on the way they look or dress, not about the person they are inside.
RANT OVER!!!

galegetsthin

I suppose I'm just with MaximaLife, I don't understand how they can walk around like that and then wonder why people laugh & make fun of them.

I wore one at a 16 last year..... I have bits of me that are not in ideal shape. I never once had someone point or laugh at me. And I go to the beach at a major college destination. If people didnt like it, they sure as hell didnt make me know that they didn't. And honestly, if they did, I would see that as THEIR flaw, not mine. If they cannot manage to avoid making fun of someone who is enjoying a day at the beach and is not a swimsuit model, then they are seriously lacking character. I am not going to change who I am just because some @$$holes think I should wear a different bathing suit.

I never said that you have to be in PERFECT shape. If I came off as saying otherwise, then I apologise. But I'm pretty sure I made it clear.

There has to come a point where you say "This isn't flattering, I have gut rolls hanging everywhere".

My Ma used to tell me "Just because it comes in your size, doesn't mean you should wear it!"

I love this.

and I have the roll on my hips and back. I dont care if you or anyone else thinks it is flattering. If I am comfortable, that is all that truly matters. And to be that judgemental, to even waste the mental energy on belittling someone else because of something that really doesnt affect you in any way, is not flattering either. I would much rather be in a bikini with "gut rolls hanging everywhere" than be a small minded jerk who thinks that other peoples clothing options are somehow any of MY business. You dont know that the girl in the "offensive" bikini hasnt recently lost 65 lbs and is extremely proud of her new body. You dont know that the girl with the "fat rolls" hasnt worked her *kitten* off to get to where she is. My Ma used to tell me "If you can't say something nice, dont say anything at all", It is also a wonderful quote. You should look into that.

littleali

I'm a size 4-6 and could never fathom wearing a bikini due to confidence issues.
I think everybody, size 40+ should wear a bikini if that's what they want to do and they feel good about themselves in it. There is absolutely nothing wrong with somebody having confidence in themselves and wearing an outfit with pride, is there?

mo_is_here

If you're ok wearing it then I'm ok with you wearing it.

Me personally, I just dont feel comfortable wearing one unless I'm in my own backyard where only my family can see me. But that's just me and my insecurities about my body.

christine24t

there is no magic formula for size & weight.

Some women shun wearing a bikini even though they'd look great in one.

Others will wear one when they have no business at all doing so.

I think a BIG mistake women of any size can make is choosing the wrong style/size bikini and making themselves look very unflattering, when a different stye/size could make them look great.

I definitely agree with this. I have seen some girls who I thought were bigger with their clothes on take their clothes off and rock a bikini. I personally believe that if you have a bigger stomach or a lot of rolls, you should probably try and find a different swimsuit. I'm not saying you have to wear a wetsuit or a swimdress, but there are soooo many cute one-pieces and tankinis and I don't understand why people immediately jump to wear a bikini. That's just my feelings on it though. I wouldn't say that I'm judgmental of anybody wearing one, but I often wonder if a one piece/tankini wouldn't look better.

thetrishwarp

I wore bikinis even at my heaviest. I'd like to look *better* in one, but I never really thought about it much. Kind of a "this is my body, so be it" attitude my whole life...and now it's modified to "this is my body, but i can always improve"

Helenatrandom

I'm so happy to see so many people say that whatever works for the wearer is good.
I am a very heavy woman. (Though 30 pounds less than I was four months ago, and hopefully at least 50 pounds lighter by late June!) No I don't wear a bikini, but most people my size are afraid of wearing a swimsuit at all and resist going to pools. I LOVE the water, and hey, moving in the pool (swimming, aerobics, sneaking up on my husband and SPLASHING him good) is exercise. Why should I deprive myself of exercise I enjoy because I don't look good in a swimsuit. I'm not particularly hawt in a parka either!
I even have a two piece that looks like a one piece. The top is long and passes the pant portion. I love those because it is so easy to go to the washroom and come back to the pool!

nikki1anna

Oh I am wearing a bikini when I reach my goal weight (I have a large frame, so I'll be a size 6 then). If people have a problem with my stretch marks, then I don't care. Confidence is beautiful!

aqua_zumba_fan

I think it should be acceptable for anyone to wear whatever they like. Shouldn't only be skinny people. I've just started wearing a bikini for the first time - I'm 5'2, 138lbs and a UK size 12-14 (kind of in between atm). I am quite self-conscious but working on not being cos why should I care what others think?

TheCats_Meow

At whatever damn weight/size you freakin' feel like it, honey!

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amezeez

Surely It's acceptable to wear one whenever you feel comfortable wearing one?

Absolutely agree!! Your life, your choice! : ]

Amy271189

I'm so happy to see so many people say that whatever works for the wearer is good.
I am a very heavy woman. (Though 30 pounds less than I was four months ago, and hopefully at least 50 pounds lighter by late June!) No I don't wear a bikini, but most people my size are afraid of wearing a swimsuit at all and resist going to pools. I LOVE the water, and hey, moving in the pool (swimming, aerobics, sneaking up on my husband and SPLASHING him good) is exercise. Why should I deprive myself of exercise I enjoy because I don't look good in a swimsuit. I'm not particularly hawt in a parka either!
I even have a two piece that looks like a one piece. The top is long and passes the pant portion. I love those because it is so easy to go to the washroom and come back to the pool!

I really like you comments Hunny. Congratulations on the 30Ibs loss x

dolphin9803

At whatever damn weight/size you freakin' feel like it, honey!

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I would have to go with this!! I say whenever you are comfortable wear one! As for me I don't have the confidence to rock one:embarassed:

JoyceJoanne

Love this.

EReeves2

Ok, my answer may not be a popular one, but I'm going to throw it out there anyway.

First of all, I LOVE that so many of you are confident & comfortable wearing a bikini with less than your typical "bikini body". I think confidence is sexy and brings out the very prettiest part of everyone! It is something I strive for in my pursuit of health & well-being, but I'm not quite "there" yet. For those of you who are, way to rock that body that you're working so hard to improve & make healthier!

That being said, I think there are boundaries/limits/norms/whatever you want to call them that I, being a "big girl", would not cross no matter how confident I am. And I think society would thank me. Whether we like to admit it or not, it does matter what other people think. (i.e. You wouldn't go to a job interview in a bikini & roller skates and truly believe that the potential boss will hire you, even if you're well qualified and suited for the job. You would wear something suitable for the interview to impress the boss, right?)

Personally, I will not be cramming my chunky self into a halter top & daisy duke shorts during the summer, no matter how hot it gets in Texas. I will not put on a tight mini skirt and a bikini top for dinner out with my husband. It just isn't pretty. Even if I feel confident wearing it, I really don't want people staring at me because I stand out in the crowd for negative reasons. I can dress in a way that is still sexy/pretty without trying to look like a Barbie doll when I am not yet to that point in my weight loss/fitness goals. Just being realistic, folks....

EmCarroll1990

That being said, I think there are boundaries/limits/norms/whatever you want to call them that I, being a "big girl", would not cross no matter how confident I am. And I think society would thank me. Whether we like to admit it or not, it does matter what other people think. (i.e. You wouldn't go to a job interview in a bikini & roller skates and truly believe that the potential boss will hire you, even if you're well qualified and suited for the job. You would wear something suitable for the interview to impress the boss, right?)

Personally, I will not be cramming my chunky self into a halter top & daisy duke shorts during the summer, no matter how hot it gets in Texas. I will not put on a tight mini skirt and a bikini top for dinner out with my husband. It just isn't pretty. Even if I feel confident wearing it, I really don't want people staring at me because I stand out in the crowd for negative reasons. I can dress in a way that is still sexy/pretty without trying to look like a Barbie doll when I am not yet to that point in my weight loss/fitness goals. Just being realistic, folks....

Your comparison has one major flaw, you are talking about what is appropriate dress for certain situations. Bikinis are appropriate dress for the beach, pool, laying out, whatever.

Also, if you read the previous comments, many say, you can wear whatever you like as long as it actually fits you. No 300 lb person should be shoving themselves into a size 6, they can wear that same outfit in their size and look amazing.

I cannot believe how judgemental so many of you are, especially when I'm sure you have been at the receiving end of ridicule at least once in your life, I know I have. Show some love for your fellow people.

TheRoadDog

They make bikinis in all sizes. If you feel comfortable in one, rock it out.

SDkitty

My Ma used to tell me "Just because it comes in your size, doesn't mean you should wear it!"

My Mom also used to say this all the time when I was a skinny young thing and she would act disgusted and judgy at the people at the pool who were rocking it. I never thought about it until I put on 45lbs and started dressing like a hobo because I was so afraid to show any lump of fat. Now I'm down to 147lbs and at 5'8" I know objectively that I'm actually looking quite good but I put on my bikini and I feel disgusting because I'm not perfect.

My point is don't listen to people who say things like that. It will mess up your head down the line. Do whatever the heck makes you comfortable! :flowerforyou:

asmithson19

It really depends on the type of "bikini". I do not advocate running around in a string thong bikini while wearing a US size 24, however there are cuts that can work at any size. There are some with shorts that come up nearly as high as the styles from the 50s and go down enough so that no butt cheeks are hanging out that are still classified as a bikini and work just fine.

Great response - Totally agree! ;-)

1a1a

That being said, I think there are boundaries/limits/norms/whatever you want to call them

And that is the crux of the problem, we should be working to demolish these, they are unfair and cause a lot of people distress.

My contribution to breaking down these boundaries will be to walk along the beach in a skirt and bikini top what ever size I may be (if the weather is hot enough to warrant that). Also never again to deny myself the cooling benefits of mini skirts/short shorts because my legs are 'too big' and/or 'don't look nice' (I live in a place that can get as hot as 40 degrees).

EReeves2

You're right. I'm sure I have been on the receiving end of ridicule. And I must admit that probably *does* effect how I feel about this. However, it doesn't change that I am not comfortable with the idea of a very large person wearing a tiny bathing suit. Sorry. Just being honest.

Lovemyink

whenever you feel comfortable wearing one

MsWhiteParks

I think I'm the only girl in the world (or at least this forum...!) that LOVES the stretch marks I have since having Lucie... She's four months old and I can't WAIT to get down to a size eight...stick on a bikini and show them off! It's like a baby tattoo!! :-) x

ludeo

whenever you feel comfortabl wearing one. doesnt matter how big you are, the only time i feel uncomfotable when i see people wear clothes is when they are toooo small and you get a shot of something you dont want to see. but i wouldnt ridicule them for it . no ones perfect.

messyinthekitchen

There isn't an acceptable size. It's when you feel confident with yourself to wear one. For me about 10lbs from now.

SabrinaJL

For me, never ever ever. I wouldn't feel comfortable in one as I haven't ever worn one, even at a healthy weight.

For others, whenever they want. What other people choose to wear to the beach/pool isn't any of my business. I really don't give a **** what other people do. If I don't like the way they look, I will avert my eyes. If I can't do that, I'm pretty sure I'll get over it.

1a1a

Nothing wrong with honesty.

I want to see people of any size, comfortable to wear what is socially acceptable to wear on a "perfect body" because it helps me become comfortable with my own, not picture perfect size and shape.

I did thoroughly enjoy this place http://www.mybodygallery.com/ although almost all of the stories are incredibly sad. I had to come here to see images of other women my height and size and no I'm not the only one. I have to keep looking at my belly in the mirror to get used to it and realise it Isn't disgusting.

Pebble321

At whatever size/shape/weight the individual feels comfortable in a bikini.

Size has nothing to do with whether it is "acceptable" or not, I guess everyone is going to have a different viewpoint, but that doesn't mean any one person "right".

My viewpoint is that if I look fat in a bikini, I'll look fat in a one peice or in shorts or jeans or a dress. The only difference with a bikini v one-piece that you can see some white flabby stomach instead of some coloured-lycra-covered flabby stomach.
Not sure where the problems lies - if I'm hideous to look at, please look away, but I don't think a thin skin of lycra is going to make that much difference.