Wanting to lose weight, but likes the bigger guys...?

TimeToDoMe87

Kevin James is adorable. I have a crush on Adam from Man vs food lol Soooo bad :smooched:

THat made me giggle. Cause I think that everytime I watch that too. So cute.

MyFeistyEvolution

Hmmm... I don't think it's weird. You like who you like. You may not always click with a chubbier guy either, but that's life.

I've had some great bf's in my past....many were tall and slender, a few were bigger or muscular and at the end of the day, all that seemed to matter for me was that they told stupid jokes and laughed at mine. lol

Go for who you want. As long as you're happy, party on!! :drinker:

TimeToDoMe87

My partner is just a bit taller than me and is smaller than me but hey I dont care I love him to bits! I have always chased the bigger guys and felt attracted to them but I found that they never had much interest in sex? Anyone else find that?

no . I haven't I have had BETTER sex with the bigger guys compared to the smaller guys....

bigredhearts

ive never been a fan of a man that could be smaller than me, cept when i was in middle school and those were my only options... i like my guys tall and at least 180+... not a fan of huge muscles either... and i think it has more to do with primal instinct. women "tend" to go for men that appear to have the ability to provide and protect, whereas men "tend" to go for women that have a certain ratio of hip size due to the ability to bear children. i think its all very primal... now this doesnt apply to everyone but it does seem to carry some scientific weight. still i say, to each their own

thoma74

He's the cheese to my macaroni
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How cute!! Love this!

Miss♥Ivi

Yes that is Carlos lol I'll tell him (:

Stefanie7125

glad to know I am not the only one! I love bigger guys, not into muscular types at all. I love to cuddle with a bear of a man!!!

christina0089

I LOVE when a guys is thick! And it don't have to be all muscles and brawn! My fiancee is 6 ft tall and solid with a soft center! lol I love it! it's sexy and l feel safe in his arms.

killagb

I get physical preferences...ok that's fine...some people like particular looks...but when you make generalizations like "chubby guys are/aren't better in bed" "muscular/skeletor guys are not as loving/caring as chubby guys" ....it's just idiotic. I'm sure I don't need to paint the picture any clearer by making a stereotype statement against women.

lind3400

I liek my men to feel like MEN not little boys, plus I cannot date someone who weighs less than me haha....

Justjoshin

I get physical preferences...ok that's fine...some people like particular looks...but when you make generalizations like "chubby guys are/aren't better in bed" "muscular/skeletor guys are not as loving/caring as chubby guys" ....it's just idiotic. I'm sure I don't need to paint the picture any clearer by making a stereotype statement against women.

:drinker:

christina0089

Omg no. I'm exactly the same! I can't see myself with a small, thin guy. I don't even like an overload of muscles.

My hubby





:blushing:

Is that Carlos I see in that picture? If so... Tell him Gato says whattup!

Haha Repping the 305 and the hurricanes all in one shot! lol I am a Florida girl and tho I live further south than Miami I still love to visit and stand by my local teams! oh and then there is always pittbull... yes they do make em fine in the south! lol

amaryllis88

I love bigger guys!!! You're totally NOT WIERD, I'm glad I'm not the only one. In the past, I haven't really gone out with a lot of beefier guys, I've wanted to, but it just never happened. I think it's the "feel safer," mentality I have with a bigger guy, I would definitely like meat on dem bones.

Scott613

mdailey93

I don't think I have a type. I've dated muscular, large, short, tall, and skinny guys. My current boyfriend (of almost 2 years) is underweight, but I will love him no matter what he weighs. (:

YukonJoy

Yep. Big guys all the way. I like guys to have fat on them, not be really overweight, I don't find that attractive personally. I still want them to turn me on when they are naked. Hehe

JD92

Omg no. I'm exactly the same! I can't see myself with a small, thin guy. I don't even like an overload of muscles.

My hubby

you guys are seriously the cutest couple ive ever seen!!!!


ive always liked the idea of a tall, broad-shouldered guy. everyone has different things that particularly attract them, and those are mine. that said, if he has a great personality, im pretty open to all body types.

im sorta kinda really into Channing Tatum right now. i came across a pic of him (and by 'came across' i mean 'googled his name'), and in it he was maybe shirtless and jogging... :blushing: i wouldnt say he was chubby, but he was not 'ripped'. he was tall, broad shouldered, and had a soft abdomen. i really liked that he wasnt all abs. i just wanted to cuddle to hell out of him.

i also adore Kevin James!!

YukonJoy

My partner is just a bit taller than me and is smaller than me but hey I dont care I love him to bits! I have always chased the bigger guys and felt attracted to them but I found that they never had much interest in sex? Anyone else find that?

Nope!!


Plus skinny guys have those ouchy pointy hip bones.

Ouches... ouch..

EDIT: I think it is probably more likely you with the problem. If you are subconsciously less sexually attracted to that man then the sex will definitely not be as good. Know what I mean?

MyFeistyEvolution

I get physical preferences...ok that's fine...some people like particular looks...but when you make generalizations like "chubby guys are/aren't better in bed" "muscular/skeletor guys are not as loving/caring as chubby guys" ....it's just idiotic. I'm sure I don't need to paint the picture any clearer by making a stereotype statement against women.

Agreed.

TimeToDoMe87

I get physical preferences...ok that's fine...some people like particular looks...but when you make generalizations like "chubby guys are/aren't better in bed" "muscular/skeletor guys are not as loving/caring as chubby guys" ....it's just idiotic. I'm sure I don't need to paint the picture any clearer by making a stereotype statement against women.

agreed... I have had good sex either way.. But I felt protected and more secure around a bigger guy is my point. But I can agree

tataliciousd89

I can't stand skinny men. Men are supposed to be meaty. I want my guys to be healthy of course and would absolutely support their weight loss, but if he goes from fat to sucked up I would definitely lose interest. I probably wouldn't leave him or anything, but there wouldn't be a whole lot of sex going on between us and that is saying a whole lot comming from me.

LeanerBeef

Omg no. I'm exactly the same! I can't see myself with a small, thin guy. I don't even like an overload of muscles.

My hubby




:blushing:

That's gotta be a bad dude to wear his weight on his shirt......

Fred77

I like this thread!!

For what its worth, most guys i know, myself very much included, prefer women with a bit of meat on the bones. Women should have curves. Skinny women have never done it for me.

Which begs the question "What the hell are we all doing here in the first place?!"

Justjoshin

agreed... I have had good sex either way.. But I felt protected and more secure around a bigger guy is my point. But I can agree

This last statement doesn't make sense to me. Though personal preference is fine.... a 200lb fat guy makes you feel more secure than a 200lb lean guy? Am I missing something?

YukonJoy

I can't stand skinny men. Men are supposed to be meaty. I want my guys to be healthy of course and would absolutely support their weight loss, but if he goes from fat to sucked up I would definitely lose interest. I probably wouldn't leave him or anything, but there wouldn't be a whole lot of sex going on between us and that is saying a whole lot comming from me.

Agreed. I am not attracted to skinny men at all. Even if they are gorgeous, it just doesn't do it for me.

Maybe it's my irish side... I like a man that looks like he could throw me around and beat the crap outta me. :laugh: :laugh:

I actually used to play rugby and I feel really big (like broad shoulders etc) even though I am in reality pretty petitie, so I like a guy that makes me feel little :happy:

When I say skinny I mean like a guess model size:



and when I say big I mean BIG like broad shoulders and tall, broad chest, not overweight, although I prefer a bit of padding:
Think.... wrestler.

twoscimitars

I love big guys, too! You are not weird. They are definitely more cuddly and offer a sense of security.

christine24t

I find bigger guys attractive to. They're generally not the guys I fall mad head over heels in crushing with but they're cute!!

Scott613

Agreed. I am not attracted to skinny men at all. Even if they are gorgeous, it just doesn't do it for me.

Maybe it's my irish side... I like a man that looks like he could throw me around and beat the crap outta me. :laugh: :laugh:

I actually used to play rugby and I feel really big (like broad shoulders etc) even though I am in reality pretty petitie, so I like a guy that makes me feel little :happy:

beat the crap outta you:huh: ????

tequila09

Me too! I dated a few skinny guys and felt huge even when I wasn't Haha now my boyfriend isn't fat or even really chubby but he has a large build where he has nice big arms not too steroid gross looking but just right goshhh I love him lol!!!

YukonJoy

beat the crap outta you:huh: ????

Yeah. It was an irish joke.

Missed it, eh?