drunken cheating

carlie_carl

cheating is cheating, they're just sugar coating the story by blaming alcohol,

Banks01

I'm drunk now so I'm getting a kick out of these replies


Yes I cheat!


If you count using the teacher during a scrabble game then laying the ***** slap on the poor fool trying to play me.

Yes, that's right, PFUI is a word and I laid it on a triple word score combined with PYES. Mowowowhahahahahah

MaximalLife

My BIL likes to get on line after about 6 too many, then send out emails telling everybody off.
You wake up and see he sent something, "Oh, an email from Jim":bigsmile:

And then it's this blistering, ranting, hateful diatribe about stuff from 20 years ago and beyond on up until today.
And later he acts like it's nothing, "oh forget it; I must have been drunk".

After a few such emails, I totally cut that guy out of our lives.

pornstarzombie

Cheating is cheating. Just had a conversation with someone about this, he said that it was "okay" for him to cheat on his girlfriend because he was drunk and it "doesn't count".

Doesn't help soften the blow that you were cheated on, either way. Cheating sucks.

firesoforion

Being drunk lowers inhibitions, it doesn't change what you "would" and "would not" do. I also think that on another level, people can use it as an excuse, like they won't be held accountable for actions while drunk. A lot of people get drunk while in relationships, and, unlike hangovers, dancing on tables, or other commonly associated behaviors, a lot of them don't cheat.

MyFeistyEvolution

Nope...I know exactly what I'm doing when I'm drunk. That is not an excuse.

ZachyABaby

I know millions of people who can keep their hands out of someone else's pants while sober or drunk.

millions... o rly?

KimmieBrie

Cheating is cheating. Being drunk is just trying to excuse the inexcusable.

I hit you but.... I was drunk
I drove into another car but... I was drunk
I stuck my thingy in someone but... I was drunk

It all counts.

PAL1105

I know this is an old post...by over a year, but I've been wanting to get this off my chest for so long! What happens when it's your highly intoxicated boyfriend and your highly intoxicated best friend who both insist they have no recollection of rubbing up on each other at the nightclub or "passing out" in her bed together and spooning/groping each other? To be fair though, a little background on my friend and my relationship. We always joked about being lesbian in college so we would always grab each other's *kitten*, etc., etc. so her statement of thinking it was me isn't so far fetched. But this night was different. I drove them home because I ended up as DD. She threw up, so my bf and I helped her back to her apartment to tuck her into bed. While in bed, my bf decided he wanted to get in with her and she wanted a human pillow so she rested her head on his chest and he wrapped his arms around her. I did attempt to separate the two but what's the point of arguing with two highly intoxicated people who are shooing you away and telling you to just lie down and sleep? Anyway, I got pretty pissed and I left, and during my short leave of absence for I did return in an attempt to fetch my bf, he tried to make out with her. I was so angry that night. And even more angry when my friend had another one of our friends tell me about about the attempted makeout session. I tried to break up with my boyfriend, but he refused, and the sad thing is, I love that *kitten* which is why it's difficult and so we're still together (doubt it'll last for long. I don't trust the guy. I probably just need more time to let that truly sink in), and I confronted my friend and tried to forgive her but we're just not friends anymore. A serious breach of trust occurred. So that's my story. I've forgiven both of them already. I'm not one to hold a grudge, BUT I can't forget no matter how hard I try and it always has this way of sneaking up on me. I know what I need to do, I just haven't gathered my wits to do what needs to be done (which is to break up with the boy. Don't want anyone to think I'm a psycho seeking revenge or anything.) I've tried not to bring more people into this mess since she and I have a lot of mutual friends, so I just need an outlet for my angst.

sheldonsteyn

They do know what they are doing but they lose the ability to make the wisest decisions and just go with what is fun at the time!

Cr01502

I usually encourage cheating on a significant other sober.

Seems like a complete waste to do it and not even remember it.

JJordon

I would say that alcohol is not magic, it doesn't turn you into some other being. I think it merely reveals the true nature of the person underneath, no longer constrained by other elements of their personality.

BinaryPulsar

I didn't read the other comments. No, drinking is definitely not an excuse to cheat! Wow! How do I know this? Well, my husband does not drink. Sometimes I do. And when I drink, I do not cheat on him, ever!! Wow! Don't let guys pull the wool over your eyes.

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allieemc2

Me too, that was my first thought. But really drinking in general is kinda cheating for me, so much calories in drinks, lol

fara180

i'll bite the bullet on this one and be honest with the internet world.

i have cheated while heavily intoxicated before. and i was H-A-M-M-E-R-E-D/S-H-I-T-F-A-C-E-D drunk. but i knew what was going on and i knew what was happening. i remembered that i had a boyfriend and i knew the man in my bed was not him. so i was completely aware that i was cheating...but my ability to comprehend the consequences of this action were no where to be found.

i literally had no sense of right or wrong during that time period. and when i sobered up and realized what had happened the night before. i was like "oh fuuuu-"

giggles2giggle

Are you talking drunk eating? Because I am always trying to forget about that.

Lol me too!

brevislux

I've been drunk. Boy, have I been drunk. Sometimes when I'm drunk I find it difficult to find my way to where I want to go (and I got lost many times), or I say things I probably wouldn't say sober, and do things I wouldn't do.
But when I'm drunk and do those things, I know, I KNOW VERY WELL, that I wouldn't do this while sober. And sometimes, I feel like doing something silly and tell myself no, and then I don't do it. As drunk as I got to be, I was always, ALWAYS fully aware of what was going on. And as drunk as I was, and that happened quite a lot, I never had this famous "oh my I don't remember anything and there's someone in my bed" moment like in the movies. It doesn't happen. You're very much aware that you're doing something that maybe you wouldn't do or shouldn't.

So no. It's no excuse.

Ophidion

I agree with most of the reply's...cheating drunk is still cheating, and being drunk as an excuse is often the crutch of the coward. How often have you heard BS like "I wouldn't have hit her if I wasn't drunk" etc etc

Stop hiding behind alcohol you cowards, your decisions are yours and if you can't handle your drink than don't drink. End of story.

SerenaFisher

Drunkeness is never an excuse for anything. That said, drunken cheating, or any one-time lapse in judgement is not as bad as a long calculated affair.

True. But cheating is still cheating.

MadeOfMagic

There is thing called responsibility, most people who get that drunk have done it before and know that they black out, if they are in relationship and really care about their partner than they have to take the responsibility and watch their drinking, being so drunk you black out is no excuse for cheating, ever. Yeah maybe its not as bad as an conscious affair, but its cheating. If it happens once who is to say it wont happen again, I would leave any guy who would black out and cheat, even if it was just a kiss, intoxication is not an excuse or free pass.

MadeOfMagic

my philosophy is that whatever you do under the influence is what you dont have the balls to do when youre sober . . . . . thats just my opinion though

so true!!!

seanezekiel

Its a load of bull for sure.

whierd

Cheating while drunk totally doesn't count!!

There should at least be a blood/alcohol content threshold that makes it forgivable!

pnubn1

Alcohol doesn't make a person cheat....it's just used as an excuse. It's total bs.

mmddwechanged

Cheating while drunk totally doesn't count!!

There should at least be a blood/alcohol content threshold that makes it forgivable!

Really??? What do you think that blood/alcohol content threshold should be?

ScatteredThoughts

Cheating while drunk totally doesn't count!!

There should at least be a blood/alcohol content threshold that makes it forgivable!

Really??? What do you think that blood/alcohol content threshold should be?

How about 2.0 percent?

whierd

Cheating while drunk totally doesn't count!!

There should at least be a blood/alcohol content threshold that makes it forgivable!

Really??? What do you think that blood/alcohol content threshold should be?

At least the legally drunk limit, .08%!

eric_sg61

Sober thoughts lead to drunken actions.

mmddwechanged

Cheating while drunk totally doesn't count!!

There should at least be a blood/alcohol content threshold that makes it forgivable!

Really??? What do you think that blood/alcohol content threshold should be?

At least the legally drunk limit, .08%!

Well! Isn't this just the perfect plan!:)

xxghost

I've never been drunk myself, but I do believe that people can be so drunk that they no longer realize what they are doing. Not that cheating while drunk is acceptable by any means, but I do think it is possible to be too drunk to know what is going on. At least, judging from the horror stories of my friends.